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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
Well, I posted my 32 week update and then at 32 weeks 5 days my
membranes ruptured and I found myself in labor and delivery. Unfortunately, the baby was not doing well and our only option was to deliver our baby. We went in on Saturday night (after my waters leaking from early on Saturday morning, but I didn't realize what it was. I just thought it was urine and that I was having an impossible time of making it to the bathroom -- though I leaked for no reason -- no coughing or whatnot to bring it on, it was just constant.). So, the doctor at the hospital kind of yelled at me a little, while my regular doctor (who is still on vacation) never once mentioned the possibility of a "leak" or anything to me at any of my appointments. I still had a lot of amniotic fluid at this point so we were hopeful that we'd be able to make it a few days before delivering. Unfortunately, I started losing the rest of the fluid very quickly after that point. It was a shock to be told that we'd be having our baby now and it was the scariest most horrible thing we've ever had to go through. It became clear very early on that our baby was not doing well anymore and that it was better for her to be born than to stay inside any longer. We made it to Tuesday morning and started the induction process. I very much wanted a vaginal birth. More than just about anything, except, of course, my baby being born OK. The nurse did an US to make sure she was in the right position and she was so we started the pitocin. The doctor came in to check my cervix and I cried because it hurt so much and because I desperately did not want to be having my baby. That all started at about seven a.m. I was checked again at a little before three p.m. and I was 1cm and my cervix was soft. I hadn't been even a "fingertip" dilated during the first check so I felt like I was making progress even if it was slow. A little after six p.m. (if I'm remembering the time right) I was checked again. The nurse said I was still only 1cm dilated but that the baby felt higher up. This was very hard to hear. Then, she said the doctor wanted to check for herself. So, I was not only upset about not making any progress and that the baby somehow moved up higher, but I was dreading being checked again. The doctor came in and did the exam and proclaimed, "I feel an eye!" and told us that the baby was face down and that we wouldn't be able to deliver vaginally because she just wouldn't come down in that position. I wanted more than anything to not have a c-section. I wanted to deliver my baby and at least know that I did that and gave her the best start I possibly could. We called everyone to let them know what was going on and then I cried. A lot. We were told that the NICU was full and that our baby would have to go to a different hospital. And because of my c-section I would not be able to see my baby until I was released from the hospital four days later. I could not stop crying. When I think about it now it makes me so very sad. I'm taken back for the spinal where the doctor could not get the right spot and it was atleast a half hour of pure hell. With two nurses and one doctor walking out of the OR because they couldn't stand being in there and seeing me go through the pain anymore. (Though, I just sat there and apologized for having an easy back to stick.) While this was going on someone from the NICU came in and told me that they had made room for my baby and I cried yet again. Finally, it was time for the baby to come. She ended up being breech. I have no idea how it happened as she had been head down for atleast two months without moving and even the US that morning showed her in the perfect position. She must have moved at the very last minute. At 33 weeks and 1 day our little girl entered the world. My husband got to see her the very second she was born and got to stay with her the whole time. I told him that he was to never leave her side, no matter what happened and he didn't. There was a comment made that there was no more amniotic fluid left, and honestly I don't see how there could have been. She's completely perfect. That's all I really have to say. She has her father's nose and she is so tiny. She was 4 pounds and 9 ounces big, and almost 17 inches long. Though, she now weighs about 4 pounds. She's a long baby, but so tiny. She has no fat on her and her sweet little arms and legs are so strong. She can't keep an IV in as she pulls them all out. She has a very big temper and will let you know when she is not happy. It's been very hard. She is in the NICU and we don't live close to the hospital. I was just released on Saturday afternoon and I feel so sad to not have her with me. I feel very empty without her. The doctors give her an estimate of three to four weeks in the NICU. Though, it is only a guess. She is doing better than expected. The tests they ran on her lungs after my water broke showed lots of negative things, and we were warned that she would not do well. Though, she hasn't needed any help with her breathing at all. I know this was long. I surely wasn't expecting to have my baby now. We were supposed to have a full two months left. It breaks my heart to be without her. Missy -- Baby Boo Novemeber 7th, 2006 |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
