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-L. wrote: Cathy Weeks wrote: -L. wrote: I think it's silly and incidental enough not to make a fuss whether or not you can have one. I mean, seriously. If that's all you have to worry about, you've got it easy. "Oh woe is me! I can't birth at home! Whaaaa!!!!!" Please - spare me. Spare you? Well, you *did* jump into the conversation. Chick asked for opinions - I gave mine. If you don't like the discussion then why did you take part? Chick askedfor opinions - I gave mine. It's an open, unmoderated forum. Just because the topic causes you pain It doesn't cause me pain - au contraire. I'll take my kidlets clean, well fed and dressed in Carter's over ****ting out a football anyday, LOL... due to your own situation, doesn't mean it should be discussed at all, or that people should strive to make their situation better. Why do you think I said it shouldn't be discussed? I merely said it's a trivial problem. I don't believe any of it - you (generic) can make stats say what you want. I did it for years. Uh, ok. Your point is what? That anyone can make the stats say whatever they want? Doesn't that work borth ways? The hospitals (and you) can make it look dangerous (even if it's not?). Or are you just not willing to accept anything that doesn't jibe with your pre-conceived notions? Look - it's not rocket science. You have a major complication and a widwife can't do diddly **** to help you or your baby. Sigh... you really don't get it do you? YES there are sometimes complications that might end up with a dead baby or mother. FORTUNATELY those are very, very, rare. And in the hospital you have OTHER RISKS, and they sometimes end up with a dead baby or mother. MOST OF THE TIME, the complications that occur, happen in plenty of time to get to the hospital, where trained specialists can be found. Home births do not wind up with lots of dead babies. It's not particularly risky. And at home, dearie, you are at almost NO risk of iatongenic infections as you ARE in the hospital. No, YOU go Google Megan What's-her-name too whose baby came out DEAD at home. Ah, I'm very familiar with her story. Maybe you aren't? Her baby would have died at the hospital, too. He was born with an underdeveloped repiratory system, and even with oxygen, and all the trained specialists at the hospital couldn't revive him. They assured her, that the homebirth made zero difference in the outcome. She went on to have another baby, at home. And why are you against looking up Sophie McGehee's story? How she felt her entire c-section? Does that risk not exist in your book? Hospitals aren't panaceas for birth. They do not save all babies no matter what. Well no ****, Sherlock. But if your baby has a major neurological problem, what kind of diagnostic equipment do you have at home? Is your husband a neurosurgeon or a neonatal specialist? That's just one example. Well, no he's not. But does my husband carry germs that are likely to give my baby an illness the way a doctor would? Nope. Iatrogenic infections ARE a real risk in the hospital and are not at home. I very recently met a baby whose scalp was cut so badly during his c-section birth that it required stitches. Fortunately, it was in his hair, so it will not be permanantly disfiguring. And at home he may have died in the birth canal. And you know this how? Maybe at home, his birth wouldn't have required a c-section in the first place. We don't know his story, or why he was born by c-section. And I'll tell you a little secret. When complications occur, midwives advise us to go to the hospital. Women generally don't stay home, when our midwife says "I think you and your baby are in danger. We need to get to the hospital asap." nope. Hospitals have a ton of trained specialists to call upon should a problem arrive. You have yourself, your kiddie pool, a granola-crunching midwife who fancies herself a doctor and your husband who probably couldn't find the clitoris without a map. Those tons of specialists can't do diddly squat much of the time. They are unnecessary most of the time. And as midwives are direct competitors to doctors and hospitals, they WANT you to rely on them. No, I don't think you do. You see, home birth is CHEAPER than hospital birth. In 2001, when I had my daughter, the cost of my home birth was $3850 (normally only $3500, but I had a non-stress test at one point). Your average hospital birth costed $7000, and considerably more for C-sections - beginning at $10,000. Midwives have a c-section rate of 10% or less, and many hospitals have c-section rates approaching 40% - the national average is now over 25%. You can do the math if you wish. It would still require funding another level of birth that is unnecessary. So, you want all births to cost $7000 minimum, instead encouraging the low-risk births to cost $3500 instead? One of my midwives did her thesis on how homebirth saves money for the insurance industry (her practice alone had millions of dollars for the insurance industry). LOL...especially if it isn't covered. Mine was covered at 100%. Most insurance companies covered them at 80%. At least according to them. And in low-income neighborhoods, where midwives practice (and have the same good outcomes as doctors despite lack of prenatal care) they save the taxpayers lots of money too. Ditto above. So the taxpayers shouldn't pay less money for similar outcomes? So it's cheaper, often safer, and gives a better level of care. Midwives usually spot complications earlier in the process than do doctors, and give more choices. But, I guess nobody ought to have more and even better, choices. I see. I don't want to pay for your quackery. No one asked you to. So, let me ask you this... why should *I* pay for *your* quackery? Why should my tax dollars and insurance monies go toward covering a MORE expensive method of care that has NOT been proven safer for low-risk pregancies? And, given that you think it's not rocket science, why don't you back it up? Provide us with data. I'd be happy to provide you with links, but you said you'd never believe any of them. shrug Cathy Weeks |
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Ericka Kammerer wrote:
