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Seeking straight A's, parents push for pills
"Chookie" wrote in message ... In article , (Herman Rubin) wrote: Music may be interesting, but useful? Depends how narrow your definition of "useful" is. Note that music is used therapeutically in hospitals and amongst intellectually disabled people. I do not think bringing joy to people is a small thing. Also, does taking music in school improve this? If you play an instrument, probably, but otherwise? IMO school music should include a fair bit of music history and appreciation. We used to have 40 mins for music each week; you can't learn to play an instrument in that time. Music is a tool by which study of many disciplines is enhanced dramatically, and this only occurs in general music/music appreciation courses, as opposed to structured instrumental classes. Music is a major tool used for manipulation of moods and temperments-which equates to eating more in restaurants, buying more in stores, and similar behaviors. Knowing how music is used in this way, and recognizing when it is, can make a major difference in avoiding such manipulation. And, a good music appreciation program should include awareness of when and how music is used-I begin this even with 5 yr olds, although usually the whys and hows are left for psychology of music classes. Music also provides a lens through which to view a given time and people. While the historians can rewrite the history books, the "popular" music of the day-particularly before recording technology was widely available, can sometimes show a very different picture. At very least, it provides a more human touch to the past, and with the exception of those students who are attracted to historical details for the sake of the details (like my brother) that can make a huge difference in interest in the subject. And, since music history is not a required field of study for history teachers, but is for music teachers, music history (and often the supporting history) is taught in general music classes. Music provides a real-world laboratory for quite a few principles in science, and, dare I say it? Math. I have had many students who first really got the concept of fractions in my class, not in their math class. Patterns are taught and reinforced very thoroughly in music. And, the whole area of acoustics is demonstrated, on a daily basis, in a music classroom. In addition, the rigid structure and different notation of music, as well as the vertical and horizontal simultaneous reading comes into play again later in formal algebra, which normally aren't studied as early as music reading is, since study of music reading in a good school music program typically begins at age 5, and most students are pretty fluent by age 8-9. Physically, many of the activities done in a good primary general music class closely replicate (with completely separate development streams) those done by occupational and physical therapists to increase neurological system communication. All that steady beat, cross lateral movements, midline crossing, mirroring, and similar activities really do help teach the child's brain at a low level, which in turn makes reading writing, and yes, the notational aspects of math easier. Music also enhances verbal communication, and music provides a huge amount of pre-literacy skills in the phonemic awareness, rimes, and vocabulary development areas. This is especially noticable in toddler classes, where you'll often see an obvious jump after the child is used to a setting after even a 45 minute a week class. The concepts and words in the music seem to stick with the child, particularly when paired with movement. It applies to older children as well, but isn't quite as obvious. And, if a teacher has been trained in actively using music to improve language development, you can really see it take off. Memphis City Schools and (then) Memphis State University brought the Orff method in as a pilot program in the 1960s, funded not by arts funds but as a literacy project. MOre than 30 years later, that literacy project is considered one of the top Orff programs in the country, and a third party audit found it to be the single most effective educational program in the entire system. Long term, outside of school, listening to music, and knowing how to select the music you listen to, has potent physiological and psychological effects. Music can improve your mood or depress it, make it easier or harder to concentrate, reduce or increase your pulse rate (and, in some individuals, blood pressure), trigger long-term memories and much more. And this is just LISTENING to music. Actively producing it is even more potent, and causes endorphin and other biochemical changes similar to physical exercise. So yes,there's more going on in that music class than you might expect, and there are volumes of research on this subject, most of it NOT coming from musicians and music educators, and a substantial proportion not coming from education at all (Neuropsychologists and neurologists have actually contributed some of the most important research in this field in the last 20 years or so). One good summary is "Spin-offs-Extra-Musical Benefits of Music Education" By Robert Cuietta. |
