Sane Parenting Plan

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Why not find a man who really, really really
WANTS kids? That method worked in my family.

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Some of us understood that breeding children in a world that is so
overpopulated it can't support those already here is insanity.

So you're insane?

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However, women who insist on breeding, even when the man is reluctant,
are the main problem. Why not find a man who really, really really
WANTS kids? That method worked in my family.

What if you found yourself engaged to a man who told you they wanted
children, but he changes his mind after the marriage? Or better yet - why
would HE marry HER if he knew up front they didn't agree on having children,
but HE wasn't honest with her? I know of a woman who found herself in that
exact position. Even after their divorce he ended up with custody. His
only reason for seeking custody was to not pay child support to her. It had
nothing to do with being a parent to the children as he constantly
complained he never wanted them. Ironically he doesn't have custody of all
the children anymore. One spoke up and ended up moving in with her mother.
Another became an adult, but has a closer relationship with his mother. The
only one left in his care is there only because he does whatever he wishes
and knows he couldn't get away with skipping school, etc, if he lived with
his mother.

I agree there are some who shouldn't have children, but when they end up
having children they should become a parent and start learning HOW to
cooperate.

Tracy

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Why not find a man who really, really really
WANTS kids? That method worked in my family.

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Some of us understood that breeding children in a world that is so
overpopulated it can't support those already here is insanity.

So you're insane?

If I could I'd huge you! Thank you, because that was funny.

Tracy