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  #22  
Old June 14th 05, 09:05 PM
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Secret Squirrel wrote:


Gray Shockley wrote in
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A very quick reply, Gray. Don't have much time now.

On Wed, 8 Jun 2005 13:12:56 -0500, Secret Squirrel
wrote:


The problem is, or course, is that the society at
large, led by the Fox-y News Media,


Faux News doesn't "lead" anybody. It's reenforcement for
the

Don't try to change my mind;
It's already been made up for me.

crowd.

I think that Faux News is nothing more than a propaganda
arm of the Republican Party.

You *do* realize that Faux News has been sued by some of
its former reporters, who said that they were fired when
they refused to knowingly air false information---and that
Faux News won the case. But did you know what Faux News's
defense was? Not that the reporters were factually
incorrect at all, oh no! It was: "We have every right to
lie to the public".

I think that this very admission should be enough to have
the FCC pull the plug on them. The public owns the
airwaves, and it shouldn't be licensed out to a propaganda
machine that by its own admission deliberately has spread
falsehoods. Good news reporting, good public service,
should cause people to *question* their own beliefs, not
reinforce them.

I can post the link to the story mentioned, but not today.


Do you have this much of a problem with 80% of the domestic
media being far-left,


Foghorn Leghorn imitation

I say I say I say, that's a joke, son? Right?

Is 'far left bias' the reason why the Downing Street Memo, which
clearly demonstrates that the Bu****es knowingly lied to get
us to invade Iraq


Since the DSM is an opinion piece utterly devoid of any proof of its
claims, the far-left domestic media can't touch it. But since the
entire world was in agreement that Saddam had WMD's, it's utterly
impossible for Bush to have lied. Still, keep denying reality, little
girl.

(so it can't be about WMDs, or democracy,
but about...what was that natural resource we're hooked on so
bad..OIL?)--is that why it's gotten so little press in this
country, and why Bush isn't hounded daily like Tony Bair is
over it?

or is media bias only bad when it doesn't reflect your own
personal feelings?


It's bad when it doesn't reflect the truth, which our ahem
right-wing press (yes, it's mostly right-wing) doesn't do.

BTW, here's the URL for the court case where FOX News argued
in its defense that it has every right to deliberately lie to
the public. I'll wager you'll never hear *this* story on old
'Fair and Balanced', eh? Funny, the rest of the 'far left'
media didn't report it either.

http://www.projectcensored.org/publications/2005/11.html

In fact, that site has a whole sleuth of largely unreported
stories our supposedly 'far left' media has somehow managed
to miss. All fully documented.

Secret Squirrel




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  #23  
Old June 14th 05, 11:32 PM
Gray Shockley
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On Tue, 14 Jun 2005 15:05, wrote:

Since the DSM is an opinion piece utterly devoid of any proof of its
claims, the far-left domestic media can't touch it. But since the
entire world was in agreement that Saddam had WMD's, it's utterly
impossible for Bush to have lied. Still, keep denying reality, little
girl.









1702














(so it can't be about WMDs, or democracy,
but about...what was that natural resource we're hooked on so
bad..OIL?)--is that why it's gotten so little press in this
country, and why Bush isn't hounded daily like Tony Bair is
over it?

or is media bias only bad when it doesn't reflect your own
personal feelings?


It's bad when it doesn't reflect the truth, which our ahem
right-wing press (yes, it's mostly right-wing) doesn't do.

BTW, here's the URL for the court case where FOX News argued
in its defense that it has every right to deliberately lie to
the public. I'll wager you'll never hear *this* story on old
'Fair and Balanced', eh? Funny, the rest of the 'far left'
media didn't report it either.

http://www.projectcensored.org/publications/2005/11.html

In fact, that site has a whole sleuth of largely unreported
stories our supposedly 'far left' media has somehow managed
to miss. All fully documented.

Secret Squirrel




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  #25  
Old June 15th 05, 07:14 AM
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Secret Squirrel wrote:
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wrote in
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Secret Squirrel wrote:


Gray Shockley wrote in
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A very quick reply, Gray. Don't have much time now.

