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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
"CBI" wrote in message
... "JG" wrote in message t... If a child sleeps *much* better on his/her stomach (falls asleep faster, stays asleep longer), it makes much better sense, IMO, to let him/her do so. At least (s)he will be a well rested corpse. Why are you so averse to letting parents make a rational decision based on *their* situation? A sleep-deprived child can adversely affect an entire family; his/her problem usually has a domino effect. There's a trade-off to be made in the case of kids whose heads become pronouncably misshapen: Are the costs (financial and other) of having the deformity corrected worth the benefit (very, very small) of forcing an infant to sleep on his/her back? Likewise (alternatively), are the costs of *not* correcting a noticable deformity (teasing, ridiculing, name-calling, ...[= bullying, these days]) worth it? You tell us. What is the cost of correcting these deformities caused by BTS? Sorry, I don't have a plastic surgeon on call. I'm sure you could get a ballpark figure by doing a Gooogle search, however. Compare that to the number of lives saved. How many of these kids are noticibly deformed by the time they get to school age? How much teasing /life is worthwhile? That's for the individual (or, in this case, his/her parents) to decide now, isn't it? "Doomsday," IMO, is already upon us (the US). The point of my posting the article (along with my comments) was not to lament the creation of a society with weird-shaped-head kids (hell, some of the kids whom I tutor have deformities/conditions that they'd undoubtedly trade for a flattened head in a heartbeat), but to deplore the existence of a society in which parents apparently can't discern and resolve problems for themselves. Why do you assume this? I'd say "up to 48%" of kids having misshapen heads, even if the deformities aren't permanent, speaks for itself. The simple measures suggested in the article (prone while awake/observed, rotating 180 degrees in the crib) are, IMO, common sense--yet apparently almost half of "Back to Sleep" parents haven't employed them (or asked their kid's caregiver to employ them). OTOH, maybe they ARE aware of them, and simply think Jr.'s misshapen head is endearing, right? Uh-huh. Yeah... Maybe they can and they just don't come tot he same conclusions as you. Yup. Gee, and to think there are some parents who just can't cope with having kids, so they come to the conclusion that they'll simply off them. |
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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
"CBI" wrote in message
... "JG" wrote in message t... With all the concern about "bullying" these days, I'd advise parents, especially those reluctant to encourage their kids to defend themselves, to try to have their kids look as "normal" as possible. Interesting parenting advice. Would you have them keep their mouths shut and go along as much as possible as well? You bet, if they (the kids) are unwilling and/or unable to defend themselves against the responses (consequences) their words or actions, like their appearance, might provoke. Growing up, you must surely have known one or two kids who'd throw stones (literally or figuratively) and immediately retreat behind their mom or dad. What'd you think of them? |
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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
"JG" wrote in message t... "Elizabeth Reid" wrote in message om... ...It should be *ZERO*. How in the world could an otherwise competent parent ..... JG - the fallacy of your whinings is showing through. First you whine about the AAP treating parents like idiots. Then you whine that some of them are idiots. Maybe there is some connection? Perhaps the AAP is not being so unreasonable after all? -- CBI, MD |
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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
"CBI" wrote in message
... "JG" wrote in message t... "Elizabeth Reid" wrote in message om... ...It should be *ZERO*. How in the world could an otherwise competent parent ..... JG - the fallacy of your whinings is showing through. First you whine about the AAP treating parents like idiots. Then you whine that some of them are idiots. Maybe there is some connection? Perhaps the AAP is not being so unreasonable after all? Many parents ARE idiots (incompetent). I believe the number, and percent, of "idiot parents" is increasing. A few reasons are obvious: Many parents these days have (or had) less-than-ideal (and/or often absent) parents themselves ... A crappy (*overall*) public education system that turns out future parents (and some teenagers who are *already* parents!) who can't think (but who *think* they can think and who feel good about themselves!) ... A culture (read: media) that continues to endorse and encourage/promote self-centeredness--ME first, kid second ... Politicians (and bureaucrats), intent on keeping their jobs, giving (or trying to) all things to all people (even those who neither need nor want to partake of gubmnt's largesse!), and have thereby instilled a sense of both dependency and