HELP MAKE OUR BABY!!!! HOW MUCH DO YOU THINK A BABY COSTS?

How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

For most people....nothing....

For my beautiful wife and I it is going to cost thousands ...more than
we have.

We need IVF and have some money saved but it costs $5500 just for one
IVF cycle. We now find that my wife needs to have surgery on her
remaining fallopian tube to remove it [salpingectomy] or clamp it as
it is damaged beyond repair and might add complications to the IVF....
before we can begin. Our health care does not cover us for this 'pre-
existing condition'.

We find ourselves in distress and a position of desperation. We want
a baby to complete our family, but we have a brick wall that keeps
hitting us and we can't come up with enough money in time for the
surgery. Surgery is November 30, the doctor says we can start IVF
straight after if it all goes smoothly, otherwise a small wait until
her body settles. If we cannot come up with the money by then we will
need to wait another year to even have the surgery let alone IVF
cycles.

My wife is 35 and I am 40, getting kind of old for our first child, we
do not want to waste any more time now that we have finally found each
other. We have been togethor for 5 years, married for 5 months.

As a loving husband, I am sending out this plea as I dearly want to
help my wife have her dream [and mine] of having our baby. After 2
previous ectopic pregnancies and the pain of losing babies and
surgeries it is once again out of her reach. We were told that IVF
was an ideal option now and we have a great chance of success.

We are short approximately $3000 at the moment and it is my hope [and
maybe a long shot] that some people could find it in their hearts to
help us come up with the money. Imagine if you have children, what it
might be like not to be able to conceive naturally without danger to
your life and the prospect of not being able to have any children just
because you are short of money. Even just a couple of dollars will
all add up. We would be happy to provide updates of our progress to
anyone who might like to know. Just click on the button below to
donate and don't forget to leave your email address if you would like
us to give you updates of our baby making.

This link takes you to our paypal donation setup
https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/websc...harset=UTF%2d8

or our webpage

http://make.our.baby.googlepages.com/home

Thanks
Steve

PS we met on the internet 5 years ago, that was why we thought we
would turn to the internet for help as we are all out of ideas now

wrote:
How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

For most people....nothing....

For my beautiful wife and I it is going to cost thousands ...more than
we have.

We need IVF and have some money saved but it costs $5500 just for one
IVF cycle. We now find that my wife needs to have surgery on her
remaining fallopian tube to remove it [salpingectomy] or clamp it as
it is damaged beyond repair and might add complications to the IVF....
before we can begin. Our health care does not cover us for this 'pre-
existing condition'.

Have you considered adoption in case you can not raise the money? You could
give a child loving parents.

We find ourselves in distress and a position of desperation. We want
a baby to complete our family, but we have a brick wall that keeps
hitting us and we can't come up with enough money in time for the
surgery. Surgery is November 30, the doctor says we can start IVF
straight after if it all goes smoothly, otherwise a small wait until
her body settles. If we cannot come up with the money by then we will
need to wait another year to even have the surgery let alone IVF
cycles.

My wife is 35 and I am 40, getting kind of old for our first child, we
do not want to waste any more time now that we have finally found each
other. We have been togethor for 5 years, married for 5 months.

As a loving husband, I am sending out this plea as I dearly want to
help my wife have her dream [and mine] of having our baby. After 2
previous ectopic pregnancies and the pain of losing babies and
surgeries it is once again out of her reach. We were told that IVF
was an ideal option now and we have a great chance of success.

We are short approximately $3000 at the moment and it is my hope [and
maybe a long shot] that some people could find it in their hearts to
help us come up with the money. Imagine if you have children, what it
might be like not to be able to conceive naturally without danger to
your life and the prospect of not being able to have any children just
because you are short of money. Even just a couple of dollars will
all add up. We would be happy to provide updates of our progress to
anyone who might like to know. Just click on the button below to
donate and don't forget to leave your email address if you would like
us to give you updates of our baby making.

This link takes you to our paypal donation setup
https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/websc...harset=UTF%2d8

or our webpage

http://make.our.baby.googlepages.com/home

Thanks
Steve

PS we met on the internet 5 years ago, that was why we thought we
would turn to the internet for help as we are all out of ideas now

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"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in
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wrote:
How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

For most people....nothing....

For my beautiful wife and I it is going to cost thousands
...more than we have.

We need IVF and have some money saved but it costs $5500
just for one IVF cycle. We now find that my wife needs to
have surgery on her remaining fallopian tube to remove it
[salpingectomy] or clamp it as it is damaged beyond repair
and might add complications to the IVF.... before we can
begin. Our health care does not cover us for this 'pre-
existing condition'.

Have you considered adoption in case you can not raise the
money? You could give a child loving parents.

if they can't save up for this, what makes you think they can
afford to adopt?
lee

enigma wrote:
How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
Have you considered adoption in case you can not raise the
money? You could give a child loving parents.

if they can't save up for this, what makes you think they can
afford to adopt?
lee
I wasn't aware it costed a lot of money to adopt. I thought you paid a lawyer
$1,500.00 to take care of the paperwork, and the judge signed off on the
order. Sorry, I just thought that would have been an option. That's messed up
though. All of the parentless children out there, and they want to charge an
arm and a leg to people who could provide love,care, and a good home to them.

