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Kids making kids
Only if he makes a success out of his life will the child support fangs come
out. His income will be so low, nobody will bother him, they will just be thrilled if he cares enough to visit. Chances are he will be to busy chasing the next hole to think about his kids. I agree, I would think he came from a fatherless home. The type of home the government helps to create. "Mark B." wrote in message ... "Gini52" wrote in message ... In article , Mark B. says... "Gini52" wrote in message ... In article , Mark B. says... "Dusty" wrote in message ... "Mark B." wrote in message ... My sister just started working in a local, rather rural, high school. The other day she was telling me about a boy that goes to school there that has FOUR CHILDREN, with THREE DIFFERENT GIRLS!!!! I am shocked. And I have no idea what the child support arrangements are. (Of course I asked. She didn't know.) My question to you nice folks is: What, if anything, should be done with this guy? DeadBroke_canyousayjewelsinthecrown?_Daddio Can you post any proof of this? Something which I strongly doubt. "Proof"? What could I offer here? Birth certificates? Pictures? Fingerprints? DNA analysis? A signed statement(s)? I rather think that this is just another lame-ass attempt to provoke people.. i.e.; yet another troll. You're right, I AM trying to provoke people....into thinking and offering an opinion. As for being a "troll", what leads you to that conclusion? Because you don't like the question or the scenario or find it too provocative to deal with, you dismiss me as a troll? How enlightening....and typical. So let's assume, for the sake of discussion, that this IS true; "What, if anything, should be done with this guy?" ==== Do you really believe that the answer lies with only one of the partners in these actions? ==== No, not at all, but the boy in this case is certainly the common denominator, and in my opinion the most likely candidate for intervention.... IF intervention is called for. ==== Mark, You said "not at all," and then proceeded to attempt justification for holding him solely responsible with the silly rationalization of "common denominator" and "most likely candidate for intervention." You (society) need to get over the mind-set that anything that happens to a woman is the fault of the man. It is not. I believe we are already seeing a change in women because of this attitude. Sweeping their discretions under the rug has resulted in women pushing more and more beyond the limits of acceptable conduct to the detriment of children and/or fathers (recall that some wanted to hold Rusty Yates responsible for Andrea's killing of her children). Women are equally responsible for consensual sexual encounters. To assert here that only the boy should be held responsible (and that *is* what you are saying) simply gives the girls impetus for continued reckless decision making. ==== ==== (PLEASE NOTE: I never bottom-sign my posts. Check Headers to Verify the Authenticity of This Post) I don't subscribe to the Men=Bad, Women=Good "mind-set", in spite of the fact that in this particular case I have assigned *most* of the blame to the male. I'm fully aware of the groups that you so willingly lump me in with, the ones that preach "Women have choices, men have responsibilities." You shouldn't. I probably should have phrased the question as, "What the freak do we do with these FOUR knucleheads?" Four children w/ 4 babies. So what should be done, if anything, to any of them? It is my opinion though, that this 17-18 year old "boy" deserves particular criticism for his actions. One baby is a mistake, hell, I could give ya' 2.... but 4 babies and it begins to look like a hobby, or a sport. It offends both my morality AND common sense. What has also shaped my opinion is what I didn't post about him; he's basically one of the the school bullies or hoods, or would that be "gangsta'"? I think this "manchild" is basically putting "notches in his belt", and further, it's cases like his that make ALL men look bad when he gets portrayed as the poster-child for the Men=Bad crowd. Would you agree he's the perfect candidate for them? For all I know he could be a wonderful father that loves and nurtures his children, and I've asked my sister to get some more details on him, the girls/motherS, the child-support and custody, etc. etc. I'd also bet dollars to donuts he grew up in a basically fatherless home himself, possibly born to a teen mother.... I think we can agree on this; the "child-support" system is going to be eating this guys' lunch for YEARS! He is really setting himself up for a very, very bad mauling at the hands of that bunch of witless robocrats. |
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Kids making kids
Only if he makes a success out of his life will the child support fangs come