On Wed, 8 Jun 2005 13:12:56 -0500, Secret Squirrel
wrote:


The problem is, or course, is that the society at
large, led by the Fox-y News Media,


Faux News doesn't "lead" anybody. It's reenforcement for
the

Don't try to change my mind;
It's already been made up for me.

crowd.

I think that Faux News is nothing more than a propaganda
arm of the Republican Party.

You *do* realize that Faux News has been sued by some of
its former reporters, who said that they were fired when
they refused to knowingly air false information---and that
Faux News won the case. But did you know what Faux News's
defense was? Not that the reporters were factually
incorrect at all, oh no! It was: "We have every right to
lie to the public".

I think that this very admission should be enough to have
the FCC pull the plug on them. The public owns the
airwaves, and it shouldn't be licensed out to a propaganda
machine that by its own admission deliberately has spread
falsehoods. Good news reporting, good public service,
should cause people to *question* their own beliefs, not
reinforce them.

I can post the link to the story mentioned, but not today.


Do you have this much of a problem with 80% of the domestic
media being far-left,


Foghorn Leghorn imitation

I say I say I say, that's a joke, son? Right?

Is 'far left bias' the reason why the Downing Street Memo, which
clearly demonstrates that the Bu****es knowingly lied to get
us to invade Iraq (so it can't be about WMDs, or democracy,
but about...what was that natural resource we're hooked on so
bad..OIL?)--is that why it's gotten so little press in this
country, and why Bush isn't hounded daily like Tony Bair is
over it?

or is media bias only bad when it doesn't reflect your own
personal feelings?


It's bad when it doesn't reflect the truth, which our ahem
right-wing press (yes, it's mostly right-wing) doesn't do.


It's okay that you have to lie because you can't stand that 80% of the
domestic media is out to embarrass the Bush administration, but try not
to do so in the face of so much contradictory evidence.


BTW, here's the URL for the court case where FOX News argued
in its defense that it has every right to deliberately lie to
the public. I'll wager you'll never hear *this* story on old
'Fair and Balanced', eh? Funny, the rest of the 'far left'
media didn't report it either.


Like I said, I understand your anger over FNC because it doesn't
reflect your own personal biases but I'm afraid your stark silence
vis-a-vis the rest of the leftist media brands you as a hypocrite. And
it's funny you should talk about "deliberately lying," considering the
two biggest fraudulent "news" stories of the last year attempted (and
failed) to humiliate Bush. Try not to cry.


http://www.projectcensored.org/publications/2005/11.html

In fact, that site has a whole sleuth of largely unreported
stories our supposedly 'far left' media has somehow managed
to miss. All fully documented.

Secret Squirrel




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Old June 15th 05, 06:56 PM
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It's bad when it doesn't reflect the truth, which our ahem
right-wing press (yes, it's mostly right-wing) doesn't do.


It's okay that you have to lie because you can't stand that 80% of the
domestic media is out to embarrass the Bush administration, but try not
to do so in the face of so much contradictory evidence.


I had no idea defense contractors were out to
embarrass the Bush administration. If they were
out to embarrass the Bush administration, they
would admit that Saddam Hussein didn't have WMDs
or connections to Al Qaida. Or they would admit
that supply-side economics and "faith-based
initiatives" are perpetual motion. Or they
would've talked about Enron more. Or about
Diebold at all, since anyone knows how easy it
is to make a computer display one thing, print
something else, and store a third thing. (And if
you don't, there's probably white-out all over
your monitor.)

BTW, here's the URL for the court case where FOX News argued
in its defense that it has every right to deliberately lie to
the public. I'll wager you'll never hear *this* story on old
'Fair and Balanced', eh? Funny, the rest of the 'far left'
media didn't report it either.