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"Bob LeChevalier" wrote in message ... Chris Malcolm wrote: In alt.support.attn-deficit wrote: But so far as I know, Calclulus offers nothing practical for day to day life for ANYONE. Ditto physics. Lack of understanding of very basic Newtonian physics kills a lot of car drivers. For example, car drivers who when driving at high speed decide to make a quick steering correction and flip the car over into cartwheeling down the road. And if you don't understand the basic physics of skidding and steering you have to be taught the rules of how to control a skid, because your intuitive reactions to a skid will make it worse instead of recovering control. Speaking more generally, a failure to understand the simple physics of speed, acceleration, and braking, lies behind a great deal of the risky behaviour you see every day on the roads. Even if it's an emergency and worth taking risks to carve through the traffic, there are much safer ways of doing it than the way most drivers in hurry actually do it. Then there's those cyclists who grab the front wheel brake to slow down when cornering, an extremely common cause of cycling accidents which nobody who understood elementary physics would make. Another example is novice rock climbers who instinctively pull themselves into the rock when scared of losing their grip, thereby losing the force vector which gave the friction grip to their feet, and they fall off. People up trees with saws doing a bit of branch pruning in their gardens often have easily avoidable accidents because of an ignorance of basic physics. And sailing boats! You could write a book about the injuries the physically ignorant have suffered on yachts! But I'd better stop there :-) None of which would be taught in a class teaching mathematical physics. In those classes, the student spends his time trying to work with equations. For some people, they MIGHT be able to intuitively translate an equation of motion into a concept of real world effects, but for most it is neither trivial nor intuitive to turn the laws of motion into the stopping distance for braking a car. Actually, the issues you're talking about are going to be most thorougly taught in preschool and kindergarten, when kids are playing with pedal cars and tricycles, and where a teacher can gently explain why things work as they do (and when children often ask). A lot of practical physics comes on the playground, which is why removing recess from schools in favor of a little more academic time is a bad idea for more reasons than just overweight kids. Physics, as a subject, is often so divorced from the real world that it really doesn't get applied. The same is, unfortunately, true with Chemistry. I know the American Chemical Society has worked quite hard at creating materials for the elementary and secondary levels which teach chemical principals via household chemistry, but the current high-stakes push, every child is college bound in a technical field, students should start taking advanced placement classes in 9th grade has largely derailed this effort, with the result that students may be able to tell you in great detail about orbitals, but not understand why mixing bleach and ammonia is a very bad idea. |
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Chris Malcolm wrote: In alt.support.attn-deficit wrote: But so far as I know, Calclulus offers nothing practical for day to day life for ANYONE. Ditto physics. Lack of understanding of very basic Newtonian physics kills a lot of car drivers. For example, car drivers who when driving at high speed decide to make a quick steering correction and flip the car over into cartwheeling down the road. And if you don't understand the basic physics of skidding and steering you have to be taught the rules of how to control a skid, because your intuitive reactions to a skid will make it worse instead of recovering control. Speaking more generally, a failure to understand the simple physics of speed, acceleration, and braking, lies behind a great deal of the risky behaviour you see every day on the roads. Even if it's an emergency and worth taking risks to carve through the traffic, there are much safer ways of doing it than the way most drivers in hurry actually do it. Which are skills FAR more sensibly taught in driver's ed, rather than expecting a driver, in the heat of the moment (when, IME, instinct tends to take over anyway -- when talking to the cops/insurance people after MY one and only road accident, I realized that I didn't even remember what I'd done, since it was all over in an instant, and what I did was outside my concious thought.), to remember and apply what he learned in physics class 5 years ago. Then there's those cyclists who grab the front wheel brake to slow down when cornering, an extremely common cause of cycling accidents which nobody who understood elementary physics would make. Heh, I'm more concerned about the cyclists who believe that a) all cars can stop on a dime and b) if a 40 pound bike hits an 1800 pound automobile, the bike (and its rider) will emerge from the impact unscathed -- therefore there is no need to stop at stopsigns or red lights. Naomi |
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Donna Metler wrote:
"Bob LeChevalier" wrote in message ... Chris Malcolm wrote: In alt.support.attn-deficit wrote: But so far as I know, Calclulus offers nothing practical for day to day life for ANYONE. Ditto physics. Lack of understanding of very basic Newtonian physics kills a lot of car drivers. For example, car drivers who when driving at high speed decide to make a quick steering correction and flip the car over into cartwheeling down the road. And if you don't understand the basic physics of skidding and steering you have to be taught the rules of how to control a skid, because your intuitive reactions to a skid will make it worse instead of recovering control. Speaking more generally, a failure to understand the simple physics of speed, acceleration, and braking, lies behind a great deal of the risky behaviour you see every day on the roads. Even if it's an emergency and worth taking risks to carve through the traffic, there are much safer ways of doing it than the way most drivers in hurry actually do it. Then there's those cyclists who grab the front wheel brake to slow down when cornering, an extremely common cause of cycling accidents which nobody who understood elementary physics would make. Another example is novice rock climbers who instinctively pull themselves into the rock when scared of losing their grip, thereby losing the force vector which gave the friction grip to their feet, and they fall off. People up trees with saws doing a bit of branch pruning in their gardens often have easily avoidable accidents because of an ignorance of basic physics. And sailing boats! You could write a book about the injuries the physically ignorant have suffered on yachts! But I'd better stop there :-) None of which would be taught in a class teaching mathematical physics. In those classes, the student spends his time trying to work with equations. For some people, they MIGHT be able to intuitively translate an equation of motion into a concept of real world effects, but for most it is neither trivial nor intuitive to turn the laws of motion into the stopping distance for braking a car. Actually, the issues you're talking about are going to be most thorougly taught in preschool and kindergarten, when kids are playing with pedal cars and tricycles, and where a teacher can gently explain why things work as they do (and when children often ask). A lot of practical physics comes on the playground, which is why removing recess from schools in favor of a little more academic time is a bad idea for more reasons than just overweight kids. Physics, as a subject, is often so divorced from the real world that it really doesn't get applied. The same is, unfortunately, true with Chemistry. I know the American Chemical Society has worked quite hard at creating materials for the elementary and secondary levels which teach chemical principals via household chemistry, but the current high-stakes push, every child is college bound in a technical field, students should start taking advanced placement classes in 9th grade has largely derailed this effort, with the result that students may be able to tell you in great detail about orbitals, but not understand why mixing bleach and ammonia is a very bad idea. So maybe safety is the common theme here. One often sees safety rules being stated for whatever it is that one is doing, but I don't know if anyone has written anything general about safety with regards to scientific principles from all sciences. I have an old book in my family dating from about the 30's that was apparently used to teach high school students (who were not planning to specialize in science) household and applied chemistry. It had a lot of information about chemicals in industrial plants too. Don't know if it had much about safety in it, though. Don't have the book with me right now though, so can't check. C. |
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"Donna Metler" wrote in message ... Music provides a real-world laboratory for quite a few principles in science, and, dare I say it? Math. I have had many students who first really got the concept of fractions in my class, not in their math class. Patterns are taught and reinforced very thoroughly in music. And, the whole area of acoustics is demonstrated, on a daily basis, in a music classroom. I always had difficulties in math, but not in music...it was not until I was in high school (having started to learn clarinet in 4th grade beginner band) that I finally had the epiphany that music was nothing more than pure, applied mathematics. The thing I loved was the thing I struggled the most with! Talk about something that was really difficult for a 17 year old to wrap her brain around! In addition, the rigid structure and different notation of music, as well as the vertical and horizontal simultaneous reading comes into play again later in formal algebra, which normally aren't studied as early as music reading is, since study of music reading in a good school music program typically begins at age 5, and most students are pretty fluent by age 8-9. Interesting...my difficulties in maht have always been in the more basic math--multiplication tables actually--but "getting it" in algebra was a little easier. I always got "partial credit" because I showed all my work. The reason I usually had a wrong answer was not because my algebraic concepts were wrong, but usually because my multiplication was... If what you say about music and algebra being connected is true, it might be why...interesting idea... Physically, many of the activities done in a good primary general music class closely replicate (with completely separate development streams) those done by occupational and physical therapists to increase neurological system communication. All that steady beat, cross lateral movements, midline crossing, mirroring, and similar activities really do help teach the child's brain at a low level, which in turn makes reading writing, and yes, the notational aspects of math easier. As a special