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NV Shortage of Fosters a LIE
http://www.klastv.com/Global/story.a...21816&nav=168Y
http://www.klastv.com/global/story.a...Type=Printable Denise Saunders, Anchor Foster Parents Speak Out About Broken System June 12, 2006, 11:10 PM Overcrowded conditions at Child Haven have county officials stepping up recruitment efforts for more foster families. But that plea has some current foster parents angry because they've been waiting more than a year for a child to be placed in their home. Eyewitness News has protected their identity -- for fear of retribution for speaking out -- so they could share their views on the foster care crisis. Foster parent: "Everything that we are reading in the paper and seeing in the media is not black and white. We are a broken system." These foster parents feel betrayed by a system that is supposed to bring families together. They all have licenses to foster children, so they don't understand why they haven't been contacted by the county about possible placement considering child haven is overflowing. Foster parent: "They are full of crap. They are full of crap. There are so many people. I could find probably find a dozen homes for children in the snap of my finger already licensed." Their experience has taught them it's all a game of caseworkers and supervisors playing favorites. Foster parent: "You're punished constantly. If you speak up to the wrong worker, they'll just by word of mouth. You won't get kids." Foster parent: "There are a selected few that they are picking and they are not picking the one's that can really help and really want to help." These foster parents, or potential foster parents, say their calls to the county constantly go unanswered. Their concerns and questions are buried in a system that seems riddled with red tape. Foster parent: "Clean house. Get rid of the slack. Get rid of the duplication of efforts. I've filled out the same paperwork probably 17 times." Despite their frustrations, these foster parents say they won't give up because they believe someone needs to fight for the rights of these young children. Foster parent: "I could love another one and there are kids out there that are looking for love. Sometimes social services doesn't look at the love that a child needs. And that's what keeps I think most of us in here. Because we do care and we do want it to happen." The foster parents Eyewitness News spoke with say another problem with the process is that there are too many licensing categories, which often limits where children can be placed temporarily or permanently. |
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NV Shortage of Fosters a LIE
I was wondering why you did not put title of article in( Foster
Parents Speak Out About Broken} in subject line. On 15 Jun 2006 00:35:00 -0700, "Greegor" wrote: http://www.klastv.com/Global/story.a...21816&nav=168Y http://www.klastv.com/global/story.a...Type=Printable Denise Saunders, Anchor Foster Parents Speak Out About Broken System June 12, 2006, 11:10 PM Overcrowded conditions at Child Haven have county officials stepping up recruitment efforts for more foster families. But that plea has some current foster parents angry because they've been waiting more than a year for a child to be placed in their home. Eyewitness News has protected their identity -- for fear of retribution for speaking out -- so they could share their views on the foster care crisis. Foster parent: "Everything that we are reading in the paper and seeing in the media is not black and white. We are a broken system." These foster parents feel betrayed by a system that is supposed to bring families together. They all have licenses to foster children, so they don't understand why they haven't been contacted by the county about possible placement considering child haven is overflowing. Foster parent: "They are full of crap. They are full of crap. There are so many people. I could find probably find a dozen homes for children in the snap of my finger already licensed." Their experience has taught them it's all a game of caseworkers and supervisors playing favorites. Foster parent: "You're punished constantly. If you speak up to the wrong worker, they'll just by word of mouth. You won't get kids." Foster parent: "There are a selected few that they are picking and they are not picking the one's that can really help and really want to help." These foster parents, or potential foster parents, say their calls to the county constantly go unanswered. Their concerns and questions are buried in a system that seems riddled with red tape. Foster parent: "Clean house. Get rid of the slack. Get rid of the duplication of efforts. I've filled out the same paperwork probably 17 times." Despite their frustrations, these foster parents say they won't give up because they believe someone needs to fight for the rights of these young children. Foster parent: "I could love another one and there are kids out there that are looking for love. Sometimes social services doesn't look at the love that a child needs. And that's what keeps I think most of us in here. Because we do care and we do want it to happen." The foster parents Eyewitness News spoke with say another problem with the process is that there are too many licensing categories, which often limits where children can be placed temporarily or permanently. Defend your civil liberties! Get information at http://www.aclu.org, become a member at http://www.aclu.org/join and get active at http://www.aclu.org/action. We cannot defend freedom abroad by deserting it at home. |
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NV Shortage of Fosters a LIE
Greegor wrote:
