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Mother/father in different states
Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year.
Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? I've been trying to find this on the internet, but no luck so far. Thanks in advance. |
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Mother/father in different states
"ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? == 1. Woman's other children have no bearing on the amt. of support ordered. 2. Does he have a support order for previous children? That typically reduces subsequent orders. 3. Is the woman checking to find how much CS she might get before deciding whether to keep the baby? (Had to ask) 4 If the man has no interest in the child (unfortunately) and will agree to adoption/abortion, shouldn't the woman assume the full financial responsibility for the baby she choses to have? IL will be the controlling state. == == I've been trying to find this on the internet, but no luck so far. Thanks in advance. |
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Mother/father in different states
"ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? == 1. Woman's other children have no bearing on the amt. of support ordered. 2. Does he have a support order for previous children? That typically reduces subsequent orders. 3. Is the woman checking to find how much CS she might get before deciding whether to keep the baby? (Had to ask) 4 If the man has no interest in the child (unfortunately) and will agree to adoption/abortion, shouldn't the woman assume the full financial responsibility for the baby she choses to have? IL will be the controlling state. == == I've been trying to find this on the internet, but no luck so far. Thanks in advance. |
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Mother/father in different states
"ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? == 1. Woman's other children have no bearing on the amt. of support ordered. 2. Does he have a support order for previous children? That typically reduces subsequent orders. 3. Is the woman checking to find how much CS she might get before deciding whether to keep the baby? (Had to ask) 4 If the man has no interest in the child (unfortunately) and will agree to adoption/abortion, shouldn't the woman assume the full financial responsibility for the baby she choses to have? IL will be the controlling state. == == I've been trying to find this on the internet, but no luck so far. Thanks in advance. |
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Mother/father in different states
"ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? I've been trying to find this on the internet, but no luck so far. Thanks in advance. The state where the child resides will have jurisdiction. Unless the "man" is proven in a court of law to be the father of the child, no child support can be ordered. A mother cannot just name a man as the child's father and get child support from him. The mother will have to hire an attorney and formally establish paternity through DNA testing and a legal filiation hearing before any court will order CS. Part of this process will be for the mother to admit to her 21 and 17 year old boys that she was having sex with a man to whom she was not married. That's not a very good example for a mother to set for her boys. |
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Mother/father in different states
"ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? I've been trying to find this on the internet, but no luck so far. Thanks in advance. The state where the child resides will have jurisdiction. Unless the "man" is proven in a court of law to be the father of the child, no child support can be ordered. A mother cannot just name a man as the child's father and get child support from him. The mother will have to hire an attorney and formally establish paternity through DNA testing and a legal filiation hearing before any court will order CS. Part of this process will be for the mother to admit to her 21 and 17 year old boys that she was having sex with a man to whom she was not married. That's not a very good example for a mother to set for her boys. |
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Mother/father in different states
"ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? I've been trying to find this on the internet, but no luck so far. Thanks in advance. The state where the child resides will have jurisdiction. Unless the "man" is proven in a court of law to be the father of the child, no child support can be ordered. A mother cannot just name a man as the child's father and get child support from him. The mother will have to hire an attorney and formally establish paternity through DNA testing and a legal filiation hearing before any court will order CS. Part of this process will be for the mother to admit to her 21 and 17 year old boys that she was having sex with a man to whom she was not married. That's not a very good example for a mother to set for her boys. |
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Mother/father in different states
"gini52" wrote in message ... "ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? == 1. Woman's other children have no bearing on the amt. of support ordered. 2. Does he have a support order for previous children? That typically reduces subsequent orders. The man does not have any children.....yet. 3. Is the woman checking to find how much CS she might get before deciding whether to keep the baby? (Had to ask) I am sure this is not factoring into her decision on what to do. 4 If the man has no interest in the child (unfortunately) and will agree to adoption/abortion, shouldn't the woman assume the full financial responsibility for the baby she choses to have? IL will be the controlling state. From what I have found so far, it appears the monthly child support for the man could be $1,500 to $1,800 a month. |
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Mother/father in different states
"gini52" wrote in message ... "ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? == 1. Woman's other children have no bearing on the amt. of support ordered. 2. Does he have a support order for previous children? That typically reduces subsequent orders. The man does not have any children.....yet. 3. Is the woman checking to find how much CS she might get before deciding whether to keep the baby? (Had to ask) I am sure this is not factoring into her decision on what to do. 4 If the man has no interest in the child (unfortunately) and will agree to adoption/abortion, shouldn't the woman assume the full financial responsibility for the baby she choses to have? IL will be the controlling state. From what I have found so far, it appears the monthly child support for the man could be $1,500 to $1,800 a month. |
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Mother/father in different states
"gini52" wrote in message ... "ABC" wrote in message m... Man lives in Indiana and makes a gross income of $115,000 a year. Woman lives in Illinois and makes a gross income of $35,000 a year. She has a 21, 17, and 9 year old boys from previous marriage. Both are divorced. It is then discovered that woman is unexpectedly pregnant (oops). The man has no interest in having any involvement in the child (and if the woman were to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoptuion, he would definitely not object). But the woman at age 45 wants to keep the baby. What kind of child support (rough ballpark figure) would the man expect to have to pay? Which state has precedence? == 1. Woman's other children have no bearing on the amt. of support ordered. 2. Does he have a support order for previous children? That typically reduces subsequent orders. The man does not have any children.....yet. 3. Is the woman checking to find how much CS she might get before deciding whether to keep the baby? (Had to ask) I am sure this is not factoring into her decision on what to do. 4 If the man has no interest in the child (unfortunately) and will agree to adoption/abortion, shouldn't the woman assume the full financial responsibility for the baby she choses to have? IL will be the controlling state. From what I have found so far, it appears the monthly child support for the man could be $1,500 to $1,800 a month. |
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