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"A S" wrote in message ... FOR ONE THING ONLY THAT I NOTICED IN THIS LETTER IS THAT IT DOES NOT STATE ANY WHERE THAT THIS IS EAITHER A MAN OR A WOMEN THAT WROTE THIS LETTER IT DOES NOT SAY I AM A MOM OR I AM A DAD SO IT COULD BE EAITHER ONE OR THE OTHER BUT BECAUSE THEY DID NOT REALY SAY I GUESS THE ONLY ONES THAT KNOW IS THE ONE THAT WROTE IT. SO WHY JUMP TO EAITHER CONCLUSION WHEN NO ONE KNOWS. THE WHOLE TRUTH BUT THE WRITER M I N D T H E C A P S , W I L L Y A ? ? ? ? The word is EITHER!! EITHER EITHER EITHER!!! One womAn, two womEn, many womEn, that womAn, this womAn, these womEn!!!!! The ONLY thing that I noticed in this garbledygook is that someone needs to take your friggin' computer - keyboard included - away from you before Kat goes MAAAAAAAADD! How in sam hill do you spell, "really" wrong? I must stop now, and I do apologize. |
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thankyou for giving me that info. you are right i do need to inprove my
self (need new keyboard this one sticks sorry) . i try to every day to improve myself. my son does learn good things from me, more from me than his dad. my son is also haveing problems with speech just as i did when i was a child but he is getting the help earlier in lfe then i did i rather start now in getting him the help now then wait tell later like i had to. i made promise to my son when i was pregnant (his dad was not in the picture) that no matter what he comes first and no matter what i had to do to make sure his life was happy and he learns to be a great man his daddy has let him down to many times i refuse to do the same. i also would like to say sorry if i insulted anyone in here i did not intend to and yes when i get writing i do get carried away i sometimes think faster than i can type or write that is part of my disablity i always have to try and time myself and teach myself to go slow but it is hard a times because its like an over load and i do not realize some times i am doing it. so again i am sorry if i insulted anyone. |
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thankyou for giving me that info. you are right i do need to inprove my
self (need new keyboard this one sticks sorry) . i try to every day to improve myself. my son does learn good things from me, more from me than his dad. my son is also haveing problems with speech just as i did when i was a child but he is getting the help earlier in lfe then i did i rather start now in getting him the help now then wait tell later like i had to. i made promise to my son when i was pregnant (his dad was not in the picture) that no matter what he comes first and no matter what i had to do to make sure his life was happy and he learns to be a great man his daddy has let him down to many times i refuse to do the same. i also would like to say sorry if i insulted anyone in here i did not intend to and yes when i get writing i do get carried away i sometimes think faster than i can type or write that is part of my disablity i always have to try and time myself and teach myself to go slow but it is hard a times because its like an over load and i do not realize some times i am doing it. so again i am sorry if i insulted anyone. |
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Ow! That hurt. Must remember to turn the volume down next time I'm reading
a newsgroup. :-( -- Paul Griffiths |
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"A S" wrote in message
... thankyou for giving me that info. We *are* helpful in here, honest we are. :-) you are right i do need to inprove my self I think we all do, always. (need new keyboard this one sticks sorry) . No problem. i try to every day to improve myself. I wish I could say the same but I have to admit I do occasionally have a few days off. ;-) my son does learn good things from me, more from me than his dad. That your son is learning good things is the crucial part in my opinion. Good that a lot of them are coming from you but as long as it's happening somehow that's the main thing. Oh and not learning bad things helps a lot too. my son is also haveing problems with speech just as i did when i was a child but he is getting the help earlier in lfe then i did It's nice to see that some things improve, isn't it? i rather start now in getting him the help now then wait tell later like i had to. Today is always a better time to start something than tomorrow, I agree. Shame I don't always put that into practice. i made promise to my son when i was pregnant (his dad was not in the picture) that no matter what he comes first and no matter what i had to do to make sure his life was happy and he learns to be a great man Sounds reasonable to me but don't be too short-sighted about it. As 'Kate says, sometimes we have to accept things getting worse in the short-term on the basis that in the longer-term things will be much improved. Look after yourself, in all ways, and you will be much better able to care for your son. his daddy has let him down to many times i refuse to do the same. Whatever you do you won't be able to affect what his dad did or didn't do to him so don't give yourself a hard time over it. Just do the best *you* can. i also would like to say sorry if i insulted anyone in here i did not intend to and yes when i get writing i do get carried away i sometimes think faster than i can type or write that is part of my disablity No problem. i always have to try and time myself and teach myself to go slow but it is hard a times because its like an over load and i do not realize some times i am doing it. so again i am sorry if i insulted anyone. Can't speak for everyone but I can live with this. Welcome. -- Paul Griffiths |