http://www.klastv.com/Global/story.a...21816&nav=168Y http://www.klastv.com/global/story.a...Type=Printable Denise Saunders, Anchor Foster Parents Speak Out About Broken System June 12, 2006, 11:10 PM Overcrowded conditions at Child Haven have county officials stepping up recruitment efforts for more foster families. But that plea has some current foster parents angry because they've been waiting more than a year for a child to be placed in their home. Eyewitness News has protected their identity -- for fear of retribution for speaking out -- so they could share their views on the foster care crisis. Foster parent: "Everything that we are reading in the paper and seeing in the media is not black and white. We are a broken system." These foster parents feel betrayed by a system that is supposed to bring families together. They all have licenses to foster children, so they don't understand why they haven't been contacted by the county about possible placement considering child haven is overflowing. Foster parent: "They are full of crap. They are full of crap. There are so many people. I could find probably find a dozen homes for children in the snap of my finger already licensed." Their experience has taught them it's all a game of caseworkers and supervisors playing favorites. Foster parent: "You're punished constantly. If you speak up to the wrong worker, they'll just by word of mouth. You won't get kids." Foster parent: "There are a selected few that they are picking and they are not picking the one's that can really help and really want to help." These foster parents, or potential foster parents, say their calls to the county constantly go unanswered. Their concerns and questions are buried in a system that seems riddled with red tape. Foster parent: "Clean house. Get rid of the slack. Get rid of the duplication of efforts. I've filled out the same paperwork probably 17 times." Despite their frustrations, these foster parents say they won't give up because they believe someone needs to fight for the rights of these young children. Foster parent: "I could love another one and there are kids out there that are looking for love. Sometimes social services doesn't look at the love that a child needs. And that's what keeps I think most of us in here. Because we do care and we do want it to happen." The foster parents Eyewitness News spoke with say another problem with the process is that there are too many licensing categories, which often limits where children can be placed temporarily or permanently. These then would be the same "foster parents" that you and others wish to claim kill and injury their foster children at a rate higher than the general population? Greg, about 90% of the crap above is exactly that. Foster parents, like anyone, hate having to go through the exercise of certification. Not all are qualified to handle the most difficult children with high needs. (Which, by the way, bring in the most foster subsidy...0:-) I have heard the litany for ages from those foster parents NOT allowed to take the more high needs children in larger numbers. THOSE are the foster parents that in fact ARE what you and other assholes claim they are...the greedy. Of course they are no one's "favorites." They also blather about "loving the child," when in fact those are the one's showing the least amount of real love and concern for the child and his FAMILY. Real foster parents don't come on like the above, Greg. And anyone with a brain knows that people don't all come with the same skills and capacities. The reason children aren't placed with some of them is they cannot handle the child as they are with the needs they have...though they could do a fair job with other children with different or lessor needs. Problem these days, Greg, is the that PARENTS THAT ABUSE that you like to excuse and help, are doing so much damage to their children that more and more of the population in foster care IS high needs. One of the reasons for NOT using a foster family is their own children. They may NOT be safe around some foster children. No worker with a brain is going to place a sexually predatory child (and there are plenty) in a home with younger children..not even children close to their own age. No one is going to place a child that's a fire setter in a home where the foster parent is not trained, and they house is not rigged and setup to deal with a firesetter (no accelerators, no incindiary devices..etc. That means no matches, no lighters, and not even nail polish in the house..these families can't even have a wood stove or fireplace.). And the bedrooms must all be alarmed, with the alarms sealed so they cannot be tampered with. Imagine the cost. Should these children be in an institution? CPS thinks they need a family life if they are to recover. I TREATED CHILDREN LIKE THIS. You have been suckered YET AGAIN. Lots of "nice folks" try to become foster parents. Nowadays they will SUE if you tell them they cannot be. No matter how unfit they are. So you have to train them and certify them, but one thing...you do NOT have to use them. Thank goodness CPS is being so careful. Overcrowding is not as bad as having children abuse -- and you can be sure a foster parent would sue the hell out of the state if a foster child abused one of their own. AND, even MORE likely, the foster child involve the bio child of the foster parents in activities that makes the THEM a child abuser. That DOES happen. So CPS won't place any but appropriate children with the appropriate foster family. Remember, CPS doesn't put an add in the paper with "salary" and qualifications and have droves of people applying. Most parents out there could NOT handle being a foster parent. It is way too demanding, as this story does have THAT bit of truth buried in there. And no one fills out the same forms 17 times...dummy. Except on children in their home to the number of 17. In other words, they are required to keep the same records on all children that they foster over time. It's a lot more than 17 for some families. This is a piece of crap article, as usual. 0:- -- "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else) |