entitlement among much of the populace (why think for yourself when there's someone--some bureaucrat--all too ready and willing to do it for you?) ... A federal gubmnt that's made a habit of bailing out/subsidizing all sorts of entities, including other gubmnts (e.g., cities) and corporations (e.g., Amtrak) as well as individuals (e.g., farmers) who DO screw up ... In short, can you honestly deny that personal responsibility is a waning virtue? But I digress... As I've asserted before (previous threads), it's simply not possible to educate a lot of idiots (the "uneducable"), no matter how hard one might try. You can lead a horse (parent) to water... The AAP apparently believes *all* parents are idiots, and thus recommends pediatricians treat them as such (e.g., by asking MYOB questions such as whether there are any guns in the house). As far as head-flattening is concerned, if it's to the point where it's noticeable (i.e., of medical concern) you'll have a hard time convincing me that the parents themselves don't/haven't noticed it and taken some "common sense"--intuitive--measures (such as those recommended in the article) to alleviate/correct it. If a pediatrician wants to cover his/her ass (against "failure to warn" lawsuits), I'd suggest he/she simply put all his/her (i.e., the AAP's) "advice" in a "new parent" booklet that can be given to all new/expectant moms. Hand out an addendum regarding the importance of repositioning infants to avoid smushed heads, if you wish. |
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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
"JG" wrote in message t... "CBI" wrote in message ... "JG" wrote in message t... If a child sleeps *much* better on his/her stomach (falls asleep faster, stays asleep longer), it makes much better sense, IMO, to let him/her do so. At least (s)he will be a well rested corpse. Why are you so averse to letting parents make a rational decision based on *their* situation? A sleep-deprived child can adversely affect an entire family; his/her problem usually has a domino effect. Never said I was. Why do you assume that parents aren't? Maybe some value the decreased risk over a little extra sleep. Truth be told there are very few kids who, if put down supine right from birth, will not sleep just fine. There is nothing int he back to sleep program that suggests parents should force the issue. All they are told to due is to put them down face up. There is no direction to keep checking them and flipping the kid over. We've discussed this before yet to keep raising the same old crap over and over again. You tell us. What is the cost of correcting these deformities caused by BTS? Sorry, I don't have a plastic surgeon on call. I'm sure you could get a ballpark figure by doing a Gooogle search, however. For one surgery? - Sure. The relevant figure would be to determine how many surgeries are being caused by the campaign. I'm betting it is low. SInce you are the one claiming it is not worth it then I am sure you won't mind digging out those figures. I'd say "up to 48%" of kids having misshapen heads, even if the deformities aren't permanent, speaks for itself. What does it say? To me it says that a lot parents have been appropriately counselled to try to turn the kid but not to get worked up about some mild asymmetry. As I pointed out in my other post - the real joke here is that for ages you have been screaming about how the advice the AAP gives should be obvious to any idiot. Now you are claiming that 48% of parents are idiots. You can't have it both ways. If so many parents are so stupid then the AAP is justified in giving such obvious advice. The simple measures suggested in the article (prone while awake/observed, rotating 180 degrees in the crib) are, IMO, common sense--yet apparently almost half of "Back to Sleep" parents haven't employed them (or asked their kid's caregiver to employ them). OTOH, maybe they ARE aware of them, and simply think Jr.'s misshapen head is endearing, right? Uh-huh. Yeah... No - maybe they are employing them but they don't work 100%. I hear about kids that prefer to sleep with their heads to one side all the time but you and Roger are the only two parents I have ever heard claim their kids would not sleep well supine. Perhaps that is because I counsel my patients from early on and so the kids become accustomed to supine sleeping from early on whereas you and Rog never really bought into the whole concept (and probably took a perverse pleasure in not following the standard advice). Remember, you still have not shown that there is a significant problem. The 48% figure indicates nothing since that does not tell us how many of these kids will even have a noticeable asymmetry when older, much less undergo surgery or teasing. Before you lambaste 48% of the parents for their poor choices/parenting you need to show that they are doing something wrong. Maybe they can and they just don't come tot he same conclusions as you. Yup. Gee, and to think there are some parents who just can't cope with having kids, so they come to the conclusion that they'll simply off them. I'm not sure I see the connection. Surely you abnit that it is possible for a well adjusted, sane intelligent parent to come to different conclusions than you did? -- CBI, MD |
