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One family's struggle with child services

Web Posted: 02/25/2007 01:14 AM CST

Tracy Idell Hamilton
Express-News

On a warm autumn day in 2004, Ashley Lozano waved a state caseworker's
business card in her mother's face and threatened to call Child
Protective Services.

Depressed and defiant, Ashley, then 13, was perpetually at odds with her
mother, Juanita Lozano. Their relationship had reached its nadir after
police caught Ashley skipping school with a 16-year-old boy and brought
her home. Juanita decided to teach the girl a lesson by cutting off her
long black hair.

"Things were so out of control at that point," Juanita said.

Even before then, Ashley had announced she would have herself removed
from the family home if things didn't start going her way. But when CPS
did remove her in October 2004, she got more than she bargained for.

For the next 17 months she was uprooted and shuffled through more than
10 shelters, foster homes, hospitals and group homes. The teenager had
won her independence from her mother only to cede it to almost two dozen
other adults in a revolving door of caseworkers, doctors, attorneys and
judges.

CPS also removed Ashley's two siblings, Joshua and Sara, then 11 and 6,
respectively, even though their mother had not been accused of abusing
or neglecting them.



The younger children were taken from their home, caseworkers and judges
said, under the assumption that whenever one child in a family is
thought to be in jeopardy, the others must be at risk.

Removing the Lozano children from their mother's care was the wrong way
to deal with the family's problems, say some child advocates familiar
with the family, including a CPS worker once assigned to the case.

They maintain that not only did moving the children from one place to
another fail to make them safer, it disrupted already fragile lives; the
family would have been better served had it been allowed to stay
together and provided counseling.

Juanita turned all of her attention to making her family whole again.
She spent hundreds of hours taking copious notes, making a pest of
herself to every caseworker and attorney connected to the case, hiring
lawyers she could scarcely afford, depleting her meager savings, taking
a second job.

As it is, Ashley's problems remain unsolved. CPS returned the teenager
to Juanita's home last March. Within months, Ashley began acting out
again. Over Christmas, she ran away from home.

Richard Wexler, executive director of the National Coalition for Child
Protection Reform, which advocates for keeping families together, likens
removing children in such cases to "treating a head cold with
radiation." He and others urge a more proactive, holistic approach to
helping at-risk children and families.

Grantly Boxill, a former CPS caseworker who first suggested counseling
for Ashley and her mother, said dismantling the family was unnecessary
and counterproductive.

But CPS was taking no chances. In the 12 months preceding the removal of
Juanita's children, at least 11 Bexar County children had died of abuse,
some while on CPS' watch. CPS came under fire for failing to remove from
harm's way those children whose families had been assigned caseworkers.

The agency responded by taking children out of homes at a faster clip,
resulting in what Wexler calls a predictable spike in removals.

Those in the system call it "erring on the side of the child." Wexler
calls it "foster-care panic." The flip side of doing too little too
late, it's the untold story of the social services crisis jeopardizing
San Antonio's children, who are far from guaranteed of getting what they
need when the state intervenes in their lives.

Critics like Wexler lament the inadequate counseling and lack of other
services available either instead of or after removals.

Carey Cockerell, the state's top protective services official, testified
earlier this month to the House Appropriations Committee that last
session's landmark overhaul of CPS, which saw the state pour millions of
dollars into the beleaguered agency, failed to address what happens
after a child is taken from a home, focusing instead on investigations
and removals.

But more caseworkers has meant more children removed from their homes
and placed into an overburdened and underregulated foster care system.
Since last fall, three children have died in foster care in North Texas,
all placed by the same agency.

Last week state Sen. Jane Nelson, R-Lewisville, filed a $90 million
foster-care bill designed to improve the way abused children are cared
for by foster families and overseen by the state. Much of the bill's
contents came from the agency's own recommendations to the Legislature.

Child welfare advocates say that once again, the state is focusing on
the wrong end of the equation, that resources must be allocated to
prevent children from being taken away in the first place.

Until then, CPS caseworkers, many with little experience, still labor
under caseloads that often preclude their familiarizing themselves with
families enough to fully understand them. And errors of judgment occur.

"Everyone knows how badly caseworkers are overwhelmed," Wexler says.
"They often make mistakes in both directions — leaving some children in
dangerous homes even as more children are taken from homes that could be
made safe with the right kinds of services."

Court records show that the cursory and sometimes incorrect knowledge of
the Lozanos by those assigned to the case — eight CPS workers in all —
was a recipe for misunderstandings and misconceptions that led to
questionable decisions by everyone from caseworkers to judges, who often
have only the opinions of CPS employees on which to base their rulings.

And so, besides raising the question of how far government has a right
to intrude in private lives, the Lozano case, critics say, illustrates
the same systemic problems that figured into the deaths of children such
as Jovonie Ochoa, whose starvation at Christmastime 2003 was met with
public outrage.

When CPS is too quick to remove children from a home, it's often
indicative of the same problems as when the agency is too slow. And the
results, while certainly not as dire, often are less than ideal.

Wexler points to a Harvard study of foster care alumni that found 80
percent suffered from lack of education, stability, emotional and
physical abuse.

"How can throwing children into a system which churns out walking
wounded four times out of five be 'erring on the side of the child'?"
Wexler asks.

While the plight of at-risk youngsters is seen most dramatically in the
gaunt face of children such as 4-year-old Jeremiah Campos, whose beating
death last month focused attention once again on child abuse, Ashley's
plight is instructive in its own right.

But families like the Lozanos rarely make the news. When there is little
more at stake than the living arrangements of one dysfunctional and
sometimes unsympathetic family, when there are no clear-cut heroes,
villains or victims, when the fate of children turns on a judge's ruling
rather than the chill rush of tragedy, a case doesn't make headlines.

Ashley's story churned on behind the scenes for almost two years while
her mother fought tenaciously to get her children back.

"All that my family went through, and for what?" Juanita asks. "There
has been so much hurt, pain and suffering. In the end, they didn't help
Ashley, the one who needed help. How much did we lose? How much time,
how much money, and for what?"

Family history

Juanita Lozano doesn't look like the firecracker she is. She is short
and softly round, dressing modestly, often in pinstriped shirts and
slacks. Despite her lack of formal education, she is clearly
intelligent. She speaks quickly and has a ready smile. But that smile
disappears when she feels she has been crossed.

CPS workers felt Juanita's wrath and complained about her temper. She is
slow to forgive perceived transgressions, family members say — perhaps
because she had to learn the art of self-preservation at an early age.

Juanita was the second oldest of seven children raised by a single
mother who ran a bar on the West Side. They lived in Alazαn Courts, the
city's first public housing project and one of the toughest.

At one point, when the children were staying with their grandmother, CPS
removed them for a time to different foster homes, though Juanita no
longer can remember why.

Her tumultuous home life instilled in Juanita a fierce need to give her
children a better life — efforts that may have been too vigorous. "She
is strict and does not tolerate any kind of insubordination," a CPS
caseworker wrote. "As a result, her daughter Ashley appears to be
getting the brunt of her mother's frustrations."

Juanita has four children by four men. She first became pregnant at 15
and dropped out of school. Her mother insisted she marry the child's
father, but the union lasted less than two years. Her husband left her
for one of her sisters.

Several years later, in Lubbock, she became pregnant with Ashley. She
left Ashley's father for a battered women's shelter.

When Ashley was 2, Juanita met Joshua's father and became pregnant yet
again. She left him, she said, because of a cocaine habit that would
take his life when Joshua was 2.

By then, Juanita had completed a welfare-to-work program and had begun a
job as a clerk in the Lubbock law office of Vince Martinez.

Martinez recalls a hard-working young woman who rarely socialized.

"Her life at that point consisted of her kids, even on the weekends," he
said recently. "She was single at the time, and just baby-sat, and
watched the kids."

After she had worked in the office for a year, the pair went out and
celebrated, and began dating soon after, he said.

Juanita and her three children moved in with Martinez and she became
pregnant for the fourth time.

After the birth of Sara, Martinez became withdrawn, Juanita says,
spending time with his infant daughter, but not she or her other children.

She moved back to San Antonio. As her oldest daughter, Jennifer, reached
puberty, Juanita grew stricter. Jennifer says she sought refuge in a
relative's more permissive household.

When Ashley headed into adolescence, she, too, began having problems
with her mother.

