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Child Support Guidelines are UNFAIR! Lets join together to fight them!
http://childsupportunfair.com
I am not OPPOSING child support, what I am saying is, lets support the child(ren) but not at the expense of your own life, Justice was to be equal under our constitution, the ability to make something of your life! $1300.00 a month of CURRENT chilsupport ORDERED between two courts and take home before tax $1666.67 (and they claim that it could even go UP even though I am only bringing home before tax that amount!) is absurd! Just fix the guidelines, give deductions for what it costs for your basic needs to live and dont make it so even if you are making $70,000.00 you bring home only 30-35 of it, they can even in cases go higher then 50% I am told, they can get 60-70% its out crazy. I do support taking care of your children and in my situation by the way I even contest that they are mine, she slept with more people then you could even imagine, she admits this even to the case worker! I asked for DNA tests they never sent the packet instead they filed and did not serve ME, they served my last address, and me having the SAME phone number they didnt even call to confirm, I had no idea they were trying to serve me, then they get a default, I found this out with my check hitting a LOW 50% of what it should be. Bring into the forum more recourse for those obligated to pay, we have to live too, I am not living some lavish lifestyle, just barely getting by and now due to this I can not even get school items for my other two children that live with me 40% of the time, and im still having to pay the mother of these two as well, ive even tried to get the court to make her pay they denied that! The mother here claims she wants my money just to pay for an SUV, AND SAID THIS IN OPEN COURT, the Judge said she did not have to spend the money ON THE CHILDREN and it was not an issue! ITS OUT RIGHT REDICULAS! THERE ARE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE WHO DONT EVEN THINK TO USE THE MONEY FOR THE CHILDREN ONLY AS REVENGE UPON THE PERSON THEY ARE NOT WITH ANY MORE AND ONLY FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL SELFISH GAMES! THE COURTS OPENLY ALLOW THIS! THEY SAY SOME PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DONT PAY THEIR CHILD SUPPORT ARE DEAD BEATS, MAKES YOU THINK WHY? BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY ARE TOLD TO PAY MORE THEN THEY CAN AFFORD? WHEN DO _WE_ GET A CHANCE AT LIFE? WHY IS CHILD SUPPORT A LIFE SENTENCE THESE DAYS? HOW CAN THE GOVERNMENT OPENLY ADMIT AND GET AWAY WITH DOUBLE DIPPING PARENTS? WHEN IS ENOUGH, JUST PLAIN ENOUGH? SEEMS TO ME SOME OF THE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE ARE THE TRUE ABUSERS IN SOME SITUATIONS? NOT TO SAY THAT SOME PEOPLE DONT ACTUALLY NEED IT BUT IT NEEDS TO BE MORE _FAIR_!!!! Please visit: http://childsupportunfair.com |
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Exactly Why did you repeat the same thing?
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"SpiderHam77" wrote in message
oups.com... Exactly Why did you repeat the same thing? Because he's an idiot. His other addresses are in my kilfile. Looks like it's time to update his list of aliases.. again. |
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Well thats a good enough reason in my Books...
