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Alabama child support modification query...HELP!!
Earlier in the week my wife went to court in an attempt to have her monthly
child support increased. She got divorced in 1996, and the child support award was $189/month. It was also in the divorce decree that her ex keep full insurance on their daughter. It couldn't be medicare or Allkids (an Alabama low-income medicare program). It had to be legitimate full coverage. Assisting her before the court date was a worker from DHR here, who told her that they wouldn't help out unless they could guarantee at least a 10% increase. Those were her exact words. So my wife agreed to go back to court. Incidentally, from the time of her divorce, her ex had NEVER put his daughter on insurance per the divorce decree. Anyway, we get into court, and her ex shows up with a brand spanking new insurance card, activated just a week prior to the court date. It seems he has insured himself, his new wife, and my stepdaughter, but not his two other children with his new wife. The divorce decree says he must inform my wife when he takes out insurance on my stepdaughter, but does NOT give a timeframe for doing so. So, he lets her know at the hearing that he has the legitimate insurance. It's an HMO thru his workplace, with (he states) dues of $300/month. Incidentally, he took out the policy on himself and his wife in April. BTW, his income now is far greater than his income at the time of the divorce. To make a long story short, the judge reduced the monthly child support award from $189 to $101. My wife never got the chance to talk to her lawyer, the judge, or the caseworker assigned to her. Her ex just threw down the insurance card, they recalculated the support, and my wife had to sign off on it. We tried to talk to the caseworker to have her explain what had happened, but the only answer we got was "It's in the guidelines" over and over and over. My question is this: If the divorce decree says he HAS to have insurance and he HAS to pay $189/month, what is the justification in almost halving the support now that he is finally (after all these years) obeying the original divorce decree?? Common sense would dictate that, in now having insurance, he is finally complying with the law (insurance AND $189/month in support). We both came out of the hearing feeling like my wife had been violated by her husband, the judge, and her DHR caseworker. Not just my wife but my stepdaughter, who has the support from her father seriously decreased. Is there no recourse at this time? Or do we just chalk it up to experience and go on with our lives? Buryl |
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Alabama child support modification query...HELP!!
In article outparenting.com,
Buryl says... Earlier in the week my wife went to court in an attempt to have her monthly child support increased. She got divorced in 1996, and the child support award was $189/month. It was also in the divorce decree that her ex keep full insurance on their daughter. It couldn't be medicare or Allkids (an Alabama low-income medicare program). It had to be legitimate full coverage. Assisting her before the court date was a worker from DHR here, who told her that they wouldn't help out unless they could guarantee at least a 10% increase. Those were her exact words. So my wife agreed to go back to court. Incidentally, from the time of her divorce, her ex had NEVER put his daughter on insurance per the divorce decree. Anyway, we get into court, and her ex shows up with a brand spanking new insurance card, activated just a week prior to the court date. It seems he has insured himself, his new wife, and my stepdaughter, but not his two other children with his new wife. The divorce decree says he must inform my wife when he takes out insurance on my stepdaughter, but does NOT give a timeframe for doing so. So, he lets her know at the hearing that he has the legitimate insurance. It's an HMO thru his workplace, with (he states) dues of $300/month. Incidentally, he took out the policy on himself and his wife in April. BTW, his income now is far greater than his income at the time of the divorce. To make a long story short, the judge reduced the monthly child support award from $189 to $101. My wife never got the chance to talk to her lawyer, the judge, or the caseworker assigned to her. Her ex just threw down the insurance card, they recalculated the support, and my wife had to sign off on it. We tried to talk to the caseworker to have her explain what had happened, but the only answer we got was "It's in the guidelines" over and over and over. ======== Then there is your answer. You should have listened more carefully to her explanation? The caseworker has the numbers needed to calculate the support according to the guidelines. That is how it's done. If it wasn't done per the guidelines, you can appeal. How much income did he show on his affidavit? How much does your wife earn? Did you do the calculations to confirm the correctness of the amount? When a dad comes here looking for advise/info on modification, he is usually directed to the controlling state's guidelines so he knows in advance, what he will be paying. Sometimes it's more than his current amount, sometimes less. But, it is always wise to check the guidelines *prior* to filing for a modification. ======== ======== |
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Alabama child support modification query...HELP!!
