New Mom Again

Hi,
I am a new mother all over again and I am finding it very hard to deal with
the new baby. I have a son who is almost 13 and got use to not having
someone depend on me for everything, I.E. making them something to eat and
feeding it to them, bathing them, dressing them, etc...
If there is anyone out there feeling the same way I would love to hear from
you. If there is anyone out there that might be able to help me deal with
all the stress please, please, I would love to hear from you as well. Thanks
for any and all help.
Liz