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Deadbeats
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world. Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that? Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had. I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their baby is worst than a Heathen. Considering it is only women who can choose whether the child is born I don't see a problem. You should consider whether you can afford to raise a child before having it and in many cases denying the father a prt of the child's life. As for going on to welfare well if women really think that then the fathers should get custody, anyway do you really think that would help. btw I am a woman not a man just in case you are wondering. Paula |
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Pammie provides further evidence of the depth of her thinking by failing
to address any of the points made on her original message. "The truth hurts .. . . I don't care if anyone disagrees with me . . . you dummies . . . men should use their big brain and not their little brain . . . men who don't take care of their baby is worst (sic) than a Heathen." This is the language of the schoolyard. All that's missing is "my daddy can beat up your daddy." ----- Original Message ----- From: "Pammie1" Newsgroups: alt.child-support Sent: 26 July, 2004 10:15 PM Subject: Deadbeats The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world. Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that? Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had. I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their baby is worst than a Heathen. |
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Deadbeats
Pammie provides further evidence of the depth of her thinking by failing
to address any of the points made on her original message. "The truth hurts .. . . I don't care if anyone disagrees with me . . . you dummies . . . men should use their big brain and not their little brain . . . men who don't take care of their baby is worst (sic) than a Heathen." This is the language of the schoolyard. All that's missing is "my daddy can beat up your daddy." ----- Original Message ----- From: "Pammie1" Newsgroups: alt.child-support Sent: 26 July, 2004 10:15 PM Subject: Deadbeats The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world. Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that? Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had. I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their baby is worst than a Heathen. |
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Pammie provides further evidence of the depth of her thinking by failing
to address any of the points made on her original message. "The truth hurts .. . . I don't care if anyone disagrees with me . . . you dummies . . . men should use their big brain and not their little brain . . . men who don't take care of their baby is worst (sic) than a Heathen." This is the language of the schoolyard. All that's missing is "my daddy can beat up your daddy." ----- Original Message ----- From: "Pammie1" Newsgroups: alt.child-support Sent: 26 July, 2004 10:15 PM Subject: Deadbeats The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world. Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that? Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had. I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their baby is worst than a Heathen. |
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Pammie1 wrote:
My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. Pammie, just curious: what, exactly, is your definition of a deadbeat dad? Is it any man who has a problem with being forced to pay 25% or more of his take-home pay in child-support? How about if a good chunk of that money is being used to also support children who aren't his? How about if he can only see the child for a few hours a week, or not at all? How about if it was the mother, not the father, who selfishly ran out on the relationship with full knowledge of what she could expect from her friends at the local CSE office? There are a lot of very angry folks in this group who are angry for very good reasons Pammie. Be careful that you don't do as the government does and paint us all with the same brush. Look at it this way: at least you have the love and joy of your daughter being around you full-time. I believe if I were in your shoes, I'd be a whole lot more comfortable than I am in mine. There are more important things in life than money. |
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Pammie1 wrote:
My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. Pammie, just curious: what, exactly, is your definition of a deadbeat dad? Is it any man who has a problem with being forced to pay 25% or more of his take-home pay in child-support? How about if a good chunk of that money is being used to also support children who aren't his? How about if he can only see the child for a few hours a week, or not at all? How about if it was the mother, not the father, who selfishly ran out on the relationship with full knowledge of what she could expect from her friends at the local CSE office? There are a lot of very angry folks in this group who are angry for very good reasons Pammie. Be careful that you don't do as the government does and paint us all with the same brush. Look at it this way: at least you have the love and joy of your daughter being around you full-time. I believe if I were in your shoes, I'd be a whole lot more comfortable than I am in mine. There are more important things in life than money. |
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Pammie1 wrote:
My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. Pammie, just curious: what, exactly, is your definition of a deadbeat dad? Is it any man who has a problem with being forced to pay 25% or more of his take-home pay in child-support? How about if a good chunk of that money is being used to also support children who aren't his? How about if he can only see the child for a few hours a week, or not at all? How about if it was the mother, not the father, who selfishly ran out on the relationship with full knowledge of what she could expect from her friends at the local CSE office? There are a lot of very angry folks in this group who are angry for very good reasons Pammie. Be careful that you don't do as the government does and paint us all with the same brush. Look at it this way: at least you have the love and joy of your daughter being around you full-time. I believe if I were in your shoes, I'd be a whole lot more comfortable than I am in mine. There are more important things in life than money. |
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"Pammie1" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. So why did you bring a child into this world and keep her knowing that you were unable to take care of her properly? |
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Deadbeats
"Pammie1" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. So why did you bring a child into this world and keep her knowing that you were unable to take care of her properly? |
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Deadbeats
"Pammie1" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. So why did you bring a child into this world and keep her knowing that you were unable to take care of her properly? |
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