It's been very hard. She is in the NICU and we don't live close to the hospital. I was just released on Saturday afternoon and I feel so sad to not have her with me. I feel very empty without her. The doctors give her an estimate of three to four weeks in the NICU. Though, it is only a guess. She is doing better than expected. The tests they ran on her lungs after my water broke showed lots of negative things, and we were warned that she would not do well. Though, she hasn't needed any help with her breathing at all. Missy, I'm so sorry you are going through this. It must be very hard to be separated from your baby. One of the best things you can do for her right now is to pump and give her your milk. She is likely to do better and get out sooner. A friend had a 2nd trimester baby who was in NICU for quite a while. She pumped every 2 hours and ended up with a normal breastfeeding relationship after her baby was finally home. The child is now 8 and is 1 year ahead in school. Is there a Ronald McDonald house you can stay in at least part of the time that is nearer? --Betsy |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
Oh Missy I am so sorry to hear about your news but look on the bright side
of the fact that your little baby is doing well and I'll pray that she'll continue to do so. I know the pain of not being with your baby but you'll be reunited with her very soon i'm sure. Keep us all updated and stay strong... April "Missy" wrote in message ups.com... Well, I posted my 32 week update and then at 32 weeks 5 days my membranes ruptured and I found myself in labor and delivery. Unfortunately, the baby was not doing well and our only option was to deliver our baby. We went in on Saturday night (after my waters leaking from early on Saturday morning, but I didn't realize what it was. I just thought it was urine and that I was having an impossible time of making it to the bathroom -- though I leaked for no reason -- no coughing or whatnot to bring it on, it was just constant.). So, the doctor at the hospital kind of yelled at me a little, while my regular doctor (who is still on vacation) never once mentioned the possibility of a "leak" or anything to me at any of my appointments. I still had a lot of amniotic fluid at this point so we were hopeful that we'd be able to make it a few days before delivering. Unfortunately, I started losing the rest of the fluid very quickly after that point. It was a shock to be told that we'd be having our baby now and it was the scariest most horrible thing we've ever had to go through. It became clear very early on that our baby was not doing well anymore and that it was better for her to be born than to stay inside any longer. We made it to Tuesday morning and started the induction process. I very much wanted a vaginal birth. More than just about anything, except, of course, my baby being born OK. The nurse did an US to make sure she was in the right position and she was so we started the pitocin. The doctor came in to check my cervix and I cried because it hurt so much and because I desperately did not want to be having my baby. That all started at about seven a.m. I was checked again at a little before three p.m. and I was 1cm and my cervix was soft. I hadn't been even a "fingertip" dilated during the first check so I felt like I was making progress even if it was slow. A little after six p.m. (if I'm remembering the time right) I was checked again. The nurse said I was still only 1cm dilated but that the baby felt higher up. This was very hard to hear. Then, she said the doctor wanted to check for herself. So, I was not only upset about not making any progress and that the baby somehow moved up higher, but I was dreading being checked again. The doctor came in and did the exam and proclaimed, "I feel an eye!" and told us that the baby was face down and that we wouldn't be able to deliver vaginally because she just wouldn't come down in that position. I wanted more than anything to not have a c-section. I wanted to deliver my baby and at least know that I did that and gave her the best start I possibly could. We called everyone to let them know what was going on and then I cried. A lot. We were told that the NICU was full and that our baby would have to go to a different hospital. And because of my c-section I would not be able to see my baby until I was released from the hospital four days later. I could not stop crying. When I think about it now it makes me so very sad. I'm taken back for the spinal where the doctor could not get the right spot and it was atleast a half hour of pure hell. With two nurses and one doctor walking out of the OR because they couldn't stand being in there and seeing me go through the pain anymore. (Though, I just sat there and apologized for having an easy back to stick.) While this was going on someone from the NICU came in and told me that they had made room for my baby and I cried yet again. Finally, it was time for the baby to come. She ended up being breech. I have no idea how it happened as she had been head down for atleast two months without moving and even the US that morning showed her in the perfect position. She must have moved at the very last minute. At 33 weeks and 1 day our little girl entered the world. My husband got to see her the very second she was born and got to stay with her the whole time. I told him that he was to never leave her side, no matter what happened and he didn't. There was a comment made that there was no more amniotic fluid left, and honestly I don't see how there could have been. She's completely perfect. That's all I really have to say. She has her father's nose and she is so tiny. She was 4 pounds and 9 ounces big, and almost 17 inches long. Though, she now weighs about 4 pounds. She's a long baby, but so