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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
"InCharge" wrote in message alkaboutparenting.com...
I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. As was mentioned earlier, if you have a court order for child support for your first four children, the court will have to take that into account in determing the amount you owe for the next two. If you don't have a court order, the court does love to close it's eyes to reality and is likely to ignore the obligation you have to the first four. Which then means that the last two will get a disproportionate amount and you won't have much if any for the first four. Furter if the mother of the last two is on welfare, you can bet welfare will be down your throat. Also, once a number gets set it is extra difficult to get it lowered. As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. I'm not a lawyer (thank god) just rather experienced as a result of 10 years of litigation. Don |
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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
"Don" wrote in message om... "InCharge" wrote in message alkaboutparenting.com... I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. As was mentioned earlier, if you have a court order for child support for your first four children, the court will have to take that into account in determing the amount you owe for the next two. If you don't have a court order, the court does love to close it's eyes to reality and is likely to ignore the obligation you have to the first four. Which then means that the last two will get a disproportionate amount and you won't have much if any for the first four. Furter if the mother of the last two is on welfare, you can bet welfare will be down your throat. Also, once a number gets set it is extra difficult to get it lowered. As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. Heh, and the last thing you want to do at the first hearing is annoy the judge. I've found that once you do, you're screwed. When my ex and I went to court to finalize the divorce, we had agreed upon an amount for child support, but the judge (after some testimony from her and some others) looked at me and said "Oh no, you're paying more than that. I'll make this a lesson you won't forget" or some crud like that. So, don't give the judge the death stare as he's talking to you, no matter what ) short - and I only interrupted once!!! |
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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
"Don" wrote in message om... "InCharge" wrote in message alkaboutparenting.com... I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. As was mentioned earlier, if you have a court order for child support for your first four children, the court will have to take that into account in determing the amount you owe for the next two. If you don't have a court order, the court does love to close it's eyes to reality and is likely to ignore the obligation you have to the first four. Which then means that the last two will get a disproportionate amount and you won't have much if any for the first four. Furter if the mother of the last two is on welfare, you can bet welfare will be down your throat. Also, once a number gets set it is extra difficult to get it lowered. As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. Heh, and the last thing you want to do at the first hearing is annoy the judge. I've found that once you do, you're screwed. When my ex and I went to court to finalize the divorce, we had agreed upon an amount for child support, but the judge (after some testimony from her and some others) looked at me and said "Oh no, you're paying more than that. I'll make this a lesson you won't forget" or some crud like that. So, don't give the judge the death stare as he's talking to you, no matter what ) short - and I only interrupted once!!! |
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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
"Don" wrote in message om... "InCharge" wrote in message alkaboutparenting.com... I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. As was mentioned earlier, if you have a court order for child support for your first four children, the court will have to take that into account in determing the amount you owe for the next two. If you don't have a court order, the court does love to close it's eyes to reality and is likely to ignore the obligation you have to the first four. Which then means that the last two will get a disproportionate amount and you won't have much if any for the first four. Furter if the mother of the last two is on welfare, you can bet welfare will be down your throat. Also, once a number gets set it is extra difficult to get it lowered. As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. Heh, and the last thing you want to do at the first hearing is annoy the judge. I've found that once you do, you're screwed. When my ex and I went to court to finalize the divorce, we had agreed upon an amount for child support, but the judge (after some testimony from her and some others) looked at me and said "Oh no, you're paying more than that. I'll make this a lesson you won't forget" or some crud like that. So, don't give the judge the death stare as he's talking to you, no matter what ) short - and I only interrupted once!!! |
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"short" wrote in message ... "Don" wrote in message om... "InCharge" wrote in message alkaboutparenting.com... I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. As was mentioned earlier, if you have a court order for child support for your first four children, the court will have to take that into account in determing the amount you owe for the next two. If you don't have a court order, the court does love to close it's eyes to reality and is likely to ignore the obligation you have to the first four. Which then means that the last two will get a disproportionate amount and you won't have much if any for the first four. Furter if the mother of the last two is on welfare, you can bet welfare will be down your throat. Also, once a number gets set it is extra difficult to get it lowered. As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. Heh, and the last thing you want to do at the first hearing is annoy the judge. I've found that once you do, you're screwed. Correction: You're MORE screwed. You were already screwed when you were born without a vagina. When my ex and I went to court to finalize the divorce, we had agreed upon an amount for child support, but the judge (after some testimony from her and some others) looked at me and said "Oh no, you're paying more than that. I'll make this a lesson you won't forget" or some crud like that. So, don't give the judge the death stare as he's talking to you, no matter what ) short - and I only interrupted once!!! |
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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
"short" wrote in message ... "Don" wrote in message om... "InCharge" wrote in message alkaboutparenting.com... I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. As was mentioned earlier, if you have a court order for child support for your first four children, the court will have to take that into account in determing the amount you owe for the next two. If you don't have a court order, the court does love to close it's eyes to reality and is likely to ignore the obligation you have to the first four. Which then means that the last two will get a disproportionate amount and you won't have much if any for the first four. Furter if the mother of the last two is on welfare, you can bet welfare will be down your throat. Also, once a number gets set it is extra difficult to get it lowered. As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. Heh, and the last thing you want to do at the first hearing is annoy the judge. I've found that once you do, you're screwed. Correction: You're MORE screwed. You were already screwed when you were born without a vagina. When my ex and I went to court to finalize the divorce, we had agreed upon an amount for child support, but the judge (after some testimony from her and some others) looked at me and said "Oh no, you're paying more than that. I'll make this a lesson you won't forget" or some crud like that. So, don't give the judge the death stare as he's talking to you, no matter what ) short - and I only interrupted once!!! |
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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
"short" wrote in message ... "Don" wrote in message om... "InCharge" wrote in message alkaboutparenting.com... I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. As was mentioned earlier, if you have a court order for child support for your first four children, the court will have to take that into account in determing the amount you owe for the next two. If you don't have a court order, the court does love to close it's eyes to reality and is likely to ignore the obligation you have to the first four. Which then means that the last two will get a disproportionate amount and you won't have much if any for the first four. Furter if the mother of the last two is on welfare, you can bet welfare will be down your throat. Also, once a number gets set it is extra difficult to get it lowered. As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. Heh, and the last thing you want to do at the first hearing is annoy the judge. I've found that once you do, you're screwed. Correction: You're MORE screwed. You were already screwed when you were born without a vagina. When my ex and I went to court to finalize the divorce, we had agreed upon an amount for child support, but the judge (after some testimony from her and some others) looked at me and said "Oh no, you're paying more than that. I'll make this a lesson you won't forget" or some crud like that. So, don't give the judge the death stare as he's talking to you, no matter what ) short - and I only interrupted once!!! |
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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
be carefull some states can take your drivers licens away, even take
your propety-your car and home . do not belive in hear say. Do research in your state law.Best of luck friend |
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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
be carefull some states can take your drivers licens away, even take
your propety-your car and home . do not belive in hear say. Do research in your state law.Best of luck friend |
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HELP! Women in my pocket!!
be carefull some states can take your drivers licens away, even take
your propety-your car and home . do not belive in hear say. Do research in your state law.Best of luck friend |
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