wrote: I hope most midwives *are* aware that a bit of elevated bp and a touch of protein mean the pregnancy has turned very high risk indeed, that they are officially out of their league, and that a MFM needs to be involved in oversight of the rest of the pregnancy. I think that statement is a bit strong. While slightly elevated BP and trace protein can be an indication of trouble, it can also be benign. I think appropriate tests and careful monitoring are essential, but I don't think a transfer of care is required until and unless tests or monitoring show that there actually *is* pre-eclampsia (or at least significant movement in that direction). I don't think care necessarily needs to be transfered, but I think the MFM should be called in for oversight according to the NIH Working Group guidelines and that testing should follow those recommendations. -- C |
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Ericka Kammerer wrote:
wrote: Within a few years everyone we send to midwife care in first world countries, i.e. 95% of the population, is going to have a stamp on her chart reading "sFlt-1/sEng PASSED" so it probably doesn't matter all that much. Isn't it so exciting all the progress they're making on this front? To make this kind of progress on one of the leading killers is just amazing in my book. It is completely freaking cool. :-) -- C |
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-L. wrote: Chookie wrote: In article . com, "-L." wrote: I think it's silly and incidental enough not to make a fuss whether or not you can have one. I mean, seriously. If that's all you have to worry about, you've got it easy. "Oh woe is me! I can't birth at home! Whaaaa!!!!!" Please - spare me. Well, you have a baby now. Why are you still whingeing about infertility? "Oh woe is me! I can't have a baby myself! Whaaaa!!!!!" Please - spare me. That's not what I said at all. I simply have little sympathy for people for whom this is a major issue in their lives. Ok... you did mention your status as a primary infertile, which made it SOUND like you were whining. But either way - accept for a moment that not everyone agrees with you about the "safety" of all hospital births. Stop thinking of us as nutcakes, and just accept it for a moment. I don't like hospitals. I don't like how they smell, and I don't like having the janitor outside my room while I'm stalking around naked. And I don't like having nurse after nurse whom I don't know, come in and stick her fingers in my vagina every hour (another practice that has been shown to increase the chances of infection). And then, when my legs are spreadeagled, I'm in pain, and in THE MOST vulnerable situation in my life, and some doctor, whom I've never met comes in and catches my baby for me, and before that decides to cut my vagina (episiotomies are considered the most common unnecessary surgery in america, and the ACOG now recommends against their routine use, not that the OBs actually go by their recommendations) whether *I* like it or not (that happened to my stepson's mom, and my husband had nightmares about that for years). So your "little sympathy" seems incredibly... well wierd. It's like saying that I shouldn't have the choice of what doctor to go to, what dentist, what school my child attends. Where to give birth is similar. I think hospitals are GREAT place to go when you are sick, or when you do have a complicated birth, or if you are dying. But birth? I wasn't sick. Cathy Weeks |
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No, YOU go Google Megan What's-her-name too whose baby came out DEAD at
home. then go look at her website and her subsequent birth decisions, she believes homebirth was the right thing, she fears that had she been in hospital, due to a long 2nd stage, she may well have had a c-section and instead of the brief hours she had with her son whilst she was well, she'd have had them in pain post op, she may have also been left blaming herself as we know there is greater incidence of respiratory problems following c-section, it's possible she may have been left wondering if a vaginal birth would have given him the stimulation he needed to breath. She had her 2nd son at home 20ish months later. What I understood was that there was only the slimest of chances that Seoras would have survived if born in hospital, he was born alive, but failed to take a breath, even instant intubation may not have been able to trigger that reflex, essentially he had an undetectable, but fatal birth defect. Cheers Anne |
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Cathy Weeks wrote: Sigh... you really don't get it do you? No, I just don't buy your argument. YES there are sometimes complications that might end up with a dead baby or mother. FORTUNATELY those are very, very, rare. It only takes once. And in the hospital you have OTHER RISKS, and they sometimes end up with a dead baby or mother. MOST OF THE TIME, the complications that occur, happen in plenty of time to get to the hospital, where trained specialists can be found. You don't know that. You have no idea whether or not you can get to the hospital in time or not. Home births do not wind up with lots of dead babies. It's not particularly risky. And at home, dearie, you are at almost NO risk of iatongenic infections as you ARE in the hospital. ....which are extremely rare as well. You can't have it both ways. No, YOU go Google Megan What's-her-name too whose baby came out DEAD at home. Ah, I'm very familiar with her story. Maybe you aren't? Her baby would have died at the hospital, too. She doesn't know that. He never had the chance. He was born with an underdeveloped repiratory system, and even with oxygen, and all the trained specialists at the hospital couldn't revive him. By that time he was already dead. They assured her, that the homebirth made zero difference in the outcome. Who assured her? The doctor that did the necropsy? What the hell do you think they would tell her? "You killed your baby, Dumbass?" Of course they are going to tell her not to blame herself. ? She went on to have another baby, at home. She still has a dead baby. And why are you against looking up Sophie McGehee's story? Why do you think I'm "against" looking it up? How she felt her entire c-section? Does that risk not exist in your book? I don't have time nor do I care. One story does