tiny. She has no fat on her and her sweet little arms and legs are so strong. She can't keep an IV in as she pulls them all out. She has a very big temper and will let you know when she is not happy. It's been very hard. She is in the NICU and we don't live close to the hospital. I was just released on Saturday afternoon and I feel so sad to not have her with me. I feel very empty without her. The doctors give her an estimate of three to four weeks in the NICU. Though, it is only a guess. She is doing better than expected. The tests they ran on her lungs after my water broke showed lots of negative things, and we were warned that she would not do well. Though, she hasn't needed any help with her breathing at all. I know this was long. I surely wasn't expecting to have my baby now. We were supposed to have a full two months left. It breaks my heart to be without her. Missy -- Baby Boo Novemeber 7th, 2006 |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
Missy wrote:
SNIP I know this was long. I surely wasn't expecting to have my baby now. We were supposed to have a full two months left. It breaks my heart to be without her. Missy -- Baby Boo Novemeber 7th, 2006 Hugs Missy. You and the doctors did everything you could, and the fact of the matter is that the outcome was still good. You have a live baby. I'm so sorry that she came early, but glad that she is being taken care of. Hugs to you and Baby Boo. -- Jamie Earth Angels: Taylor Marlys, 1/3/03 Addison Grace, 9/30/04 Check out the family! -- www.MyFamily.com, User ID: Clarkguest1, Password: Guest Become a member for free - go to Add Member to set up your own User ID and Password |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
oh Missy, I'm so sorry, it must be heartbreaking, I thought you might be
interested in this story http://www.homebirth.org.uk/leighann.htm, about a baby born face presentation, it doesn't apply to you as your little one was flipping about all over the place, which is a whole different ball game. Did you really not see your baby until you were discharged from hospital? That is shocking, I can't believe that any hospital in a civilised country would do that to it's new mums, and even if no one was prepared to push you in a wheelchair, after a couple of days, you would have been able to walk to him yourself. Congratulations Anne |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
Anne Rogers wrote:
Did you really not see your baby until you were discharged from hospital? That is shocking, I can't believe that any hospital in a civilised country would do that to it's new mums, and even if no one was prepared to push you in a wheelchair, after a couple of days, you would have been able to walk to him yourself. I believe she said the baby was in a different hospital. Best wishes, Ericka |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
Anne Rogers wrote:
oh Missy, I'm so sorry, it must be heartbreaking, I thought you might be interested in this story http://www.homebirth.org.uk/leighann.htm, about a baby born face presentation, it doesn't apply to you as your little one was flipping about all over the place, which is a whole different ball game. Did you really not see your baby until you were discharged from hospital? That is shocking, I can't believe that any hospital in a civilised country would do that to it's new mums, and even if no one was prepared to push you in a wheelchair, after a couple of days, you would have been able to walk to him yourself. She never said when she saw the baby. I think originally, before they made room for her baby in the NICU of the hospital she delivered at, they were going to move the baby to another hospital NICU, so in that case, she wouldn't have been able to see the baby until she was discharged from the hospital she was at, to go to the hospital the baby was at. -- Jamie Earth Angels: Taylor Marlys, 1/3/03 Addison Grace, 9/30/04 Check out the family! -- www.MyFamily.com, User ID: Clarkguest1, Password: Guest Become a member for free - go to Add Member to set up your own User ID and Password |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
Ericka Kammerer wrote:
Anne Rogers wrote: Did you really not see your baby until you were discharged from hospital? That is shocking, I can't believe that any hospital in a civilised country would do that to it's new mums, and even if no one was prepared to push you in a wheelchair, after a couple of days, you would have been able to walk to him yourself. I believe she said the baby was in a different hospital. Best wishes, Ericka No, in the end, they found a space for her baby in the NICU of the hospital she delivered at. -- Jamie Earth Angels: Taylor Marlys, 1/3/03 Addison Grace, 9/30/04 Check out the family! -- www.MyFamily.com, User ID: Clarkguest1, Password: Guest Become a member for free - go to Add Member to set up your own User ID and Password |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
Did you really not see your baby until you were discharged from hospital? That is shocking, I can't believe that any hospital in a civilised country would do that to it's new mums, and even if no one was prepared to push you in a wheelchair, after a couple of days, you would have been able to walk to him yourself. I believe she said the baby was in a different hospital. oh, sorry, missed that, but I guess it's food for thought, that if it's at all possible, choose a hospital that has a nicu, or that if it doesn't, that transfer of both mum and baby would be a possibility. Cheers Anne |
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32/33 Week Update with birth story - VERY LONG