Often defiant, she cut school, hung out with older boys, smoked
cigarettes and vandalized school property, according to Juanita and to
school documents she provided. After Juanita would discipline her,
Ashley would often sink into depression.

Removal, repercussions

Those familiar with the family agree on this much: Ashley and her mother
needed help. Juanita is temperamental. But Ashley can be manipulative,
said the former CPS caseworker Boxill, who saw the girl as partly
responsible for her difficulties with her mother.

"I referred them to a family-based caseworker," he said. "I said, hey,
here's a mom who needs the tools to help deal with Ashley's behavior."

But Juanita and her daughter didn't get the counseling Boxill requested.
Juanita says before the caseworker could set them up to talk to someone,
things in the household deteriorated to the point that Ashley was taken
to Nix Hospital, where a new caseworker threatened to remove all of
Juanita's children if she didn't place Ashley with a relative.

Even Melissa Montgomery, the caseworker who ultimately asked a judge to
remove the Lozano children just months later, and who still believes the
removal was justified, testified before the state Legislature that kids
removed from their homes often are overmedicated and don't receive
consistent counseling.

The current system is ill-equipped to help children once they've been
taken from their homes, she says. "Kids don't get what they need."

What they do get often is difficult to ascertain. Child welfare cases
are almost impossible to penetrate. CPS files are not public, and state
law prohibits anyone involved in a case in any official capacity from
explaining decisions made with regard to a particular family. Only
family members are free to talk.

A spokeswoman with CPS in San Antonio could only say that when a child
is moved more than once within the system, it is done for the child's
best interest.

And while Ashley had more than one caseworker, Mary Walker said, she did
have the same supervisor, "who was very well-acquainted with and
knowledgeable about this child's case."

The transcript of an early court hearing and the emergency removal order
sheds some light on what happened in the Lozano case.

In testimony given Nov. 29, 2004, Montgomery and another caseworker,
identified as Amanda Hammock, painted Juanita as an angry,
out-of-control mother with a pattern of abusing "the oldest child in the
home." They said Juanita slapped Ashley and told the girl she was a
burden. They described Ashley as depressed, with suicidal thoughts, a
passive victim of abuse, as her older sister had been years earlier.

The two younger children, they testified, were Juanita's favorites.

But the caseworkers weren't as familiar with the Lozanos as might be
expected. Under questioning, Hammock admitted she'd never seen Ashley's
school records and didn't know about her truancy, vandalism or brushes
with the law. She admitted she never had met Juanita in person, speaking
to her only over the phone.

Montgomery told the court that Juanita had instigated a custody battle
with Martinez over Sara, which wasn't the case.

Montgomery had an especially negative impression of Juanita, so much so
that the second judge in the case, Andy Mireles, asked at the end of the
hearing to make sure another caseworker be assigned to the case.

In the end, caseworkers were unable to substantiate allegations of
physical abuse. But they found "reason to believe" Juanita was guilty of
emotional abuse and medical neglect — the latter because Juanita had
allowed Ashley to stop taking medications prescribed to her at Nix until
she could get a second opinion; she had an appointment for the second
opinion, but that detail wasn't included in the removal report.

As for Juanita's other two children, Montgomery justified their removal
by writing, "Ms. Juanita shows a history of abusing her oldest child,
and someday Joshua and Sara will be the oldest children."

The history to which Montgomery referred dated back to Juanita's oldest
daughter, Jennifer. When she was 16, the girl left Juanita's home to
live with an aunt because she, too, was clashing with her mother. Her
aunt said she eventually asked Jennifer to leave because, as had been
the case when the girl was living under Juanita's roof, she wasn't
abiding by the rules of the house.

That detail also failed to make it into the removal report.

In an interview for this article, Jennifer said of Juanita: "She was a
strict mother. And I done a lot of bad things. Before, I thought it was
too much."

But Jennifer's feelings weren't so nuanced when a caseworker came
calling in 2004. Then, she told caseworkers that her mother was mean to
Ashley and overly strict, as she had been with her years earlier. And
even though Montgomery got Jennifer's name wrong in the removal report,
her comments were used to justify the removal of her siblings from their
mother's house.

Revolving doors

Ashley was first removed from her mother's home after her stay at Nix.
That was when Hammock received the case. She told Juanita, over the
phone, that she would have to remove all three of her children if Ashley
could not be placed with a relative.

Juanita's aunt agreed to take the girl but soon asked Juanita to take
her back, saying she could not control Ashley.

Over the next several weeks, Juanita called Hammock repeatedly to
discuss getting counseling. Finally, she says she went to see CPS
supervisor Richard Brooks to complain that Hammock wasn't answering her
phone calls.

Brooks responded by assigning yet another worker to the case.

By then Juanita had sent Ashley to the Boy's and Girl's Club for
after-school supervision, but she was kicked out for bad behavior,
including leaving the premises and lying, according to a letter from the
director Juanita made available to the Express-News.

Ashley arrived at her alternative school one day, teary-eyed and with
what looked like burn marks on her neck, according to the removal
report. A school counselor phoned CPS.

Because the caseworker Brooks had assigned to the case was gone on
maternity leave, Montgomery responded to the call. She thought the marks
on Ashley's neck looked like hickeys, according to the court transcript.

Ashley told Montgomery she had scrubbed her own neck until it bled
because she was afraid to go home. She didn't mention that she had a
court hearing for vandalism scheduled the next day.

Moved by the girl's fear, Montgomery reviewed the family's CPS file and
decided to place Ashley with Juanita's sister, Terry.

Montgomery, too, warned Juanita that she would have no choice but to
remove all three children if the placement with her relative didn't work
out.

Within days, based on an allegation of unsafe conditions at that home,
Judge Richard Garcia granted Montgomery's request for the emergency
removal of all three children. She drove them to a shelter in Luling—
the closest place that could take all three — until a permanent
placement could be found.

Then, because of several delays before the hearing to determine if the
removal was appropriate, the children languished in the Luling shelter
for six weeks.

Based on information provided by Hammock and Montgomery, Mireles decided
to send all three children to live in Lubbock with Martinez, Sara's
father. He had offered to take in not only his daughter but also Ashley
and Joshua, to whom he is not related, so that the children could remain
together — something caseworkers and attorneys always prefer.

Ashley lasted almost five months in the Martinez household.

"I enjoyed matching wits with her, making her think," Martinez said
recently. "But when she flipped her switch, that was it. She just kept
getting more and more defiant."

Ashley disrupted the house, defied Martinez's wife and tried to overdose
on sleeping pills. After several months of struggle, he asked CPS to
remove the girl.

Medication rotation

As each subsequent placement for Ashley failed — she ran away from one
group home, tried to overdose at another and fought with other children
— a new caseworker would drive her to a new place, where a new doctor
would re-evaluate her, often changing the type and dosages of her
medications. Never was one person in charge of her care.

Each new doctor prescribed a new mix of medications: In Luling there was
Ambien, a sleep aid; trazodone, an antidepressant; Ativan, an
anti-anxiety medication; and Zoloft, also an antidepressant.

During a brief stay at the state hospital in Amarillo, she was
prescribed 150 mg of Trileptal, an anti-seizure medication also
prescribed for bipolar disorder, twice a day; 10 mg of Lexapro, an
anti-anxiety and depression medication; and trazodone, a caseworker said
during a routine hearing.

A doctor in Victoria told Juanita that Ashley had been taking a daily
dose of 900 mg of Seroquel — a medication prescribed for "acute bipolar
mania," according to the drug's Web site — and he lowered the dose to
100 mg, because, he said, 900 mg was dangerously high.

The merry-go-round of medications infuriated and frightened Juanita, but
there was little she could do.

As she received one phone call after another from each new caseworker,
informing her that Ashley had been moved yet again, she dutifully
attended anger management classes, as ordered. They provided so much
relief she began looking forward to her Wednesday evening sessions, she
said.

Also as ordered, Juanita took homemaking and parenting classes. She saw
a therapist every week. And she continued working as an office assistant
at the San Antonio Fire Department's Emergency Management Services, a
job she had held for about a year when the children were taken away.

Her compliance with the court-ordered classes and her continued work for
the Fire Department were praised during regular court hearings.

Caseworkers also noted she had begun to take more responsibility for her
own behavior. But her brash and grating style continued to work against her.

