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"Curious557" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I have posted my situation in the past under Curious555 (forgot my password). But I'd be glad to expalin again. First it began with me getting phone calls from the ex about the child support with no contact from DCSE. When I decide to call DCSE to find out if I am really suppose to be summoned, the caseworker seemed surprised that I had not gotten any papers and repeated my address which was correct. Weeks passed and still nothing except phone calls from the ****ed off ex. I called again. She repeated the address again which I dont know were in the hell she came up with because it was definetly not the address she repeated to me the first time. During this conversation I asked if it were possible to include my son whom I support. She said no only if he were living with me or if there were a court order. At our first meeting I showed her my sons birth certificate in case she didn't believe me and again she said no it was no possible. I found out later that was not true.I asked her if there were other thing I could include such as student loans and property tax payments. She said she had included the house payments but I don't see how that was calculated. I then noticed that on the papers she gave me which had the amount of child support calculated all my info as far as my employer was there but for my ex that info was missing. Previously i found out my ex failed to mention she had two jobs so I want to make sure both were included. And finally, I phoned the caseworker because I had some questions regarding the missing info and about her calculations on medical insurance (it seemed high)and she refused to answer. So what do you think???? It seems as though from the begininning this caseworker is doing nothing but trying to screw me over. Heh, sounds like my story!!! My ex has a job, but its under the table so they can't trace it, since I don't know where she works. So..........I get listed as being employed and she gets listed as unemployed, and I get screwed on support payments. They pay so much attention to the fathers, that nothing gets done when the mothers don't hold up to their end of the bargain, and there doesn't seem to be a damn thing you can do about it most of the time. short - and it sucks |
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My ex has a job, but its under the table so they can't trace it, since I don't know where she works. So..........I get listed as being employed and she gets listed as unemployed, and I get screwed on support payments. They pay so much attention to the fathers, that nothing gets done when the mothers don't hold up to their end of the bargain, and there doesn't seem to be a damn thing you can do about it most of the time. Depends on how well you get along with her now, but maybe you could let her know that while the so-called "family court" wouldn't care, the IRS most certainly would. Maybe she could be convinced to "fess up" to the court about her real income, or at least not push for more money, in exchanged for not being reported to the IRS. I read once that one of the IRS' most common sources of information is ex-husbands/wives. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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short wrote:
My ex has a job, but its under the table so they can't trace it, since I don't know where she works. So..........I get listed as being employed and she gets listed as unemployed, and I get screwed on support payments. They pay so much attention to the fathers, that nothing gets done when the mothers don't hold up to their end of the bargain, and there doesn't seem to be a damn thing you can do about it most of the time. Depends on how well you get along with her now, but maybe you could let her know that while the so-called "family court" wouldn't care, the IRS most certainly would. Maybe she could be convinced to "fess up" to the court about her real income, or at least not push for more money, in exchanged for not being reported to the IRS. I read once that one of the IRS' most common sources of information is ex-husbands/wives. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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My ex has a job, but its under the table so they can't trace it, since I don't know where she works. So..........I get listed as being employed and she gets listed as unemployed, and I get screwed on support payments. They pay so much attention to the fathers, that nothing gets done when the mothers don't hold up to their end of the bargain, and there doesn't seem to be a damn thing you can do about it most of the time. Depends on how well you get along with her now, but maybe you could let her know that while the so-called "family court" wouldn't care, the IRS most certainly would. Maybe she could be convinced to "fess up" to the court about her real income, or at least not push for more money, in exchanged for not being reported to the IRS. I read once that one of the IRS' most common sources of information is ex-husbands/wives. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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My ex has a job, but its under the table so they can't trace it, since I don't know where she works. So..........I get listed as being employed and she gets listed as unemployed, and I get screwed on support payments. They pay so much attention to the fathers, that nothing gets done when the mothers don't hold up to their end of the bargain, and there doesn't seem to be a damn thing you can do about it most of the time. Depends on how well you get along with her now, but maybe you could let her know that while the so-called "family court" wouldn't care, the IRS most certainly would. Maybe she could be convinced to "fess up" to the court about her real income, or at least not push for more money, in exchanged for not being reported to the IRS. I read once that one of the IRS' most common sources of information is ex-husbands/wives. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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P.Fritz wrote:
Not to mention that A) the rent payments would not be counted toward CS, and B) even with a notarized agreement, Unless it's approved by a court/judge, it doesn't exist. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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P.Fritz wrote:
Not to mention that A) the rent payments would not be counted toward CS, and B) even with a notarized agreement, Unless it's approved by a court/judge, it doesn't exist. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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P.Fritz wrote:
Not to mention that A) the rent payments would not be counted toward CS, and B) even with a notarized agreement, Unless it's approved by a court/judge, it doesn't exist. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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P.Fritz wrote:
Not to mention that A) the rent payments would not be counted toward CS, and B) even with a notarized agreement, Unless it's approved by a court/judge, it doesn't exist. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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"The DaveŠ" wrote in message ... P.Fritz wrote: Not to mention that A) the rent payments would not be counted toward CS, and B) even with a notarized agreement, Unless it's approved by a court/judge, it doesn't exist. Even then, it can always be modified by one party filing a motion. -- Always borrow money from a pessimist, he doesn't expect to be paid back. ~Author Unknown |
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