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Are Bio Parents Ever Wrong?
"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in message ... On Apr 19, 4:39 pm, "Ron" wrote: wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc.? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. Facts to the side (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - oh, yeah, google marcus feisel, that same agency placed another foster murderer with a child they killed! ** We could go back and forth like that until the end of time and never come to a resolution. It would serve no useful purpose. Ron You can't get through to Ron. *** Ask Sandra Lyles about that. Ron |
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Are Bio Parents Ever Wrong?
On Apr 21, 6:31*pm, "Ron" wrote:
"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:39 pm, "Ron" wrote: wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message .... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc..? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. Facts to the side (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - oh, yeah, google marcus feisel, that same agency placed another foster murderer with a child they killed! ** We could go back and forth like that until the end of time and never come to a resolution. It would serve no useful purpose. Ron You can't get through to Ron. *** Ask Sandra Lyles about that. Ron Don't know her. |
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Are Bio Parents Ever Wrong?
On Apr 21, 6:22*pm, "Ron" wrote:
"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:41 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 9, 2:19 pm, wrote: On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message .... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc.? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. Facts to the side (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - oh, yeah, google marcus feisel, that same agency placed another foster murderer with a child they killed! That wouldn't support his pro-cps facts that he lives his life by. ** OK then, YOU provide us with facts. Verifiable facts. From a reputiable source. Until then (and note that this is not the first time I have asked this of you) you are just one more wack-job bio parent on a crusade without a cause. Ron Marcus Feisel is a fact Ron. *** One child, abused and killed by a foster parent. * He wasn't the only child killed by a foster parent Ron. You consider this a fact. Yes, it was a fact that Marcus Feisel was killed by his foster parents. They tied him up and left him in a closet for a whole weekend while they went to a family gathering. Then when they came back, they tried to burn the body to hide the evidence and ended up dumping him in a river. OK, how about the more than 1200 killed by abusive or neglectful parents? Out of 75 million kids in the United States. Odds are most will live. Care to put some names to them? * The newspaper does that all the time. Then Child Protective is blamed for not doing enough, then they get more money, hire more workers and take more kids into foster care. Then on your end of it, you get to take in more foster kids and you get more money, which explains your excessive defense of the system. Look at what's going on in New York because a kid named Nixzmary Brown was murdered. Abuse in foster care jumped by 57% http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2007...eaps_57-2.html The same thing is happening in Washington DC. "A spokeswoman for the agency says calls have increased 600 percent since Banita Jacks was arrested in January after her four daughters were found dead inside her southeast Washington home." http://www.examiner.com/a-1315612~La...in_crisis.html Care to advocate for reform of parenting? Absoloutely! It's been proven that families can be saved at a much lower cost than taking the kid right into foster care by providing the services a family needs to be able to stay together. If you read any of those articles you would know that. Also Ron, the kids who were murdered by their foster parents were supposed to be kept safe. Isn't that the point of foster care? I bet most, if not all, would probably still be alive if they had been left with their real parents and offered services to help the family instead of ripping them out of the frying pan and throwing them right into the fire. Of course there is no way of knowing for sure, but you do know that once CPS is involved, there is obviously something deceptive going on. You yourself even once admitted that workers lie and blow things out of proportion. How soon you forget. Where is the effort more likely to make a difference? * Ron, it's been proven that kids do better in their homes. Even dysfunctional homes. http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/...er-study_N.htm You are a fool if you think that's all I'm concerned about. Foster care destroys lives, and your precious Child Protective Services destroys families. You know it. Did you catch this, for example? I came across an article that talks about children being sold in the sex trade by pimps in Oakland California. http://www.mercurynews.com/crime/ci_...nclick_check=1 "A 2007 survey of Oakland youth being assisted by the Sexually and Commercially Exploited Youth Program found 88 percent of the youngsters had run away from home, and 53 percent came from foster care group homes." 53% of child prostitutes in Oakland California came from foster care? Why is that Ron? How is it that such a high percentage of child prostitutes come from such a small segment of the population? According to you, fosters are trained and do a "far better job of parenting." There is a lot more too it then kids dying at the hands of foster parents. With the 6 or so killed by foster parents, or with the 1200 plus killed by bio parents? That 6 comes from a smaller segment of the population. Please, try and validate your position. *The entertainment value of that attempt would be worth a small fortune. Those kids were supposed to be safe in foster care. I realize that concept hasn't sunk in yet but Jesus Ron! They were murdered by their foster parents. They weren't kept safe. You act as if it's no big deal at all for a foster parent to murder somebody elses kid. Ron |
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Are Bio Parents Ever Wrong?