Juanita complained to each new caseworker that she always was the last
to know where Ashley was, how she was doing and why she was on so many
medications.

She complained as her daughter's weight and cholesterol ballooned, as
she fell further behind in school. She complained that Martinez was not
making a good-faith effort to make Sara and Joshua available by phone at
the appointed times.

In the midst of her efforts, Martinez decided to sue for full custody of
Sara, believing it would be in the little girl's best interest to stay
in Lubbock.

Juanita was devastated. To help pay mounting legal bills, she took a
second job at Taco Cabana.

At a judge's urging, the dispute went to mediation, and attorneys
attempted to broker a deal that would bring Joshua and Ashley home while
Sara stayed with Martinez until the custody battle could be resolved.

Juanita agreed, but couldn't sleep that night. The next morning, she
told her attorney she didn't want to take the deal; she wanted to go to
trial.

Juanita feared that if she left Sara, she would never get her back.
After all, she thought, whom would a judge believe? Martinez, an
attorney, or a woman whose children had been removed by CPS?

As 2005 wound to a close, CPS began making preparations for Ashley to
return home. She had finally stayed in one place for several months.

But Joshua's fate, like Sara's, was in limbo. Though he was not part of
the custody case Martinez initiated to keep Sara, CPS wasn't ready to
release him back to his mother.

Therapy records Juanita shared with the Express-News show Josh himself
was reluctant to return home, worried that nothing between his mother
and Ashley would have changed.

But after a weekend visit and several therapy sessions with his mother
on a speakerphone, he said he would like to go back to San Antonio.

Brief homecoming

Ashley arrived home last March. She was 15, having spent two birthdays
in CPS custody.

At first, she and her mother saw the counselor Juanita had been visiting
almost weekly, and Ashley tried hard at school.

Just weeks later, the trial over Sara's fate was averted when Juanita
and Martinez agreed to joint custody of Sara. Sara and Joshua finished
out the school year in Lubbock and returned to San Antonio in May.

By then, Ashley and her mother began to clash once again. When it was
time for Sara to go back to Lubbock to begin her half-year with
Martinez, Juanita was relieved to get her away from all the disruptions.

When Ashley ran away, Juanita, while still in phone contact with her
daughter, went to CPS looking for help, terrified that Ashley's behavior
would jeopardize her family again.

A supervisor suggested she find a relative who would take Ashley, saying
the agency couldn't help her anymore because her case was closed and CPS
doesn't open cases on runaways.

Juanita swallowed her pride and called her sister Terry, who agreed to
take Ashley but kicked her out three weeks later.

Ashley went to another aunt's house but left after a short time. And now
her mother doesn't know where she is.

Juanita is deflated when she talks about her children. She feels she has
lost Ashley, and may lose Sara to her father in Lubbock after all.
Joshua hangs in the balance.

Having moved into adolescence, he too is testing Juanita's boundaries.
He still is a good student. But sometimes he cusses at his mother during
arguments.

Juanita continues working for the Fire Department and has realized her
dream of home ownership. With the help of San Antonio Alternative
Housing, she put a down payment on a small house to be built near the
Toyota plant within months.

The last she heard of Ashley, several weeks ago, the girl had called her
sister Jennifer and left an angry message. Ashley accused Jennifer of
"taking mom's side." Jennifer told her mother her little sister's voice
sounded slurred.

Juanita called CPS once again. And, once again, she was told there was
just nothing the agency could do.

Juanita recalls the conversation.

"The supervisor told me, you know, Mrs. Lozano — you can't help someone
that doesn't want to be helped."
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On Mon, 26 Feb 2007 09:28:53 -0700, fx wrote:

.....a careful read reveals what you don't wish to face: that society,
NOT CPS OR THE STATE fails families such as these.

The tax payer, through their legislators, do NOT wish to fund up front
services ... it's just that simple.

Do you think this story was slanted to indict the state, or place
responsibility where it belongs; with society?


http://www.mysanantonio.com/news/met...y.1367158.html



One family's struggle with child services


Gee, that's not slanted.

The "struggle" is with a society that refuses to deal with reality.

And refuses to fund the changes they demand.


Web Posted: 02/25/2007 01:14 AM CST

Tracy Idell Hamilton
Express-News

On a warm autumn day in 2004, Ashley Lozano waved a state caseworker's
business card in her mother's face and threatened to call Child
Protective Services.

Depressed and defiant, Ashley, then 13, was perpetually at odds with her
mother, Juanita Lozano. Their relationship had reached its nadir after
police caught Ashley skipping school with a 16-year-old boy and brought
her home. Juanita decided to teach the girl a lesson by cutting off her
long black hair.

"Things were so out of control at that point," Juanita said.

Even before then, Ashley had announced she would have herself removed
from the family home if things didn't start going her way. But when CPS
did remove her in October 2004, she got more than she bargained for.

For the next 17 months she was uprooted and shuffled through more than
10 shelters, foster homes, hospitals and group homes. The teenager had
won her independence from her mother only to cede it to almost two dozen
other adults in a revolving door of caseworkers, doctors, attorneys and
judges.

CPS also removed Ashley's two siblings, Joshua and Sara, then 11 and 6,
respectively, even though their mother had not been accused of abusing
or neglecting them.



The younger children were taken from their home, caseworkers and judges
said, under the assumption that whenever one child in a family is
thought to be in jeopardy, the others must be at risk.

Removing the Lozano children from their mother's care was the wrong way
to deal with the family's problems, say some child advocates familiar
with the family, including a CPS worker once assigned to the case.

They maintain that not only did moving the children from one place to
another fail to make them safer, it disrupted already fragile lives; the
family would have been better served had it been allowed to stay
together and provided counseling.

Juanita turned all of her attention to making her family whole again.
She spent hundreds of hours taking copious notes, making a pest of
herself to every caseworker and attorney connected to the case, hiring
lawyers she could scarcely afford, depleting her meager savings, taking
a second job.

As it is, Ashley's problems remain unsolved. CPS returned the teenager
to Juanita's home last March. Within months, Ashley began acting out
again. Over Christmas, she ran away from home.

Richard Wexler, executive director of the National Coalition for Child
Protection Reform, which advocates for keeping families together, likens
removing children in such cases to "treating a head cold with
radiation." He and others urge a more proactive, holistic approach to
helping at-risk children and families.

Grantly Boxill, a former CPS caseworker who first suggested counseling
for Ashley and her mother, said dismantling the family was unnecessary
and counterproductive.

But CPS was taking no chances. In the 12 months preceding the removal of
Juanita's children, at least 11 Bexar County children had died of abuse,
some while on CPS' watch. CPS came under fire for failing to remove from
harm's way those children whose families had been assigned caseworkers.

The agency responded by taking children out of homes at a faster clip,
resulting in what Wexler calls a predictable spike in removals.

Those in the system call it "erring on the side of the child." Wexler
calls it "foster-care panic." The flip side of doing too little too
late, it's the untold story of the social services crisis jeopardizing
San Antonio's children, who are far from guaranteed of getting what they
need when the state intervenes in their lives.

Critics like Wexler lament the inadequate counseling and lack of other
services available either instead of or after removals.

Carey Cockerell, the state's top protective services official, testified
earlier this month to the House Appropriations Committee that last
session's landmark overhaul of CPS, which saw the state pour millions of
dollars into the beleaguered agency, failed to address what happens
after a child is taken from a home, focusing instead on investigations
and removals.

But more caseworkers has meant more children removed from their homes
and placed into an overburdened and underregulated foster care system.
Since last fall, three children have died in foster care in North Texas,
all placed by the same agency.

Last week state Sen. Jane Nelson, R-Lewisville, filed a $90 million
foster-care bill designed to improve the way abused children are cared
for by foster families and overseen by the state. Much of the bill's
contents came from the agency's own recommendations to the Legislature.

Child welfare advocates say that once again, the state is focusing on
the wrong end of the equation, that resources must be allocated to
prevent children from being taken away in the first place.

Until then, CPS caseworkers, many with little experience, still labor
under caseloads that often preclude their familiarizing themselves with
families enough to fully understand them. And errors of judgment occur.

"Everyone knows how badly caseworkers are overwhelmed," Wexler says.
"They often make mistakes in both directions — leaving some children in
dangerous homes even as more children are taken from homes that could be
made safe with the right kinds of services."

