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Good child (small adult) bicycle
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"Cathy Kearns" wrote: If you are buying bikes and sending your kids on errands or to school, well, look at it from a car analogy. Actually, that's a great analogy. In this house, DH and I drive the newer cars, the kids get clunkers. We make sure they're safe enough (and pay attention enough to know when they need work) -- but I DON'T buy them the newer cars with all the newest safety features. We buy old, beat up used cars -- I don't think we've paid more than $1000 for any of the cars that are primarily for the kids' use. Of course, even when you look at what DH and I drive, none of the cars we have on the road right now have less than 100,000 miles -- one of them started new with us and is 6 years old, one started with "only" 60,000 miles on it when we got it, and the other two were, well, old and well used. We are what my mother's mechanic calls "end users" of cars -- by the time we're done with them, they're done. It works for us. Every now and again we have to rescue a kid -- thank the goddess for cell phones -- but, frankly, that can happen in even brand new cars. So it's entirely consistant that I would not spend a lot of $$ on a bike, either. (Though I DID spend serious money on getting bike helmets that were good.) -- Children won't care how much you know until they know how much you care |
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"Banty" wrote in message ... In article . com, Buck says... Ericka Kammerer wrote: I think the point I've been trying to make is that it's not about the *item*. It's about the use to which you would put the item, and how valuable that is to you, personally, in your specific situation. It's not about how much money, per se. It's about the value you get from what you've bought. Some folks get a lot of value out of a bike, even if it puts a dent in their bank account. Others don't get much value out of it regardless of how much it costs. I think it's important in life to figure out how to align your expenditures with your values and priorities. It may be hard to believe for those who are passionate about cycling, but there exist those odd folks who just don't get much value out of a bike of any sort, yet might still want one for occasional use ;-) Of course, there are folks out there who don't like chocolate. If *that* can happen, pretty much anything is fair game ;-) And the point that we have been trying to make is that there is a bare minimum of quality that drastically affects how an "item," be it bicycle or otherwise, will be used. My uncle fell under the "occasional use" philosophy. But when the kids went out to "occasionally use" their bikes, they discovered the cables and chains to be rusted into an unusable condition. It took less than two months. Those kids got less than four rides out of the bicycles. At $150 per bicycle, that works out to $75 per ride (two kids). I understand the point you're making. But some of this has to do with what you are doing. For example, no way even a cheeeep bike would be rusted out in a coupla months if it were stored properly. (It always kinda cheesed and amazed me how some folks think the cheaper something is, the less care it warrants, it's actually the opposite IMO.) Is $150 bike really a cheap one? Dh bought his bike new for £90, which is roughly similar isn't it? He's used it to ride to and from work daily-a journey consiting of mostly ups and downs (!) taking about 20 minutes. That was nearly 6 years ago. It's kept in our garage, which is not next to our house and is cold and damp, and his idea of keeping it in order is to occasionally oil the chain, and maybe pump up the tyres if they get too bad. And that's the most either of us ever has paid for a bike. Debbie |
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"dragonlady" wrote in message
... (Though I DID spend serious money on getting bike helmets that were good.) Oh NO! She used the H word! (for those on misc.kids: bringing up h*lm*ts is like bringing up, I don't know, circumcision or something) -- Warm Regards, Claire Petersky http://www.bicyclemeditations.org/ See the books I've set free at: http://bookcrossing.com/referral/Cpetersky |
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Jeanne wrote: That's good to know. DH also didn't think the aluminum frame would be a problem, but he wanted to check out other bikes - mainly Trek and GT. On the M20, the men's frame wasn't much different from the women's frame. I think the women's frame cross bar was about 3 inches below the seat post while the men's frame cross bar was at the seat post. And for the cost... let me commend you on being an excellent mother. It is easy to spend a lot on a good bike but it is also easy to spend on video games and having an inactive kid! I thought about this after reading some of the posts. I would *never* spend $300 on a XBOX or gameboy and games (I have absolutely no idea how much these things cost so excuse the ignorance on pricing here) - I feel it an incredible waste of money. But I think $300 is a perfectly reasonable amount on a bicycle - actually it would be incredibly *low* on an adult bicycle for me or DH. As a grad student, I spent $900 on a new Bianchi bicycle in 1996 (not to worry, it was totally my money - no student loans). Same amount of money but absolutely different reaction depending on the item. I dunnno. We spend according to how much enjoyment the family would obtain from the item. We tend to buy things new and take care of them, and look for value for the money. Cycling is important to us, so good bikes are important. I can see how others might be perfectly happy with KMart bikes. Personally I think they are wasting their money, but it's not *my* money, so no loss. DH is a huge fan of computers (he's a hardware engineer), computer parts, computer games and DVDs so we spend quite a bit of our entertainment budget on these things. Consequently, DS has a bigger collection of kids' DVDs at age 2.5 than most families do. But we live in an area where it rains half the year, so inside entertainment is a must. That might horrify some parents, but for us, it's a necessity. We tend to spend a lot on travel and recreation (hiking, water sports) because those things are important to us. Some people see that as a waste of money. I like video games and would love to have the time to play them, so $500 for the latest XBox or whatever wouldn't be a big deal to me. But I have no time for it now, so we don't have one. Everyone has their own priorities in entertainment. -L. |
