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Motivating a Jr. High kid
My son is entering 8th grade this year. He's always been an uneven student,
shining in some favorite subjects (won the school's geography bee one year!), and sliding by in subjects he doesn't like so much. His teacher, and folks who are around him day to day, say he's fairly bright. Where I see him falling down academically is mostly in one thing - he just doesn't like rigor. Memorization, or anything that needs a lot of careful steps. He can *do* it, and has no problem with complex things in his model building. But when it comes to studying, as I've noticed from trying to help him with memorization tasks like German vocabulary, he loses patience with things that don't come to him quickly. It was very interesting to me that his self-evaluation, as he spontaneously told me last year, is just below the cadre of the brightest students. Some of the other kids come to him for help in things he loves, like social studies. His teachers pretty much concur. But his impatience with rigor is getting in the way of even things he likes now, like German and band. He hates to memorize the vocabulary, he hates to practice. And he's gotten no particular recognition in school, and was clearly bummed the end of last year when some of his friends did and he didn't at the awards assembly at school. I'd like to stretch him a bit and put the 8th grade honor roll as a goal for him. We've been talking about a PS3 a while after it comes out (I wait for the prices to drop), and have told him I expect to see him on the honor roll before he gets that. (He likes video games but hasn't been the type to get subsumed by them or spend too much time on them.) I think it's an appropriate goal. He knows high school grades are important for college admission, and he consistently expresses college as a goal. I've told him 8th grade marks will be an indication of how he does in high school. I must admit to being a little at a loss as to how to really motivate him or get him past this thing against memorization or rigor. I was a kid that had no problem with these things, although I had other problems like with procrastination. The only way I know to deal with rigor is just to do it. So, what do I do with this kid? TIA, Banty |
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