Court records show that the cursory and sometimes incorrect knowledge of
the Lozanos by those assigned to the case — eight CPS workers in all —
was a recipe for misunderstandings and misconceptions that led to
questionable decisions by everyone from caseworkers to judges, who often
have only the opinions of CPS employees on which to base their rulings.

And so, besides raising the question of how far government has a right
to intrude in private lives, the Lozano case, critics say, illustrates
the same systemic problems that figured into the deaths of children such
as Jovonie Ochoa, whose starvation at Christmastime 2003 was met with
public outrage.

When CPS is too quick to remove children from a home, it's often
indicative of the same problems as when the agency is too slow. And the
results, while certainly not as dire, often are less than ideal.

Wexler points to a Harvard study of foster care alumni that found 80
percent suffered from lack of education, stability, emotional and
physical abuse.

"How can throwing children into a system which churns out walking
wounded four times out of five be 'erring on the side of the child'?"
Wexler asks.

While the plight of at-risk youngsters is seen most dramatically in the
gaunt face of children such as 4-year-old Jeremiah Campos, whose beating
death last month focused attention once again on child abuse, Ashley's
plight is instructive in its own right.

But families like the Lozanos rarely make the news. When there is little
more at stake than the living arrangements of one dysfunctional and
sometimes unsympathetic family, when there are no clear-cut heroes,
villains or victims, when the fate of children turns on a judge's ruling
rather than the chill rush of tragedy, a case doesn't make headlines.

Ashley's story churned on behind the scenes for almost two years while
her mother fought tenaciously to get her children back.

"All that my family went through, and for what?" Juanita asks. "There
has been so much hurt, pain and suffering. In the end, they didn't help
Ashley, the one who needed help. How much did we lose? How much time,
how much money, and for what?"

Family history

Juanita Lozano doesn't look like the firecracker she is. She is short
and softly round, dressing modestly, often in pinstriped shirts and
slacks. Despite her lack of formal education, she is clearly
intelligent. She speaks quickly and has a ready smile. But that smile
disappears when she feels she has been crossed.

CPS workers felt Juanita's wrath and complained about her temper. She is
slow to forgive perceived transgressions, family members say — perhaps
because she had to learn the art of self-preservation at an early age.

Juanita was the second oldest of seven children raised by a single
mother who ran a bar on the West Side. They lived in Alazαn Courts, the
city's first public housing project and one of the toughest.

At one point, when the children were staying with their grandmother, CPS
removed them for a time to different foster homes, though Juanita no
longer can remember why.

Her tumultuous home life instilled in Juanita a fierce need to give her
children a better life — efforts that may have been too vigorous. "She
is strict and does not tolerate any kind of insubordination," a CPS
caseworker wrote. "As a result, her daughter Ashley appears to be
getting the brunt of her mother's frustrations."

Juanita has four children by four men. She first became pregnant at 15
and dropped out of school. Her mother insisted she marry the child's
father, but the union lasted less than two years. Her husband left her
for one of her sisters.

Several years later, in Lubbock, she became pregnant with Ashley. She
left Ashley's father for a battered women's shelter.

When Ashley was 2, Juanita met Joshua's father and became pregnant yet
again. She left him, she said, because of a cocaine habit that would
take his life when Joshua was 2.

By then, Juanita had completed a welfare-to-work program and had begun a
job as a clerk in the Lubbock law office of Vince Martinez.

Martinez recalls a hard-working young woman who rarely socialized.

"Her life at that point consisted of her kids, even on the weekends," he
said recently. "She was single at the time, and just baby-sat, and
watched the kids."

After she had worked in the office for a year, the pair went out and
celebrated, and began dating soon after, he said.

Juanita and her three children moved in with Martinez and she became
pregnant for the fourth time.

After the birth of Sara, Martinez became withdrawn, Juanita says,
spending time with his infant daughter, but not she or her other children.

She moved back to San Antonio. As her oldest daughter, Jennifer, reached
puberty, Juanita grew stricter. Jennifer says she sought refuge in a
relative's more permissive household.

When Ashley headed into adolescence, she, too, began having problems
with her mother.

Often defiant, she cut school, hung out with older boys, smoked
cigarettes and vandalized school property, according to Juanita and to
school documents she provided. After Juanita would discipline her,
Ashley would often sink into depression.

Removal, repercussions

Those familiar with the family agree on this much: Ashley and her mother
needed help. Juanita is temperamental. But Ashley can be manipulative,
said the former CPS caseworker Boxill, who saw the girl as partly
responsible for her difficulties with her mother.

"I referred them to a family-based caseworker," he said. "I said, hey,
here's a mom who needs the tools to help deal with Ashley's behavior."

But Juanita and her daughter didn't get the counseling Boxill requested.
Juanita says before the caseworker could set them up to talk to someone,
things in the household deteriorated to the point that Ashley was taken
to Nix Hospital, where a new caseworker threatened to remove all of
Juanita's children if she didn't place Ashley with a relative.

Even Melissa Montgomery, the caseworker who ultimately asked a judge to
remove the Lozano children just months later, and who still believes the
removal was justified, testified before the state Legislature that kids
removed from their homes often are overmedicated and don't receive
consistent counseling.

The current system is ill-equipped to help children once they've been
taken from their homes, she says. "Kids don't get what they need."

What they do get often is difficult to ascertain. Child welfare cases
are almost impossible to penetrate. CPS files are not public, and state
law prohibits anyone involved in a case in any official capacity from
explaining decisions made with regard to a particular family. Only
family members are free to talk.

A spokeswoman with CPS in San Antonio could only say that when a child
is moved more than once within the system, it is done for the child's
best interest.

And while Ashley had more than one caseworker, Mary Walker said, she did
have the same supervisor, "who was very well-acquainted with and
knowledgeable about this child's case."

The transcript of an early court hearing and the emergency removal order
sheds some light on what happened in the Lozano case.

In testimony given Nov. 29, 2004, Montgomery and another caseworker,
identified as Amanda Hammock, painted Juanita as an angry,
out-of-control mother with a pattern of abusing "the oldest child in the
home." They said Juanita slapped Ashley and told the girl she was a
burden. They described Ashley as depressed, with suicidal thoughts, a
passive victim of abuse, as her older sister had been years earlier.

The two younger children, they testified, were Juanita's favorites.

But the caseworkers weren't as familiar with the Lozanos as might be
expected. Under questioning, Hammock admitted she'd never seen Ashley's
school records and didn't know about her truancy, vandalism or brushes
with the law. She admitted she never had met Juanita in person, speaking
to her only over the phone.

Montgomery told the court that Juanita had instigated a custody battle
with Martinez over Sara, which wasn't the case.

Montgomery had an especially negative impression of Juanita, so much so
that the second judge in the case, Andy Mireles, asked at the end of the
hearing to make sure another caseworker be assigned to the case.

In the end, caseworkers were unable to substantiate allegations of
physical abuse. But they found "reason to believe" Juanita was guilty of
emotional abuse and medical neglect — the latter because Juanita had
allowed Ashley to stop taking medications prescribed to her at Nix until
she could get a second opinion; she had an appointment for the second
opinion, but that detail wasn't included in the removal report.

As for Juanita's other two children, Montgomery justified their removal
by writing, "Ms. Juanita shows a history of abusing her oldest child,
and someday Joshua and Sara will be the oldest children."

The history to which Montgomery referred dated back to Juanita's oldest
daughter, Jennifer. When she was 16, the girl left Juanita's home to
live with an aunt because she, too, was clashing with her mother. Her
aunt said she eventually asked Jennifer to leave because, as had been
the case when the girl was living under Juanita's roof, she wasn't
abiding by the rules of the house.

That detail also failed to make it into the removal report.

In an interview for this article, Jennifer said of Juanita: "She was a
strict mother. And I done a lot of bad things. Before, I thought it was
too much."

But Jennifer's feelings weren't so nuanced when a caseworker came
calling in 2004. Then, she told caseworkers that her mother was mean to
Ashley and overly strict, as she had been with her years earlier. And
even though Montgomery got Jennifer's name wrong in the removal report,
her comments were used to justify the removal of her siblings from their
mother's house.

Revolving doors

Ashley was first removed from her mother's home after her stay at Nix.
That was when Hammock received the case. She told Juanita, over the
phone, that she would have to remove all three of her children if Ashley
could not be placed with a relative.

Juanita's aunt agreed to take the girl but soon asked Juanita to take
her back, saying she could not control Ashley.