On Apr 21, 6:16*pm, "Ron" wrote:
"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:36 pm, "Ron" wrote: wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message .... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc..? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. Facts to the side (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - those parents who screwed up, most often don't want their kids back, so why post, respond, or otherwise care if they are gone? ** Pardon me? Are we on the same planet? These parents se these children as their "property", not as humans. Oh bull****! *You have no idea nor do you care how people think or feel about their kids nor how kids feel about their parents. *You couldn't care less about a family being ripped apart and you can't even admit to any flaws in the system with the exception of your ten percent loss on each kid you take into your warehouse. * You don't care that it destroys a person having their flesh and blood ripped out of their arms. *You know, just because somebody is a **** up doesn't mean that they don't love their children. *Then to have some asshole foster contractor, who does it for the money, accusing them of not seeing their kids as human... What a piece of work you are. *** Once again you make invalid assumptions based on a total lack of data. Interesting. Can you prove the validity of your comment? Specifically... Pardon me? Are we on the same planet? These parents se these children as their "property", not as humans. Why should anyone here take your posts seriously? * Because they don't coincide with your bull****. Are they intended to be serious, or are they just some form of ranting that allows you to advertise your own limited experience? Ron http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com And as with any property they want it back, or someone prosecuted for taking it. It has nothing to do with screwing up, they dont see what they did as wrong. Its strictly a property issue. Dehumanization 101 with.... Ron |
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On Apr 21, 6:13*pm, "Ron" wrote:
"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:37 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 9, 2:17 pm, wrote: On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc.? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. Ron buddy Why haven't you been to ascps to argue for the system sucks? In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. And you foster parents are totally innocent right Ron? Have you looked at Legally Kidnapped yet? Still stuck on your bull**** CPS facts? You have not proven them to be in any way inaccurate. I have asked several times for you to provide data from reputiable sources that contridicts the data I quote, but we have not seen anything from you yet. Why is that? http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/...er-study_N.htm Here's the actual study this article is refering tohttp://www.mit.edu/~jjdoyle/doyle_fosterlt_march07_aer.pdf,http://www.brown.edu/Departments/Soc...er/sirs/papers... You really ought to read it Ron. *Interesting stuff. *Contradicts your bull**** with facts. *I know... God forbid it doesn't come directly from your precious CPS. *Wouldn't support their agenda. *It kind of discusses that line that you preach about though. *You know, your "Where do we as a society draw the line!" bull****. *** Thank you very much for finally providing something for me to review. *It only took 3 requests or so, right? You right in that the articles are interesting. 1. *I note that the MIT article makes quite a few assumptions concerning the outcome for children in care without providing any of the background information on the childrens families or home life. * You can't be that dumb. Did you miss where it said that the kids in this study who had been removed came from similar situations as those who had not? This is a study of cases that could have gone either way. Some workers might decide to remove while others might not. That of course begs the question, is it likely that the outcomes for children in care are caused from being in foster care at one time in their lives, or is it more likely that their family homes and the lives that they had in there are the cause? Is that not a question that your precious CPS should be asking? It could even be rephrased as, "Are we doing right by these kids?" 2. *The MIT article (Sorry, I cant really call it research, it just lacks so much that I cant bring myself to think that poorly) also uses the "tendnacy to remove" of the investigative worker as a factor in their reasoning. * Perfectly valid. Some workers might have a different take on the situation than others. Could be a number of different factors involved. For example, one worker might have been brought up differently than another. It also reaches as far back as 1975 for its data, some 32 years ago. *This does not invalidate the data but it does make one wonder if they were "cherry picking" data to support their conclusions or if this was the only data of its type available and they were forced to use it. *That question is not answered in the article. 3. *The article uses data exclusively from Illinois, not the most stellar state from which to draw data, and it uses the states own data and data from a research venue at the University of Chicago to base its conclusions on. 4. *In other words, this "research" is questionable at best. Moving on to the data from Brown, it begins by making an assumption and placing the blame directly on foster care. *Rather that researching the background for the assumption, it does not appear to care about the background and begins from the assumption that Homelessness and Poverty are the expected outcomes for children who have had a stay in Foster Care. *The article does make an attempt to address this problem later in the text, but the damage is pretty much already done. *The article fails completely to support any of its conclusions with fact or anything like it. *Assumptions are made from basic data without providing any context what-so-ever. *Yes, interesting. So, in the end, it seems that you are providing us with opinion and questionable research, and little data. *How