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instant single parent of my 18 year old son!
On Jul 1, 12:37?pm, "R. Steve Walz" wrote:
wrote: But as another adult, you have the right to evict him, but NOT the right to violate his his human rights, OR "quiet enjoyment of the premises" as long as you permit him to live there, and like any other adult it would require 30 days written notice and maybe a formal notice to quit the premises taken out at the courthouse to remove him legally. ~ Well, that shows clearly see you must be out of your mind. I would never EVER run him out of my apt. He has been in America for less than two months, that would be total abuse! I would never do that to him since even as difficult as he is he still doesn't have a true sense of reality in America ~ Also since you like "legal talks" let me tell you that the legalities and complexity of bringin your children from overseas are complicated by a variety of legal issues as well. For example, he may not become a burden of any kind till he becomes a citizen (in at least three years) if he does uncle Sam expediently sends the bill to you. So it is not so easy legally either ~ To teach someone to walk, you let them walk. If we tried to teach children to walk in detail by regimen, they might be ONLY halfway good at it by the time they were ten!! Experience is always the best teacher. ~ I do agree with you on that count, but still there is still "parenting" (even in a purely animal) and societal sense and there is something namely called love ~ lbrtchx ------------------ I am failing to see why you think he's a problem then, if you love him so much. Steve- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - I only want to say this, your son is new to this country? I feel that in it self should give him reason to rebel! New sourroundings new country new customs new people!!! What alot to consider! This young adult has to be treated as if he is 10 and not 18 at this time, he is lost in a new place and with someone he knows only as his father,but how long were you and he seperated? That to must be taken in to consideration as well, it is like he is testing the waters so to speak and needs to know the limits in which you will let him balance! This is alot for one to take in and deal with all at once and now you wish he get off his butt and get a job to pay his way? Oh,boy alot you expect from him in such a short time!! I can say if you take the time to talk to him as if you are a concerned parent/friend and listen to what he likes to do and watch maybe you can put him in a direction to help get a job started. You can always ask the neighbor or a friend at your job for help and see where that gets you. I would reconsider the eviction thing though because he came here for a reason from another place and is lost and confussed! These things I say are only a opinion. You can take it or leave it. Thanks for reading it! |
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