Over the next several weeks, Juanita called Hammock repeatedly to
discuss getting counseling. Finally, she says she went to see CPS
supervisor Richard Brooks to complain that Hammock wasn't answering her
phone calls.

Brooks responded by assigning yet another worker to the case.

By then Juanita had sent Ashley to the Boy's and Girl's Club for
after-school supervision, but she was kicked out for bad behavior,
including leaving the premises and lying, according to a letter from the
director Juanita made available to the Express-News.

Ashley arrived at her alternative school one day, teary-eyed and with
what looked like burn marks on her neck, according to the removal
report. A school counselor phoned CPS.

Because the caseworker Brooks had assigned to the case was gone on
maternity leave, Montgomery responded to the call. She thought the marks
on Ashley's neck looked like hickeys, according to the court transcript.

Ashley told Montgomery she had scrubbed her own neck until it bled
because she was afraid to go home. She didn't mention that she had a
court hearing for vandalism scheduled the next day.

Moved by the girl's fear, Montgomery reviewed the family's CPS file and
decided to place Ashley with Juanita's sister, Terry.

Montgomery, too, warned Juanita that she would have no choice but to
remove all three children if the placement with her relative didn't work
out.

Within days, based on an allegation of unsafe conditions at that home,
Judge Richard Garcia granted Montgomery's request for the emergency
removal of all three children. She drove them to a shelter in Luling—
the closest place that could take all three — until a permanent
placement could be found.

Then, because of several delays before the hearing to determine if the
removal was appropriate, the children languished in the Luling shelter
for six weeks.

Based on information provided by Hammock and Montgomery, Mireles decided
to send all three children to live in Lubbock with Martinez, Sara's
father. He had offered to take in not only his daughter but also Ashley
and Joshua, to whom he is not related, so that the children could remain
together — something caseworkers and attorneys always prefer.

Ashley lasted almost five months in the Martinez household.

"I enjoyed matching wits with her, making her think," Martinez said
recently. "But when she flipped her switch, that was it. She just kept
getting more and more defiant."

Ashley disrupted the house, defied Martinez's wife and tried to overdose
on sleeping pills. After several months of struggle, he asked CPS to
remove the girl.

Medication rotation

As each subsequent placement for Ashley failed — she ran away from one
group home, tried to overdose at another and fought with other children
— a new caseworker would drive her to a new place, where a new doctor
would re-evaluate her, often changing the type and dosages of her
medications. Never was one person in charge of her care.

Each new doctor prescribed a new mix of medications: In Luling there was
Ambien, a sleep aid; trazodone, an antidepressant; Ativan, an
anti-anxiety medication; and Zoloft, also an antidepressant.

During a brief stay at the state hospital in Amarillo, she was
prescribed 150 mg of Trileptal, an anti-seizure medication also
prescribed for bipolar disorder, twice a day; 10 mg of Lexapro, an
anti-anxiety and depression medication; and trazodone, a caseworker said
during a routine hearing.

A doctor in Victoria told Juanita that Ashley had been taking a daily
dose of 900 mg of Seroquel — a medication prescribed for "acute bipolar
mania," according to the drug's Web site — and he lowered the dose to
100 mg, because, he said, 900 mg was dangerously high.

The merry-go-round of medications infuriated and frightened Juanita, but
there was little she could do.

As she received one phone call after another from each new caseworker,
informing her that Ashley had been moved yet again, she dutifully
attended anger management classes, as ordered. They provided so much
relief she began looking forward to her Wednesday evening sessions, she
said.

Also as ordered, Juanita took homemaking and parenting classes. She saw
a therapist every week. And she continued working as an office assistant
at the San Antonio Fire Department's Emergency Management Services, a
job she had held for about a year when the children were taken away.

Her compliance with the court-ordered classes and her continued work for
the Fire Department were praised during regular court hearings.

Caseworkers also noted she had begun to take more responsibility for her
own behavior. But her brash and grating style continued to work against her.

Juanita complained to each new caseworker that she always was the last
to know where Ashley was, how she was doing and why she was on so many
medications.

She complained as her daughter's weight and cholesterol ballooned, as
she fell further behind in school. She complained that Martinez was not
making a good-faith effort to make Sara and Joshua available by phone at
the appointed times.

In the midst of her efforts, Martinez decided to sue for full custody of
Sara, believing it would be in the little girl's best interest to stay
in Lubbock.

Juanita was devastated. To help pay mounting legal bills, she took a
second job at Taco Cabana.

At a judge's urging, the dispute went to mediation, and attorneys
attempted to broker a deal that would bring Joshua and Ashley home while
Sara stayed with Martinez until the custody battle could be resolved.

Juanita agreed, but couldn't sleep that night. The next morning, she
told her attorney she didn't want to take the deal; she wanted to go to
trial.

Juanita feared that if she left Sara, she would never get her back.
After all, she thought, whom would a judge believe? Martinez, an
attorney, or a woman whose children had been removed by CPS?

As 2005 wound to a close, CPS began making preparations for Ashley to
return home. She had finally stayed in one place for several months.

But Joshua's fate, like Sara's, was in limbo. Though he was not part of
the custody case Martinez initiated to keep Sara, CPS wasn't ready to
release him back to his mother.

Therapy records Juanita shared with the Express-News show Josh himself
was reluctant to return home, worried that nothing between his mother
and Ashley would have changed.

But after a weekend visit and several therapy sessions with his mother
on a speakerphone, he said he would like to go back to San Antonio.

Brief homecoming

Ashley arrived home last March. She was 15, having spent two birthdays
in CPS custody.

At first, she and her mother saw the counselor Juanita had been visiting
almost weekly, and Ashley tried hard at school.

Just weeks later, the trial over Sara's fate was averted when Juanita
and Martinez agreed to joint custody of Sara. Sara and Joshua finished
out the school year in Lubbock and returned to San Antonio in May.

By then, Ashley and her mother began to clash once again. When it was
time for Sara to go back to Lubbock to begin her half-year with
Martinez, Juanita was relieved to get her away from all the disruptions.

When Ashley ran away, Juanita, while still in phone contact with her
daughter, went to CPS looking for help, terrified that Ashley's behavior
would jeopardize her family again.

A supervisor suggested she find a relative who would take Ashley, saying
the agency couldn't help her anymore because her case was closed and CPS
doesn't open cases on runaways.

Juanita swallowed her pride and called her sister Terry, who agreed to
take Ashley but kicked her out three weeks later.

Ashley went to another aunt's house but left after a short time. And now
her mother doesn't know where she is.

Juanita is deflated when she talks about her children. She feels she has
lost Ashley, and may lose Sara to her father in Lubbock after all.
Joshua hangs in the balance.

Having moved into adolescence, he too is testing Juanita's boundaries.
He still is a good student. But sometimes he cusses at his mother during
arguments.

Juanita continues working for the Fire Department and has realized her
dream of home ownership. With the help of San Antonio Alternative
Housing, she put a down payment on a small house to be built near the
Toyota plant within months.

The last she heard of Ashley, several weeks ago, the girl had called her
sister Jennifer and left an angry message. Ashley accused Jennifer of
"taking mom's side." Jennifer told her mother her little sister's voice
sounded slurred.

Juanita called CPS once again. And, once again, she was told there was
just nothing the agency could do.

Juanita recalls the conversation.

"The supervisor told me, you know, Mrs. Lozano — you can't help someone
that doesn't want to be helped."


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Wow! Such a sad story!

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http://www.mysanantonio.com/news/met...y.1367158.html



One family's struggle with child services

Web Posted: 02/25/2007 01:14 AM CST

Tracy Idell Hamilton
Express-News

On a warm autumn day in 2004, Ashley Lozano waved a state caseworker's
business card in her mother's face and threatened to call Child
Protective Services.

Depressed and defiant, Ashley, then 13, was perpetually at odds with her
mother, Juanita Lozano. Their relationship had reached its nadir after
police caught Ashley skipping school with a 16-year-old boy and brought
her home. Juanita decided to teach the girl a lesson by cutting off her
long black hair.

"Things were so out of control at that point," Juanita said.

Even before then, Ashley had announced she would have herself removed
from the family home if things didn't start going her way. But when CPS
did remove her in October 2004, she got more than she bargained for.