Like I said, I understand your anger over FNC because it doesn't
reflect your own personal biases but I'm afraid your stark silence
vis-a-vis the rest of the leftist media brands you as a hypocrite. And
it's funny you should talk about "deliberately lying," considering the
two biggest fraudulent "news" stories of the last year attempted (and
failed) to humiliate Bush. Try not to cry.


Oh, you mean Jeff Gannon? Proven true. DSM?
Bush's only defense has been to cite prewar
intelligence which has already been discredited.

Perhaps we should talk about Monica Lewinsky. Or
about how the right-wing media thought Clinton
was responsible for the deaths of two Arkansas
teens who were hit by a train. (And the images of
silent movies just keep coming.)

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Old June 17th 05, 07:41 AM
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wrote:
It's bad when it doesn't reflect the truth, which our ahem
right-wing press (yes, it's mostly right-wing) doesn't do.


It's okay that you have to lie because you can't stand that 80% of the
domestic media is out to embarrass the Bush administration, but try not
to do so in the face of so much contradictory evidence.


I had no idea defense contractors were out to
embarrass the Bush administration.


You didn't know that most of the domestic media is anti-Bush, so I'm
not surprised reality escapses you.

If they were
out to embarrass the Bush administration, they
would admit that Saddam Hussein didn't have WMDs
or connections to Al Qaida.


They've admitted the first ad nauseum but avoided the second since it's
utterly untrue.

Or they would admit
that supply-side economics and "faith-based
initiatives" are perpetual motion. Or they
would've talked about Enron more. Or about
Diebold at all, since anyone knows how easy it
is to make a computer display one thing, print
something else, and store a third thing. (And if
you don't, there's probably white-out all over
your monitor.)


OIC, they should've reflected your own personal socialist persuasions
so you'd have something new to masturbate over. What a fun way to avoid
admitting that you were completely ****ing wrong.


BTW, here's the URL for the court case where FOX News argued
in its defense that it has every right to deliberately lie to
the public. I'll wager you'll never hear *this* story on old
'Fair and Balanced', eh? Funny, the rest of the 'far left'
media didn't report it either.


Like I said, I understand your anger over FNC because it doesn't
reflect your own personal biases but I'm afraid your stark silence
vis-a-vis the rest of the leftist media brands you as a hypocrite. And
it's funny you should talk about "deliberately lying," considering the
two biggest fraudulent "news" stories of the last year attempted (and
failed) to humiliate Bush. Try not to cry.


Oh, you mean Jeff Gannon? Proven true.


Memogate and Korangate. I know you don't like to talk about it since it
drives you to drink, but you can't keep avoding reality for the rest of
your life.

DSM?
Bush's only defense has been to cite prewar
intelligence which has already been discredited.


Yes, but prewar intelligence was discredited because there were no
WMD's, not because someone wrote an opinion piece three years ago that
utterly contradicted the beliefs of Democrats, Republicans, and most of
the industrialized world.


Perhaps we should talk about Monica Lewinsky. Or
about how the right-wing media thought Clinton
was responsible for the deaths of two Arkansas
teens who were hit by a train. (And the images of
silent movies just keep coming.)


Or we can talk about Abu Ghraib and Gitmo, but I don't want to get you
too upset.

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Old June 17th 05, 05:18 PM
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Gray Shockley wrote in
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On Fri, 10 Jun 2005 02:29, anonymous poster wrote:

[chomp]

Do you have this much of a problem with 80% of the
domestic media being far-left, or is media bias only bad
when it doesn't reflect your own personal feelings?


I haven't looked in years; how many of the networks are
owned by defense contractors?


[chomp]


Gray Shockley
------------------------------------------------------
If there's two trillion dollars to
privatize Social Security, then there
is /no/ Social Security problem.


While I'm posting URLs, here's the story on the 'sex offender'
from Colorado who got 'treatment' for what sounds like fairly
innocent, non-penetrative sex play while he was 12 (I
remembered wrongly) with an 8-yo girl.


Right. Child molestation is "innocent." What a clown you are.

I doubt the URL still
works.

