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Rich wrote: My wife is seven months pregnant and is basically out of commission. I need advice. I will have to do the cooking and cleaning and don't really know how to do either. I want to show my wife that I can do this for her without hiring help. I don't know, but I'm due in August - are you available from about July...? Ok, get yourself a bottle of Clorox Clean Up (LOVE IT!), a roll of paper towel, and a trash bag. Start in the kitchen. Once all the dishes are either clean and put away or in the dishwasher (don't forget to start it). Spray down the counters with CCUp. Wipe until clean looking. Spray the stove. Wipe until clean. Spray the sinks (or use Comet, and a sponge, if available). Wipe until clean. Sweep the floor. I hate dustpans, so I'll sweep, then I'll use the DustBuster to get the pile up. I find that this is MUCH faster than the dustpan, and results in less time spent saying, "&$^%" as you sweep up the pile, again, because you missed the wastebasket. By this time, the kitchen should be reasonably clean. Look around for Objects That Belong Somewhere Else. Gather them up at this time and take them Somewhere Else. Next, do the bathrooms (I do things in this order because I'll live if the front entry way isn't swept, but people start getting sick if the kitchen and bathrooms aren't cleaned often). Start high, finish low. If there's glass cleaner around, use it on the mirrors. If not, don't sweat it. Spray the sink and wipe it down. Spray the tank topper on the toilet and wipe it down. Spray the HANDLE of the toilet (VERY IMPORTANT) and wipe it down. Spray the lid, then the inside of the lid, the seat, then the underside of the seat, then the rim of the bowl, wiping each one down in that order. You might want to let the CCUp sit on the surface for a bit before wiping. Be sure to get that cruddy area in the back where gunk collects for no reason, between the seat and the tank. I'm assuming, by the way, that you're changing your paper towel and throwing the old one away as often as needed. If there's special toilet cleanser, now's the time to spray/pour it in the bowl (aim for just under the rim). If you don't have that, just dump a cup of bleach (or even CCUp) in the bowl. Let it set for a while (shut the lid so pets and kids stay out). While you're waiting for it to do it's thing, sweep the floor in the manner described above. After that, use the toilet brush to swish the bowl, removing any accumulation. Flush. Wait for the tank to refill, possibly swishing a bit more. Flush again, this time, rinsing out the brush with the water flowing into the bowl. Put the brush back where it goes, and flush one more time. Do not mix household chemicals, specifically ammonia and bleach. It makes toxic fumes. (Household chemistry at its finest). At this point, your house is what I'd call sanitary. If you do the kitchen every night, and you do the bathrooms every couple of days, no one will get sick in the next two months. If you want it to be clean, you need to go around to all the rooms and find those Things that Belong Somewhere Else and put them where they go (and not just inside the door of the room where they go, or in a pile, but actually *away* where they go). Then you need to dust and vacuum. I do them simultaneously because dusting knocks the dirt onto the floor, then I vacuum it up. I'm reasonably certain that you can figure this out - find a cloth or a feather duster and knock the dust off of things (flat surfaces, knick knacks, etc.). Then go around with the vacuum and slowly and methodically run it over every inch of carpet in the house. Be sure that you don't use the "bare floor" setting on "deep pile" and vice versa. Also, be sure that your bag doesn't get too full. If you STILL need things to do, you can do laundry. I wash all of my whites in hot (because it's all underwear and sheets in this house, and a few odd tee shirts here and there), and all of my colors in cold. Other people use other settings, some people use all cold, for example. Your wife might have a preference. Either way, you sort the clothes into whites and colors. If I have a lot, I'll make a separate load of things-that-take-a-long-time-to-dry (towels and jeans, mostly) and I'll do that on its own. Put the clothes in the washer. Make sure they're not stuffed in there, so they can move around and agitate, or they won't get clean. Add soap. Power on the machine. When it quits, put the stuff in the dryer with a dryer sheet (I have not figured out the mysteries of liquid fabric softener, so I don't use it). Turn it on for, oh, about an hour. After an hour, check the clothes. If they're