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Shared Custody?
I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child support that I believe is unfair for the children. This is a true story: A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4 yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical coatings store and makes a pretty good salary. He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also separated and has shared custody, give him the idea: - Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to take care of them just leave them with me. The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! |
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On May 14, 6:45?am, dmr wrote:
I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child support that I believe is unfair for the children. This is a true story: A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4 yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical coatings store and makes a pretty good salary. He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also separated and has shared custody, give him the idea: - Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to take care of them just leave them with me. The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! There is no error |
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On May 14, 7:51 am, Relayer wrote:
On May 14, 6:45?am, dmr wrote: I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child support that I believe is unfair for the children. This is a true story: A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4 yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical coatings store and makes a pretty good salary. He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also separated and has shared custody, give him the idea: - Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to take care of them just leave them with me. The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! There is no error- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children to see their mother. Instead of of spending more time with her, they find themselves spending time with the guy's girlfriend. |
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Shared Custody?
"dmr" wrote in message oups.com... On May 14, 7:51 am, Relayer wrote: On May 14, 6:45?am, dmr wrote: I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child support that I believe is unfair for the children. This is a true story: A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4 yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical coatings store and makes a pretty good salary. He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also separated and has shared custody, give him the idea: - Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to take care of them just leave them with me. The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! There is no error- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children to see their mother. == Umm.. the mother was depriving her own children of time with their father. == Instead of of spending more time with her, they find themselves spending time with the guy's girlfriend. == As opposed to time with the mother's boyfriend? The mother never uses a babysitter? What role do you have in this? Are you living with the mother and desiring more money from the dad to support your household? == |
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On May 14, 7:13?am, dmr wrote:
On May 14, 7:51 am, Relayer wrote: On May 14, 6:45?am, dmr wrote: I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child support that I believe is unfair for the children. This is a true story: A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4 yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical coatings store and makes a pretty good salary. He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also separated and has shared custody, give him the idea: - Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to take care of them just leave them with me. The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! There is no error- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children to see their mother. Instead of of spending more time with her, they find themselves spending time with the guy's girlfriend.- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - Wrong. Get over it. |
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dmr wrote:
I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children to see their mother. Instead of of spending more time with her, they find themselves spending time with the guy's girlfriend. By that same logic, you also see an error if the mother's boyfriend/husband/whatever sees the child more than the father does. And I've known several fathers that liked to save money: does that make them bad as well? |
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"dmr" wrote in The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children to see their mother. So is it the money or time you are concerned about? IS really the money that bothers you! |
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"DB" wrote "dmr" wrote in The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children to see their mother. So is it the money or time you are concerned about? IS really the money that bothers you! == But, he has "nothing to do with that guy, his ex or his actual girlfriend." I guess he just thinks women have the right to deprive children of their fathers and get paid for doing so. Sheesh! |
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Gini wrote:
"DB" wrote "dmr" wrote in The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children to see their mother. So is it the money or time you are concerned about? IS really the money that bothers you! == But, he has "nothing to do with that guy, his ex or his actual girlfriend." I guess he just thinks women have the right to deprive children of their fathers and get paid for doing so. Sheesh! Well, in the defense of the original poster, he is in Canada, where they expect non custodials to rat on themselves in terms of income or pay the consequences, so that could explain it. |
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On May 14, 11:32 am, "DB" wrote:
"dmr" wrote in The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother. Find the error! I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children to see their mother. So is it the money or time you are concerned about? IS really the money that bothers you! You see the problem with the father to save money deprives his own children to see their mother? Well what about the father? Is it all right with the mother depriving THEIR children from seeing their father? How do you know the father is saving money? Maybe he's spending it directly on the children instead of giving it to the mom to spend on the children. I think if you take out the outside factors (meaning the ex's boyfriends and/or girlfriends and money), isn't it the best for the children to see their father and mother equally? What they do here in the states is they take the total income by both parents and determine what percent each parent contributes. Then they take the percentage overnights the children stay at each parents home. From their they determine how much support is awarded based on the standard of living the children are used to before the divorce. So obviously if he makes more money that the mom he will pay her some support but not as much because he is now spending it on the children instead. I think the philosophy were the children should live with the mom full time and let the dad pay her support is outdated and sometimes it turns out the dad is a better parent than the mom. I think the best for the children is a 50/50 split especially if there's not a lot of distance between them. |
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