People say these laws are 'for the children' or to 'protect
children'. Can you read the below and really believe that?
It seems to me that they are, first, last, and foremost,
there to protect notions of childhood sexual 'innocence' and
to put teeth in taboos which (in this country) are largely
based on fundamentalist Christianity. Kids who trepass and get
caught get thrown as fodder to the beast just like adults,
there ain't no 'protecting' at all.

Lucky for us, this type of legalized child abuse is widely
reported and roundly condemned by our 'far left' media--
uh, no, wait.

Secret Squirrel



BOY'S SEX OFFENSE STILL RESONATES

Incident at age 12 has consequences five years later

By Bill Scanlon

Rocky Mountain News, Colorado, USA: December 10, 2004
http://rockymountainnews.com/drmn/st...0,1299,DRMN_21
_3388085,00= .html

It started with a phone call, then a knock on the door.

An Arvada police detective told the couple he was looking
into allegations that their 14-year-old son, nicknamed
Victor, had sexually assaulted an 8-year-old girl two years
earlier.

They were shocked. Their son was shocked. There were tears,
then a confession. A guilty plea followed, and Victor found
himself among a growing number of young people on Colorado's
Sexual Offender Registry.

"It was an 'I'll show you mine if you show me yours' type of
thing," said Victor's mother, who spoke only on the condition
of anonymity. "He did touch her, but there was no
penetration. When she said that was enough, he stopped."

When Victor pleaded guilty to sexual assault, he joined
approximately 750 juveniles ages 12 to 17 who were on the
Colorado Bureau of Investigation's registry as of this
summer.

Since 1998, the number of names on the registry has more than
doubled, from 3,600 to roughly 7,690, largely because of a
national crackdown on sex offenders and because greater
public awareness has led to more reporting. In Colorado,
juveniles make up roughly 10 percent of the registry.

Victor was required to begin a treatment program, including a
set of stringent rules and guidelines, and his parents
committed to spending thousands of dollars on counselors,
polygraph tests and court costs.

He also became part of a program considered one of the
strictest in the nation.

Some say too strict.

The rules also are indiscriminate, painting teens such as
Victor who committed one offense with the same brush as teens
who are serial sexual predators, some experts say.

But others say the standards, written in 2002, are fair, but
that many judges and psychologists don't realize they can
adjust treatment for individual cases.

"There are times when we are guilty of using a
one-size-fits-all, cookie-cutter approach," said clinical
social worker Tom Leversee, a member of Colorado's Sex
Offender Management Board, which developed and oversees
statewide standards for the supervision of sex offenders.

"We need to get better at individualizing treatment."

STRICT RULES FOR PROBATION

Victor is 17 now and still has a couple months of probation
remaining, during which time:

* He can't go to the movies, the mall, amusement parks,
parties or anywhere there is likely to be children. He has to
phone his parents every hour.

* He can't go shopping with friends without first filing an
action plan with his treatment team, promising to avert his
eyes if he sees young children, for example. If he meets
those requirements, he still can't go shopping with girls his
own age, only with boys his own age. He can't have a
girlfriend.

* He has to take his meals on the porch if his parents invite
over another family with kids.

* His little brother can't have friends over to the house -
even if Victor is away.

* He has to take periodic polygraphs, which cost his parents
$225 each.

"It's put a major damper on a typical 16-year-old's life,"
the mother said. "I get so frustrated because I look at what
they're putting my son through - group therapy once a week,
individual therapy twice a week, probation twice a month. And
I read in the paper about these people who are actually
sexually offending walking around on the streets."

"It's a high price to pay for something he did at age 12."

His father is torn.

"On the one hand, this is too horrible a price to pay for
something so minor," he said. "But if there weren't any
consequences for what he did, what lesson would that teach my
son?"

That's one reason the parents didn't hire an attorney to
fight the charge. The other is that had the case gone to
trial and Victor was found guilty, he could have been
incarcerated.

As for Victor, he said he can't even think about college or
plan for the future; he is completely focused on getting
through the next two months without having his probation
extended.