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"Dusty" wrote in Because he's an idiot. His other addresses are in my kilfile. Looks like it's time to update his list of aliases.. again. Who is this guy? |
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Of course you can say im an idiot, you are obviously ignorant, instead
to think that PERHAPS I had a technical difficulty and the same thing was just reposted when I hit submit again... Hmm Maybe??? Please dont waste my time or yours showing me how ignorant you really are... Plus trying to pretend like you know something.... Mc Donalds might be hiring? Check into that.. Next... about the bill splitting... tried that and when she admitted in OPEN COURT she wanted the money to pay for an SUV, the judge said she does not have to spend the money on the children and she does not have to justify her spending and awarded her the money any ways... |
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Why should she have to justify her spending habits to you... If all
the bills are paid.. And your child is cared for... who cares where the money goes... I would not be require to justify where I put the money that My Ex Wife would pay me if she ever did... As all the money gets put into a big Pile and it really doesn't matter whoes money pays what.. as long as everything gets paid.. Now if you have an issue of her not paying her Bills in order to care for your child.. then thats a different story... And you could apply for Custody of your children and make her pay you then. SpiderHam77 |
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"SpiderHam77" wrote in message ups.com... Why should she have to justify her spending habits to you... If all the bills are paid.. And your child is cared for... who cares where the money goes... I would not be require to justify where I put the money that My Ex Wife would pay me if she ever did... As all the money gets put into a big Pile and it really doesn't matter whoes money pays what.. as long as everything gets paid.. If you give the grocer a $20 bill and he gives you a pack of gum, who cares where the money goes. You paid your fee and got your gum. See the problem? Now if you have an issue of her not paying her Bills in order to care for your child.. then thats a different story... And you could apply for Custody of your children and make her pay you then. Oh yeah, judges are just chomping at the bit to turn custody to fathers, that's why fewer than 2 out of 10 men get custody (after either spending tons of money to get what mothers are given freely or the mother choosing to give up custody). :^ You are either completely unknowledgeable about how custody actually works in the RW or your are simply trying to spread disinformation. After reading your posts for a few days, it appears to me that 1) you are a woman with custody despite your stating otherwise; 2) you are trying to defend a lie, that C$ has something to do with supporting children. Phil #3 SpiderHam77 |
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Fist off I'm 100% man. I have Sole Custody of my Child. I took the
steps needed to ensure that if things ever broke down in my Marriage with my Wife I would in fact be in the position to offer better.. more stable care for my Child. As it is 90% of the time that the Man leaves the House.. not the woman.. that is why the Courts rule in the favour of the mother, as she is the one who can show stability in caring for the child. If you were to stay at home with your ex, until such time that a Custody order was made up.. And can show that you are there 50% or more of the time for your child, and are able to provide a Stable home environment, and provide the basics of life... I can garantee you either the Courts will award you Joint Custody, or Sole Custody. Usually it would be Joint Custody as Both Parents have equal say in the matter. However as I said most of the time it's the Man who leaves the home... Tell her to get out.. Make sure stuff like the House is in your Name... And if she refuses to leave.. do not get Violent and lose your temper. Simply stay Calm, and if you have to lseep on the couch for a couple of days.. or make her... See I'm willing to bet 90% of these fathers who are unable to gain Custody of their child are unable to because they were shown to abandon their child, and only when they were asked to pay for Child support did they bother to think about mor Custody.. And when the courts look at things like Custody they usually take into account the last 6 months of living arrangments... And see where the child has been, ext... Courts have a tendancy to not want to distrupt the Constant care of a child in a single place as this upsets the child more. Essentially if you can show an active role in your Child's Life.. As active as humanly possible.. and this can be done through simply taking alot of pictures on different days to prove you are with your child alot... The Courts will take this into account. You all seem to be under the impression that the Courts are out to get you... They aren't.. They are out to provide the Most Stable care for the child. I know your going to say but the Woman will say your abusive. blah blah.... But here is the thing.. she prove it... and in this day and age.. your going to find more and more courts unless she has brought the matter up with the Police, and you have been charged with something... it will not hold water in court. Again in my current posisiton.. My Ex during the whole Custody arrangment tried to say that I had beaten her... and that she had scars to prove it... I simply said I accidently bumped into her while moving a couch into our home, and knocked her over, which was the case... The Judge specifically asked her.. Did you call the Police.. can you provide multiple times of this happening to prove a pattern.. she said no on both accounts. So the judge ruled it was moot point, and that in order to make such claims she needed proof. SpiderHam77 |
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Phil #3,
The "problem" is that SpiderHam77 lives in Canada and has been force fed every feminazi lie there is (probably) since his birth. And the way things work here in the US, well, they're just a little bit different then they are in Canada. But he is trying to learn. |
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