Finding Someone Special

Browsing through the personal classifieds can be quite frustrating if
you really don't know what qualities or the type of personality it is
that you are searching for in the person you are seeking, or in the
relationship you are seeking.

Questions you need to ask yourself before and as you are reading
through the personal sections again a Why are you searching for
someone, do you want a companion, a serious relationship or just to
make friends with someone new with the hopes of dating. Who are you
looking for, are you searching for someone tall, short, thin, stout,
young, old, divorced, widowed, single, married, and the list goes on
to include all personal choices and preferences in people.

Discussing this theory a little more in detail - If you have a problem
dating someone with kids, you should skip over the classifieds that
reveal those people who have kids or you will only be letting yourself
down in the end when you are building a relationship. This theory
pertains to all of the listings, for example, if you are searching for
someone that is just for you, without ever sharing that person with
another, search for someone who has never been married or who is not a
widow (widower). Once you know whom you are searching for, you will be
able to read the personal classifieds with more confidence and
decision making abilities.

Read the classifieds completely, tracking the writing that interests
you the most so that you can go back and compare, reread or contact
that person. Reading through the entire personal section, or at very
least the section that applies your target interest group, you will
find a variety of people with vast differences in personalities just
through the short descriptions available.

Now is the tough time to write your contact letter, made much simpler
if you have already created your profile for replies to read about
you. Starting your reply is easy with an opening such as, 'I have read
your profile and found you are most intriguing (interesting, exciting,
provocative)' or you could use something more elaborate such as 'Your
profile interested me to the point where I had to contact you right
away to find out what we have in common'. While there are many
expressions and various phrases you can use when writing your opening
letter, the contact letter is

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