TOUGH TASK BEGINS

Once Victor confessed, he was assigned a treatment team
consisting of a therapist, probation officer, polygrapher,
case worker and his parents.

First, he answered several hundred questions as part of a
psychological evaluation.

Next, a device was attached to Victor's penis to measure his
arousal when pictures of boys and girls of various ages were
shown.

Then he was hooked up to a polygraph and asked about his
sexual history and fantasies.

"It's like peeling back an onion," said Greg Brown,
supervisor at the Boulder County Probation Department. "Some
guys who we think are low-risk, we find are high-risk after
we do the sexual history."

"It can take a year to get a picture of what the guy is
engaged in," Brown added. It may have been just the one
victim, or it may have been several.

Victor passed a polygraph test on his version of what
happened the day he had contact with the girl, said Dr. David
Mirich, a forensic psychologist who talked about Victor's
case with the family's permission.

Victor passed his next polygraph, filled with questions about
whether he had ever touched his younger brother
inappropriately.

But he failed his third because he had installed a
PlayStation for a neighbor boy. Victor was deceptive about
violating the order that he not be alone with a child, not
even for five minutes.

Victor also made things worse for himself when he was caught
with marijuana. The incident didn't extend his probation, but
it meant he was subject to random urine tests and had to go
to an extra group therapy class.

Recently, his mother came forward and told the treatment team
that her son was not going places where he said he was going.
Her admission likely saved Victor more trouble if the team
had discovered the lie instead, Mirich said.

"The parents deserve a lot of credit for supervising this
child," Mirich said.

Said the mother: "Our entire family really is on probation.
We have to watch every move we make."

MEGAN'S LAWS SWEPT NATION

Like the rest of the nation, Colorado cracked down on sex
offenders in the 1990s. The rape and murder of 7-year-old
Megan Kanka in 1994 by a twice-convicted sex offender living
in her New Jersey neighborhood caused a public outcry.

All states enacted Megan's Law, which requires sex offenders
to register with police make their addresses known to the
public.

Juvenile sex crimes were increasing, and some studies showed
most sex offenders could never be rehabilitated.
Incarceration seemed to be the only way to protect the
public.

Until two years ago, juvenile sex offenders in Colorado were
treated like adults. But in 2000, lawmakers ordered the
Sexual Abuse Management Board to develop more flexible
treatment plans for teens, with greater emphasis on
rehabilitation.

The aim was to strike a balance between protecting society
and giving young offenders a chance to turn their lives
around.

But many psychologists and parents complain that therapy
teams often are reluctant to invoke that flexibility. So, a
kid who was naively experimenting is given the same treatment
as a kid who has been a repeat abuser, critics say.

The result is, Colorado has one of the highest rates of
offense reporting in the nation, they say.

"The problem is, the pendulum has swung too far. We've gone
from complete denial of the problem 20 years ago to now being
very hypersensitive, reactive and punitive," said Gail Ryan,
with the Kempe Center for child-abuse prevention in Denver.

She likes the flexibility of the new juvenile standards, but
says they rely too much on polygraphs. She believes juveniles
are more likely than adults to flunk them, even when they're
not lying.

When the juvenile sexual offense law was being drafted, most
experts didn't want a juvenile registry, or expected it to
contain only a few names, Ryan said. Those few would be
offenders with multiple victims who weren't responding to
treatment.

Ryan fears that too many young offenders will be labeled for
life.

"The community's assumption that all these kids are destined
to be this way for life is just not accurate."

Victor's father shares that view.

"Yes, what (my son) did was wrong. But there is no gray area
in the system," he said. "He's treated as if he was a serial
rapist or something. That's far from the truth."

"Nobody is willing to say, 'This looks like an isolated
incident, let's back off,' " he said.

A 19-year-old from Thornton who must spend the next 31/2
years in sex-offender treatment couldn't agree more.

He said there was no intercourse, just fooling around on the
bed with a girl he said looked 18. She was 14. The girl's
father walked in on them.