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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
On Wed, 9 Jul 2003 00:05:34 -0400, "CBI" wrote:
No - maybe they are employing them but they don't work 100%. I hear about kids that prefer to sleep with their heads to one side all the time but you and Roger are the only two parents I have ever heard claim their kids would not sleep well supine. Perhaps that is because I counsel my patients from early on and so the kids become accustomed to supine sleeping from early on whereas you and Rog never really bought into the whole concept (and probably took a perverse pleasure in not following the standard advice). I'd say I see about one family a year where the infant is put to sleep prone because of a dramatic difference in quality of sleep. I appropriately counsel the parents, who are generally well aware of the risk, and they make the decision, sometimes with great difficulty, to continue to allow the patient to sleep prone. The vast, vast majority of infants, on the other hand, who have any preference, hate being prone, and in fact many infants have to be coached to tolerate "tummy time." PF |
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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
On Tue, 08 Jul 2003 18:22:47 GMT, "JG" wrote:
"PF Riley" wrote in message ... I'd say 48% sounds about right in my experience. What you fail to realize is that for most of them, the deformity resolves with time. Back to Sleep started in full force around 1994. Do you know many 9-year-olds with misshapen heads? I know a couple of teenagers with rather severe craniofacial abnormalities, but not because of supine sleeping. What I have difficulty understanding is why the parents of the 48% with misshapen heads either didn't notice the problem developing (!) or didn't take corrective action (e.g., the suggestions in the article) sooner... And yet again we revisit a common theme from you, JG. Either by arrogance or ignorance (or both?) you seem to way overestimate the average intelligence and common sense of the American public. As CBI has pointed out, your problem in this case is not with the AAP dispensing the advice, but with your perception that it shouldn't be necessary. I would say about half of the families to whom I point out the typical occipital flattening and even occasional rhomboidal deformity (unilateral occipital with contralateral frontal flattening) of positional plagiocephaly during the 4 month check-up genuinely had not noticed it themselves. How, then, would you expect these parents to have begun taking corrective action? PF |
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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
Ha, my baby started getting the flattened head and we were alarmed as son as
we noticed - at about 3 months. We got a positioner and put him on his side to sleep. I daresay most intelligent folks will figure it out - that is, if they are not overwhelmed by life (too many children, work, etc.) to notice L. P.S. I find the lot of you rather arrogant ans silly. I do not know a single "doctor" that has TIME TO WRITE silly accusations. " And yet again we revisit a common theme from you, JG. Either by arrogance or ignorance (or both?)" To what parents are you dispensing advice ? People in the grocery line in front of you ? This is a very strange group. "PF Riley" wrote in message ... On Tue, 08 Jul 2003 18:22:47 GMT, "JG" wrote: "PF Riley" wrote in message ... I'd say 48% sounds about right in my experience. What you fail to realize is that for most of them, the deformity resolves with time. Back to Sleep started in full force around 1994. Do you know many 9-year-olds with misshapen heads? I know a couple of teenagers with rather severe craniofacial abnormalities, but not because of supine sleeping. What I have difficulty understanding is why the parents of the 48% with misshapen heads either didn't notice the problem developing (!) or didn't take corrective action (e.g., the suggestions in the article) sooner... And yet again we revisit a common theme from you, JG. Either by arrogance or ignorance (or both?) you seem to way overestimate the average intelligence and common sense of the American public. As CBI has pointed out, your problem in this case is not with the AAP dispensing the advice, but with your perception that it shouldn't be necessary. I would say about half of the families to whom I point out the typical occipital flattening and even occasional rhomboidal deformity (unilateral occipital with contralateral frontal flattening) of positional plagiocephaly during the 4 month check-up genuinely had not noticed it themselves. How, then, would you expect these parents to have begun taking corrective action? PF |
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Infant flat skulls can be avoided: U.S. doctors
"JG" wrote
I'd say "up to 48%" of kids having misshapen heads, even if the deformities aren't permanent, speaks for itself. Yes. Plus delayed development, less sound sleep, less sleep for the moms, etc. The BS campaign was a bad idea. |
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