out. His income will be so low, nobody will bother him, they will just be thrilled if he cares enough to visit. Chances are he will be to busy chasing the next hole to think about his kids. I agree, I would think he came from a fatherless home. The type of home the government helps to create. "Mark B." wrote in message ... "Gini52" wrote in message ... In article , Mark B. says... "Gini52" wrote in message ... In article , Mark B. says... "Dusty" wrote in message ... "Mark B." wrote in message ... My sister just started working in a local, rather rural, high school. The other day she was telling me about a boy that goes to school there that has FOUR CHILDREN, with THREE DIFFERENT GIRLS!!!! I am shocked. And I have no idea what the child support arrangements are. (Of course I asked. She didn't know.) My question to you nice folks is: What, if anything, should be done with this guy? DeadBroke_canyousayjewelsinthecrown?_Daddio Can you post any proof of this? Something which I strongly doubt. "Proof"? What could I offer here? Birth certificates? Pictures? Fingerprints? DNA analysis? A signed statement(s)? I rather think that this is just another lame-ass attempt to provoke people.. i.e.; yet another troll. You're right, I AM trying to provoke people....into thinking and offering an opinion. As for being a "troll", what leads you to that conclusion? Because you don't like the question or the scenario or find it too provocative to deal with, you dismiss me as a troll? How enlightening....and typical. So let's assume, for the sake of discussion, that this IS true; "What, if anything, should be done with this guy?" ==== Do you really believe that the answer lies with only one of the partners in these actions? ==== No, not at all, but the boy in this case is certainly the common denominator, and in my opinion the most likely candidate for intervention.... IF intervention is called for. ==== Mark, You said "not at all," and then proceeded to attempt justification for holding him solely responsible with the silly rationalization of "common denominator" and "most likely candidate for intervention." You (society) need to get over the mind-set that anything that happens to a woman is the fault of the man. It is not. I believe we are already seeing a change in women because of this attitude. Sweeping their discretions under the rug has resulted in women pushing more and more beyond the limits of acceptable conduct to the detriment of children and/or fathers (recall that some wanted to hold Rusty Yates responsible for Andrea's killing of her children). Women are equally responsible for consensual sexual encounters. To assert here that only the boy should be held responsible (and that *is* what you are saying) simply gives the girls impetus for continued reckless decision making. ==== ==== (PLEASE NOTE: I never bottom-sign my posts. Check Headers to Verify the Authenticity of This Post) I don't subscribe to the Men=Bad, Women=Good "mind-set", in spite of the fact that in this particular case I have assigned *most* of the blame to the male. I'm fully aware of the groups that you so willingly lump me in with, the ones that preach "Women have choices, men have responsibilities." You shouldn't. I probably should have phrased the question as, "What the freak do we do with these FOUR knucleheads?" Four children w/ 4 babies. So what should be done, if anything, to any of them? It is my opinion though, that this 17-18 year old "boy" deserves particular criticism for his actions. One baby is a mistake, hell, I could give ya' 2.... but 4 babies and it begins to look like a hobby, or a sport. It offends both my morality AND common sense. What has also shaped my opinion is what I didn't post about him; he's basically one of the the school bullies or hoods, or would that be "gangsta'"? I think this "manchild" is basically putting "notches in his belt", and further, it's cases like his that make ALL men look bad when he gets portrayed as the poster-child for the Men=Bad crowd. Would you agree he's the perfect candidate for them? For all I know he could be a wonderful father that loves and nurtures his children, and I've asked my sister to get some more details on him, the girls/motherS, the child-support and custody, etc. etc. I'd also bet dollars to donuts he grew up in a basically fatherless home himself, possibly born to a teen mother.... I think we can agree on this; the "child-support" system is going to be eating this guys' lunch for YEARS! He is really setting himself up for a very, very bad mauling at the hands of that bunch of witless robocrats. |
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Kids making kids
Only if he makes a success out of his life will the child support fangs come
out. His income will be so low, nobody will bother him, they will just be thrilled if he cares enough to visit. Chances are he will be to busy chasing the next hole to think about his kids. I agree, I would think he came from a fatherless home. The type of home the government helps to create. "Mark B." wrote in message ... "Gini52" wrote in message ... In article , Mark B. says... "Gini52" wrote in message ... In article , Mark B. says... "Dusty" wrote in message ... "Mark B." wrote in message ... My sister just started working in a local, rather rural, high school. The other day she was telling me about a boy that goes to school there that has FOUR CHILDREN, with THREE DIFFERENT GIRLS!!!! I am shocked. And I have no idea what the child support arrangements are. (Of course I asked. She didn't know.) My question to you nice folks is: What, if anything, should be done with this guy? DeadBroke_canyousayjewelsinthecrown?