ed major, and parent of children with exceptionalities, this, too, is rather intriguing... Music also enhances verbal communication, and music provides a huge amount of pre-literacy skills in the phonemic awareness, rimes, and vocabulary development areas. This is especially noticable in toddler classes, where you'll often see an obvious jump after the child is used to a setting after even a 45 minute a week class. The concepts and words in the music seem to stick with the child, particularly when paired with movement. It applies to older children as well, but isn't quite as obvious. And, if a teacher has been trained in actively using music to improve language development, you can really see it take off. Memphis City Schools and (then) Memphis State University brought the Orff method in as a pilot program in the 1960s, funded not by arts funds but as a literacy project. MOre than 30 years later, that literacy project is considered one of the top Orff programs in the country, and a third party audit found it to be the single most effective educational program in the entire system. Long term, outside of school, listening to music, and knowing how to select the music you listen to, has potent physiological and psychological effects. Music can improve your mood or depress it, make it easier or harder to concentrate, reduce or increase your pulse rate (and, in some individuals, blood pressure), trigger long-term memories and much more. And this is just LISTENING to music. Actively producing it is even more potent, and causes endorphin and other biochemical changes similar to physical exercise. So yes,there's more going on in that music class than you might expect, and there are volumes of research on this subject, most of it NOT coming from musicians and music educators, and a substantial proportion not coming from education at all (Neuropsychologists and neurologists have actually contributed some of the most important research in this field in the last 20 years or so). One good summary is "Spin-offs-Extra-Musical Benefits of Music Education" By Robert Cuietta. In our state, if you graduate high school with the traditional 4-year-diploma, you are required to take at least one year of practical arts or performing/fine arts or a combination of the two (i.e., a half year of each) http://www.facts.org/cgi-bin/eaglec IMHO, it was finally some recognition of how important it is to students...then again, I admit to some bias, being a musician myself g FWIW, each of my sons marched in the band (middle- and high-school)...one has ADHD, the other is dealing with ADHD/gifted/aspergers/SID -- Buny " Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal." ~ Albert Camus |
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"Chookie" wrote in message ... In article , (Herman Rubin) wrote: I still do not see the need for so many years of English, which is largely literature, usually chosen to be politically correct propaganda. Because culture is transmitted largely through words. If you don't know the words *and the context*, you are a stranger in the culture. Our broadsheet recently quoted Abraham Lincoln as the *source* of "A house divided against itself cannot stand" which indicates to me that some journalists need *more* English Lit, not less! G OK...which source are you referring to in this one? *English* literature? Or much older? And if you are talking about the much older text that I am thinking of, you might consider your own words, about culture--how many students are taught in a separaton of church/state environment where the older text would not have been taught in the school? http://www.bartleby.com/66/83/783.html and how to learn, People do not learn the same way. How can you teach someone how to learn? snippage The teachers will have to learn this. They cannot imagine someone who learns like me, or in fact like any gifted child; they are all different. I have no idea how I came to learn the way I did and do, nor can I really explain it. There's an entire field of endeavour about this, and it seems that there is only a finite number of learning styles. They vary according to the learner's personality and the nature of the material. For example, to learn a practical skill (eg, stripping down a motor, or cutting hair), the instructor should show how it's done at normal speed, then go through it slowly, step by step, then have the students attempt it themselves. Omitting the normal-speed demonstration is counterproductive: students need to see the fluidity of movement (and indeed the "step-by-step" demonstrations often miss steps!). Gifted students do learn in different ways from average students. You might also be a visual-spatial learner, given your field. I have been in gifted classes, both as a student and as a parent/volunteer of a student who is gifted (with other exceptionalities) While I do agree that a person who is gifted is "a different animal" to the degree that in many states in the US they are considered to be "special ed" students, I have seen them to be all over the spectrum in learning style...i.e., just as any other group of students, "no two are alike" G What teachers can do for the good students is let them go ahead as fast as they can, and not try to teach them how to learn. This works for the gifted, in their field of interest, if they have not been put off learning. I do not know if it will work for Tori in algebra! Could this not be said for any student? -- Chookie -- Sydney, Australia (Replace "foulspambegone" with "optushome" to reply) "Parenthood is like the modern stone washing process for denim jeans. You may start out crisp, neat and tough, but you end up pale, limp and wrinkled." Kerry Cue Love the sig---waaay too much truth in it!!! BG -- Buny " Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal." ~ Albert Camus |