"Gini" wrote in message ... In article outparenting.com, Buryl says... Earlier in the week my wife went to court in an attempt to have her monthly child support increased. She got divorced in 1996, and the child support award was $189/month. It was also in the divorce decree that her ex keep full insurance on their daughter. It couldn't be medicare or Allkids (an Alabama low-income medicare program). It had to be legitimate full coverage. Assisting her before the court date was a worker from DHR here, who told her that they wouldn't help out unless they could guarantee at least a 10% increase. Those were her exact words. So my wife agreed to go back to court. Incidentally, from the time of her divorce, her ex had NEVER put his daughter on insurance per the divorce decree. Anyway, we get into court, and her ex shows up with a brand spanking new insurance card, activated just a week prior to the court date. It seems he has insured himself, his new wife, and my stepdaughter, but not his two other children with his new wife. The divorce decree says he must inform my wife when he takes out insurance on my stepdaughter, but does NOT give a timeframe for doing so. So, he lets her know at the hearing that he has the legitimate insurance. It's an HMO thru his workplace, with (he states) dues of $300/month. Incidentally, he took out the policy on himself and his wife in April. BTW, his income now is far greater than his income at the time of the divorce. To make a long story short, the judge reduced the monthly child support award from $189 to $101. My wife never got the chance to talk to her lawyer, the judge, or the caseworker assigned to her. Her ex just threw down the insurance card, they recalculated the support, and my wife had to sign off on it. We tried to talk to the caseworker to have her explain what had happened, but the only answer we got was "It's in the guidelines" over and over and over. ======== Then there is your answer. You should have listened more carefully to her explanation? The caseworker has the numbers needed to calculate the support according to the guidelines. That is how it's done. If it wasn't done per the guidelines, you can appeal. How much income did he show on his affidavit? How much does your wife earn? Did you do the calculations to confirm the correctness of the amount? When a dad comes here looking for advise/info on modification, he is usually directed to the controlling state's guidelines so he knows in advance, what he will be paying. Sometimes it's more than his current amount, sometimes less. But, it is always wise to check the guidelines *prior* to filing for a modification. ======== ======== Reading into this a little bit - Since no insurance was in place at the time of the original order, the court had no way to adjust the basic CS award for the cost of the insurance. The court ordered the NCP to go get insurance. Once he had insurance and the cost was known, the court pro-rated the cost of the insurance and required the CP to pay her portion of the cost. The reduction of the basic CS award is $88 per month. That amount is 29% of the cost of insurance. If the CP earns more than 29% of the total income, then the basic award would have been increased by the court, but the pro-rate for insurance brought it back down. From the father's standpoint, what occurred was his Cs payment went from $189 to $101 plus some portion of the $300. The CP got exactly what the court ordered and what she asked for. |
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Alabama child support modification query...HELP!!