dry, take them out and fold them or hang them up, and put them away. If they're not, give them another 15 minutes or so until they are. Then take them out and fold them and put them away. Feeling ambitious? Do the windows. Use Windex, or some other glass cleaner (they're usually blue, for no apparent reason) and paper towel (or newspaper works just fine). Spray, wipe, repeat until windows are sparkly. Go around with Lysol and spray all the doorknobs and wipe down all the phones and remote controls (spray the Lysol onto the cloth, not the doorknob, phone, or remote, so it doesn't ruin the finish of the door or the electronics). This will cut down on how often you and your family get sick, if done regularly. Still want to help? Organize cabinets and drawers, take everything out of the fridge, wipe down the shelves, and put back everything that isn't expired/rotten. Oh my, are you still wanting things to do? Wash the dog. Dust the baseboards. Flip the mattresses. Alphabetize the books. Weed out the old magazines and take the ones you'll never read again to the local library for a donation. Clean out the closets and take all the clothes that you don't wear to Goodwill (or similar). Clean out the basement and garage. Paint the baby's room. Ok, for God's sake, if you've finished all of this, go rub your poor wife's feet or something. Or make her rub yours! You've earned it!! As far as cooking, I highly recommend www.savingdinner.com - very healthy, easy, quick meals (dinners) that have a shopping list included which saves a ton of time at the grocery store. All you have to do is add stuff for your breakfasts and lunches (and if there are two of you, make the "for 6" menu a couple nights a week, and have the leftovers for lunch. There's a fee, but it's worth every penny, IMHO. Try the sample menu first. Also, if you want to get a Ph.D. in cleaning, check out www.flylady.com. She has some great tricks. Post again, or e-mail me, if you have a specific question (how do I clean miniblinds, for example) that I didn't cover. (Answer: pick up the cat, rub the cat across the miniblinds in a horizontal fashion. Repeat). Two more tips - start high, finish low (or work from top to bottom) and try working your way around rooms, either clockwise or counterclockwise - it'll keep you from wandering off and getting distracted. Good luck!! Amy |
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"NotMyRealName" wrote in message ... "Jenrose" wrote in message news:1107475785.a26f8c9b378f5a5fa4a2b18483b2f1c7@t eranews... "Tori M." wrote in message ... well now I have no excuse for not cleaning... lol.. darn it I should have skipped this thread No, no, no... your HUSBAND has no excuse for not cleaning after this thread...lol! And just because I know how doesn't mean I actually *DO* it at my own house. It's easier cleaning someone else's actually, though at 35 1/2 weeks people are impressed if I make my own bowl of cereal let alone cook, do laundry and clean a bathroom. Yeah, I've noticed that too. People seem really impressed that I'm able to shock go grocery shopping with just a couple of days until my due date. Yeah, because life really just stops towards the end of my pregnancy, and my family stops needing food and clean clothing. Grocery shopping is the only thing I still do, because I can do it sitting down (using a scooter cart...love those things!) I hobble into the store, get a scooter, do my shopping, get a nice young man to carry my stuff out to the car for me, and dh or dd to empty when we get back. But it's something.... Jenrose |
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"NotMyRealName" wrote in message
Yeah, I've noticed that too. People seem really impressed that I'm able to shock go grocery shopping with just a couple of days until my due date. Yeah, because life really just stops towards the end of my pregnancy, and my family stops needing food and clean clothing. I remember going to the mall on my due date with my second pregnancy. The little old ladies were in shock, lol. It's better to stay active anyway unless there is some reason that one should take it too easy. -- Sue (mom to three girls) |
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"JennP" wrote in message
No, I'm being serious. I've been pregnant full term twice. I know what it's like, but I've never been "out of comission". Well that was my thought too. I was wondering why the OP's wife was not able to do things around the house, but perhaps she is on bedrest. I've had three pregnancies and I was never not able to do stuff. Maybe more slowly, lol, but it got it done. -- Sue (mom to three girls) |