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"Donna Metler" wrote in message ... "Chookie" wrote in message ... In article , (Herman Rubin) wrote: Music may be interesting, but useful? Depends how narrow your definition of "useful" is. Note that music is used therapeutically in hospitals and amongst intellectually disabled people. I do not think bringing joy to people is a small thing. Also, does taking music in school improve this? If you play an instrument, probably, but otherwise? IMO school music should include a fair bit of music history and appreciation. We used to have 40 mins for music each week; you can't learn to play an instrument in that time. Music is a tool by which study of many disciplines is enhanced dramatically, and this only occurs in general music/music appreciation courses, as opposed to structured instrumental classes. Music is a major tool used for manipulation of moods and temperments-which equates to eating more in restaurants, buying more in stores, and similar behaviors. Knowing how music is used in this way, and recognizing when it is, can make a major difference in avoiding such manipulation. And, a good music appreciation program should include awareness of when and how music is used-I begin this even with 5 yr olds, although usually the whys and hows are left for psychology of music classes. Music also provides a lens through which to view a given time and people. While the historians can rewrite the history books, the "popular" music of the day-particularly before recording technology was widely available, can sometimes show a very different picture. At very least, it provides a more human touch to the past, and with the exception of those students who are attracted to historical details for the sake of the details (like my brother) that can make a huge difference in interest in the subject. And, since music history is not a required field of study for history teachers, but is for music teachers, music history (and often the supporting history) is taught in general music classes. To truly appreciate and understand the periods in history (romantic, classical, etc.) it is necessary to study the music and art of the day. The music sounds like the art and vice versa. Both reflect much about the "thinking" and concerns of the period. Music provides a real-world laboratory for quite a few principles in science, and, dare I say it? Math. I have had many students who first really got the concept of fractions in my class, not in their math class. Patterns are taught and reinforced very thoroughly in music. And, the whole area of acoustics is demonstrated, on a daily basis, in a music classroom. Despite no great love for math, I always found fractions incredibly easy. I could never understand the angst it seemed to cause some folks. Perhaps my love of music and all those music lessons is part of the reason. In addition, the rigid structure and different notation of music, as well as the vertical and horizontal simultaneous reading comes into play again later in formal algebra, which normally aren't studied as early as music reading is, since study of music reading in a good school music program typically begins at age 5, and most students are pretty fluent by age 8-9. Physically, many of the activities done in a good primary general music class closely replicate (with completely separate development streams) those done by occupational and physical therapists to increase neurological system communication. All that steady beat, cross lateral movements, midline crossing, mirroring, and similar activities really do help teach the child's brain at a low level, which in turn makes reading writing, and yes, the notational aspects of math easier. Music also enhances verbal communication, and music provides a huge amount of pre-literacy skills in the phonemic awareness, rimes, and vocabulary development areas. This is especially noticable in toddler classes, where you'll often see an obvious jump after the child is used to a setting after even a 45 minute a week class. The concepts and words in the music seem to stick with the child, particularly when paired with movement. It applies to older children as well, but isn't quite as obvious. And, if a teacher has been trained in actively using music to improve language development, you can really see it take off. Memphis City Schools and (then) Memphis State University brought the Orff method in as a pilot program in the 1960s, funded not by arts funds but as a literacy project. MOre than 30 years later, that literacy project is considered one of the top Orff programs in the country, and a third party audit found it to be the single most effective educational program in the entire system. Many years ago my middle school students learned a musical for a performance that happened to have a song reciting all the presidents. A couple of months later the history teacher came into the lounge much amused. He had just given a test that required listing all the presidents. Imagine his surprise to find the whole class quietly humming and tapping pencils and toes as they wrote down the answers. Long term, outside of school, listening to music, and knowing how to select the