In article .net, Bob
Whiteside says... "Gini" wrote in message ... In article boutparenting.com, Buryl says... Earlier in the week my wife went to court in an attempt to have her monthly child support increased. She got divorced in 1996, and the child support award was $189/month. It was also in the divorce decree that her ex keep full insurance on their daughter. It couldn't be medicare or Allkids (an Alabama low-income medicare program). It had to be legitimate full coverage. Assisting her before the court date was a worker from DHR here, who told her that they wouldn't help out unless they could guarantee at least a 10% increase. Those were her exact words. So my wife agreed to go back to court. Incidentally, from the time of her divorce, her ex had NEVER put his daughter on insurance per the divorce decree. Anyway, we get into court, and her ex shows up with a brand spanking new insurance card, activated just a week prior to the court date. It seems he has insured himself, his new wife, and my stepdaughter, but not his two other children with his new wife. The divorce decree says he must inform my wife when he takes out insurance on my stepdaughter, but does NOT give a timeframe for doing so. So, he lets her know at the hearing that he has the legitimate insurance. It's an HMO thru his workplace, with (he states) dues of $300/month. Incidentally, he took out the policy on himself and his wife in April. BTW, his income now is far greater than his income at the time of the divorce. To make a long story short, the judge reduced the monthly child support award from $189 to $101. My wife never got the chance to talk to her lawyer, the judge, or the caseworker assigned to her. Her ex just threw down the insurance card, they recalculated the support, and my wife had to sign off on it. We tried to talk to the caseworker to have her explain what had happened, but the only answer we got was "It's in the guidelines" over and over and over. ======== Then there is your answer. You should have listened more carefully to her explanation? The caseworker has the numbers needed to calculate the support according to the guidelines. That is how it's done. If it wasn't done per the guidelines, you can appeal. How much income did he show on his affidavit? How much does your wife earn? Did you do the calculations to confirm the correctness of the amount? When a dad comes here looking for advise/info on modification, he is usually directed to the controlling state's guidelines so he knows in advance, what he will be paying. Sometimes it's more than his current amount, sometimes less. But, it is always wise to check the guidelines *prior* to filing for a modification. ======== ======== Reading into this a little bit - Since no insurance was in place at the time of the original order, the court had no way to adjust the basic CS award for the cost of the insurance. The court ordered the NCP to go get insurance. Once he had insurance and the cost was known, the court pro-rated the cost of the insurance and required the CP to pay her portion of the cost. The reduction of the basic CS award is $88 per month. That amount is 29% of the cost of insurance. If the CP earns more than 29% of the total income, then the basic award would have been increased by the court, but the pro-rate for insurance brought it back down. From the father's standpoint, what occurred was his Cs payment went from $189 to $101 plus some portion of the $300. The CP got exactly what the court ordered and what she asked for. ===== I was hopin' you'd do the math ;-) ===== ===== |
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Alabama child support modification query...HELP!!
It's not that hard to see what happened. the new family has expenses, he
makes X dollars. The money he pays out for the insurance is figured as an expense. It lowered the amount of money available to pay for support. When you go for a raise in support, it's a double-edged sword. What you thought would be his complying with the old decree with a raise in support is looked at as a modification of decree, invalidating the old decree. The new support amount was calculated according to the child support guidelines. You can probably find a CS calculator online that will help you see what happened. You should also be able to get a copy of the court documents, including the CS worksheets, to see how they arrived at the new amount. I know it isn't good news, but, with everything I've been through in the last 6 months, I've kinda had the quickie course in CS and custody provisions. The good news is that I have them fighting. My first hearing netted me a win in under 5 minutes. They have been shifting gears and switching tracks and tactics since then, in an effort to derail my efforts to remove their illegal claims of arrearages. That single win is one reason that the amount they claim I owe was increased by over $25,000 in only 4 days. ( I paid all support I ever owed to the original state ) The only thing you can do is fight, but please try to arm yourself with the same weapons and rules of your opponent, or you are but a lamb to slaughter. If you cannot do this, then save, and find an attorney to help you, because the law can turn and bite you if you aren't aware of the flip-side of the coin. "Buryl" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... Earlier in the week my wife went to court in an attempt to have her monthly child support increased. She got divorced in 1996, and the child support award was $189/month. It was also in the divorce decree that her ex keep full insurance on their daughter. It couldn't be medicare or Allkids (an Alabama low-income medicare program). It had to be legitimate full coverage. Assisting her before the court date was a worker from DHR here, who told her that they wouldn't help out unless they could guarantee at least a 10% increase. Those were her exact words. So my wife agreed to go back to court. Incidentally, from the time of her divorce, her ex had NEVER put his daughter on insurance per the divorce decree. Anyway, we get into court, and her ex shows up with a brand spanking new insurance card, activated just a week prior to the court date. It seems he has insured himself, his new wife, and my stepdaughter, but not his two other children with his new wife. The divorce decree says he must inform my wife when he takes out insurance on my stepdaughter, but does NOT give a timeframe for doing so. So, he lets her know at the hearing that he has the legitimate insurance. It's an HMO thru his workplace, with (he states) dues of $300/month. Incidentally, he took out the policy on himself and his wife in April. BTW, his income now is far greater than his income at the time of the divorce. To make a long story short, the judge reduced the monthly child support award from $189 to $101. My wife never got the chance to talk to her lawyer, the judge, or the caseworker assigned to her. Her ex just threw down the insurance card, they recalculated the support, and my wife had to sign off on it. We tried to talk to the caseworker to have her explain what had happened, but the only answer we got was "It's in the guidelines" over and over and over. My question is this: If the divorce decree says he HAS to have insurance and he HAS to pay $189/month, what is the justification in almost halving the support now that he is finally (after all these years) obeying the original divorce decree?? Common sense would dictate that, in now having insurance, he is finally complying with the law (insurance AND $189/month in support). We both came out of the hearing feeling like my wife had been violated by her husband, the judge, and her DHR caseworker. Not just my wife but my stepdaughter, who has the support from her father seriously decreased. Is there no recourse at this time? Or do we just chalk it up to experience and go on with our lives? Buryl |
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Alabama child support modification query...HELP!!
