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Old September 16th 03, 03:01 PM
Nikki
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Joel M. Eichen D.D.S. wrote:
I just tuned in ... who is Hunter?


My 4 year old boy :-) Good teeth and good dental patient. Luckily as I
have to admit that he brushes by himself about 50% of the time and lets me
help the other 50%.

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Nikki
Mama to Hunter (4) and Luke (2)


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Old September 16th 03, 04:45 PM
Cathy Weeks
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"Roger Schlafly" wrote in message .net...
"Dr Steve" wrote
Most children do not fear the grocery store because, (1) they have been
there since they were weeks old, and (2) no one has given them any reason

to
suspect it might be scary.


And (3), no one tortures them in the grocery

Saying things such as "Don't worry it won't hurt", or "don't be scared",

or
"don't be frightened of the noises", only plants the thought of fear in
their heads.


Better to give the child realistic expectations of what is going to
happen. If it is going to hurt, then tell the kid it is going to hurt.


I think you just missed the point of Dr. Steve's post. By telling
them what's going to happen, you often increase a child's fear of the
unknown, thus sabotaging the experience completely.

The problem is that "hurts" is subjective. If you say it's going to
hurt a little bit, a child doesn't really understand what "little bit"
means.

Cathy Weeks
Mommy to Kivi Alexis 12/01
  #103  
Old September 16th 03, 07:23 PM
Wendy Marsden
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In misc.kids.health Joel M. Eichen D.D.S. wrote:
SPECIALIST TIME.


What specialist? The kid started out with a general dentist who referred
him to this pediatric dentist. He was also seen by an oral surgeon but
the oral surgeon said to go to the pediatric dentist for the rest of the
work.

What specialist is there beyond the general dentist, oral surgeon,
pediatric dentist and orthodontist that we've already got on the table?

BTW, my husband just told me he has a teeth cleaning appointment tomorrow
with the dentist we're going to try next with our son. I figure I'll
bring our son to it to just hang out while the work is being done. Does
that make sense to you?

Wendy
  #104  
Old September 16th 03, 10:03 PM
Roger Schlafly
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"Mxsmanic" wrote
Better to give the child realistic expectations of what is going to
happen. If it is going to hurt, then tell the kid it is going to hurt.

As a general rule, any expectation placed into the mind of young
children will tend to become exaggerated, with the degree of ...


Sure, if you are in a habit of lying to them about what to expect.
I find that telling them the truth works much better.

Adults are like this, too, with situations that they've never dealt with
before. However, since they have considerably more experience, this
helps to temper their exaggerations in _most_ contexts (but not all).


So do you prefer that a dentist lies to you about how much pain
you are going to get?


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Old September 16th 03, 11:09 PM
Joel M. Eichen D.D.S.
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Thanks! Cool name!

On Tue, 16 Sep 2003 09:01:20 -0500, "Nikki"
wrote:

Joel M. Eichen D.D.S. wrote:
I just tuned in ... who is Hunter?


My 4 year old boy :-) Good teeth and good dental patient. Luckily as I
have to admit that he brushes by himself about 50% of the time and lets me
help the other 50%.


--
Joel M. Eichen, .
Philadelphia PA

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  #106  
Old September 16th 03, 11:09 PM
Joel M. Eichen D.D.S.
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We agree!

On Tue, 16 Sep 2003 21:03:22 GMT, "Roger Schlafly"
wrote:

"Mxsmanic" wrote
Better to give the child realistic expectations of what is going to
happen. If it is going to hurt, then tell the kid it is going to hurt.

As a general rule, any expectation placed into the mind of young
children will tend to become exaggerated, with the degree of ...


Sure, if you are in a habit of lying to them about what to expect.
I find that telling them the truth works much better.

Adults are like this, too, with situations that they've never dealt with
before. However, since they have considerably more experience, this
helps to temper their exaggerations in _most_ contexts (but not all).


So do you prefer that a dentist lies to you about how much pain
you are going to get?


--
Joel M. Eichen, .
Philadelphia PA

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You fill it in
  #107  
Old September 16th 03, 11:10 PM
Joel M. Eichen D.D.S.
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Pediatric dentist ......


On Tue, 16 Sep 2003 18:23:51 GMT, Wendy Marsden
wrote:

In misc.kids.health Joel M. Eichen D.D.S. wrote:
SPECIALIST TIME.


What specialist? The kid started out with a general dentist who referred
him to this pediatric dentist. He was also seen by an oral surgeon but
the oral surgeon said to go to the pediatric dentist for the rest of the
work.

What specialist is there beyond the general dentist, oral surgeon,
pediatric dentist and orthodontist that we've already got on the table?

BTW, my husband just told me he has a teeth cleaning appointment tomorrow
with the dentist we're going to try next with our son. I figure I'll
bring our son to it to just hang out while the work is being done. Does
that make sense to you?

Wendy


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Joel M. Eichen, .
Philadelphia PA

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Old September 16th 03, 11:35 PM
dragonlady
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In article ,
Joel M. Eichen D.D.S. wrote:

Pediatric dentist ......



Except that the incident she described was with a pediatric dentist . . .

meh
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  #109  
Old September 16th 03, 11:41 PM
Joel M. Eichen D.D.S.
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N'udder pediatric dentist .... one more skilled in medications .......


On Tue, 16 Sep 2003 22:35:26 GMT, dragonlady
wrote:

In article ,
Joel M. Eichen D.D.S. wrote:

Pediatric dentist ......



Except that the incident she described was with a pediatric dentist . . .

meh


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Joel M. Eichen, .
Philadelphia PA

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