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Runaway Brides of Tamil Nadu
Runaway Brides of Tamil Nadu ================================================== == Following the news report on some missing men, sensational stories of missing wifes - who have deserted Non Resident Indians, - left their MATRIMONIAL homes & returned to India under various pretexts, - to file false and frivolous DOWRY [IPC498A] cases against these hapless NRI and their family, has emerged. Take the case of Vinayak (name changed). Vinayak was a well settled finance professional employed at United Arab Emirates. He got married to veRRi (name changed) in 1996. veRRi [pronounced as vetRRi] After a honeymoon and WHEN VeRRi'S passport was ready, the couple returned to Gulf without major wait or delays ..within 3 months of marriage Initially life seemed cool. The couple were blessed with a kid, thEnmozi [name changed]. All trouble erupted when veRRi could NOT get a job of her liking in the Middle East. She often complained that she was forced into this marriage by parents. She forced Vinayak to go for marriage counseling in United Arab Emirates. The counselor advised that Vinayak's mother be thrown out of the house. To accommodated VeRRi vinayak threw his mother out of the house. The hapless woman who was about 60 was sent back and had to live on her own in India. Still veRRi continued her tantrums. Matters reached a peak when veRRi threatened of suicide. She used to lock herself inside out toilet in the middle of the night and threaten that she will commit suicide... I was terrified and could NOT sleep a wink, Vinayak recounts the horror !! veRri returned to her parental home at Chennai in 1999 and promptly filed a FALSE 498A case in early 2000. The case has NOT been tried or decided till date. veRRi threatened Vinayak's mother and other close relatives of arrest and defamation. Ever since, Vinayak has tried evey method to bring his wife and kid back. veRRi often changed her address without any intimation to cut off all communications with Vinayak and to alienate the kid from Vinayak. She landed a plum job in Bangalore [approx 400 km away from Chennai]. For years she went incommunicado. The day Vinayak located them he sought child custody. VeRRi denied child custody in court. Finally when Vinayak managed to obtain JUST visiting rights [NOT CUSTODY] the child could NOT even recognize Vinayak. "..I wept that day .." says Vinayak, with his eyes going moist even now when he recounts that day. Vinayak makes costly trips to Chennai, and appeals to his wife, her parents, the Family courts and court appointed counselors requesting them to re unite him with his wife and beloved kid Vinayak is also ready to bequeath a part of his hard earned money in the name of his kid, though Vinayak has been completely alienated from his kid. The latest twist : His Wife has left for Singapore and is NOT EVEN attending Family court hearings ever since Mid November 2006 !! The case is IN limbo with the family court NOT giving an ex parte When Vinayak tried to seek FREE legal aid, he was told that that was reserved ONLY for WOMEN as if MEN are NOT eligible for benefits of the tax payer's money Vinayak continues his days waiting .... waiting for justice and a NORMAL married life........ ] ] 'Runaway grooms' of Tamil Nadu ] Posted by: "AmritWorld.com" ] Mon Feb 19, 2007 12:51 am (PST) http://www.tribuneindia.com/2007/20070219/main8.htm ] * 'Runaway grooms' of Tamil Nadu ] ] Arup Chanda ] ] Tribune News Service * ] ] Chennai, February 18 ] ] The "runaway groom" syndrome is not confined ] to Punjab. A substantial number of NRI Tamils ] successfully settled all over the globe also ] suffer from this syndrome. ] [..................] |
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