come I'm not surprised? It covers things that your CPS data should be going into. Of course that would harm their cause, wouldn't it? Especially if they found out that their solution to child abuse and neglect wasn't working. Ron http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2007...ity_foster_kid... Ron Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, Proven to who? A system suck judge? A piece of **** CPS worker? You? You get paid. That's your living. Oh I know, you loose ten percent on each kid right? BTW are you shooting for # 240 in year 16? CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. As they should be. If they're going to take over the role of parent they should at least be good parents wouldn't you think? Since kids are passed around like puppy dogs that is not the case. Since kids are abused in foster care, it's no better or safer than an abusive home. Do you know that they just reported studies proving that kids do better in life living in dysfunctional families than they do in foster care? http://legallykidnapped.blogspot.com...ch-could-end-f.... Why is that Ron? Could it be because even in a dysfunctional family kids are loved? According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. And if you had your way every kid would be in foster care just to increase your income levels. Sure they can. They can destroy lives and they do one hell of a job at that. They've done a great job at increasing the homeless population too http://www.brown.edu/Departments/Soc...er/sirs/papers.... Facts to the side Ron I'm shocked. You would have to look at it with an open mind in order to move your CPS facts aside. (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), We've been through this before Ron, I don't know why I bother, but I will explain it again. Your CPS facts that you swear by while refusing to even look at anybody else's facts are written with the CPS agenda in mind. They are one sided and far from fair or objective. CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. That's right. Although it was started with good intentions, when people found ways to make money from it they took full advantage. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. And CPS takes them out of the frying pan and puts them right into the fire. Don't they Ron. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - those parents who screwed up, most often don't want their kids back, so why post, respond, or otherwise care if they are gone? Ron is anti-real-parent |
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"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in message ... On Apr 21, 6:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:37 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 9, 2:17 pm, wrote: On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc.? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. Ron buddy Why haven't you been to ascps to argue for the system sucks? In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. And you foster parents are totally innocent right Ron? Have you looked at Legally Kidnapped yet? Still stuck on your bull**** CPS facts? You have not proven them to be in any way inaccurate. I have asked several times for you to provide data from reputiable sources that contridicts the data I quote, but we have not seen anything from you yet. Why is that? http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/...er-study_N.htm Here's the actual study this article is refering tohttp://www.mit.edu/~jjdoyle/doyle_fosterlt_march07_aer.pdf,http://www.brown.edu/Departments/Soc...er/sirs/papers... You really ought to read it Ron. Interesting stuff. Contradicts your bull**** with facts. I know... God forbid it doesn't come directly from your precious CPS. Wouldn't support their agenda. It kind of discusses that line that you preach about though. You know, your "Where do we as a society draw the line!" bull****. *** Thank you very much for finally providing something for me to review. It only took 3 requests or so, right? You right in that the articles are interesting. 1. I note that the MIT article makes quite a few assumptions concerning the outcome for children in care without providing any of the background information on the childrens families or home life. You can't be that dumb. Did you miss where it said that the kids in this study who had been removed came from similar situations as those who had not? This is a study of cases that could have gone either way. Some workers might decide to remove while others might not. *** Read a bit further. That of course begs the question, is it likely that the outcomes for children in care are caused from being in foster care at one time in their lives, or is it more likely that their family homes and the lives that they had in there are the cause? Is that not a question that your precious CPS should be asking? It could even be rephrased as, "Are we doing right by these kids?" *** No, it begs the question "Is there anything that CAN be done for these kids?" You seem to want perfection in our system. Sorry, it aint gonna happen. Nothing is perfect, and CPS is no exxception. But at least they are trying, which is more than I can say for the abusive or neglectful parents out there. 2. The MIT article (Sorry, I cant really call it research, it just lacks so much that I cant bring myself to think that poorly) also uses the "tendnacy to remove" of the investigative worker as a factor in their reasoning. Perfectly valid. Some workers might have a different take on the situation than others. Could be a number of different factors involved. For example, one worker might have been brought up differently than another. **** Or one having more experience than the other (addressed in the Brown paper), or any one of a million other factors. Why choose this one? What is it about that single factor that makes them place so much emphasis on it? Is it becuase the data from that factor supports the conclusion they are trying to reach? Look beyond your personal bias for once. There is usually other questions to be asked and other answers to be found. It also reaches as far back as 1975 for its data, some 32 years ago. This does not invalidate the data but it does make one wonder if they were "cherry picking" data to support their conclusions or if this was the only data of its type available and they were forced to use it. That question is not answered in the article. 