For the next 17 months she was uprooted and shuffled through more than
10 shelters, foster homes, hospitals and group homes. The teenager had
won her independence from her mother only to cede it to almost two dozen
other adults in a revolving door of caseworkers, doctors, attorneys and
judges.

CPS also removed Ashley's two siblings, Joshua and Sara, then 11 and 6,
respectively, even though their mother had not been accused of abusing
or neglecting them.



The younger children were taken from their home, caseworkers and judges
said, under the assumption that whenever one child in a family is
thought to be in jeopardy, the others must be at risk.

Removing the Lozano children from their mother's care was the wrong way
to deal with the family's problems, say some child advocates familiar
with the family, including a CPS worker once assigned to the case.

They maintain that not only did moving the children from one place to
another fail to make them safer, it disrupted already fragile lives; the
family would have been better served had it been allowed to stay
together and provided counseling.

Juanita turned all of her attention to making her family whole again.
She spent hundreds of hours taking copious notes, making a pest of
herself to every caseworker and attorney connected to the case, hiring
lawyers she could scarcely afford, depleting her meager savings, taking
a second job.

As it is, Ashley's problems remain unsolved. CPS returned the teenager
to Juanita's home last March. Within months, Ashley began acting out
again. Over Christmas, she ran away from home.

Richard Wexler, executive director of the National Coalition for Child
Protection Reform, which advocates for keeping families together, likens
removing children in such cases to "treating a head cold with
radiation." He and others urge a more proactive, holistic approach to
helping at-risk children and families.

Grantly Boxill, a former CPS caseworker who first suggested counseling
for Ashley and her mother, said dismantling the family was unnecessary
and counterproductive.

But CPS was taking no chances. In the 12 months preceding the removal of
Juanita's children, at least 11 Bexar County children had died of abuse,
some while on CPS' watch. CPS came under fire for failing to remove from
harm's way those children whose families had been assigned caseworkers.

The agency responded by taking children out of homes at a faster clip,
resulting in what Wexler calls a predictable spike in removals.

Those in the system call it "erring on the side of the child." Wexler
calls it "foster-care panic." The flip side of doing too little too
late, it's the untold story of the social services crisis jeopardizing
San Antonio's children, who are far from guaranteed of getting what they
need when the state intervenes in their lives.

Critics like Wexler lament the inadequate counseling and lack of other
services available either instead of or after removals.

Carey Cockerell, the state's top protective services official, testified
earlier this month to the House Appropriations Committee that last
session's landmark overhaul of CPS, which saw the state pour millions of
dollars into the beleaguered agency, failed to address what happens
after a child is taken from a home, focusing instead on investigations
and removals.

But more caseworkers has meant more children removed from their homes
and placed into an overburdened and underregulated foster care system.
Since last fall, three children have died in foster care in North Texas,
all placed by the same agency.

Last week state Sen. Jane Nelson, R-Lewisville, filed a $90 million
foster-care bill designed to improve the way abused children are cared
for by foster families and overseen by the state. Much of the bill's
contents came from the agency's own recommendations to the Legislature.

Child welfare advocates say that once again, the state is focusing on
the wrong end of the equation, that resources must be allocated to
prevent children from being taken away in the first place.

Until then, CPS caseworkers, many with little experience, still labor
under caseloads that often preclude their familiarizing themselves with
families enough to fully understand them. And errors of judgment occur.

"Everyone knows how badly caseworkers are overwhelmed," Wexler says.
"They often make mistakes in both directions — leaving some children in
dangerous homes even as more children are taken from homes that could be
made safe with the right kinds of services."

Court records show that the cursory and sometimes incorrect knowledge of
the Lozanos by those assigned to the case — eight CPS workers in all —
was a recipe for misunderstandings and misconceptions that led to
questionable decisions by everyone from caseworkers to judges, who often
have only the opinions of CPS employees on which to base their rulings.

And so, besides raising the question of how far government has a right
to intrude in private lives, the Lozano case, critics say, illustrates
the same systemic problems that figured into the deaths of children such
as Jovonie Ochoa, whose starvation at Christmastime 2003 was met with
public outrage.

When CPS is too quick to remove children from a home, it's often
indicative of the same problems as when the agency is too slow. And the
results, while certainly not as dire, often are less than ideal.

Wexler points to a Harvard study of foster care alumni that found 80
percent suffered from lack of education, stability, emotional and
physical abuse.

"How can throwing children into a system which churns out walking
wounded four times out of five be 'erring on the side of the child'?"
Wexler asks.

While the plight of at-risk youngsters is seen most dramatically in the
gaunt face of children such as 4-year-old Jeremiah Campos, whose beating
death last month focused attention once again on child abuse, Ashley's
plight is instructive in its own right.

But families like the Lozanos rarely make the news. When there is little
more at stake than the living arrangements of one dysfunctional and
sometimes unsympathetic family, when there are no clear-cut heroes,
villains or victims, when the fate of children turns on a judge's ruling
rather than the chill rush of tragedy, a case doesn't make headlines.

Ashley's story churned on behind the scenes for almost two years while
her mother fought tenaciously to get her children back.

"All that my family went through, and for what?" Juanita asks. "There
has been so much hurt, pain and suffering. In the end, they didn't help
Ashley, the one who needed help. How much did we lose? How much time,
how much money, and for what?"

Family history

Juanita Lozano doesn't look like the firecracker she is. She is short
and softly round, dressing modestly, often in pinstriped shirts and
slacks. Despite her lack of formal education, she is clearly
intelligent. She speaks quickly and has a ready smile. But that smile
disappears when she feels she has been crossed.

CPS workers felt Juanita's wrath and complained about her temper. She is
slow to forgive perceived transgressions, family members say — perhaps
because she had to learn the art of self-preservation at an early age.

Juanita was the second oldest of seven children raised by a single
mother who ran a bar on the West Side. They lived in Alazαn Courts, the
city's first public housing project and one of the toughest.

At one point, when the children were staying with their grandmother, CPS
removed them for a time to different foster homes, though Juanita no
longer can remember why.

Her tumultuous home life instilled in Juanita a fierce need to give her
children a better life — efforts that may have been too vigorous. "She
is strict and does not tolerate any kind of insubordination," a CPS
caseworker wrote. "As a result, her daughter Ashley appears to be
getting the brunt of her mother's frustrations."

Juanita has four children by four men. She first became pregnant at 15
and dropped out of school. Her mother insisted she marry the child's
father, but the union lasted less than two years. Her husband left her
for one of her sisters.

Several years later, in Lubbock, she became pregnant with Ashley. She
left Ashley's father for a battered women's shelter.

When Ashley was 2, Juanita met Joshua's father and became pregnant yet
again. She left him, she said, because of a cocaine habit that would
take his life when Joshua was 2.

By then, Juanita had completed a welfare-to-work program and had begun a
job as a clerk in the Lubbock law office of Vince Martinez.

Martinez recalls a hard-working young woman who rarely socialized.

"Her life at that point consisted of her kids, even on the weekends," he
said recently. "She was single at the time, and just baby-sat, and
watched the kids."

After she had worked in the office for a year, the pair went out and
celebrated, and began dating soon after, he said.

Juanita and her three children moved in with Martinez and she became
pregnant for the fourth time.

After the birth of Sara, Martinez became withdrawn, Juanita says,
spending time with his infant daughter, but not she or her other children.

She moved back to San Antonio. As her oldest daughter, Jennifer, reached
puberty, Juanita grew stricter. Jennifer says she sought refuge in a
relative's more permissive household.

When Ashley headed into adolescence, she, too, began having problems
with her mother.

Often defiant, she cut school, hung out with older boys, smoked
cigarettes and vandalized school property, according to Juanita and to
school documents she provided. After Juanita would discipline her,
Ashley would often sink into depression.

Removal, repercussions

Those familiar with the family agree on this much: Ashley and her mother
needed help. Juanita is temperamental. But Ashley can be manipulative,
said the former CPS caseworker Boxill, who saw the girl as partly
responsible for her difficulties with her mother.

"I referred them to a family-based caseworker," he said. "I said, hey,
here's a mom who needs the tools to help deal with Ashley's behavior."

But Juanita and her daughter didn't get the counseling Boxill requested.
Juanita says before the caseworker could set them up to talk to someone,
things in the household deteriorated to the point that Ashley was taken
to Nix Hospital, where a new caseworker threatened to remove all of
Juanita's children if she didn't place Ashley with a relative.

