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  #61  
Old July 27th 04, 04:40 AM
PBu7434922
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The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.
Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?
Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had.
I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.


Considering it is only women who can choose whether the child is born I don't
see a problem. You should consider whether you can afford to raise a child
before having it and in many cases denying the father a prt of the child's
life. As for going on to welfare well if women really think that then the
fathers should get custody, anyway do you really think that would help. btw I
am a woman not a man just in case you are wondering.

Paula

  #62  
Old July 27th 04, 04:55 AM
Kenneth S.
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Pammie provides further evidence of the depth of her thinking by failing
to address any of the points made on her original message. "The truth hurts
.. . . I don't care if anyone disagrees with me . . . you dummies . . . men
should use their big brain and not their little brain . . . men who don't
take care of their baby is worst (sic) than a Heathen." This is the
language of the schoolyard. All that's missing is "my daddy can beat up
your daddy."




----- Original Message -----
From: "Pammie1"
Newsgroups: alt.child-support
Sent: 26 July, 2004 10:15 PM
Subject: Deadbeats


The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.
Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?
Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had.
I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.



  #63  
Old July 27th 04, 04:55 AM
Kenneth S.
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Default Deadbeats

Pammie provides further evidence of the depth of her thinking by failing
to address any of the points made on her original message. "The truth hurts
.. . . I don't care if anyone disagrees with me . . . you dummies . . . men
should use their big brain and not their little brain . . . men who don't
take care of their baby is worst (sic) than a Heathen." This is the
language of the schoolyard. All that's missing is "my daddy can beat up
your daddy."




----- Original Message -----
From: "Pammie1"
Newsgroups: alt.child-support
Sent: 26 July, 2004 10:15 PM
Subject: Deadbeats


The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.
Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?
Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had.
I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.



  #64  
Old July 27th 04, 04:55 AM
Kenneth S.
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Default Deadbeats

Pammie provides further evidence of the depth of her thinking by failing
to address any of the points made on her original message. "The truth hurts
.. . . I don't care if anyone disagrees with me . . . you dummies . . . men
should use their big brain and not their little brain . . . men who don't
take care of their baby is worst (sic) than a Heathen." This is the
language of the schoolyard. All that's missing is "my daddy can beat up
your daddy."




----- Original Message -----
From: "Pammie1"
Newsgroups: alt.child-support
Sent: 26 July, 2004 10:15 PM
Subject: Deadbeats


The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't
matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about
making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world.
Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go
get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that?
Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but
to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like
the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't
care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had.
I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for
the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike
these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their
baby is worst than a Heathen.



  #65  
Old July 27th 04, 04:58 AM
Deserted Dad
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Pammie1 wrote:
My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads.

Pammie, just curious: what, exactly, is your definition of a deadbeat
dad? Is it any man who has a problem with being forced to pay 25% or
more of his take-home pay in child-support? How about if a good chunk
of that money is being used to also support children who aren't his?
How about if he can only see the child for a few hours a week, or not at
all? How about if it was the mother, not the father, who selfishly ran
out on the relationship with full knowledge of what she could expect
from her friends at the local CSE office?

There are a lot of very angry folks in this group who are angry for very
good reasons Pammie. Be careful that you don't do as the government
does and paint us all with the same brush.

Look at it this way: at least you have the love and joy of your daughter
being around you full-time. I believe if I were in your shoes, I'd be a
whole lot more comfortable than I am in mine. There are more important
things in life than money.
  #66  
Old July 27th 04, 04:58 AM
Deserted Dad
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Pammie1 wrote:
My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads.

Pammie, just curious: what, exactly, is your definition of a deadbeat
dad? Is it any man who has a problem with being forced to pay 25% or
more of his take-home pay in child-support? How about if a good chunk
of that money is being used to also support children who aren't his?
How about if he can only see the child for a few hours a week, or not at
all? How about if it was the mother, not the father, who selfishly ran
out on the relationship with full knowledge of what she could expect
from her friends at the local CSE office?

There are a lot of very angry folks in this group who are angry for very
good reasons Pammie. Be careful that you don't do as the government
does and paint us all with the same brush.

Look at it this way: at least you have the love and joy of your daughter
being around you full-time. I believe if I were in your shoes, I'd be a
whole lot more comfortable than I am in mine. There are more important
things in life than money.
  #67  
Old July 27th 04, 04:58 AM
Deserted Dad
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Default Deadbeats

Pammie1 wrote:
My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads.

Pammie, just curious: what, exactly, is your definition of a deadbeat
dad? Is it any man who has a problem with being forced to pay 25% or
more of his take-home pay in child-support? How about if a good chunk
of that money is being used to also support children who aren't his?
How about if he can only see the child for a few hours a week, or not at
all? How about if it was the mother, not the father, who selfishly ran
out on the relationship with full knowledge of what she could expect
from her friends at the local CSE office?

There are a lot of very angry folks in this group who are angry for very
good reasons Pammie. Be careful that you don't do as the government
does and paint us all with the same brush.

Look at it this way: at least you have the love and joy of your daughter
being around you full-time. I believe if I were in your shoes, I'd be a
whole lot more comfortable than I am in mine. There are more important
things in life than money.
  #68  
Old July 27th 04, 05:01 AM
teachrmama
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"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really
sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I
mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas.
What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are
responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2
year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including
keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on.
I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that
he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make
the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than
these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay
then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going
after deadbeat dads.


So why did you bring a child into this world and keep her knowing that you
were unable to take care of her properly?



  #69  
Old July 27th 04, 05:01 AM
teachrmama
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Default Deadbeats


"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really
sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I
mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas.
What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are
responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2
year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including
keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on.
I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that
he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make
the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than
these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay
then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going
after deadbeat dads.


So why did you bring a child into this world and keep her knowing that you
were unable to take care of her properly?



  #70  
Old July 27th 04, 05:01 AM
teachrmama
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Default Deadbeats


"Pammie1" wrote in message
lkaboutparenting.com...
I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really
sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I
mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas.
What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are
responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2
year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including
keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on.
I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that
he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make
the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than
these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay
then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going
after deadbeat dads.


So why did you bring a child into this world and keep her knowing that you
were unable to take care of her properly?



 




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