3. The article uses data exclusively from Illinois, not the most stellar state from which to draw data, and it uses the states own data and data from a research venue at the University of Chicago to base its conclusions on. 4. In other words, this "research" is questionable at best. Moving on to the data from Brown, it begins by making an assumption and placing the blame directly on foster care. Rather that researching the background for the assumption, it does not appear to care about the background and begins from the assumption that Homelessness and Poverty are the expected outcomes for children who have had a stay in Foster Care. The article does make an attempt to address this problem later in the text, but the damage is pretty much already done. The article fails completely to support any of its conclusions with fact or anything like it. Assumptions are made from basic data without providing any context what-so-ever. Yes, interesting. So, in the end, it seems that you are providing us with opinion and questionable research, and little data. How come I'm not surprised? It covers things that your CPS data should be going into. Of course that would harm their cause, wouldn't it? Especially if they found out that their solution to child abuse and neglect wasn't working. *** The data that CPS provides on the pages I quote is required of them by law. Not law that they have written, but laws that our representative government has forced upon them. Not necessairly a bad thing mind you, but those very same laws make no requirement for CPS to draw conclusions from the data. There is only so much funding available to CPS, wouldnt it be better for them to use that funding more appropriately and allow others to use their own resources to study the data and find answers to the problems faced? Ron Ron http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2007...ity_foster_kid... Ron Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, Proven to who? A system suck judge? A piece of **** CPS worker? You? You get paid. That's your living. Oh I know, you loose ten percent on each kid right? BTW are you shooting for # 240 in year 16? CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. As they should be. If they're going to take over the role of parent they should at least be good parents wouldn't you think? Since kids are passed around like puppy dogs that is not the case. Since kids are abused in foster care, it's no better or safer than an abusive home. Do you know that they just reported studies proving that kids do better in life living in dysfunctional families than they do in foster care? http://legallykidnapped.blogspot.com...ch-could-end-f... Why is that Ron? Could it be because even in a dysfunctional family kids are loved? According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. And if you had your way every kid would be in foster care just to increase your income levels. Sure they can. They can destroy lives and they do one hell of a job at that. They've done a great job at increasing the homeless population too http://www.brown.edu/Departments/Soc...er/sirs/papers... Facts to the side Ron I'm shocked. You would have to look at it with an open mind in order to move your CPS facts aside. (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), We've been through this before Ron, I don't know why I bother, but I will explain it again. Your CPS facts that you swear by while refusing to even look at anybody else's facts are written with the CPS agenda in mind. They are one sided and far from fair or objective. CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. That's right. Although it was started with good intentions, when people found ways to make money from it they took full advantage. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. And CPS takes them out of the frying pan and puts them right into the fire. Don't they Ron. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - those parents who screwed up, most often don't want their kids back, so why post, respond, or otherwise care if they are gone? Ron is anti-real-parent |
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"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in message ... On Apr 21, 6:31 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:39 pm, "Ron" wrote: wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc.? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. Facts to the side (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - oh, yeah, google marcus feisel, that same agency placed another foster murderer with a child they killed! ** We could go back and forth like that until the end of time and never come to a resolution. It would serve no useful purpose. Ron You can't get through to Ron. *** Ask Sandra Lyles about that. Ron Don't know her. *** Point, game, match. Ron |
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On Apr 22, 9:30*am, "Ron" wrote:
"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 21, 6:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:37 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 9, 2:17 pm, wrote: On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc.? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. Ron buddy Why haven't you been to ascps to argue for the system sucks? In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. And you foster parents are totally innocent right Ron? Have you looked at Legally Kidnapped yet? Still stuck on your bull**** CPS facts? You have not proven them to be in any way inaccurate. I have asked several times for you to provide data from reputiable sources that contridicts the data I quote, but we have not seen anything from you yet. Why is that? http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/...er-study_N.htm Here's the actual study this article is refering tohttp://www.mit.edu/~jjdoyle/doyle_fosterlt_march07_aer.pdf,http://www....... You really ought to read it Ron. Interesting stuff. Contradicts your bull**** with facts. I know... God forbid it doesn't come directly from your precious CPS. Wouldn't support their agenda. It kind of discusses that line that you preach about though. You know, your "Where do we as a society draw the line!" bull****. *** Thank you very much for finally providing something for me to review. It only took 3 requests or so, right? You right in that the articles are interesting. 