Even Melissa Montgomery, the caseworker who ultimately asked a judge to
remove the Lozano children just months later, and who still believes the
removal was justified, testified before the state Legislature that kids
removed from their homes often are overmedicated and don't receive
consistent counseling.

The current system is ill-equipped to help children once they've been
taken from their homes, she says. "Kids don't get what they need."

What they do get often is difficult to ascertain. Child welfare cases
are almost impossible to penetrate. CPS files are not public, and state
law prohibits anyone involved in a case in any official capacity from
explaining decisions made with regard to a particular family. Only
family members are free to talk.

A spokeswoman with CPS in San Antonio could only say that when a child
is moved more than once within the system, it is done for the child's
best interest.

And while Ashley had more than one caseworker, Mary Walker said, she did
have the same supervisor, "who was very well-acquainted with and
knowledgeable about this child's case."

The transcript of an early court hearing and the emergency removal order
sheds some light on what happened in the Lozano case.

In testimony given Nov. 29, 2004, Montgomery and another caseworker,
identified as Amanda Hammock, painted Juanita as an angry,
out-of-control mother with a pattern of abusing "the oldest child in the
home." They said Juanita slapped Ashley and told the girl she was a
burden. They described Ashley as depressed, with suicidal thoughts, a
passive victim of abuse, as her older sister had been years earlier.

The two younger children, they testified, were Juanita's favorites.

But the caseworkers weren't as familiar with the Lozanos as might be
expected. Under questioning, Hammock admitted she'd never seen Ashley's
school records and didn't know about her truancy, vandalism or brushes
with the law. She admitted she never had met Juanita in person, speaking
to her only over the phone.

Montgomery told the court that Juanita had instigated a custody battle
with Martinez over Sara, which wasn't the case.

Montgomery had an especially negative impression of Juanita, so much so
that the second judge in the case, Andy Mireles, asked at the end of the
hearing to make sure another caseworker be assigned to the case.

In the end, caseworkers were unable to substantiate allegations of
physical abuse. But they found "reason to believe" Juanita was guilty of
emotional abuse and medical neglect — the latter because Juanita had
allowed Ashley to stop taking medications prescribed to her at Nix until
she could get a second opinion; she had an appointment for the second
opinion, but that detail wasn't included in the removal report.

As for Juanita's other two children, Montgomery justified their removal
by writing, "Ms. Juanita shows a history of abusing her oldest child,
and someday Joshua and Sara will be the oldest children."

The history to which Montgomery referred dated back to Juanita's oldest
daughter, Jennifer. When she was 16, the girl left Juanita's home to
live with an aunt because she, too, was clashing with her mother. Her
aunt said she eventually asked Jennifer to leave because, as had been
the case when the girl was living under Juanita's roof, she wasn't
abiding by the rules of the house.

That detail also failed to make it into the removal report.

In an interview for this article, Jennifer said of Juanita: "She was a
strict mother. And I done a lot of bad things. Before, I thought it was
too much."

But Jennifer's feelings weren't so nuanced when a caseworker came
calling in 2004. Then, she told caseworkers that her mother was mean to
Ashley and overly strict, as she had been with her years earlier. And
even though Montgomery got Jennifer's name wrong in the removal report,
her comments were used to justify the removal of her siblings from their
mother's house.

Revolving doors

Ashley was first removed from her mother's home after her stay at Nix.
That was when Hammock received the case. She told Juanita, over the
phone, that she would have to remove all three of her children if Ashley
could not be placed with a relative.

Juanita's aunt agreed to take the girl but soon asked Juanita to take
her back, saying she could not control Ashley.

Over the next several weeks, Juanita called Hammock repeatedly to
discuss getting counseling. Finally, she says she went to see CPS
supervisor Richard Brooks to complain that Hammock wasn't answering her
phone calls.

Brooks responded by assigning yet another worker to the case.

By then Juanita had sent Ashley to the Boy's and Girl's Club for
after-school supervision, but she was kicked out for bad behavior,
including leaving the premises and lying, according to a letter from the
director Juanita made available to the Express-News.

Ashley arrived at her alternative school one day, teary-eyed and with
what looked like burn marks on her neck, according to the removal
report. A school counselor phoned CPS.

Because the caseworker Brooks had assigned to the case was gone on
maternity leave, Montgomery responded to the call. She thought the marks
on Ashley's neck looked like hickeys, according to the court transcript.

Ashley told Montgomery she had scrubbed her own neck until it bled
because she was afraid to go home. She didn't mention that she had a
court hearing for vandalism scheduled the next day.

Moved by the girl's fear, Montgomery reviewed the family's CPS file and
decided to place Ashley with Juanita's sister, Terry.

Montgomery, too, warned Juanita that she would have no choice but to
remove all three children if the placement with her relative didn't work
out.

Within days, based on an allegation of unsafe conditions at that home,
Judge Richard Garcia granted Montgomery's request for the emergency
removal of all three children. She drove them to a shelter in Luling—
the closest place that could take all three — until a permanent
placement could be found.

Then, because of several delays before the hearing to determine if the
removal was appropriate, the children languished in the Luling shelter
for six weeks.

Based on information provided by Hammock and Montgomery, Mireles decided
to send all three children to live in Lubbock with Martinez, Sara's
father. He had offered to take in not only his daughter but also Ashley
and Joshua, to whom he is not related, so that the children could remain
together — something caseworkers and attorneys always prefer.

Ashley lasted almost five months in the Martinez household.

"I enjoyed matching wits with her, making her think," Martinez said
recently. "But when she flipped her switch, that was it. She just kept
getting more and more defiant."

Ashley disrupted the house, defied Martinez's wife and tried to overdose
on sleeping pills. After several months of struggle, he asked CPS to
remove the girl.

Medication rotation

As each subsequent placement for Ashley failed — she ran away from one
group home, tried to overdose at another and fought with other children
— a new caseworker would drive her to a new place, where a new doctor
would re-evaluate her, often changing the type and dosages of her
medications. Never was one person in charge of her care.

Each new doctor prescribed a new mix of medications: In Luling there was
Ambien, a sleep aid; trazodone, an antidepressant; Ativan, an
anti-anxiety medication; and Zoloft, also an antidepressant.

During a brief stay at the state hospital in Amarillo, she was
prescribed 150 mg of Trileptal, an anti-seizure medication also
prescribed for bipolar disorder, twice a day; 10 mg of Lexapro, an
anti-anxiety and depression medication; and trazodone, a caseworker said
during a routine hearing.

A doctor in Victoria told Juanita that Ashley had been taking a daily
dose of 900 mg of Seroquel — a medication prescribed for "acute bipolar
mania," according to the drug's Web site — and he lowered the dose to
100 mg, because, he said, 900 mg was dangerously high.

The merry-go-round of medications infuriated and frightened Juanita, but
there was little she could do.

As she received one phone call after another from each new caseworker,
informing her that Ashley had been moved yet again, she dutifully
attended anger management classes, as ordered. They provided so much
relief she began looking forward to her Wednesday evening sessions, she
said.

Also as ordered, Juanita took homemaking and parenting classes. She saw
a therapist every week. And she continued working as an office assistant
at the San Antonio Fire Department's Emergency Management Services, a
job she had held for about a year when the children were taken away.

Her compliance with the court-ordered classes and her continued work for
the Fire Department were praised during regular court hearings.

Caseworkers also noted she had begun to take more responsibility for her
own behavior. But her brash and grating style continued to work against her.

Juanita complained to each new caseworker that she always was the last
to know where Ashley was, how she was doing and why she was on so many
medications.

She complained as her daughter's weight and cholesterol ballooned, as
she fell further behind in school. She complained that Martinez was not
making a good-faith effort to make Sara and Joshua available by phone at
the appointed times.

In the midst of her efforts, Martinez decided to sue for full custody of
Sara, believing it would be in the little girl's best interest to stay
in Lubbock.

Juanita was devastated. To help pay mounting legal bills, she took a
second job at Taco Cabana.

At a judge's urging, the dispute went to mediation, and attorneys
attempted to broker a deal that would bring Joshua and Ashley home while
Sara stayed with Martinez until the custody battle could be resolved.

Juanita agreed, but couldn't sleep that night. The next morning, she
told her attorney she didn't want to take the deal; she wanted to go to
trial.