"Missy" wrote in message ups.com... Well, I posted my 32 week update and then at 32 weeks 5 days my membranes ruptured and I found myself in labor and delivery. Unfortunately, the baby was not doing well and our only option was to deliver our baby. We went in on Saturday night (after my waters leaking from early on Saturday morning, but I didn't realize what it was. I just thought it was urine and that I was having an impossible time of making it to the bathroom -- though I leaked for no reason -- no coughing or whatnot to bring it on, it was just constant.). So, the doctor at the hospital kind of yelled at me a little, while my regular doctor (who is still on vacation) never once mentioned the possibility of a "leak" or anything to me at any of my appointments. I still had a lot of amniotic fluid at this point so we were hopeful that we'd be able to make it a few days before delivering. Unfortunately, I started losing the rest of the fluid very quickly after that point. It was a shock to be told that we'd be having our baby now and it was the scariest most horrible thing we've ever had to go through. It became clear very early on that our baby was not doing well anymore and that it was better for her to be born than to stay inside any longer. We made it to Tuesday morning and started the induction process. I very much wanted a vaginal birth. More than just about anything, except, of course, my baby being born OK. The nurse did an US to make sure she was in the right position and she was so we started the pitocin. The doctor came in to check my cervix and I cried because it hurt so much and because I desperately did not want to be having my baby. That all started at about seven a.m. I was checked again at a little before three p.m. and I was 1cm and my cervix was soft. I hadn't been even a "fingertip" dilated during the first check so I felt like I was making progress even if it was slow. A little after six p.m. (if I'm remembering the time right) I was checked again. The nurse said I was still only 1cm dilated but that the baby felt higher up. This was very hard to hear. Then, she said the doctor wanted to check for herself. So, I was not only upset about not making any progress and that the baby somehow moved up higher, but I was dreading being checked again. The doctor came in and did the exam and proclaimed, "I feel an eye!" and told us that the baby was face down and that we wouldn't be able to deliver vaginally because she just wouldn't come down in that position. I wanted more than anything to not have a c-section. I wanted to deliver my baby and at least know that I did that and gave her the best start I possibly could. We called everyone to let them know what was going on and then I cried. A lot. We were told that the NICU was full and that our baby would have to go to a different hospital. And because of my c-section I would not be able to see my baby until I was released from the hospital four days later. I could not stop crying. When I think about it now it makes me so very sad. I'm taken back for the spinal where the doctor could not get the right spot and it was atleast a half hour of pure hell. With two nurses and one doctor walking out of the OR because they couldn't stand being in there and seeing me go through the pain anymore. (Though, I just sat there and apologized for having an easy back to stick.) While this was going on someone from the NICU came in and told me that they had made room for my baby and I cried yet again. Finally, it was time for the baby to come. She ended up being breech. I have no idea how it happened as she had been head down for atleast two months without moving and even the US that morning showed her in the perfect position. She must have moved at the very last minute. At 33 weeks and 1 day our little girl entered the world. My husband got to see her the very second she was born and got to stay with her the whole time. I told him that he was to never leave her side, no matter what happened and he didn't. There was a comment made that there was no more amniotic fluid left, and honestly I don't see how there could have been. She's completely perfect. That's all I really have to say. She has her father's nose and she is so tiny. She was 4 pounds and 9 ounces big, and almost 17 inches long. Though, she now weighs about 4 pounds. She's a long baby, but so tiny. She has no fat on her and her sweet little arms and legs are so strong. She can't keep an IV in as she pulls them all out. She has a very big temper and will let you know when she is not happy. It's been very hard. She is in the NICU and we don't live close to the hospital. I was just released on Saturday afternoon and I feel so sad to not have her with me. I feel very empty without her. The doctors give her an estimate of three to four weeks in the NICU. Though, it is only a guess. She is doing better than expected. The tests they ran on her lungs after my water broke showed lots of negative things, and we were warned that she would not do well. Though, she hasn't needed any help with her breathing at all. I know this was long. I surely wasn't expecting to have my baby now. We were supposed to have a full two months left. It breaks my heart to be without her. Missy -- Baby Boo Novemeber 7th, 2006 congratulations on becoming a mum and welcome to your darling baby. I am so sorry for you that everything is off to such an awful start, try to be strong and it will get better. Modern miracles of medicine and all that. regards chris in oz |
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