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Greg, your study assignment. 0:- NV Shortage of Fosters a LIE
-------- Original Message -------- Subject: Foster families fill urgent need Date: Thu, 15 Jun 2006 16:27:29 GMT From: wexwimpy Newsgroups: alt.support.foster-parents Foster families fill urgent need 06/13/2006 By Kym Soper , Journal Inquirer "Just being removed from your home is traumatic enough, never mind possibly losing your brother or sister too," DCF social worker Kevin Howell-Levine says during a recent visit to the boys. Like many brothers, Nicholaus and Alexander, whose last names are being withheld at DCF's request, can be as different as night and day. Tawny-haired with hazel eyes, the older boy is a baseball fan and a budding Picasso who draws colorfully crayoned pictures of dinosaurs and fish. Blond and blue-eyed, the younger of the two says basketball is his sport and he loves writing long sentences, snapping off complex prose far beyond the ability of most first-graders. They do share some similarities, however - both have freckles, love recess and gym, NASCAR racing, and heavy metal music, saying KISS, Bon Jovi, and Ozzy Osborne are their favorite groups. After school, homework, and a quick snack, adventure beckons in their wooded 3-acre back yard. And they show off, with pride, their battle scars: skinned knees and elbows from occasional falls off bicycles and trees. They have their spats and like to wrestle about, as most young siblings do, but if one were to be threatened by a bully, the other would rally to the rescue. "If anybody even tried to punch my brother - hello, goodbye!" Nicholaus says, making an exaggerated punch in the air with his fist. Both boys say they are happy with their foster home. Their foster mother, Katherine Keyes-Noto, is really nice and she has six of her own children there to play with, they say. But both admit they miss being with their mom and dad. "It's hard," says Alexander, casting his eyes down to watch his sneaker-clad toe worry a patch of loose grass. But if he had also been separated from his brother, "it would be a lot harder," he adds, flashing bright eyes upward. No easy task According to the latest figures from DCF, 4,519 children in Connecticut were living in the foster care system as of June 7, either in a licensed foster home like Nicholaus and Alexander or with relatives other than their mothers or fathers. More than half, or 2,621, have a sister or brother who is also in DCF care, but only 1,049 of those children have been placed in the same home as their siblings. The others have been separated for a variety of reasons, officials say. "Some of the kids are not together for clinical reasons, or it could be that one child has victimized his siblings," DCF spokeswoman Lisa Flower-Murphy says. A child sometimes may need intensive mental health services or have a chronic medical condition that requires high-level nursing care, and there are a limited number of foster homes licensed to deal with those problems, officials say. DCF spokesman Gary Kleeblatt adds, "It depends on a lot of different factors: how many siblings there are, what their individual issues and needs are, and what the foster family is licensed for. It has to be on a case-by-case basis, and I think foster families are very flexible and do a lot for the best interest of the kids in their home." Keyes-Noto knows plenty about being flexible. In order to keep Nicholaus and Alexander together, she and her husband gave up their master bedroom and now sleep in a much smaller space plastered with green-and-yellow John Deere tractor wallpaper. The smaller room had belonged to her three boys, and with two bunk beds taking up most of the space, only one more boy could snugly fit. Now, the bunk beds and a twin for all five boys have taken over her master bedroom retreat, and she and her husband are dreaming about farmland. A foster parent since 2001, Keyes-Noto grew up in such an environment and thinks nothing of the sacrifice. "My parents did this, had a lot of foster and adopted kids when I was growing up," Keyes-Noto says. It can be chaotic at times, and quite the balancing act trying to provide structure to lives ripped apart, she admits. But the benefits outweigh the disadvantages, she says, noting that her mother now has 21 grandchildren to boast of. "We do it for the kids," she says. "To this day I still can't imagine not opening your home to a child you don't know who's in need." Right now the most pressing needs in foster care are homes for teenagers and adolescents, children of color, and children with medically complex conditions, Flower-Murphy says. "Because those kids possess special kinds of challenges, they're more difficult to place," she says. According to DCF figures, the average age of a child in the foster care system is 11 years, with an average length of stay of 22 months. Foster parents must be at least 21, and complete training and criminal background checks before becoming licensed. For more information about foster care or becoming a foster parent, contact the DCF information line at 1-888-KIDHERO. http://www.journalinquirer.com/site/...1 61556&rfi=6 Defend your civil liberties! Get information at http://www.aclu.org, become a member at http://www.aclu.org/join and get active at http://www.aclu.org/action. We cannot defend freedom abroad by deserting it at home. -- "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else) |