1. I note that the MIT article makes quite a few assumptions concerning the outcome for children in care without providing any of the background information on the childrens families or home life. You can't be that dumb. *Did you miss where it said that the kids in this study who had been removed came from similar situations as those who had not? *This is a study of cases that could have gone either way. *Some workers might decide to remove while others might not. *** Read a bit further. I read the whole thing. That of course begs the question, is it likely that the outcomes for children in care are caused from being in foster care at one time in their lives, or is it more likely that their family homes and the lives that they had in there are the cause? Is that not a question that your precious CPS should be asking? *It could even be rephrased as, "Are we doing right by these kids?" *** No, it begs the question "Is there anything that CAN be done for these kids?" *You seem to want perfection in our system. *Sorry, it aint gonna happen. *Nothing is perfect, and CPS is no exxception. *But at least they are trying, That's not true. which is more than I can say for the abusive or neglectful parents out there. And that's also not true. I'm sure that there are some parents out there who are so doped up that they are oblivious to the fact that their kids are gone. But there are many who are not. And why should ripping a family apart not be called abuse? Or what about bouncing the kids from stranger to stranger, school to school, I mean I don't expect you to admit that these things harm children or anything, but they do. "Many Foster Parents today use the Foster Parent Bill of Rights to hire a lawyer and seek to adopt the child from the real parents, who are desperately trying to get their child home and out of the system;" http://www.senatornancyschaefer.com/...s.php?filter=6 2. The MIT article (Sorry, I cant really call it research, it just lacks so much that I cant bring myself to think that poorly) also uses the "tendnacy to remove" of the investigative worker as a factor in their reasoning. Perfectly valid. *Some workers might have a different take on the situation than others. *Could be a number of different factors involved. *For example, one worker might have been brought up differently than another. **** Or one having more experience than the other (addressed in the Brown paper), or any one of a million other factors. *Why choose this one? * To make a point. What is it about that single factor that makes them place so much emphasis on it? * Tendency to remove? Come on Ron. Think about it. Some of these workers are as anti-parent as you are. Some are likely to jump the gun while others are likely to use discretion. For the parents, it's the luck of the draw. If they're lucky enough to get a good worker they get to keep their kids. If not, the kids go to your house. It does kind of make a point about the lack of consistency due to vague definitions of abuse or neglect that could be interpreted in various ways. Is it becuase the data from that factor supports the conclusion they are trying to reach? It's becasue they were looking for a certain type of case Ron. The statement is that the cases could have gone either way simply depending on which worker was sent to the home to investigate. So the maltreatment was somewhat the same regarding severity levels. If you knew anything about statistical analysis, then you would see why to choose your test subjects carefully. A kid who was brain damaged by an abusive parent is obviously going to have a different outcome than one who wasn't, so why include them both. Look beyond your personal bias for once. * Like you're one to talk. There is usually other questions to be asked and other answers to be found. So I have started to get through to you. Now if you can put that concept in use regarding your CPS data.... It also reaches as far back as 1975 for its data, some 32 years ago. This does not invalidate the data but it does make one wonder if they were "cherry picking" data to support their conclusions or if this was the only data of its type available and they were forced to use it. That question is not answered in the article. 3. The article uses data exclusively from Illinois, not the most stellar state from which to draw data, and it uses the states own data and data from a research venue at the University of Chicago to base its conclusions on.. 4. In other words, this "research" is questionable at best. Moving on to the data from Brown, it begins by making an assumption and placing the blame directly on foster care. Rather that researching the background for the assumption, it does not appear to care about the background and begins from the assumption that Homelessness and Poverty are the expected outcomes for children who have had a stay in Foster Care. The article does make an attempt to address this problem later in the text, but the damage is pretty much already done. The article fails completely to support any of its conclusions with fact or anything like it. Assumptions are made from basic data without providing any context what-so-ever. Yes, interesting. So, in the end, it seems that you are providing us with opinion and questionable research, and little data. How come I'm not surprised? It covers things that your CPS data should be going into. *Of course that would harm their cause, wouldn't it? *Especially if they found out that their solution to child abuse and neglect wasn't working. *** The data that CPS provides on the pages I quote is required of them by law.. Not law that they have written, but laws that our representative government has forced upon them. *Not necessairly a bad thing mind you, but those very same laws make no requirement for CPS to draw conclusions from the data. There is only so much funding available to