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Old March 30th 11, 06:04 PM posted to misc.kids.health,rec.sport.football.college,aus.general,triangle.general
The Undead Edward M. Kennedy
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Two Choices

What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line,
there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made
the same choice?



At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning
disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the
school and its

Dedicated staff, he offered a question:

'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature
does, is done with perfection.

Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot
understand things as other children do.

Where is the natural order of things in my son?'



The audience was stilled by the query.



The father continued.. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was
mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity
to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way
other people treat that child.'

Then he told the following story:



Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were
playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I
knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their
team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to
play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some
confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.



I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting
much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said,
'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess
he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth
inning..'



Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on
a team shirt.. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my
heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but
was still behind by three.

In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the
right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously
ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to
ear as I waved to him from the stands.

In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.

Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was
on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.



At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to
win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all
but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat
properly, much less connect with the ball.



However, as Shay stepped up to the

Plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning
aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the
ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.

The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly
towards Shay.

As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball
right back to the pitcher.



The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown
the ball to the first baseman.

Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game..



Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's
head, out of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay,

run to first!

Run to first!'

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.

He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.



Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and
struggling to make it to the base.

By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the
ball . The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to
be the hero for his team.

He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he
understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the
ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him
circled the bases toward home.



All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'



Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him
by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to
third!

Shay, run to third!'



As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators,
were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who
hit the grand slam and won the game for his team



'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his
face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and
humanity into this world'.



Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having
never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home
and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!



AND NOW A LITTLE FOOT NOTE TO THIS STORY:

We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second
thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices,
people hesitate.

The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace,
but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our
schools and workplaces.



If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that
you're probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't
the 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message Well, the person
who sent you this believes that we all can make a difference.

We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize
the 'natural order of things.'

So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us
with a choice:

Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up
those opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the
process?



A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's
least fortunate amongst them.



You now have two choices:

1. Delete

2. Forward

May your day, be a Shay Day.


I would have brushed Shay back with a high inside fastball,
and then struck him out with three straight sliders on the
outside corner. But hey, at least I crossposted to another
newsgroup!

--Tedward


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Old March 30th 11, 08:14 PM posted to misc.kids.health,rec.sport.football.college,aus.general,triangle.general
The Undead Edward M. Kennedy
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"Dweezil Dwarftosser" wrote

I believe it is in our nature to protect the weak
among us - while recognizing their limitations.
The best way to do both is to provide _alternative_
accomodations for them: their own league, where they
can compete on an equal basis with kids similarly
disposed. (e.g. - we don't mix 'normal' T-ball-age
kids with high-schoolers in a game - for a good
reason!)


Now there's a bunch of liberal clap-trap. People who cannot
afford to raise handicapped kids should be allowed to toss
them off of cliffs like the Spartans did.

We're doing natural selection in a bad way. It won't be long
before things like autism will be the norm and not the exception.
"Your baby was born perfectly normal? Wow, what are the odds
of that?!"

--Tedward


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Old March 31st 11, 10:00 AM posted to misc.kids.health,rec.sport.football.college,aus.general,triangle.general
Dweezil Dwarftosser
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wrote...

"Dweezil Dwarftosser" wrote

I believe it is in our nature to protect the weak
among us - while recognizing their limitations.
The best way to do both is to provide _alternative_
accomodations for them: their own league, where they
can compete on an equal basis with kids similarly
disposed. (e.g. - we don't mix 'normal' T-ball-age
kids with high-schoolers in a game - for a good
reason!)


Now there's a bunch of liberal clap-trap.


Can you not keep a civil tongue in yer head?
I registered as a Conservative.

People who cannot afford to raise handicapped kids
should be allowed to toss them off of cliffs like
the Spartans did.


Naw; they'd have to close down the liberal arts
colleges. Chapel Hill would be a ghost town.
The Democrat Party would cease to exist.

We're doing natural selection in a bad way.


I have a whole diatribe on that (undisclosed;
awaiting the right time) - and you are absolutely
right. However, it has nothing to do with the
majorly disabled. It has to do with the normal
(but useless-to-mediocre) receiving not just
equal opportunity, but advantages that exclude
their (mental, physical, and emotional) betters
from the (true) leadership positions they were
born to fulfill.

It won't be long before things like autism will
be the norm and not the exception.


It's caused by Climate Globaloney, Sunspots,
immunizations, and Cosmic Dissonance, dontcha
know; anything but poor genetics and bad or
nonexistent parenting.

"Your baby was born perfectly normal? Wow, what are
the odds of that?!"


Most people forget that while the man with normal
sight may be King of the One-Eyed, he better keep
both of his wide open for usurpers seeking to kill
him for the sake of 'social justice" and 'the
greater good'.

The fittest have to stop that **** Right Now.
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