not a case make. I merely threw out Megan to you as a rebuttal. Hospitals aren't panaceas for birth. They do not save all babies no matter what. Well no ****, Sherlock. But if your baby has a major neurological problem, what kind of diagnostic equipment do you have at home? Is your husband a neurosurgeon or a neonatal specialist? That's just one example. Well, no he's not. But does my husband carry germs that are likely to give my baby an illness the way a doctor would? Nope. Iatrogenic infections ARE a real risk in the hospital and are not at home. Oh, please! Doctors scrub *way* better than any midwife or layman could. An acquired infection is most likely acquired through the air - not from a doctor's hands. An acquired infection can happen anywhere. Don't be stupid. Of course sick people are going to acquire infections in hospials - they are immunocompromised to begin with, and MORE sick people reside in hospitals than at home. If you had equal numbers of births at home as in hospitals the acquired infection rate would probably be similar. The bacterial infection you cited - P. aeruginosa is a prime example. It's mainly seen in cystic fibrosis patients - presenting as pneumonia. I very recently met a baby whose scalp was cut so badly during his c-section birth that it required stitches. Fortunately, it was in his hair, so it will not be permanantly disfiguring. And at home he may have died in the birth canal. And you know this how? Maybe at home, his birth wouldn't have required a c-section in the first place. We don't know his story, or why he was born by c-section. Exactly. So you can't use that as an example - you have no idea of whether or not a home birth attempt would not have had the same outcome. At least in the hospital there are medical staff tained in MANY SPECIALTIES available to help you. And I'll tell you a little secret. When complications occur, midwives advise us to go to the hospital. Women generally don't stay home, when our midwife says "I think you and your baby are in danger. We need to get to the hospital asap." And it may be too late. Sometimes all you have are minutes. No thanks - not a risk I would take with my life or my kid's life. nope. Hospitals have a ton of trained specialists to call upon should a problem arrive. You have yourself, your kiddie pool, a granola-crunching midwife who fancies herself a doctor and your husband who probably couldn't find the clitoris without a map. Those tons of specialists can't do diddly squat much of the time. Oh, please. They are far better trained than anyone else to do *something* vs. a midwife who is trained in *no specialty* beyond birth. They aren't doctors, they have no access to meds, they have no diagnostic tools - need I go on? They are unnecessary most of the time. And as midwives are direct competitors to doctors and hospitals, they WANT you to rely on them. As they should - it's two lives you are dealing with here. snip So the taxpayers shouldn't pay less money for similar outcomes? Tax payers shouldn't pay anything for unqualified medical care, period. So it's cheaper, often safer, and gives a better level of care. Midwives usually spot complications earlier in the process than do doctors, and give more choices. But, I guess nobody ought to have more and even better, choices. I see. I don't want to pay for your quackery. No one asked you to. You're the one saying it should be covered by insurance. So, let me ask you this... why should *I* pay for *your* quackery? You think all doctors are quacks? Really? Man, I feel sorry for you. Why should my tax dollars and insurance monies go toward covering a MORE expensive method of care that has NOT been proven safer for low-risk pregancies? And, given that you think it's not rocket science, why don't you back it up? Um, because it's my OPINION....? Look - you can put your kid and your self at risk all you want - knock yourself out and kill yourself, both. But don't go stomping your feet and throwing a wobbly when I tell you A) you're ****ing nuts and B) that I don't want to pay for your quackery. I'm not the one lobbying for midwifery to be recognized by insurance compaines and other healthcare programs - you are. Provide us with data. I'd be happy to provide you with links, but you said you'd never believe any of them. shrug You don't care any more than I don't care about what you believe. "Data" is only as reliable as the people who fund it and publish it. -L. |
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Anne Rogers wrote: No, YOU go Google Megan What's-her-name too whose baby came out DEAD at home. then go look at her website and her subsequent birth decisions, she believes homebirth was the right thing, Of course she does - she isn't going to blame herself. The website is in poor taste - dead baby photos are disgusting. That aside, there is nothing on that website that discusses his condition other than the fact that she had a long labor, had trouble "getting pushing", etc - sounds like a classic case of ****ty birth to me. The kid essentially went without oxygen so long that by the time they got him to breathe, it was too late. she fears that had she been in hospital, due to a long 2nd stage, she may well have had a c-section And her kid may have been alive.... and instead of the brief hours she had with her son whilst she was well, she'd have had them in pain post op, she may have also been left blaming herself as we know there is greater incidence of respiratory problems following c-section, it's possible she may have been left wondering if a vaginal birth would have given him the stimulation he needed to breath. She had her 2nd son at home 20ish months later. What I understood was that there was only the slimest of chances that Seoras would have survived if born in hospital, Any chance at all is enough for me. You proved my point exactly. he was born alive, but failed to take a breath, even instant intubation may not have been able May not have been able - but also may have been able, you mean. to trigger that reflex, essentially he had an undetectable, but fatal birth defect. You mean undetectable prior to birth? Or undetectable, period? Of course they are going to tell her it wasn't her fault. -L. |
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