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Dead Beat Fathers
I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In
this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. |
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Dead Beat Fathers
"shelly in ok" wrote in message
om... I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. Continue raising your kids and leave the man alone. You can't force him to do anything. If he isn't going to be there for the kids, there is nothing you can do. I'm sure if there was a tax return to take, it would have been done by now... plus many other things. I'm sure Oklahoma has done their due diligence in dealing with him. There is nothing else you can do. Tracy ~~~~~~~ http://www.hornschuch.net/tracy/ "You can't solve problems with the same type of thinking that created them." Albert Einstein *** spamguard in place! to email me: tracy at hornschuch dot net *** |
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"shelly in ok" wrote in message om... I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. Are you serious? The judge denied visitation and now you are complaining the father never attempted to see his children. What did you expect him to do? You said you never received any child support. Did the judge order any child support? |
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Dead Beat Fathers
Your kids are getting to an age where they should make the choice about
contacting their birth father or not. I can imagine the bitterness of no financial help, however, you choose to have four babies and should not have done so if you were not prepared to take on the financial responsibility alone. shelly in ok wrote: I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. |
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Dead Beat Fathers
"shelly in ok" wrote in message om... I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. He was denied visitation---why? And how could he visit them as you complain he didn't when he was denied visitation? You've lived without the money this long--your children must be getting to the ages when they will be out on their own. If the judge denied visitation, there must have been a reason. Are you sure you want him back in the middle of your life? (If, indeed, the judge was correct in his denial of visitation rights) |
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"shelly in ok" wrote in message om... I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the Yes - I have been divorced from the father of my four kids - too - for almost 15 years. I - too - never received child support for them. He deliberately joined the carnival of all things to avoid have to pay anything. Of course there's no relationship between my children and their father now. It's pretty hard to believe a Judge would deny visitation for a father especially if he's ordered child support. If he's an axe murderer, I imagine your attorney could have attempted to terminate his parental rights. In that case there'd be no visitation and no child support. In our situation, there was domestic violence and plenty of abuse so the Judge ordered the visitation to be supervised ... That didn't last long because the father lost interest in being a father. Like another poster said, your children should be just about all grown up by now. I know how tough it is for kids not having a father but there's really nothing we can do about it. If you have an order, I imagine you can file with your Attorney General's office but as far as I'm concerned - it's really not worth my time or effort. It's Dad's loss - he chose to bug out of his children's lives and that's that. After all, I divorced the guy because he's got problems - maybe my kids turned out to be productive members of society Because of and not Despite the loss of their father. Just my two cents, dC |
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"shelly in ok" wrote in message om... I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. Good. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I'm SHOCKED! I had no say in the matter. .....and the sun rises in the west. So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? He places one foot in front of the other......... yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. Did you tell your judge (who denied the visitation) that too? please can anyone help me or give me advise. I can; get a life. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. |
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On Fri, 27 Jun 2003 19:29:31 GMT, "Tracy" wrote:
"shelly in ok" wrote in message . com... I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. Continue raising your kids and leave the man alone. You can't force him to do anything. If he isn't going to be there for the kids, there is nothing you can do. I'm sure if there was a tax return to take, it would have been done by now... plus many other things. I'm sure Oklahoma has done their due diligence in dealing with him. There is nothing else you can do. Tracy ~~~~~~~ http://www.hornschuch.net/tracy/ "You can't solve problems with the same type of thinking that created them." Albert Einstein *** spamguard in place! to email me: tracy at hornschuch dot net *** .... not to mention the hopeless situation of a court-ordered prohibition against contact with his own children. There's more than what she's telling here. |
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Dead Beat Fathers created by: Evil Woman & the NOW
The courts and most women who love what they do are simply evil and will pay
their due when the time comes, and it will come. "shelly in ok" wrote in message om... I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. |
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Dead Beat Mothers
Maybe he (the father) can't stomach you.
"shelly in ok" wrote in message om... I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF. |
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