Deadbeats

"Bob" wrote in message
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teachrmama wrote:
"Bob" wrote in message
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Zimm wrote:

I do think men should always wear condoms, though. It's just the smart
thing to do. Prevents babies and cooties.
Zimm

So did you ever use a female condom? I though not.

More sexism. Pathetic.


OK, Bob, let's say it this way: The man and the woman should each take
responsibility for his/her own birth control. That way, if one is being
dishonest, the other won't get a nasty surprise. How does that sound?



Prevaricating now does not change the sexist remarks made previously.

chuckle Oh, Bob, you are so droll..........

"Bob" wrote in message
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teachrmama wrote:
"Bob" wrote in message
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Zimm wrote:

I do think men should always wear condoms, though. It's just the smart
thing to do. Prevents babies and cooties.
Zimm

So did you ever use a female condom? I though not.

More sexism. Pathetic.


OK, Bob, let's say it this way: The man and the woman should each take
responsibility for his/her own birth control. That way, if one is being
dishonest, the other won't get a nasty surprise. How does that sound?



Prevaricating now does not change the sexist remarks made previously.

chuckle Oh, Bob, you are so droll..........

"Bob" wrote in message
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teachrmama wrote:
"Bob" wrote in message
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Zimm wrote:

I do think men should always wear condoms, though. It's just the smart
thing to do. Prevents babies and cooties.
Zimm

So did you ever use a female condom? I though not.

More sexism. Pathetic.


OK, Bob, let's say it this way: The man and the woman should each take
responsibility for his/her own birth control. That way, if one is being
dishonest, the other won't get a nasty surprise. How does that sound?



Prevaricating now does not change the sexist remarks made previously.

chuckle Oh, Bob, you are so droll..........

"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.
Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?
Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant.

Hint: It's NOT called "fetus support".

So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had.
I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.

"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.
Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?
Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant.

Hint: It's NOT called "fetus support".

So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had.
I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.

"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.
Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?
Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant.

Hint: It's NOT called "fetus support".

So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had.
I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.

"Phil #3" wrote in message
hlink.net...

"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me.
It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all
about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.

Which would be only mothers because only women have the choice as to
whether
or not children are born.

That was my thought too.


Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will
go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?

Correction: C$ has nothing to do with 'paying for' children. It is a
payment
from a man, not necessarily the father, to a mother.
Most fathers do want to pay for their kid, just not to pay the ex-wife for
services rendered and child care that many of us would rather do
ourselves.

AMEN!

Fathers have a better track record of paying C$ than the few mothers who
have been ordered to pay C$.

Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant,
but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant.

But it took her sole decision for the pregnancy to develop into a child.
Her
body, her choice, her decision, HIS responsibility. I know, it's screwy
but
that's what the feminists want.

Of course. What could be more sweet than forcing someone ELSE to pay for you
own sole choice?


So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain.

...and avoid pregnancy if at all possible and most definitely avoid
marriage
under any circumstances.

I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they
had.

Since only women can "have" a child.....


............... and that's the LAW!


I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time
for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.

And women who don't are .... what?
Phil #3

"Phil #3" wrote in message
hlink.net...

"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me.
It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all
about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.

Which would be only mothers because only women have the choice as to
whether
or not children are born.

That was my thought too.


Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will
go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?

Correction: C$ has nothing to do with 'paying for' children. It is a
payment
from a man, not necessarily the father, to a mother.
Most fathers do want to pay for their kid, just not to pay the ex-wife for
services rendered and child care that many of us would rather do
ourselves.

AMEN!

Fathers have a better track record of paying C$ than the few mothers who
have been ordered to pay C$.

Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant,
but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant.

But it took her sole decision for the pregnancy to develop into a child.
Her
body, her choice, her decision, HIS responsibility. I know, it's screwy
but
that's what the feminists want.

Of course. What could be more sweet than forcing someone ELSE to pay for you
own sole choice?


So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain.

...and avoid pregnancy if at all possible and most definitely avoid
marriage
under any circumstances.

I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they
had.

Since only women can "have" a child.....


............... and that's the LAW!


I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time
for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.

And women who don't are .... what?
Phil #3

"Phil #3" wrote in message
hlink.net...

"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me.
It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all
about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.

Which would be only mothers because only women have the choice as to
whether
or not children are born.

That was my thought too.


Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will
go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?

Correction: C$ has nothing to do with 'paying for' children. It is a
payment
from a man, not necessarily the father, to a mother.
Most fathers do want to pay for their kid, just not to pay the ex-wife for
services rendered and child care that many of us would rather do
ourselves.

AMEN!

Fathers have a better track record of paying C$ than the few mothers who
have been ordered to pay C$.

Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant,
but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant.

But it took her sole decision for the pregnancy to develop into a child.
Her
body, her choice, her decision, HIS responsibility. I know, it's screwy
but
that's what the feminists want.

Of course. What could be more sweet than forcing someone ELSE to pay for you
own sole choice?


So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain.

...and avoid pregnancy if at all possible and most definitely avoid
marriage
under any circumstances.

I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they
had.

Since only women can "have" a child.....


............... and that's the LAW!


I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time
for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.

And women who don't are .... what?
Phil #3

"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
Okay I am back. I had to go to work and make some dollars for the
household. I am going to try to respond to all question at once. First
of all Paula I am not going on welfare nor have I thought about it. Even
if I wanted to I make too much money. You have to be poverty to qualify
for government assistance. ) I was just letting Bob see how he would
like it if he had to pay for my kid.
To everyone thinking this, I am not angry. I just strongly believe that
every NCP should support their kid financially. I am not all about the
money

Yes you are.

(to the person who made that comment), I am about grown folks
stepping up to the plate and taking care of their resposibilties. I can
afford to take care of my kid on my own and I am, but why should I be the
only one giving up going on cruises.

Why shouldn't you be?

By the way I am taking my cruise
next year, my treat for being a good Mom. My money is going to pay for
it. Anyway, to the person who say child support shouldn't go towards
child care. I believe in a child getting a good education. I want my kid
in a learning environment not just running around the yard outside making
mud pies. My 3 year old is already writing her name, she knows her ABCs,
her telephone number etc..
Long story short, I am a single Mom because you have these worthless guys
that play games just to get you in bed. You know the ones that tell you
everything you want to hear to get you in bed. Well he played the game
now he has to suffer the consequences. He asked me to marry him and after
I found out I was pregnant, I also found out he had a girlfriend and a
wife of 13 years. I don't want to hear it Bob. We are only human. We
make mistakes and we live and learn. That's all we can do. My child is
here I can only move forward. Besides he had 3 kids outside of his
marriage. So I think he really needs to pay for his babies

Because?

not doubt
about it. He doesn't have too much to do with my kid. He takes to
Chuckie Cheese and out for ice cream every once in a while, but I want him
to get to know her. It's not her fault that we made a mistake.
If you are a man or women who really don't like giving your money away,
just wear a condom or stop having sex. I have chosen to stop having sex.
I will not make the same mistake twice. I read my Bible and I have
learned that fornication is a sin. The bottom of the line is that either
way it goes we lose. Me being the single parent if forced to give up my
outgoing lifesytle to stay home and raise my kid and the father is forced
to pay out the butt. My kid's father has to pay $600 a month for support.
He is a C.P.A. I think he can afford it.

Spoken like a true marxist!

I really don't care he had a
choice just like I did.


Pammie


before having it and in many cases denying the father a prt of the
child's
life. As for going on to welfare well if women really think that then
the
fathers should get custody, anyway do you really think that would help.
btw I
am a woman not a man just in case you are wondering.

Paula