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what do they do to prove you are the dad accross state lines
After taking a good read at these things.. I'm kind of scared.
I have two children with a woman I've lived with only a few months. If worse comes to worse; What will she do to have me legally pay child support? We are not married; she kept me out of the birth certificate; (In NY you have to both go and the father signs a constent of fatherhood at the hospital, if you are not married, but she didn't tell me she had him so i could not be there.) -We lived together in Virginia -I live in Maryland, she in NY Would they summon something to prove with say, DNA, that I'm the father? Am I safe not going to such a court appoinment as long as I don't set foot in the state of NY ever again? Also, I'm a foreigner with a permanent visa here, how does that change anything? I'm from Argentina. They can't pursue me to pay child support before fatherhood has been established, right? Should I stop giving her money because that shows I am the father or something like that? If I wanted to still send money to her to help out, could I do that without getting into the previous question's problems? I don't mean to be an asshole. I just think that she wants to raise the children herself and doesn't really want a father for the babies. And I just want to have a life without worrying about going to jail. Should I just kill myself? Avoid being proven the father of these children, *I* dont even know a 100%.. I loved her and I just assumed. It's ok that way. Should I just dissappear and move to anothe state? Should I leave the country? |
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I would suggest moving to another country. I am still living in the USA, but when I went to Europe a few years back I never heard anything from the USA system....Eventually, If you stay in the USA you will be found and you have to keep moving from job to job every few months to avoid the barbaric child support system...On the other hand maybe your wife will not file any action against you, in which case you may be safe..... However, many women will file years later after having a change of heart or financial circumstances. My suggestion is to get as far away as you can if possible-----out of country--- Europe, in my opinion is a good option. Bottom line move around alot in the USA, change your name and ID if possible; If not get out of the country!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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