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Am I hurting my child by putting her in daycare at 22 months?
Beliavsky wrote:
On Dec 4, 4:38 pm, Banty wrote: Do wring said relative's neck. Yes, dissent from progressive orthodoxy must be silenced! Research on problems with day care should be ignored! I think the issue is not so much that people of a different opinion should be silenced or ignored, as that they should have the tact not to start telling someone that they *should* do things *this* way when they don't know the whole story of the individual in question or why that individual might be in a situation that means that that isn't a good option. In this case, an important part of the whole story is that the OP needs to keep her job. If that's the case, then a course of action that means her losing it is not ultimately going to be in the family's best interest, which means that it is not ultimately likely to be in the best interest of this particular child, regardless of what general statistics say. Therefore, laying a guilt trip on the OP about what she 'should' be doing was not constructive and may well have been destructive. We can all theorise about what we should be doing in an ideal world, but the reality is that we live in non-ideal situations where compromises are necessary. All the best, Sarah -- http://www.goodenoughmummy.typepad.com "That which can be destroyed by the truth, should be" - P. C. Hodgell |
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