CPS, wouldnt it be better for them to use that funding more appropriately and allow others to use their own resources to study the data and find answers to the problems faced? Ron Ron http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2007...ity_foster_kid... Ron Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, Proven to who? A system suck judge? A piece of **** CPS worker? You? You get paid. That's your living. Oh I know, you loose ten percent on each kid right? BTW are you shooting for # 240 in year 16? CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. As they should be. If they're going to take over the role of parent they should at least be good parents wouldn't you think? Since kids are passed around like puppy dogs that is not the case. Since kids are abused in foster care, it's no better or safer than an abusive home. Do you know that they just reported studies proving that kids do better in life living in dysfunctional families than they do in foster care? http://legallykidnapped.blogspot.com...ch-could-end-f.... Why is that Ron? Could it be because even in a dysfunctional family kids are loved? According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. And if you had your way every kid would be in foster care just to increase your income levels. Sure they can. They can destroy lives and they do one hell of a job at that. They've done a great job at increasing the homeless population too http://www.brown.edu/Departments/Soc...er/sirs/papers.... Facts to the side Ron I'm shocked. You would have to look at it with an open mind in order to move your CPS facts aside. (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), We've been through this before Ron, I don't know why I bother, but I will explain it again. Your CPS facts that you swear by while refusing to even look at anybody else's facts are written with the CPS agenda in mind. They are one sided and far from fair or objective. CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. That's right. Although it was started with good intentions, when people found ways to make money from it they took full advantage. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. And CPS takes them out of the frying pan and puts them right into the fire. Don't they Ron. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - those parents who screwed up, most often don't want their kids back, so why post, respond, or otherwise care if they are gone? Ron is anti-real-parent |
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"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in message ... On Apr 22, 9:30 am, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 21, 6:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:37 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 9, 2:17 pm, wrote: On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc.? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. Ron buddy Why haven't you been to ascps to argue for the system sucks? In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. And you foster parents are totally innocent right Ron? Have you looked at Legally Kidnapped yet? Still stuck on your bull**** CPS facts? You have not proven them to be in any way inaccurate. I have asked several times for you to provide data from reputiable sources that contridicts the data I quote, but we have not seen anything from you yet. Why is that? http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/...er-study_N.htm Here's the actual study this article is refering tohttp://www.mit.edu/~jjdoyle/doyle_fosterlt_march07_aer.pdf,http://www...... You really ought to read it Ron. Interesting stuff. Contradicts your bull**** with facts. I know... God forbid it doesn't come directly from your precious CPS. Wouldn't support their agenda. It kind of discusses that line that you preach about though. You know, your "Where do we as a society draw the line!" bull****. *** Thank you very much for finally providing something for me to review. It only took 3 requests or so, right? You right in that the articles are interesting. 1. I note that the MIT article makes quite a few assumptions concerning the outcome for children in care without providing any of the background information on the childrens families or home life. You can't be that dumb. Did you miss where it said that the kids in this study who had been removed came from similar situations as those who had not? This is a study of cases that could have gone either way. Some workers might decide to remove while others might not. *** Read a bit further. I read the whole thing. *** Then you are suffering from some form of short-term memory loss issue. That of course begs the question, is it likely that the outcomes for children in care are caused from being in foster care at one time in their lives, or is it more likely that their family homes and the lives that they had in there are the cause? Is that not a question that your precious CPS should be asking? It could even be rephrased as, "Are we doing right by these kids?" *** No, it begs the question "Is there anything that CAN be done for these kids?" You seem to want perfection in our system. Sorry, it aint gonna happen. Nothing is perfect, and CPS is no exxception. But at least they are trying, That's not true. *** Says you. Of course you have nothing to support that belief, again. I dont mind, really I dont. I helps to emphasize my position that you have much yet to learn. which is more than I can say for the abusive or neglectful parents out there. And that's also not true. I'm sure that there are some parents out there who are so doped up that they are oblivious to the fact that their kids are gone. But there are many who are not. And why should ripping a family apart not be called abuse? Or what about bouncing the kids from stranger to stranger, school to school, I mean I don't expect you to admit that these things harm children or anything, but they do. "Many Foster Parents today use the Foster Parent Bill of Rights to hire a lawyer and seek to adopt the child from the real parents, who are desperately trying to get their child home and out of the system;" http://www.senatornancyschaefer.com/...s.php?filter=6 *** I know that they do. I also know that this is a fact of life within the system and that there is no remedy for it. I know that it is less harmful than returning kids to an abusive or neglectful home, since moving from one school to another does not place their lives in jeopardy. I also know that politicians like to select a cause and use it as the platform to get them re-elected, and therefore what they say and how they say it is never to be taken at face value. A lesson you would do well to learn. 