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Hehe I did 10 loads of laundry the day after my due date.. The lady at the
laundry mat looked verry nervous that I would give birth quicker then it would take me to get to the hospital 2 blocks away... Lucky for her Xavier held out for 9 more days Tori -- Bonnie 3/20/02 Xavier 10/27/04 "Sue" wrote in message ... "NotMyRealName" wrote in message Yeah, I've noticed that too. People seem really impressed that I'm able to shock go grocery shopping with just a couple of days until my due date. Yeah, because life really just stops towards the end of my pregnancy, and my family stops needing food and clean clothing. I remember going to the mall on my due date with my second pregnancy. The little old ladies were in shock, lol. It's better to stay active anyway unless there is some reason that one should take it too easy. -- Sue (mom to three girls) |
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"Sue" wrote in message ... "NotMyRealName" wrote in message Yeah, I've noticed that too. People seem really impressed that I'm able to shock go grocery shopping with just a couple of days until my due date. Yeah, because life really just stops towards the end of my pregnancy, and my family stops needing food and clean clothing. I remember going to the mall on my due date with my second pregnancy. The little old ladies were in shock, lol. It's better to stay active anyway unless there is some reason that one should take it too easy. God, I'd *love* to be able to be more active. But right now, when I walk from the kitchen to the bedroom, the string of muttered curses would curl your hair... When I envisioned this pregnancy, I envisioned walking every day, etc. etc. Then walking made me throw up. Then my pubic bone went wonky. Then I got whooping cough and activity caused paroxysms. Now, we're back to the pubic bone and just for good measure, intermittant random sciatica. Frustrating as heck, because just 3 short months prior to the pregnancy, I hit my "best shape in 10 years". Then my grandfather died. And then I had a miscarriage. And got pg again immediately. And haven't had my feet firmly planted under me since, feels like. Augh. The idea of going to a mall... or a laundromat for that matter.... The grocery store. That I can do. Jenrose |
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"Sue" wrote in message ... "JennP" wrote in message No, I'm being serious. I've been pregnant full term twice. I know what it's like, but I've never been "out of comission". Well that was my thought too. I was wondering why the OP's wife was not able to do things around the house, but perhaps she is on bedrest. I've had three pregnancies and I was never not able to do stuff. Maybe more slowly, lol, but it got it done. My mom handled term pg just fine. Both my "full" pgs have been just insane for one reason or another. The pg up to the miscarriage was easy...but with dd and with this one, both were just long, long slogs that sapped me. At least I know that it's temporary--I bounced back awfully fast from dd's birth, physically, and I have no reason to think I won't with this one. Jenrose |
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"Jenrose" wrote:
My dad taught *me* to cook. Why do you assume it's his mother's fault? Yep, dad is the one who cooks in our family. ) -- Sue (mom to three girls) |
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My mom handled term pg just fine. Both my "full" pgs have been just insane
for one reason or another. The pg up to the miscarriage was easy...but with dd and with this one, both were just long, long slogs that sapped me. At least I know that it's temporary--I bounced back awfully fast from dd's birth, physically, and I have no reason to think I won't with this one. Jenrose Oh of course Jenrose. I wasn't saying that everyone can handle pregnancy just fine. I was just curious as to what was going on with his wife that she was out of commission. I think your doing a remarkable job and I truly hope your labor and delivery goes much better than the pregnancy thing has. ) -- Sue (mom to three girls) |
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Larry McMahan wrote: In misc.kids.pregnancy Rich wrote: : My wife is seven months pregnant and is basically out of commission. I need : advice. I will have to do the cooking and cleaning and don't really know : how to do either. I want to show my wife that I can do this for her without : hiring help. : Rich Blame your mama. She should have taught you how to do this when you were little! :-) I'm with you on that one. One idea for the op might be to call his mom for advice if that's possible. |
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