A Parenting & kids forum. ParentingBanter.com

If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ by clicking the link above. You may have to register before you can post: click the register link above to proceed. To start viewing messages, select the forum that you want to visit from the selection below.

Go Back   Home » ParentingBanter.com forum » alt.support » Child Support
Site Map Home Authors List Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read Web Partners

Shared Custody?



 
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old May 14th 07, 12:45 PM posted to alt.child-support
dmr
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 13
Default Shared Custody?


I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be
more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child
support that I believe is unfair for the children.

This is a true story:

A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4
yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical
coatings store and makes a pretty good salary.
He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody
to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something
like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also
separated and has shared custody, give him the idea:

- Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the
best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to
take care of them just leave them with me.

The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.

Find the error!

  #2  
Old May 14th 07, 12:51 PM posted to alt.child-support
Relayer
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 301
Default Shared Custody?

On May 14, 6:45?am, dmr wrote:
I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be
more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child
support that I believe is unfair for the children.

This is a true story:

A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4
yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical
coatings store and makes a pretty good salary.
He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody
to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something
like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also
separated and has shared custody, give him the idea:

- Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the
best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to
take care of them just leave them with me.

The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.

Find the error!


There is no error

  #3  
Old May 14th 07, 01:13 PM posted to alt.child-support
dmr
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 13
Default Shared Custody?

On May 14, 7:51 am, Relayer wrote:
On May 14, 6:45?am, dmr wrote:





I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be
more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child
support that I believe is unfair for the children.


This is a true story:


A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4
yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical
coatings store and makes a pretty good salary.
He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody
to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something
like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also
separated and has shared custody, give him the idea:


- Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the
best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to
take care of them just leave them with me.


The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.


Find the error!


There is no error- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -


I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children
to see their mother. Instead of of spending more time with her, they
find themselves spending time with the guy's girlfriend.

  #4  
Old May 14th 07, 01:41 PM posted to alt.child-support
Gini
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 936
Default Shared Custody?


"dmr" wrote in message
oups.com...
On May 14, 7:51 am, Relayer wrote:
On May 14, 6:45?am, dmr wrote:





I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be
more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child
support that I believe is unfair for the children.


This is a true story:


A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4
yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical
coatings store and makes a pretty good salary.
He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody
to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something
like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also
separated and has shared custody, give him the idea:


- Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the
best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to
take care of them just leave them with me.


The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.


Find the error!


There is no error- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -


I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children
to see their mother.

==
Umm.. the mother was depriving her own children of time with their father.
==
Instead of of spending more time with her, they
find themselves spending time with the guy's girlfriend.

==
As opposed to time with the mother's boyfriend? The mother never uses a
babysitter?
What role do you have in this? Are you living with the mother and desiring
more money
from the dad to support your household?
==


  #5  
Old May 14th 07, 03:47 PM posted to alt.child-support
Relayer
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 301
Default Shared Custody?

On May 14, 7:13?am, dmr wrote:
On May 14, 7:51 am, Relayer wrote:





On May 14, 6:45?am, dmr wrote:


I don't know how it works in the US, but here in Canada (Quebec to be
more specific) some parents had found a way to save money on child
support that I believe is unfair for the children.


This is a true story:


A man separated from his wife. They have 2 young children of 8 and 4
yrs old. The guy is General Manager at a Sherwin-Williams chemical
coatings store and makes a pretty good salary.
He has little time to spend with the children but giving full custody
to the mother means he will have to pay full child support (Something
like $1200.00 USD per month). So, his new girlfriend who's also
separated and has shared custody, give him the idea:


- Apply for shared custody and convince your ex-wife that it's the
best things for the kids. Don't worries, if you don't have time to
take care of them just leave them with me.


The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.


Find the error!


There is no error- Hide quoted text -


- Show quoted text -


I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children
to see their mother. Instead of of spending more time with her, they
find themselves spending time with the guy's girlfriend.- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -


Wrong. Get over it.