2. The MIT article (Sorry, I cant really call it research, it just lacks so much that I cant bring myself to think that poorly) also uses the "tendnacy to remove" of the investigative worker as a factor in their reasoning. Perfectly valid. Some workers might have a different take on the situation than others. Could be a number of different factors involved. For example, one worker might have been brought up differently than another. **** Or one having more experience than the other (addressed in the Brown paper), or any one of a million other factors. Why choose this one? To make a point. *** To support a point. Cherry-picking. What is it about that single factor that makes them place so much emphasis on it? Tendency to remove? Come on Ron. Think about it. Some of these workers are as anti-parent as you are. Some are likely to jump the gun while others are likely to use discretion. For the parents, it's the luck of the draw. If they're lucky enough to get a good worker they get to keep their kids. If not, the kids go to your house. It does kind of make a point about the lack of consistency due to vague definitions of abuse or neglect that could be interpreted in various ways. *** The system is made up of humans. They are all different. They all have different levels of experience, education, and backgrounds. Would you prefer that a computer make these choices? One that cannot see the suffering (of either side), see the danger, see the faces? If so you would be a minority of one. Is it becuase the data from that factor supports the conclusion they are trying to reach? It's becasue they were looking for a certain type of case Ron. *** Cherry Picking. The statement is that the cases could have gone either way simply depending on which worker was sent to the home to investigate. So the maltreatment was somewhat the same regarding severity levels. If you knew anything about statistical analysis, then you would see why to choose your test subjects carefully. A kid who was brain damaged by an abusive parent is obviously going to have a different outcome than one who wasn't, so why include them both. *** Because they both are in the system? Both are boys? Both are 13? Both come from an upper middle class family? There are a multitude of reasons to select a data pool, one only need find the one that will meet the requirements that will ones oucome/goals are met. Look beyond your personal bias for once. Like you're one to talk. There is usually other questions to be asked and other answers to be found. So I have started to get through to you. Now if you can put that concept in use regarding your CPS data.... *** No, you have not gotten through. You HAVE shown me just how ignorant the other side of the discussion prefer's to be. Intentional Ignorance is not a crime, but it should be. Ron It also reaches as far back as 1975 for its data, some 32 years ago. This does not invalidate the data but it does make one wonder if they were "cherry picking" data to support their conclusions or if this was the only data of its type available and they were forced to use it. That question is not answered in the article. 3. The article uses data exclusively from Illinois, not the most stellar state from which to draw data, and it uses the states own data and data from a research venue at the University of Chicago to base its conclusions on. 4. In other words, this "research" is questionable at best. Moving on to the data from Brown, it begins by making an assumption and placing the blame directly on foster care. Rather that researching the background for the assumption, it does not appear to care about the background and begins from the assumption that Homelessness and Poverty are the expected outcomes for children who have had a stay in Foster Care. The article does make an attempt to address this problem later in the text, but the damage is pretty much already done. The article fails completely to support any of its conclusions with fact or anything like it. Assumptions are made from basic data without providing any context what-so-ever. Yes, interesting. So, in the end, it seems that you are providing us with opinion and questionable research, and little data. How come I'm not surprised? It covers things that your CPS data should be going into. Of course that would harm their cause, wouldn't it? Especially if they found out that their solution to child abuse and neglect wasn't working. *** The data that CPS provides on the pages I quote is required of them by law. Not law that they have written, but laws that our representative government has forced upon them. Not necessairly a bad thing mind you, but those very same laws make no requirement for CPS to draw conclusions from the data. There is only so much funding available to CPS, wouldnt it be better for them to use that funding more appropriately and allow others to use their own resources to study the data and find answers to the problems faced? Ron Ron http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2007...ity_foster_kid... Ron Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, Proven to who? A system suck judge? A piece of **** CPS worker? You? You get paid. That's your living. Oh I know, you loose ten percent on each kid right? BTW are you shooting for # 240 in year 16? CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. As they should be. If they're going to take over the role of parent they should at least be good parents wouldn't you think? Since kids are passed around like puppy dogs that is not the case. Since kids are abused in foster care, it's no better or safer than an abusive home. Do you know that they just reported studies proving that kids do better in life living in dysfunctional families than they do in foster