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"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in message
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enigma wrote:
How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
Have you considered adoption in case you can not raise the
money? You could give a child loving parents.

if they can't save up for this, what makes you think they can
afford to adopt?
lee
I wasn't aware it costed a lot of money to adopt. I thought you paid a
lawyer
$1,500.00 to take care of the paperwork, and the judge signed off on the
order. Sorry, I just thought that would have been an option. That's messed
up
though. All of the parentless children out there, and they want to charge
an
arm and a leg to people who could provide love,care, and a good home to
them.


Remember that "all the parentless children" available for adoption tend to
be older, non-white, part of a sibling group, or have special needs, while
most people looking to adopt want healthy white newborns.

deja.blues wrote:
How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
arm and a leg to people who could provide love,care, and a good home to
them.

Remember that "all the parentless children" available for adoption tend to
be older, non-white, part of a sibling group, or have special needs, while
most people looking to adopt want healthy white newborns.

I don't think that's true. When people want to be parents, their love in not
measured by the color of a child's skin.

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"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in
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deja.blues wrote:
How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
arm and a leg to people who could provide love,care, and
a good home to them.

Remember that "all the parentless children" available for
adoption tend to be older, non-white, part of a sibling
group, or have special needs, while most people looking to
adopt want healthy white newborns.

I don't think that's true. When people want to be parents,
their love in not measured by the color of a child's skin.

then why did it take 7 years for a set of autistic twins to
be adopted (and they're white, blond & green eyed. so cute!).
why are there sibling groups on thr NY adoption list that have
been there for 5 or more years, even when none of the kids has
a disability, but they're hispanic or partly black?
why are there teens waiting for homes?
i really want to find a big enough house in NY so i can get a
sibling group. kids shouldn't be separated from their brothers
or sisters.
lee

enigma wrote:
How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
I don't think that's true. When people want to be parents,
their love in not measured by the color of a child's skin.

then why did it take 7 years for a set of autistic twins to
be adopted (and they're white, blond & green eyed. so cute!).
why are there sibling groups on thr NY adoption list that have
been there for 5 or more years, even when none of the kids has
a disability, but they're hispanic or partly black?
why are there teens waiting for homes?
i really want to find a big enough house in NY so i can get a
sibling group. kids shouldn't be separated from their brothers
or sisters.
lee
I am not saying that all of the potential adopters don't want healthy, white
babies. I am talking about people who really want to be parents. Those are
the people that don't see the color of the child, they just see a child.

My sister-in-law is one of those people that wanted to be a parent. She
adopted a little black boy, and a mixed girl. My nephew is 11 (he was 8 when
she brought him home) and my niece is 14 (she was 11).

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On Oct 25, 5:54 am, wrote:
How much do you think it costs to make a baby?

For most people....nothing....

For my beautiful wife and I it is going to cost thousands ...more than
we have.

We need IVF and have some money saved but it costs $5500 just for one
IVF cycle. We now find that my wife needs to have surgery on her
remaining fallopian tube to remove it [salpingectomy] or clamp it as
it is damaged beyond repair and might add complications to the IVF....
before we can begin. Our health care does not cover us for this 'pre-
existing condition'.

We find ourselves in distress and a position of desperation. We want
a baby to complete our family, but we have a brick wall that keeps
hitting us and we can't come up with enough money in time for the
surgery. Surgery is November 30, the doctor says we can start IVF
straight after if it all goes smoothly, otherwise a small wait until
her body settles. If we cannot come up with the money by then we will
need to wait another year to even have the surgery let alone IVF
cycles.

My wife is 35 and I am 40, getting kind of old for our first child, we
do not want to waste any more time now that we have finally found each
other. We have been togethor for 5 years, married for 5 months.

As a loving husband, I am sending out this plea as I dearly want to
help my wife have her dream [and mine] of having our baby. After 2
previous ectopic pregnancies and the pain of losing babies and
surgeries it is once again out of her reach. We were told that IVF
was an ideal option now and we have a great chance of success.

We are short approximately $3000 at the moment and it is my hope [and
maybe a long shot] that some people could find it in their hearts to
help us come up with the money. Imagine if you have children, what it
might be like not to be able to conceive naturally without danger to
your life and the prospect of not being able to have any children just
because you are short of money. Even just a couple of dollars will
all add up. We would be happy to provide updates of our progress to
anyone who might like to know. Just click on the button below to
donate and don't forget to leave your email address if you would like
us to give you updates of our baby making.

This link takes you to our paypal donation setuphttps://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_xclick&business=make%2eour...

or our webpage

http://make.our.baby.googlepages.com/home

Thanks
Steve

PS we met on the internet 5 years ago, that was why we thought we
would turn to the internet for help as we are all out of ideas now

I think you should adopt. There are so many kids without parents who
need loving parents who will love and care for them.

Joyangel123
http://gatesofrighteousness.blogspot.com

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I think you should adopt. There are so many kids without parents who
need loving parents who will love and care for them.

Joyangel123
http://gatesofrighteousness.blogspot.com


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