  #6  
Old May 14th 07, 03:50 PM posted to alt.child-support
John Meyer[_2_]
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 92
Default Shared Custody?

dmr wrote:

I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children
to see their mother. Instead of of spending more time with her, they
find themselves spending time with the guy's girlfriend.


By that same logic, you also see an error if the mother's
boyfriend/husband/whatever sees the child more than the father does.
And I've known several fathers that liked to save money: does that make
them bad as well?
  #7  
Old May 14th 07, 04:32 PM posted to alt.child-support
DB
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 712
Default Shared Custody?


"dmr" wrote in

The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.


Find the error!


I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children
to see their mother.


So is it the money or time you are concerned about?

IS really the money that bothers you!


  #8  
Old May 14th 07, 04:46 PM posted to alt.child-support
Gini
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 936
Default Shared Custody?


"DB" wrote

"dmr" wrote in

The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.

Find the error!


I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children
to see their mother.


So is it the money or time you are concerned about?

IS really the money that bothers you!

==
But, he has "nothing to do with that guy, his ex or his actual girlfriend."
I guess he just
thinks women have the right to deprive children of their fathers and get
paid for doing so.
Sheesh!


  #9  
Old May 14th 07, 04:52 PM posted to alt.child-support
John Meyer[_2_]
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 92
Default Shared Custody?

Gini wrote:
"DB" wrote
"dmr" wrote in

The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.
Find the error!
I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children
to see their mother.

So is it the money or time you are concerned about?

IS really the money that bothers you!

==
But, he has "nothing to do with that guy, his ex or his actual girlfriend."
I guess he just
thinks women have the right to deprive children of their fathers and get
paid for doing so.
Sheesh!


Well, in the defense of the original poster, he is in Canada, where they
expect non custodials to rat on themselves in terms of income or pay the
consequences, so that could explain it.
  #10  
Old May 14th 07, 05:08 PM posted to alt.child-support
magnumpi83
external usenet poster
 
Posts: 5
Default Shared Custody?

On May 14, 11:32 am, "DB" wrote:
"dmr" wrote in

The man managed to get the shared custody, and so reduce considerably
the amount of child support he was going to pay to the mother.


Find the error!

I see an error when a father to save money, deprive his own children
to see their mother.


So is it the money or time you are concerned about?

IS really the money that bothers you!


You see the problem with the father to save money deprives his own
children to see their mother? Well what about the father? Is it all
right with the mother depriving THEIR children from seeing their
father? How do you know the father is saving money? Maybe he's
spending it directly on the children instead of giving it to the mom
to spend on the children. I think if you take out the outside factors
(meaning the ex's boyfriends and/or girlfriends and money), isn't it
the best for the children to see their father and mother equally?
What they do here in the states is they take the total income by both
parents and determine what percent each parent contributes. Then they
take the percentage overnights the children stay at each parents home.
From their they determine how much support is awarded based on the

standard of living the children are used to before the divorce. So
obviously if he makes more money that the mom he will pay her some
support but not as much because he is now spending it on the children
instead. I think the philosophy were the children should live with the
mom full time and let the dad pay her support is outdated and
sometimes it turns out the dad is a better parent than the mom. I
think the best for the children is a 50/50 split especially if there's
not a lot of distance between them.

 




Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Arizona Child Protective Services foiled mom's custody bid, 2 kidsremained with dad accused of killing them Although she had a court ordergiving her sole custody fx Spanking 1 April 28th 07 09:29 PM
Shared custody model spokesman???? Father of the Year Child Support 2 April 24th 05 12:30 AM
Mike Veon's position on Shared Custody!!!!!! SCREWEDBYJUDGEJAMESREED Child Support 7 November 4th 04 04:04 AM
Any politicians for shared custody? Children's Rights Advocate Child Support 0 April 28th 04 10:44 AM
Australian Federal Goverment Dept against shared custody Bucephalus Child Support 0 November 26th 03 12:12 PM


All times are GMT +1. The time now is 08:08 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright ©2004-2024 ParentingBanter.com.
The comments are property of their posters.