The teen was convicted of contributing to the delinquency of
a minor. He wasn't put on the registry but was given four
years of treatment. He has to report to his probation officer
six days a week, go to "sexual boundaries" therapy once a
week, and give a quarter of his paycheck to pay for the
treatment.

He is required to avert his eyes when children pass, to take
polygraph tests and to submit to spontaneous urine analyses.

"One mistake is ruining my life," he said.

Juveniles must petition the court to get their names off the
registry, but few do. "That's still uncommon," said Philip
Tedeschi, a clinical social worker and member of the state's
Sexual Offender Management Board. "I'm not sure they're
taking full advantage of that opportunity."

The statutes also allow judges to keep the juveniles' names
off the registry, if they feel the damage done by
stigmatizing the child outweighs the risk to the public.

SIMPLE INQUISITIVENESS

Some juveniles who wind up on the sex offender registry have
mental health problems, dysfunctional families and histories
of sexual abuse.

But many also are normal kids with a simple inquisitiveness
about about sex. They are typically described as naive
experimenters who have the hormones of 17-year-olds but the
social maturity of 12-year-olds.

Often, they have trouble making friends their own age, said
Tedeschi. They're more at ease with younger kids, and when
their hormones kick in, they sometimes experiment with those
youngsters.

Victor appears to fit this profile.

"I don't think he's deviant; I think he's normal," said Dr.
Mirich, his therapist.

Another large group of juvenile sex offenders are delinquents
who typically drink and use drugs, fight and get sexually
aggressive with peers.

A small number of youths, however, are more troubling.

These include juvenile psychopaths - self-centered and
sexually aggressive kids "who tend to be the most dangerous
youths, who can't really be treated in the open community,"
Tedeschi said.

The other dangerous ones are early-onset pedophiles who truly
prefer sexual contact with children rather than with people
their own age.

The victims, in two-thirds of cases, are children
significantly younger than they are, and almost half the time
it's someone in their own households, said Ryan.

In a third of cases, the offenders use coercion, force or
violence to get the younger child to do what they want.

"More often, they use subtle pressure - 'I won't like you,'
'I won't let you play with me,' 'I'll get you in trouble with
your mom,' " she said.

"The harm they cause at the moment of offending as juveniles
is very real," Ryan said. "We certainly don't want to
minimize that this is a terrible thing for anyone to do to
anyone."

SOME OFFENDERS RESIST CHANGE

Jean McAllister, executive director of the Colorado Coalition
Against Sexual Assault, deals with the victims young
offenders leave in their wake.

Colorado's rules are strict, she concedes, but they may not
be tough enough for the hardest cases, said McAllister.

Two years ago, for example, a 13-year-old Arapahoe County boy
was convicted of raping a child about five years younger than
he was. His treatment team ultimately discovered there had
been two more victims.

After he was caught in a lie about medications he was taking,
his therapy team revoked his probation.

The boy is now in a foster care facility that is locked down
24 hours a day. Unless he makes a dramatic turnaround, he
might be institutionalized well past his 18th birthday.

"We're still not great at identifying which kids aren't going
to re-offend, (and) which ones are more treatable," said
McAllister.

She worries that too many juveniles are released too early.

Victor's therapist, Mirich, said the rules may seem harsh,
but they're there for a reason.

A treatment team's first priority is ensuring the offender
won't hurt another child.

That's why an offender must be totally honest with the team
about every detail of his personal life - to ensure that they
can trust him and know that he isn't hurting another child.

Mirich agrees that Victor is paying too big a price for his
mistake. But, he said, Victor didn't help himself when he
broke the rules, including being alone with his neighbor to
install the PlayStation and once hugging a girl on the day
they met, an infraction that cost Victor the privilege of
being with any girls his own age.

Victor is angry.

"My parents have been going broke over this whole thing," he
said. "It's ruined our family."

There are so many rules, so many lists of "don'ts," that
sometimes it's easier just to stay home and do nothing,
Victor said.

