Social Services: Non Custodial Parent Weapon?

First time onlooker, First time poster

I have a spouse who continually uses social services and child protective
services as a means to poke her nose into mine and my sons affairs. She
continually calls them about alleged neglect and abuse charges yet how can
she know anything about these things because she lives 1,200 miles away.
None of these things that she tells social services are true, or they are
extreme exaggerations of things I've told her on the phone (ie, kid gets
small bruise on leg from jumping around becomes possible leg fracture
neglected by father). Basically I feel that she's gonna keep throwing these
agencies at me until something sticks.

Is there any way that anyone knows about to disarm the SS/CPS weapon?

Single Father in Kentucky

'Kate wrote in message ...
On Tue, 09 Dec 2003 04:41:38 GMT, "Jason Fackler"

First time onlooker, First time poster

I have a spouse who continually uses social services and child protective
services as a means to poke her nose into mine and my sons affairs. She
continually calls them about alleged neglect and abuse charges yet how
can
she know anything about these things because she lives 1,200 miles away.
None of these things that she tells social services are true, or they are
extreme exaggerations of things I've told her on the phone (ie, kid gets
small bruise on leg from jumping around becomes possible leg fracture
neglected by father). Basically I feel that she's gonna keep throwing
these
agencies at me until something sticks.

Is there any way that anyone knows about to disarm the SS/CPS weapon?

Single Father in Kentucky

The only suggestion that I have is to start documenting the
investigations and the results. Eventually, you may have a reason to
claim that you're being harassed and that SS/CPS are being used as a
pawn.

'Kate


ummm....how long is eventually? I've been documenting the calls and results
since the beginning. It was one of the things suggested to me right after
the first call she made didn't work after the EPO (also racked with false
allegations) was overturned 3 hours after she wrote it.

Can it be claimed that CPS is being used as a pawn? They already know they
are by their own admission to me, however I've been told that they have to
investigate regardless of the red flagged already raised.

Jason Fackler wrote in message
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'Kate wrote in message
...
On Tue, 09 Dec 2003 04:41:38 GMT, "Jason Fackler"

First time onlooker, First time poster

I have a spouse who continually uses social services and child
protective
services as a means to poke her nose into mine and my sons affairs.
She
continually calls them about alleged neglect and abuse charges yet how
can
she know anything about these things because she lives 1,200 miles
away.
None of these things that she tells social services are true, or they
are
extreme exaggerations of things I've told her on the phone (ie, kid
gets
small bruise on leg from jumping around becomes possible leg fracture
neglected by father). Basically I feel that she's gonna keep throwing
these
agencies at me until something sticks.

Is there any way that anyone knows about to disarm the SS/CPS weapon?

Single Father in Kentucky

The only suggestion that I have is to start documenting the
investigations and the results. Eventually, you may have a reason to
claim that you're being harassed and that SS/CPS are being used as a
pawn.

'Kate


ummm....how long is eventually? I've been documenting the calls and
results
since the beginning. It was one of the things suggested to me right after
the first call she made didn't work after the EPO (also racked with false
allegations) was overturned 3 hours after she wrote it.

Can it be claimed that CPS is being used as a pawn? They already know
they
are by their own admission to me, however I've been told that they have to
investigate regardless of the red flagged already raised.



Talk to an attorney.

Also.... if she is that far away, what is her reason for this? Does she want
to see her kid and she isn't allowed or is she just that kind of person with
to much free time?

T

Document, document and document!
Everything should be documented.
V


"Jason Fackler" wrote in message news:6ocBb.343917$ao4.1153369@attbi_s51...
First time onlooker, First time poster

I have a spouse who continually uses social services and child protective
services as a means to poke her nose into mine and my sons affairs. She
continually calls them about alleged neglect and abuse charges yet how can
she know anything about these things because she lives 1,200 miles away.
None of these things that she tells social services are true, or they are
extreme exaggerations of things I've told her on the phone (ie, kid gets
small bruise on leg from jumping around becomes possible leg fracture
neglected by father). Basically I feel that she's gonna keep throwing these
agencies at me until something sticks.

Is there any way that anyone knows about to disarm the SS/CPS weapon?

Single Father in Kentucky