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In article et, Claire
Petersky says... "dragonlady" wrote in message ... (Though I DID spend serious money on getting bike helmets that were good.) Oh NO! She used the H word! (for those on misc.kids: bringing up h*lm*ts is like bringing up, I don't know, circumcision or something) Oh, I thought you meant the Hitler word At least we can continue this thread.. Banty -- http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/5222154.stm |
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"Cathy Kearns" wrote in message
I understand where Buck and Jeanne are coming from. You were lucky with your box store bikes. They very well could have turned out like your buying from a stranger experience. Just because the bike is shiny when you bring it home doesn't mean it's properly built. All the bikes I have bought from TRU worked out just fine for us too. There have been no repairs, no rust (you do have to take care of it) and many of the bikes have been passed down to siblings and then sold to other people. Seems like they did just as well if I would have spent $200 plus on them. The girls have not been uncomfortable, the pedals worked fine, the seats are comfortable, etc..... -- Sue (mom to three girls) |
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Sue wrote:
"Cathy Kearns" wrote in message I understand where Buck and Jeanne are coming from. You were lucky with your box store bikes. They very well could have turned out like your buying from a stranger experience. Just because the bike is shiny when you bring it home doesn't mean it's properly built. All the bikes I have bought from TRU worked out just fine for us too. There have been no repairs, no rust (you do have to take care of it) and many of the bikes have been passed down to siblings and then sold to other people. Seems like they did just as well if I would have spent $200 plus on them. The girls have not been uncomfortable, the pedals worked fine, the seats are comfortable, etc..... I am not questioning your experience. I know other people buy their bicycles from TRU and/or Target and the bikes may or may not last. But I'd rather not buy from these stores; I would feel better buying from a local bicycle store. I have to confess that my favorite store configuration would be a combination book/bicycle/coffee place - think REI with a coffee bar/cafe. I feel more comfortable in a bicycle store than in TRU. We have the resources. If your girls don't feel uncomfortable - that's great. DD's first bike *was* from a toy store (she was 3 or 4 years old). DD noticed a difference when she went from the little bicycle to her latest 20" bicycle which we got from a bicycle shop. So for us, going back to a TRU/Target-type bike is not an option. Remember, she's outgrown the children-sized bicycles so now we're looking at adult-sized bicycles. |
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Cathy Kearns wrote:
If you are buying bikes and sending your kids on errands or to school, well, look at it from a car analogy. I'm a worrier. When my daughter got her license the car she is assigned to drive is newer than mine, (okay, she drives the brand new car) is not as fast, has more airbags not only than my car, but than any year old car out there (I think in an accident it puffs up like an egg crate), it has all the safety devices imaginable. It is also a very, very reliable brand that we know reliable garages that we can trust to maintain it. So despite the hours of training and practicing etc in driving, we want her to have a car that is safe and will get her where she is going. We just are worriers like that, and are willing to put the money into ensuring she's driving something we think is safe enough for her. We think the same way about the younger one's bike. She bikes to school. This year that school is a mile and a half away. She has a bike that can make that without dropping a chain while shifting and with brakes that stop fast and reliably and goo and tuffys in the tires to help stop flats, and lights in case she gets stuck out late. If she was just riding up and down the street we might not bother, but she is riding out of our sight, so we want her to be as safe as possible. Certainly, if my kids were to use a bike to go to school or run errands, it would be a priority to get them a good bike. However, for lots of us, that simply isn't going to happen. Heck, I bought a good bike for a kid who will likely never ride it once to school or on an errand before he outgrows it. I bought him a good bike because he wants to ride it often enough that it seemed justifiable to me. I just think there are plenty of kids, some of mine included, who don't even rise to *that* level of use--which may be unimaginable to some, but actually does happen for others ;-) Best wishes, Ericka |
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Buck wrote:
And the point that we have been trying to make is that there is a bare minimum of quality that drastically affects how an "item," be it bicycle or otherwise, will be used. My uncle fell under the "occasional use" philosophy. But when the kids went out to "occasionally use" their bikes, they discovered the cables and chains to be rusted into an unusable condition. It took less than two months. Those kids got less than four rides out of the bicycles. At $150 per bicycle, that works out to $75 per ride (two kids). I think you're being unduly pessimistic. Those of us who have purchased the odd box store bike don't seem to have had as much trouble as you describe. No, they're not as good as a higher quality bike, and they don't last as long. However, the times we've gotten them when we knew they weren't going to get much use, they haven't posed any problems for the year or two they were used. No complaints, no injuries, nothing falling apart, etc. So, I just have to be a little skeptical. Yes, I'm quite aware they're not as good, durable, or easy to ride as a better bike, but it's hard for me to buy into your horror stories when they run contrary to our experience. Shrug As they say, YMMV. Best wishes Ericka |
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they need work) -- but I DON'T buy them the newer cars with all the
newest safety features. We buy old, beat up used cars -- I don't think we've paid more than $1000 for any of the cars that are primarily for the kids' use. I'm paying more for my new bike than I paid for any of the last 5 cars I bought. LOL! Sojourner |
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