"I'm not allowed to date anyone. I'm not allowed to talk to
girls. They have control over my whole life. For something
that happened when I was 12. And I haven't shown any deviancy
whatsoever since then.

"Right now, I'm pretty isolated. I don't want to do a single
thing because I'm scared of getting in trouble."

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It's bad when it doesn't reflect the truth, which our ahem
right-wing press (yes, it's mostly right-wing) doesn't do.

It's okay that you have to lie because you can't stand that 80% of the
domestic media is out to embarrass the Bush administration, but try not
to do so in the face of so much contradictory evidence.


I had no idea defense contractors were out to
embarrass the Bush administration.


You didn't know that most of the domestic media is anti-Bush, so I'm
not surprised reality escapses you.


Why would defense contractors be anti-Bush? After
all, he gives them billions for an essentially
nonsensical defense plan.

Oh, I forgot to mention: Defense contractors own
most of the mainstream media.

If they were
out to embarrass the Bush administration, they
would admit that Saddam Hussein didn't have WMDs
or connections to Al Qaida.


They've admitted the first ad nauseum but avoided the second since it's
utterly untrue.


And they knew Saddam Hussein didn't have weapons
even before that. Powell even said so in March
2002. As for connections to Al Qaida, read the
9/11 Commission Report. No connection between
Saddam Hussein and 9/11.

Of course, Bush didn't want Congress to
investigate 9/11. I wonder why . . .

Or they would admit
that supply-side economics and "faith-based
initiatives" are perpetual motion. Or they
would've talked about Enron more. Or about
Diebold at all, since anyone knows how easy it
is to make a computer display one thing, print
something else, and store a third thing. (And if
you don't, there's probably white-out all over
your monitor.)


OIC, they should've reflected your own personal socialist persuasions
so you'd have something new to masturbate over. What a fun way to avoid
admitting that you were completely ****ing wrong.


Oh, just because I don't see how reducing
taxes can cut the deficit makes me a
socialist. Here's a clue: The rich don't need
more money. There are no starving
billionaires.

If Enron makes me a socialist, then I guess a
socialist is someone who can't stand thieves.

As for Diebold, I bet you are the type who
puts white-out on your monitor.

Oh, you mean Jeff Gannon? Proven true.


Memogate and Korangate. I know you don't like to talk about it since it
drives you to drink, but you can't keep avoding reality for the rest of
your life.


There's evidence Bush set Memogate up. Plus,
the media didn't cover the exposing of the
Swift Boat "Veterans" for "Truth".

As far as Korangate goes, the Defense
Department says it's true.

DSM?
Bush's only defense has been to cite prewar
intelligence which has already been discredited.


Yes, but prewar intelligence was discredited because there were no
WMD's,


Actually most of the prewar intelligence went
in favor of Saddam not having WMDs. It was
stuff like "These factories COULD be
pharmaceutical plants or they COULD be making
chemical weapons." It was stuff like
"biological weapons facilities" which turned
out to be hydrogen for artillery balloons!

not because someone wrote an opinion piece three years ago that
utterly contradicted the beliefs of Democrats, Republicans, and most of
the industrialized world.


The DSM isn't an opinion piece. it's official
minutes. As far as "most of the industrialized
world", does that include Europe, Canada,
Japan, South Korea, Australia, and New Zealand?
Does it include the CIA?

Perhaps we should talk about Monica Lewinsky. Or
about how the right-wing media thought Clinton
was responsible for the deaths of two Arkansas
teens who were hit by a train. (And the images of
silent movies just keep coming.)


Or we can talk about Abu Ghraib and Gitmo, but I don't want to get you
too upset.


Oh, so you're admitting Rummy and Asscroft
ordered those.

Face it, the media had no qualms reporting on
things which didn't happen (Troopergate,
Filegate, the "Clinton murders") or which
were irrelevant (Monica Lewinsky). By
comparison, they're handling Bush with kid
gloves.

 




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