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NV Shortage of Fosters a LIE
Wex:
Broken CPS is not news, see recent GA debacle. But Fosters pointing out that the ""shortage"" of fosters is a lie, that is more precious. |
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autistic children reportedly given electrical shocks
the Judge Rotenberg Center in Canton, Massachusetts is being
investigated for injuries caused to autistic children...............disruptive children have reportedly been subjected to "aversive therapy" consisting of electric shocks that produce pain similar to a bee sting.............. |
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autistic children reportedly given electrical shocks
But doesn't this fit right in with your theories
about TASERING children, Kane? 0:- wrote: wrote: the Judge Rotenberg Center in Canton, Massachusetts is being investigated for injuries caused to autistic children...............disruptive children have reportedly been subjected to "aversive therapy" consisting of electric shocks that produce pain similar to a bee sting.............. Possibly you and Greg should discuss aversive cold showers. He seems to think it will stop his own incontinence as he claimed it stopped a little girl from peeing herself. 0:- -- "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else) |
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autistic children reportedly given electrical shocks
Greegor wrote:
But doesn't this fit right in with your theories about TASERING children, Kane? What would these theories of mine be, Greg? If you read the ONLY instances I've ever discussed this issue you would find two of the three were life saving, and the third an instance where an aggressive teen attacked duly authorized school personnel and they were protecting themselves. So again, Greg, you are lying. I've never approved of Tasering children. I do have a theory that supports the use of the Taser to save a child's life, or to protect others from being injured. It's called the "Don't Be a Stupid Greg," (...and do things to hurt yourself and others). 0:- 0:- wrote: wrote: the Judge Rotenberg Center in Canton, Massachusetts is being investigated for injuries caused to autistic children...............disruptive children have reportedly been subjected to "aversive therapy" consisting of electric shocks that produce pain similar to a bee sting.............. Possibly you and Greg should discuss aversive cold showers. He seems to think it will stop his own incontinence as he claimed it stopped a little girl from peeing herself. 0:- -- "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else) -- "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else) |
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Foster Parents Speak Out About Broken System
Shortage of Foster Care contractors is a lie say licensed Fosters!
Nevada http://www.klastv.com/Global/story.a...21816&nav=168Y http://www.klastv.com/global/story.a...Type=Printable Denise Saunders, Anchor Foster Parents Speak Out About Broken System June 12, 2006, 11:10 PM Overcrowded conditions at Child Haven have county officials stepping up recruitment efforts for more foster families. But that plea has some current foster parents angry because they've been waiting more than a year for a child to be placed in their home. Eyewitness News has protected their identity -- for fear of retribution for speaking out -- so they could share their views on the foster care crisis. Foster parent: "Everything that we are reading in the paper and seeing in the media is not black and white. We are a broken system." These foster parents feel betrayed by a system that is supposed to bring families together. They all have licenses to foster children, so they don't understand why they haven't been contacted by the county about possible placement considering child haven is overflowing. Foster parent: "They are full of crap. They are full of crap. There are so many people. I could find probably find a dozen homes for children in the snap of my finger already licensed." Their experience has taught them it's all a game of caseworkers and supervisors playing favorites. Foster parent: "You're punished constantly. If you speak up to the wrong worker, they'll just by word of mouth. You won't get kids." Foster parent: "There are a selected few that they are picking and they are not picking the one's that can really help and really want to help." These foster parents, or potential foster parents, say their calls to the county constantly go unanswered. Their concerns and questions are buried in a system that seems riddled with red tape. Foster parent: "Clean house. Get rid of the slack. Get rid of the duplication of efforts. I've filled out the same paperwork probably 17 times." Despite their frustrations, these foster parents say they won't give up because they believe someone needs to fight for the rights of these young children. Foster parent: "I could love another one and there are kids out there that are looking for love. Sometimes social services doesn't look at the love that a child needs. And that's what keeps I think most of us in here. Because we do care and we do want it to happen." The foster parents Eyewitness News spoke with say another problem with the process is that there are too many licensing categories, which often limits where children can be placed temporarily or permanently. |
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