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Divorced mom of two
Well offering to take some poor little girl's hand and helping her to find a
welcome in the BIG BAD single parent's group is insulting and patronizing and not supportive. This is a place for grownups who are parents. If I am the 'poor little girl' that you are speaking of, let me inform you that I am none of the above. I am certainly far from poor, and I'm an adult woman with 2 small children. I get along with their father, who is involved in their lives, and I am not here to bash or insult anyone? Okay?If you want to make God laugh, tell him what you are doing tomorrow Father Mike By the way, who is Father Mike. If you are quoting priests, you have a hell of a lot of nerve, being as condescending as you are. |
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Divorced mom of two
"Kristen313" wrote in message ... Well I guess some people think being patronized is being supported. But other than Steve, if that is your idea of support, this is not the right place. What exactly, if I may ask, are you talking about? I c a n t y p e i t r e a l s l o w s o y o u c a n u n d e r s t a n d True support is not just telling someone what they want to hear, just to be their 'friend' like little stevey tries to do. Too many people come in hear expecting to be applauded for moving kids hundreds of miles away from their other parent, or doing whatever it takes to alienate the other parent. Agreeing with them is NOT support nor is it typically in the best interest of children. Treating people with kit gloves is not support when what they really need is a slap in the face. |
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Divorced mom of two
So both you and stevey are dense.......your point is? Have you always been an ignorant fool, or is hanging around the other ignorant fools in this 'support' group making it worse. Let me guess, your wife left you, and you are a bitter man now, so you have to make fun of other people now to make yourself feel better. |
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Divorced mom of two
"Kristen313" wrote in message ... I c a n t y p e i t r e a l s l o w s o y o u c a n u n d e r s t a n d Too many people come in hear expecting to be applauded for moving kids hundreds of miles away from their other parent, or doing whatever it takes to alienate the other parent. Agreeing with them is NOT support So because some people do it, that gives you the right to treat everybody like an asshole? Can you even find a wider generalization brush to paint with? Get a frikkin grip. |
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Divorced mom of two
"Kristen313" wrote in message ... Let me guess, your wife left you, and you are a bitter man now, so you have to make fun of other people now to make yourself feel better. Wow, ain't you just the piece of **** of the day |
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"steveb" wrote in message ... oaway (Joelle) lifted the trapdoor, peered around and wrote: Well offering to take some poor little girl's hand and helping her to find a welcome in the BIG BAD single parent's group is insulting and patronizing and not supportive. In YOUR humble opinion..... When in actual fact, offering support via email, for any number of reasons, is perfectly proper, and supportive. Whether you think so or not! Like all other offers, ppl are free to accept or decline as they choose. But to castigate a person because YOU happen not to agree with an offer is pathetic. Curiously, the complaint this person made about this ng is one I seem to have heard before....and you are one of the worst offenders steveb generally these complaints are made by people who think this newsgroup was set up for us to listen to them bitch about how horrible their ex is. This newsgroup is about parenting. This group isn't about everyone agreeing with people. eegads! Support isn't about kissing someone's ass. *b |
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Divorced mom of two
"steveb" wrote in message ... oaway (Joelle) lifted the trapdoor, peered around and wrote: Boohoo - I can't control Joelle Wahhhh.... I know you can't....that is why you make ppl feel unwelcome! Woah! Steve, dude, take a chill...... You can't control people. If you don't like what someone has to say...IGNORE them..... |
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Divorced mom of two
"Kristen313" wrote in message ... Well offering to take some poor little girl's hand and helping her to find a welcome in the BIG BAD single parent's group is insulting and patronizing and not supportive. This is a place for grownups who are parents. If I am the 'poor little girl' that you are speaking of, let me inform you that I am none of the above. I am certainly far from poor, and I'm an adult woman with 2 small children. I get along with their father, who is involved in their lives, and I am not here to bash or insult anyone? Okay?If you want to make God laugh, tell him what you are doing tomorrow Father Mike By the way, who is Father Mike. If you are quoting priests, you have a hell of a lot of nerve, being as condescending as you are. you don't introduce yourself. You just pop up out of the blue to bitch. So yes, the 'poor little girl' title goes to you..... |
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Divorced mom of two
"Paul Fritz" wrote in message ... "Kristen313" wrote in message ... Well I guess some people think being patronized is being supported. But other than Steve, if that is your idea of support, this is not the right place. What exactly, if I may ask, are you talking about? I c a n t y p e i t r e a l s l o w s o y o u c a n u n d e r s t a n d True support is not just telling someone what they want to hear, just to be their 'friend' like little stevey tries to do. Too many people come in hear expecting to be applauded for moving kids hundreds of miles away from their other parent, or doing whatever it takes to alienate the other parent. Agreeing with them is NOT support nor is it typically in the best interest of children. Treating people with kit gloves is not support when what they really need is a slap in the face. Hmm.....those words sound really familiar.... have you been reading my mind again paul?? ;-)! *b |
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Divorced mom of two
"Kristen313" wrote in message ... .with a few exceptions, the natives are friendly.....and even the unfrienly ones possess the odd redeeming feature. Steve, you should open your own support group. You seem to be one of the few here who are helpful and don't want to purposefully hurt and deflate people. Aren't we all here for the same reason? For our children? Netcopping now? Pretty bold from someone who has appeared out of nowhere and expects everyone to agree with her..... |
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