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"Paul Fritz" wrote in message ... "occupant" wrote in message ... L wrote: PREFACE: Hello. My name is L. Peake. I never committed a crime or did anyone harm, but somehow my life has turned out rather badly. Without going into the details, Sadly, ever so sadly there are women everyday that are permitting men to impregnate them. So it is all the man's fault? Letting them impregnate? LMAO Unless it was rape, the woman should be repsonsible for HER body since she is the one than may end up pregnant....not to mention the choices she has after conception. Some of these men are not necessarily an ideal spouse. And just as many women are NOT the ideal mothers. You have the knowledge, experience and the ability to communicate that is so necessary for other young women who might, too, have your misfortune. Can you not take a moment to say how old you are, how you met your spouse, what things your spouse said to you that led you to believe this was a man worthy of your commitment and even more worthy to make you a mother. Do you not owe it to every other woman on the planet to tell them how you were duped Give me a ****ing break. let it suffice to say that I am now raising a child alone, have lost practically everything, and cannot support us with my meager earnings. You have not said what you have lost or how you lost it. You have indicated you have a peace of mind in being able to raise your child alone. You say you cannot support your child alone on your meager earnings. At a cost of a hundred thousand dollars per child it is truly amazing that individual or couple believe they earn sufficient money to raise any children at all. I see you bought into that guvmint propaganda too. This man that fathered your child, where is he? What does he do for a living? What are his parents like? Are his parents so ashamed of their irresponsible son that they have offered you support and assistance for daugher-in-law and their grandchild? Priceless.....suggesting going after grandparents........why not see if the great grandparents are alive as well.....they are partly to blame as well. Nevertheless, I refuse to give up because I have a responsibility to my child. Of course you don't say where you live, what country, what city. There are lots and lots of organizations that are waiting for your call to be able to assist you. Some religious organziations may try to encouage you to give up your child because there are thousands of couples waiting to adopt a child, but you may wish to struggle and keep your child rather than put her up for adoption. . Which, since she is unable to support a child that SHE chose to bring into this world, would be the better choice for all concerned. Sounds like lorain in disguise. It sure doesn't sound like she's evolved. |
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Hello kate.
When I sacrifice a lot for my son it depends on what it is , if it is something like food shoping, rent, clothes, daily living expenses thoses come first, but if we are in the store he wants a toy if i have the extra money i will get him something but if i do not then i am honest with him and i tell him we can not this time becasue we do not have the money. ( his reply is yamma does lol) most of the time he is ok with that ( if yamma is not there . sorry i am talking about his grandma my mom he calls her yamma only because thats what he wants to call her and my dad is papa) and i do tell him that he does not need somehng every time we go to the store. his dad pays $85.00 a week in child suport and he complaines about it , he is getting supervised visits once a week for one hour i did not have to let him see him he fought me on this all the way our wedding date was set for sept 14th 2002 but one month before the wedding i caught him doing crack in my car 12:30 am when i saw that i locked him out of the house and i called the cops. he does not understand what he did was wrong and thinks i was wrong in cancleing the wedding and calling of our relationship. i want my son to have a good relationship with his daddy but if his daddy does not show the effort then i give up. my son has me and other family that love him with all our hearts. and we will make sure he gets what he needs to have a great life he will know that life s not perfect and you do not always get what you want but you get what you need if you work at it. i will make any sacrifce for my child his father only thinks of himself and always has it just took me a while to see that. sorry so long |
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sorry paul forgot to take it off just hit me next time
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sorry did it again
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