music you listen to, has potent physiological and psychological effects. Music can improve your mood or depress it, make it easier or harder to concentrate, reduce or increase your pulse rate (and, in some individuals, blood pressure), trigger long-term memories and much more. And this is just LISTENING to music. Actively producing it is even more potent, and causes endorphin and other biochemical changes similar to physical exercise. So yes,there's more going on in that music class than you might expect, and there are volumes of research on this subject, most of it NOT coming from musicians and music educators, and a substantial proportion not coming from education at all (Neuropsychologists and neurologists have actually contributed some of the most important research in this field in the last 20 years or so). One good summary is "Spin-offs-Extra-Musical Benefits of Music Education" By Robert Cuietta. Thank you for you excellent post! |
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"LAH" wrote in message news Many years ago my middle school students learned a musical for a performance that happened to have a song reciting all the presidents. My apologies to all the english teachers out there. I should have written. "Many years ago my middle school students learned a musical for a performance. One of the songs in the musical was a recitation of all the presidents." |
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LAH wrote: Many years ago my middle school students learned a musical for a performance that happened to have a song reciting all the presidents. A couple of months later the history teacher came into the lounge much amused. He had just given a test that required listing all the presidents. Imagine his surprise to find the whole class quietly humming and tapping pencils and toes as they wrote down the answers. Way back when *I* was in middle school we learned a song which including the names of all 50 states in alphabetical order. To this day (30 years later) I can still rattle off the names of all 50 states. (And sing the rest of the song as well.) And I'm sure most of us remember the preamble to the constitution, having learned to sing it during Saturday morning cartoons. Music is, in general, an excellent aid to memory. Most of know, by heart, the words to MANY more songs than poems or comparable length. Naomi |
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wrote in message oups.com... LAH wrote: Many years ago my middle school students learned a musical for a performance that happened to have a song reciting all the presidents. A couple of months later the history teacher came into the lounge much amused. He had just given a test that required listing all the presidents. Imagine his surprise to find the whole class quietly humming and tapping pencils and toes as they wrote down the answers. Way back when *I* was in middle school we learned a song which including the names of all 50 states in alphabetical order. To this day (30 years later) I can still rattle off the names of all 50 states. (And sing the rest of the song as well.) And I'm sure most of us remember the preamble to the constitution, having learned to sing it during Saturday morning cartoons. Music is, in general, an excellent aid to memory. Most of know, by heart, the words to MANY more songs than poems or comparable length. Naomi My brother was a two time national Citizen Bee finalist. At the national finals, in one of the written sections, one of the questions referred to the preamble of the constitution. According to him, it was readily apparent when every student got to this question, because you'd hear humming-"The Preamble" from Schoolhouse Rock!. And these were literally the top students of American History and Government in the USA, chosen through multiple rounds of written and oral competition. I also remember a few years back when, for an All-city choir performance, one of the songs was a speech rondo about Australia. One of the verses of the rondo referred to the seasons being reversed. As it turned out, one of the questions on the 4th grade state Science exam that year was on the order of the seasons in the Southern Hemisphere-which was NOT in the 4th grade science text. Literally, the only children who got that question correct were those who had participated in all-city choir that year. Music used as a mnemonic is a wonderful tool-however, as a music teacher, I have to say that there is a danger to this as well. Multiplication Rock, Grammar Grooves, The Weather Guy, and similar CDs are useful for teaching rote memory, but don't teach concepts at all, and many children have difficulty divorcing the material in the song from the song. There are huge numbers of 2 yr olds who have parents who think they're brilliant because they can sing the ABC song-but who wouldn't recognize any single letter if it jumped out and bit them, or a child may be able to remember ALL the states and capitals in order, but not be able to pull out the states in the Southwestern US. And, it is very, very possible for such rote memorization songs to take over a music curriculum such that true music instruction vanishes under a layer of memorization of states, capitals, presidents, rivers and oceans in order of length, grammar rules, arithmetic tables, and just plain trivia. Most of these songs just plain aren't great music (although the "Fifty, Nifty United States" is part of every music Basal I know of). |
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