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Why are our values so screwed up.
I worked for 35 years and receive a $2500.00/month pension to support my
wife and myself. My son was tricked into becoming a father because he had a good job and was ordered to pay $2500.00/month in child support. Almost $100 a day for formula and diapers. Fair???? |
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Why are our values so screwed up.
"William" wrote in message ... I worked for 35 years and receive a $2500.00/month pension to support my wife and myself. My son was tricked into becoming a father because he had a good job and was ordered to pay $2500.00/month in child support. Women have to be held more accountable for their actions too! A fully grown single woman having unprotected sex and knowing full well that she is putting herself at risk for pregnancy and sexual diseases, has to take responsibility for her decision in terms of not depending on anyone else to fix her mistakes. Staying at home to be good mommy should not be an option for these single women!!!!! The CS laws cater to the weaker sex and state that women are not equal with men, so there is a bias against men to make them pay for the weaker sex's decisions. The high rates the government sets is a total joke and should be abolished if they want to help promote family values. |
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Why are our values so screwed up.
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"William" wrote in message ... I worked for 35 years and receive a $2500.00/month pension to support my wife and myself. My son was tricked into becoming a father because he had a good job and was ordered to pay $2500.00/month in child support. Women have to be held more accountable for their actions too! A fully grown single woman having unprotected sex and knowing full well that she is putting herself at risk for pregnancy and sexual diseases, has to take responsibility for her decision in terms of not depending on anyone else to fix her mistakes. Staying at home to be good mommy should not be an option for these single women!!!!! The CS laws cater to the weaker sex and state that women are not equal with men, so there is a bias against men to make them pay for the weaker sex's decisions. The high rates the government sets is a total joke and should be abolished if they want to help promote family values. This woman deliberately set about to snare herself a victim she could live off of for the better part of her life. Not unlike the way a leach attaches itself to the host. If the government rates truly reflected the actual cost of child support you would not have these predatory women destroying the lives of young men like my son. As it stands the woman will collect $600,000.00 over the next 20 years. The cost of an additional child to her is virtually nothing. If you look at the fol you will see that by the government's own calculations, an additional child costs: $26,396.00 - $21,202.00 = $5,194.00/year while she's collecting $30,000/year from my boy. ********************** http://www.settlement.org/sys/faqs_d...faq_id=4000442 Size of Family Unit Minimum necessary income 1 person (the sponsor) $21,202 2 persons $26,396 *********************** Over a period of 20 years it will cost about $100K to support the child and she will be receiving $600K That's a half million bux she did not earn or deserve and a half million stolen from my son. at |
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Why are our values so screwed up.
"William" wrote in *********************** Over a period of 20 years it will cost about $100K to support the child and she will be receiving $600K That's a half million bux she did not earn or deserve and a half million stolen from my son. Quite a tidy little scam these women have created for them selves, and it's all legal! |
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Why are our values so screwed up.
DB wrote:
"William" wrote in *********************** Over a period of 20 years it will cost about $100K to support the child and she will be receiving $600K That's a half million bux she did not earn or deserve and a half million stolen from my son. Quite a tidy little scam these women have created for them selves, and it's all legal! My boy had a great future until he stepped in this. He's learned a lot about just how evil women can be but he also has a wonderful little child. He's praying the mother isn't able to turn the child against him. |
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Why are our values so screwed up.
"William" wrote in message ... DB wrote: "William" wrote in *********************** Over a period of 20 years it will cost about $100K to support the child and she will be receiving $600K That's a half million bux she did not earn or deserve and a half million stolen from my son. Quite a tidy little scam these women have created for them selves, and it's all legal! My boy had a great future until he stepped in this. He's learned a lot about just how evil women can be but he also has a wonderful little child. He's praying the mother isn't able to turn the child against him. What kind of career did he have? There will always be predators that will take advantage of any system, we are witnessing that with the credit meltdown. Unfortunately there will be no protections or bailouts for your son or any male, they are now second class citizens and the government could care less about his well being. So much for freedom and equality in this country, justice is only for those that can afford it! |
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Why are our values so screwed up.
DB wrote:
"William" wrote in message ... DB wrote: "William" wrote in *********************** Over a period of 20 years it will cost about $100K to support the child and she will be receiving $600K That's a half million bux she did not earn or deserve and a half million stolen from my son. Quite a tidy little scam these women have created for them selves, and it's all legal! My boy had a great future until he stepped in this. He's learned a lot about just how evil women can be but he also has a wonderful little child. He's praying the mother isn't able to turn the child against him. What kind of career did he have? There will always be predators that will take advantage of any system, we are witnessing that with the credit meltdown. Unfortunately there will be no protections or bailouts for your son or any male, they are now second class citizens and the government could care less about his well being. So much for freedom and equality in this country, justice is only for those that can afford it! Problem is, I don't know how to fight it. All they see is this image of the poor down trodden mother who's been violated by a man and left to starve with her bab in her arms in the freezing cold and the only justice for the mother is more money. More money! Never mind that the woman bears full responsibility for any birth. For openers, unless she's been raped, she controls what enters her body and further if she has made the decision to have sex, she and she alone is in control of whether to keep, abort or put up for adoption. The prize we were dealing with wanted $20K to abort But when she saw how quickly I mortgaged my house to raise the money she smelled a gold mine. If the female had to bear the full financial weight of her decisions there'd be far fewer men getting screwed (pun,,, fully intended) If we could some how make parents realize the hell that our laws, as they exist, could quite probably put their own children through, then there might be some hope of the politicians having the nerve to do what is right. Meanwhile men are screwed! |
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Why are our values so screwed up.
William wrote:
DB wrote: "William" wrote in message ... DB wrote: "William" wrote in *********************** Over a period of 20 years it will cost about $100K to support the child and she will be receiving $600K That's a half million bux she did not earn or deserve and a half million stolen from my son. Quite a tidy little scam these women have created for them selves, and it's all legal! My boy had a great future until he stepped in this. He's learned a lot about just how evil women can be but he also has a wonderful little child. He's praying the mother isn't able to turn the child against him. What kind of career did he have? There will always be predators that will take advantage of any system, we are witnessing that with the credit meltdown. Unfortunately there will be no protections or bailouts for your son or any male, they are now second class citizens and the government could care less about his well being. So much for freedom and equality in this country, justice is only for those that can afford it! Problem is, I don't know how to fight it. All they see is this image of the poor down trodden mother who's been violated by a man and left to starve with her bab in her arms in the freezing cold and the only justice for the mother is more money. More money! Never mind that the woman bears full responsibility for any birth. For openers, unless she's been raped, she controls what enters her body and further if she has made the decision to have sex, she and she alone is in control of whether to keep, abort or put up for adoption. The prize we were dealing with wanted $20K to abort But when she saw how quickly I mortgaged my house to raise the money she smelled a gold mine. If the female had to bear the full financial weight of her decisions there'd be far fewer men getting screwed (pun,,, fully intended) If we could some how make parents realize the hell that our laws, as they exist, could quite probably put their own children through, then there might be some hope of the politicians having the nerve to do what is right. Meanwhile men are screwed! If the mother can defy the courts order to allow the father to talk by telephone to his children, will "Dead beat dads" (DBDs) swoop in and stop payments to the mom? Will DBDs seize her income and ban the renewal of her passport, etc??????? The only way a man can protest is to take her to court. Problem is that you could get an asshole Ontario court judge who cannot be bothered reading the evidence of the year long contempt who finds for the mother then orders the father to pay the mother's court costs on top of his own. $6000 later and after more then a year the woman will still not conform to the courts original ruling and allow the father to speak to his child by phone. |
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