_Daddio Can you post any proof of this? Something which I strongly doubt. "Proof"? What could I offer here? Birth certificates? Pictures? Fingerprints? DNA analysis? A signed statement(s)? I rather think that this is just another lame-ass attempt to provoke people.. i.e.; yet another troll. You're right, I AM trying to provoke people....into thinking and offering an opinion. As for being a "troll", what leads you to that conclusion? Because you don't like the question or the scenario or find it too provocative to deal with, you dismiss me as a troll? How enlightening....and typical. So let's assume, for the sake of discussion, that this IS true; "What, if anything, should be done with this guy?" ==== Do you really believe that the answer lies with only one of the partners in these actions? ==== No, not at all, but the boy in this case is certainly the common denominator, and in my opinion the most likely candidate for intervention.... IF intervention is called for. ==== Mark, You said "not at all," and then proceeded to attempt justification for holding him solely responsible with the silly rationalization of "common denominator" and "most likely candidate for intervention." You (society) need to get over the mind-set that anything that happens to a woman is the fault of the man. It is not. I believe we are already seeing a change in women because of this attitude. Sweeping their discretions under the rug has resulted in women pushing more and more beyond the limits of acceptable conduct to the detriment of children and/or fathers (recall that some wanted to hold Rusty Yates responsible for Andrea's killing of her children). Women are equally responsible for consensual sexual encounters. To assert here that only the boy should be held responsible (and that *is* what you are saying) simply gives the girls impetus for continued reckless decision making. ==== ==== (PLEASE NOTE: I never bottom-sign my posts. Check Headers to Verify the Authenticity of This Post) I don't subscribe to the Men=Bad, Women=Good "mind-set", in spite of the fact that in this particular case I have assigned *most* of the blame to the male. I'm fully aware of the groups that you so willingly lump me in with, the ones that preach "Women have choices, men have responsibilities." You shouldn't. I probably should have phrased the question as, "What the freak do we do with these FOUR knucleheads?" Four children w/ 4 babies. So what should be done, if anything, to any of them? It is my opinion though, that this 17-18 year old "boy" deserves particular criticism for his actions. One baby is a mistake, hell, I could give ya' 2.... but 4 babies and it begins to look like a hobby, or a sport. It offends both my morality AND common sense. What has also shaped my opinion is what I didn't post about him; he's basically one of the the school bullies or hoods, or would that be "gangsta'"? I think this "manchild" is basically putting "notches in his belt", and further, it's cases like his that make ALL men look bad when he gets portrayed as the poster-child for the Men=Bad crowd. Would you agree he's the perfect candidate for them? For all I know he could be a wonderful father that loves and nurtures his children, and I've asked my sister to get some more details on him, the girls/motherS, the child-support and custody, etc. etc. I'd also bet dollars to donuts he grew up in a basically fatherless home himself, possibly born to a teen mother.... I think we can agree on this; the "child-support" system is going to be eating this guys' lunch for YEARS! He is really setting himself up for a very, very bad mauling at the hands of that bunch of witless robocrats. |
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Kids making kids
Counsel him to not start working more than minimum wage jobs until his
'kids' are out of HS. "Mark B." wrote in message ... My sister just started working in a local, rather rural, high school. The other day she was telling me about a boy that goes to school there that has FOUR CHILDREN, with THREE DIFFERENT GIRLS!!!! I am shocked. And I have no idea what the child support arrangements are. (Of course I asked. She didn't know.) My question to you nice folks is: What, if anything, should be done with this guy? DeadBroke_canyousayjewelsinthecrown?_Daddio |
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Kids making kids
Counsel him to not start working more than minimum wage jobs until his
'kids' are out of HS. "Mark B." wrote in message ... My sister just started working in a local, rather rural, high school. The other day she was telling me about a boy that goes to school there that has FOUR CHILDREN, with THREE DIFFERENT GIRLS!!!! I am shocked. And I have no idea what the child support arrangements are. (Of course I asked. She didn't know.) My question to you nice folks is: What, if anything, should be done with this guy? DeadBroke_canyousayjewelsinthecrown?_Daddio |
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Kids making kids
Counsel him to not start working more than minimum wage jobs until his
'kids' are out of HS. "Mark B." wrote in message ... My sister just started working in a local, rather rural, high school. The other day she was telling me about a boy that goes to school there that has FOUR CHILDREN, with THREE DIFFERENT GIRLS!!!! I am shocked. And I have no idea what the child support arrangements are. (Of course I asked. She didn't know.) My question to you nice folks is: What, if anything, should be done with this guy? DeadBroke_canyousayjewelsinthecrown?_Daddio |
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Kids making kids
Counsel him to not start working more than minimum wage jobs until his
'kids' are out of HS. "Mark B." wrote in message ... My sister just started working in a local, rather rural, high school. The other day she was telling me about a boy that goes to school there that has FOUR CHILDREN, with THREE DIFFERENT GIRLS!!!! I am shocked. And I have no idea what the child support arrangements are. (Of course I asked. She didn't know.) My question to you nice folks is: What, if anything, should be done with this guy? DeadBroke_canyousayjewelsinthecrown?_Daddio |
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