Man Forced To Use Loan For Child Support, Not Car

Leave it to indy to try to flamboozle us with her lack of logic. Let's
try thinking this through:

Let's assume mommy "would have spent" the money on the kids if she'd had
it.... So what? She didn't have it so she didn't spend it so why
should she be "repaid" for spending what she didn't spend? The money
should be owed directly to the kids if owed at all.

HOWEVER....in this case, the mother CHOSE not to accept the money (by
disappearing) and in so doing CHOSE not to either not spend it on the
kids or to spend on them and do without herself. It matters not which
option she chose, only that SHE CHOSE to do without the CS. *I*F* she
did without herself, it was her choice and she should not be able to
decide now to "have her cake and eat it too". And if she chose not to
spend on the kids what she didn't receive for them....then SHE owes an
amount equivalent to the ignored CS directly to the kids.

But, as usual, indy would have dad pay for mommy's choices...no matter
how much her choices hurt his kids.

You see, indy is like your legislators...she really doesn't give a ****
what happens to kids as long as mommies get to make whatever choices
they want...

Mel Gamble

Indyguy1 wrote:

editor wrote:


"Indyguy1" wrote in message
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editor wrote:

When you're order directs you to pay your ex-wife and she vanishes with
your
child ILLEGALLY, you're not left with much of a choiice, are you?

You could have put the money you have been ordered to pay in CS in an
interest
drawing account and then you'd have had it to pay when she resurfacd.

We're fathers...not ATMs.

Fathers WITH the obligation to support their kids.


As I told you, at least ONE Virginia judge has ruled that when a parent
"actively conceals" a child in violation of a court order, the non-custodial
parent has NO DUTY to seek the parent in hiding out and put money into her
hands.

I didn't say the NCP should have actively sought them out. I just said the
money would be owed regardless and a smart person would stash it as oppossed to
spending it and crying about when they didn't have it to pay if and when the
owed shows up again.

Mrs Indyguy