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back child support
Matt B. wrote:
: Each state has its own way of doing things, but in Ohio any money given : directly to the mother or child is considered a gift, and does not count : towards the court ordered child support. In Ohio they do not care what : arrangements you have with the mother. If is not done thru them then it has : no merit, even if the mother says otherwise. Fathers in Ohio have to : basicly take it up the ass and smile. In California, one can write "Child Support" on the memo line of the check if it's given outside of the DA's office. I did so. I voluntarily paid Child Support to the mother before the court garnished my paycheck (dontcha just love that). I wrote "Child Support" on the check. Later they tried to tell me I was in arrears because they were slow setting up the garnishment. I countered with copies of the checks and they later deducted it from the obligation (but they also attempted to garnish yet more for the "underpayment" until we cleared it up with them.). I actually got a small refund from the for my "overpayment". Government idiots in our lives.... (San Francisco DA's office) b. |
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back child support
Matt B. wrote:
: Each state has its own way of doing things, but in Ohio any money given : directly to the mother or child is considered a gift, and does not count : towards the court ordered child support. In Ohio they do not care what : arrangements you have with the mother. If is not done thru them then it has : no merit, even if the mother says otherwise. Fathers in Ohio have to : basicly take it up the ass and smile. In California, one can write "Child Support" on the memo line of the check if it's given outside of the DA's office. I did so. I voluntarily paid Child Support to the mother before the court garnished my paycheck (dontcha just love that). I wrote "Child Support" on the check. Later they tried to tell me I was in arrears because they were slow setting up the garnishment. I countered with copies of the checks and they later deducted it from the obligation (but they also attempted to garnish yet more for the "underpayment" until we cleared it up with them.). I actually got a small refund from the for my "overpayment". Government idiots in our lives.... (San Francisco DA's office) b. |
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back child support
Matt B. wrote:
: Each state has its own way of doing things, but in Ohio any money given : directly to the mother or child is considered a gift, and does not count : towards the court ordered child support. In Ohio they do not care what : arrangements you have with the mother. If is not done thru them then it has : no merit, even if the mother says otherwise. Fathers in Ohio have to : basicly take it up the ass and smile. In California, one can write "Child Support" on the memo line of the check if it's given outside of the DA's office. I did so. I voluntarily paid Child Support to the mother before the court garnished my paycheck (dontcha just love that). I wrote "Child Support" on the check. Later they tried to tell me I was in arrears because they were slow setting up the garnishment. I countered with copies of the checks and they later deducted it from the obligation (but they also attempted to garnish yet more for the "underpayment" until we cleared it up with them.). I actually got a small refund from the for my "overpayment". Government idiots in our lives.... (San Francisco DA's office) b. |
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The smile is always optional, Matt.
Mel Gamble "Matt B." wrote: "frankjones" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... "Non-conforming payments shall not be credited as child support" IOW - direct payment to the custodial parent is a gift, unless she signs a notarized affidavit of arrears with a zero balance on it and the ordering court accepts it. Good luck. Each state has its own way of doing things, but in Ohio any money given directly to the mother or child is considered a gift, and does not count towards the court ordered child support. In Ohio they do not care what arrangements you have with the mother. If is not done thru them then it has no merit, even if the mother says otherwise. Fathers in Ohio have to basicly take it up the ass and smile. |
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back child support
The smile is always optional, Matt.
Mel Gamble "Matt B." wrote: "frankjones" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... "Non-conforming payments shall not be credited as child support" IOW - direct payment to the custodial parent is a gift, unless she signs a notarized affidavit of arrears with a zero balance on it and the ordering court accepts it. Good luck. Each state has its own way of doing things, but in Ohio any money given directly to the mother or child is considered a gift, and does not count towards the court ordered child support. In Ohio they do not care what arrangements you have with the mother. If is not done thru them then it has no merit, even if the mother says otherwise. Fathers in Ohio have to basicly take it up the ass and smile. |
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back child support
The smile is always optional, Matt.
Mel Gamble "Matt B." wrote: "frankjones" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... "Non-conforming payments shall not be credited as child support" IOW - direct payment to the custodial parent is a gift, unless she signs a notarized affidavit of arrears with a zero balance on it and the ordering court accepts it. Good luck. Each state has its own way of doing things, but in Ohio any money given directly to the mother or child is considered a gift, and does not count towards the court ordered child support. In Ohio they do not care what arrangements you have with the mother. If is not done thru them then it has no merit, even if the mother says otherwise. Fathers in Ohio have to basicly take it up the ass and smile. |
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