Juanita feared that if she left Sara, she would never get her back.
After all, she thought, whom would a judge believe? Martinez, an
attorney, or a woman whose children had been removed by CPS?

As 2005 wound to a close, CPS began making preparations for Ashley to
return home. She had finally stayed in one place for several months.

But Joshua's fate, like Sara's, was in limbo. Though he was not part of
the custody case Martinez initiated to keep Sara, CPS wasn't ready to
release him back to his mother.

Therapy records Juanita shared with the Express-News show Josh himself
was reluctant to return home, worried that nothing between his mother
and Ashley would have changed.

But after a weekend visit and several therapy sessions with his mother
on a speakerphone, he said he would like to go back to San Antonio.

Brief homecoming

Ashley arrived home last March. She was 15, having spent two birthdays
in CPS custody.

At first, she and her mother saw the counselor Juanita had been visiting
almost weekly, and Ashley tried hard at school.

Just weeks later, the trial over Sara's fate was averted when Juanita
and Martinez agreed to joint custody of Sara. Sara and Joshua finished
out the school year in Lubbock and returned to San Antonio in May.

By then, Ashley and her mother began to clash once again. When it was
time for Sara to go back to Lubbock to begin her half-year with
Martinez, Juanita was relieved to get her away from all the disruptions.

When Ashley ran away, Juanita, while still in phone contact with her
daughter, went to CPS looking for help, terrified that Ashley's behavior
would jeopardize her family again.

A supervisor suggested she find a relative who would take Ashley, saying
the agency couldn't help her anymore because her case was closed and CPS
doesn't open cases on runaways.

Juanita swallowed her pride and called her sister Terry, who agreed to
take Ashley but kicked her out three weeks later.

Ashley went to another aunt's house but left after a short time. And now
her mother doesn't know where she is.

Juanita is deflated when she talks about her children. She feels she has
lost Ashley, and may lose Sara to her father in Lubbock after all.
Joshua hangs in the balance.

Having moved into adolescence, he too is testing Juanita's boundaries.
He still is a good student. But sometimes he cusses at his mother during
arguments.

Juanita continues working for the Fire Department and has realized her
dream of home ownership. With the help of San Antonio Alternative
Housing, she put a down payment on a small house to be built near the
Toyota plant within months.

The last she heard of Ashley, several weeks ago, the girl had called her
sister Jennifer and left an angry message. Ashley accused Jennifer of
"taking mom's side." Jennifer told her mother her little sister's voice
sounded slurred.

Juanita called CPS once again. And, once again, she was told there was
just nothing the agency could do.

Juanita recalls the conversation.

"The supervisor told me, you know, Mrs. Lozano — you can't help someone
that doesn't want to be helped."


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Old February 26th 07, 07:30 PM posted to alt.support.child-protective-services,alt.support.foster-parents,alt.parenting.spanking
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On Feb 26, 12:15 pm, "0:-]" wrote:
On Mon, 26 Feb 2007 09:28:53 -0700, fx wrote:

....a careful read reveals what you don't wish to face: that society,
NOT CPS OR THE STATE fails families such as these.

The tax payer, through their legislators, do NOT wish to fund up front
services ... it's just that simple.

Do you think this story was slanted to indict the state, or place
responsibility where it belongs; with society?


I wouldn't pin the blame exclusively on "society" nor CPS.

Yes, CPS should have handled this case differently. Yes, "society"
should have effective programs in place that try to help single
mothers raise rebellious teenagers (many with underlying mental
illnesses). But it's not CPS's nor society's fault that this family
found itself in need of such programs.

Single mother, pregnant with her first child at age 15. Pregnant
again at 17. 3 more kids - 3 more different fathers who abused drugs,
alcohol, and/or the mother. Despite her "fierce need to give her kids
a better life", Juanita gave them a childhood eerily similar to her
own.

Ashley was failed by her mother, her father, and seems destined to
fail herself and her own future children. The fact that CPS or
"society" didn't save her mother from her own choices doesn't render
them primarily responsible.

Dad

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On 26 Feb 2007 11:30:16 -0800, "Dad" wrote:

On Feb 26, 12:15 pm, "0:-]" wrote:
On Mon, 26 Feb 2007 09:28:53 -0700, fx wrote:

....a careful read reveals what you don't wish to face: that society,
NOT CPS OR THE STATE fails families such as these.

The tax payer, through their legislators, do NOT wish to fund up front
services ... it's just that simple.

Do you think this story was slanted to indict the state, or place
responsibility where it belongs; with society?


I wouldn't pin the blame exclusively on "society" nor CPS.

Yes, CPS should have handled this case differently. Yes, "society"
should have effective programs in place that try to help single
mothers raise rebellious teenagers (many with underlying mental
illnesses). But it's not CPS's nor society's fault that this family
found itself in need of such programs.

Single mother, pregnant with her first child at age 15. Pregnant
again at 17. 3 more kids - 3 more different fathers who abused drugs,
alcohol, and/or the mother. Despite her "fierce need to give her kids
a better life", Juanita gave them a childhood eerily similar to her
own.

Ashley was failed by her mother, her father, and seems destined to
fail herself and her own future children. The fact that CPS or
"society" didn't save her mother from her own choices doesn't render
them primarily responsible.


Well, for me it would extend far into the past, to HER childhood, as
to society's responsibility to provide support.

However, admitting to my bias, she lost it in my eyes when she cut her
daughter's long hair.

Sad that she would even think of doing such a thing.

Most parenting programs offered by CPS provide far more effective and
less traumatic methods of behavior change.

Dad


Kane

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Old February 27th 07, 01:52 AM posted to alt.support.child-protective-services,alt.support.foster-parents,alt.parenting.spanking
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CPS hands kids their cards and encourages already
rebellious teenagers to threaten their Mom with the card?

GREAT job of empowerment!
Straight out of NAZI YOUTH.

It's interestiung also how the caseworkers repeatedly
blamed the Mom and how full of crap they were.

The Mom in this case might not have even needed
anger management if CPS hadn't ""empowered""
the teen age hellions in the first place!

And the hellions turned out to really BE hellions
in the various other placements.

What's this bureaucratic garbage that says
that the YOUNGER kids have to be removed FROM HER
if a placement fails??

This case really showcases what a complete
bunch of worthless morons these caseworkers
really are.

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Greegor wrote:
CPS hands kids their cards and encourages already
rebellious teenagers to threaten their Mom with the card?


I believe that in this case there may well have been abuse prior to the
child having the card.

So if a child is abused they should not seek help from CPS?

What would you do if someone cut off your hair to punish you?

GREAT job of empowerment!
Straight out of NAZI YOUTH.


You are once more hallucinating.

It's interestiung also how the caseworkers repeatedly
blamed the Mom and how full of crap they were.


Well, it looks like you are wrong.

The Mom in this case might not have even needed
anger management if CPS hadn't ""empowered""
the teen age hellions in the first place!


You didn't read the descriptions of the mother's behavior. If you want
to make a teen frantic and fighting back, one way or another, be a mean
punitive parent, as this lady apparently was.

And the hellions turned out to really BE hellions
in the various other placements.


No, they simply have been taught not to trust adults. That means they
will test every place they go. Most folks don't know how to deal with a
teens (or younger children's) 'testing' behaviors. They tend, as YOU
did, Greg, to see the child as defiant.

Look what it got Lisa.

What's this bureaucratic garbage that says
that the YOUNGER kids have to be removed FROM HER
if a placement fails??


It was not linked to a placement failing. It was linked to the next
child in line being subjected to the mother's aggressive and abusive
treatment of the "oldest" child in the home. Already proven with one
kid, then with the second one. Read the actual article, Greg.

This case really showcases what a complete
bunch of worthless morons these caseworkers
really are.


Actually it shows they went way out of their way to accommodate this
family, and especially the mother. I suspect, like you, she just didn't
quite get the anger management piece...and that kids should not be
subjected to such things as a parent's uncontrolled anger.

But you wouldn't understand that, now would you, Greg?

So, presuming you can recover the article itself (that you have now
hidden so you and others can't see how stupid and factless your
accusations) how about going through it and highlighting each of these
things that relate to your accusations....LEAVING NOTHING OUT FROM THE
ORIGINAL ARTICLE?

Can you do that?

Make your argument based on facts, Greg, not your poor and biased recall
of the story.

Thanks.

 




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