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Old November 5th 03, 03:53 PM
Chris
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"Fighting for kids" adf wrote in message
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Sorry dont buy it.


You're right. I wouldn't buy it either. After all, a man can certainly make
the decision by kidnapping the woman, falsely imprisoning her, and prevent
her from having an abortion. Likewise, he can do the same and force her to
abort. However, do your government people say that's ok?


And some of your fellow "male rights" members dont either.

"Chris" wrote in message
news:ZnHpb.743$0K6.509@fed1read06...

"Fighting for kids" adf wrote in message
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Untrue what? That it takes two to make a child?? Hello knock knock..


Door's open. Whether or not a child will come into existence rests

SOLELY
with ONE person; the pregnant woman. At least that's what your

government
folks say.

"Chris" wrote in message
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"Fighting for kids" adf wrote in message
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"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
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If it's her body and such a precious commodity to guard and

protect,
why
are
so many women allowing men to have them sexually without any
protection?

Its her body and her right to decide if a medical procedure

should
be
performed.

Why are so many men having unprotected sex, then trying to not

take
care
of
their responsibility? It takes TWO to make a child, not one.

Untrue.

I think women
who are stupid and dont protect themselves are just as responsible

for
their
actions as the men who obvously have the same unprotected sex.

Two
people
have sex, a child is conceived, both are resposnible for the

support.
Period.












  #252  
Old November 6th 03, 05:35 PM
Fighting for kids
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Snore..zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

"Chris" wrote in message
news:C19qb.2274$0K6.1478@fed1read06...

"Fighting for kids" adf wrote in message
...
Sorry dont buy it.


You're right. I wouldn't buy it either. After all, a man can certainly

make
the decision by kidnapping the woman, falsely imprisoning her, and prevent
her from having an abortion. Likewise, he can do the same and force her to
abort. However, do your government people say that's ok?


And some of your fellow "male rights" members dont either.

"Chris" wrote in message
news:ZnHpb.743$0K6.509@fed1read06...

"Fighting for kids" adf wrote in message
...
Untrue what? That it takes two to make a child?? Hello knock

knock..

Door's open. Whether or not a child will come into existence rests

SOLELY
with ONE person; the pregnant woman. At least that's what your

government
folks say.

"Chris" wrote in message
news:REzpb.170$0K6.123@fed1read06...

"Fighting for kids" adf wrote in message
...

"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
link.net...
If it's her body and such a precious commodity to guard and

protect,
why
are
so many women allowing men to have them sexually without any
protection?

Its her body and her right to decide if a medical procedure

should
be
performed.

Why are so many men having unprotected sex, then trying to not

take
care
of
their responsibility? It takes TWO to make a child, not one.

Untrue.

I think women
who are stupid and dont protect themselves are just as

responsible
for
their
actions as the men who obvously have the same unprotected sex.

Two
people
have sex, a child is conceived, both are resposnible for the

support.
Period.














  #253  
Old November 7th 03, 04:34 PM
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Fighting for kids adf wrote:
: Thats your situation and doesnt mean that is the way it is for all NCP's.
: For example currently im responsible, the CP, for a larger share of the
: support amount than the NCP is based on the fact that I make more than he
: does. Is that fair?

In the eyes of the court, yes it is "fair". It's based on "ability to pay".

I'm on the other end. I'm a NCP and paying 1,200/month for a 5 eyar old.

I'd venture to say that I'm paying greater than 50% of the child's expenses.

Why? Because I chose to graduate college before I met the mother.

Is that fair?

It doesn't matter. It's what the court is ordering me and people like me
to pay. There is no choice in the matter.

b.
  #254  
Old November 10th 03, 08:56 PM
J.S.
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Fighting for kids wrote:
"Kenneth S." wrote in message
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Why does the principle articulated below not apply to women? Why are
women -- and women only -- not told that, if you don't want to risk
becoming a parent, don't have sex?

lol, because you unilaterial junkies have concentrated on attacking
the women, as if its their fault only that a child is conceived and
born. When in fact, men have an equal part. Just because the baby
doesnt live in your body you think you are somehow entitled to
special privleges to not supporting the child if a woman decides to
keep the child. I dont know many women that go around using abortion
as a form of contreception. Nor do I know many women who trap men
like you all propose. I also dont many women who find joy in the
fact that having a child is going to ruin their bodies. I also dont
many women that enjoy killing a child. I also dont know many women
who have sex with themselves.


You don't masterbate? Women don't masterbate? Damn, no wonder some of you
are so uptight.


 




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