"Gini" wrote in message ... In article .net, Bob Whiteside says... "Gini" wrote in message ... In article boutparenting.com, Buryl says... Earlier in the week my wife went to court in an attempt to have her monthly child support increased. She got divorced in 1996, and the child support award was $189/month. It was also in the divorce decree that her ex keep full insurance on their daughter. It couldn't be medicare or Allkids (an Alabama low-income medicare program). It had to be legitimate full coverage. Assisting her before the court date was a worker from DHR here, who told her that they wouldn't help out unless they could guarantee at least a 10% increase. Those were her exact words. So my wife agreed to go back to court. Incidentally, from the time of her divorce, her ex had NEVER put his daughter on insurance per the divorce decree. Anyway, we get into court, and her ex shows up with a brand spanking new insurance card, activated just a week prior to the court date. It seems he has insured himself, his new wife, and my stepdaughter, but not his two other children with his new wife. The divorce decree says he must inform my wife when he takes out insurance on my stepdaughter, but does NOT give a timeframe for doing so. So, he lets her know at the hearing that he has the legitimate insurance. It's an HMO thru his workplace, with (he states) dues of $300/month. Incidentally, he took out the policy on himself and his wife in April. BTW, his income now is far greater than his income at the time of the divorce. To make a long story short, the judge reduced the monthly child support award from $189 to $101. My wife never got the chance to talk to her lawyer, the judge, or the caseworker assigned to her. Her ex just threw down the insurance card, they recalculated the support, and my wife had to sign off on it. We tried to talk to the caseworker to have her explain what had happened, but the only answer we got was "It's in the guidelines" over and over and over. ======== Then there is your answer. You should have listened more carefully to her explanation? The caseworker has the numbers needed to calculate the support according to the guidelines. That is how it's done. If it wasn't done per the guidelines, you can appeal. How much income did he show on his affidavit? How much does your wife earn? Did you do the calculations to confirm the correctness of the amount? When a dad comes here looking for advise/info on modification, he is usually directed to the controlling state's guidelines so he knows in advance, what he will be paying. Sometimes it's more than his current amount, sometimes less. But, it is always wise to check the guidelines *prior* to filing for a modification. ======== ======== Reading into this a little bit - Since no insurance was in place at the time of the original order, the court had no way to adjust the basic CS award for the cost of the insurance. The court ordered the NCP to go get insurance. Once he had insurance and the cost was known, the court pro-rated the cost of the insurance and required the CP to pay her portion of the cost. The reduction of the basic CS award is $88 per month. That amount is 29% of the cost of insurance. If the CP earns more than 29% of the total income, then the basic award would have been increased by the court, but the pro-rate for insurance brought it back down. From the father's standpoint, what occurred was his Cs payment went from $189 to $101 plus some portion of the $300. The CP got exactly what the court ordered and what she asked for. ===== I was hopin' you'd do the math ;-) ===== ===== It's all predictable under the established guidelines process for generating the results, but it's the assumptions behind the guidelines that fathers challenge. |
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