care? http://legallykidnapped.blogspot.com...ch-could-end-f... Why is that Ron? Could it be because even in a dysfunctional family kids are loved? According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. And if you had your way every kid would be in foster care just to increase your income levels. Sure they can. They can destroy lives and they do one hell of a job at that. They've done a great job at increasing the homeless population too http://www.brown.edu/Departments/Soc...er/sirs/papers... Facts to the side Ron I'm shocked. You would have to look at it with an open mind in order to move your CPS facts aside. (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), We've been through this before Ron, I don't know why I bother, but I will explain it again. Your CPS facts that you swear by while refusing to even look at anybody else's facts are written with the CPS agenda in mind. They are one sided and far from fair or objective. CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. That's right. Although it was started with good intentions, when people found ways to make money from it they took full advantage. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. And CPS takes them out of the frying pan and puts them right into the fire. Don't they Ron. 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On Apr 23, 2:37*pm, "Ron" wrote:
"http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 22, 9:30 am, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 21, 6:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 19, 4:37 pm, "Ron" wrote: "http://www.LegallyKidnapped.blogspot.com" wrote in ... On Apr 9, 2:17 pm, wrote: On Feb 14, 2:13 pm, "Ron" wrote: "SRplus" wrote in message ... On Feb 14, 8:01 am, SRplus wrote: To read the posts on this group, you would think that no one here has ever heard of or seen any instance where the parents of children removed by the state were in any way responsible same. Is the group juts that one-sided? Is it ignorance? No one here will allow as how there are parents who beat, rape, burn, strangle kids? Or that there are some who are so mentally ill that they just cannot protect there kids? Or who are so strung out on dope? Are there no families where a complaint starts with some "iffy" things, only to find out that, indeed, mom's boyfriend IS molesting the daughter? No parents who don't regulary tell kids, in front of God and everyone else that they are pieces of ****, stupd, ugly, etc.? I know one thing: I've met all of those parents. I know something else: getting caught up in "the system" is a bitch; no doubt about it. And another thing: I've met foster parents (and facility staff, and casweworkers) who are dangerously ****ed up. To me, all of the above are the same. One thing I don't know. Is there anyone here man or woman enough to admit, "Yup, I screwed up bad enough to lose my kids." That's it, no specific admissions. It doesn't, in most cases, mean that you're evil or whatever. Most aren't. AND it doesn't absolve 'the system" from it's miscreant injustices. Just one person who can admit that they should have lost their kids? Or is it all someone else's fault? That's what I thought. Ron buddy Why haven't you been to ascps to argue for the system sucks? In this news group, no parent is ever at fault. And you foster parents are totally innocent right Ron? Have you looked at Legally Kidnapped yet? Still stuck on your bull**** CPS facts? You have not proven them to be in any way inaccurate. I have asked several times for you to provide data from reputiable sources that contridicts the data I quote, but we have not seen anything from you yet. Why is that? http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/...er-study_N.htm Here's the actual study this article is refering tohttp://www.mit.edu/~jjdoyle/doyle_fosterlt_march07_aer.pdf,http://www...... You really ought to read it Ron. Interesting stuff. Contradicts your bull**** with facts. I know... God forbid it doesn't come directly from your precious CPS. Wouldn't support their agenda. It kind of discusses that line that you preach about though. You know, your "Where do we as a society draw the line!" bull****. *** Thank you very much for finally providing something for me to review. It only took 3 requests or so, right? You right in that the articles are interesting. 1. I note that the MIT article makes quite a few assumptions concerning the outcome for children in care without providing any of the background information on the childrens families or home life. You can't be that dumb. Did you miss where it said that the kids in this study who had been removed came from similar situations as those who had not? This is a study of cases that could have gone either way. Some workers might decide to remove while others might not. *** Read a bit further. I read the whole thing. *** Then you are suffering from some form of short-term memory loss issue. That of course begs the question, is it likely that the outcomes for children in care are caused from being in foster care at one time in their lives, or is it more likely that their family homes and the lives that they had in there are the cause? Is that not a question that your precious CPS should be asking? It could even be rephrased as, "Are we doing right by these kids?" *** No, it begs the question "Is there anything that CAN be done for these kids?" You seem to want perfection in our system. Sorry, it aint gonna happen. Nothing is perfect, and CPS is no exxception. But at least they are trying, That's not true. *** Says you. *Of course you have nothing to support that belief, again. *I dont mind, really I dont. *I helps to emphasize my position that you have much yet to learn. which is more than I can say for the abusive or neglectful parents out there. And that's also not true. *I'm sure that there are some parents out there who are so doped up that they are oblivious to the fact that their kids are gone. *But there are many who are not. *And why should ripping a family apart not be called abuse? *Or what about bouncing the kids from stranger to stranger, school to school, I mean I don't expect you to admit that these things harm children or anything, but they do. "Many Foster Parents today use the Foster Parent Bill of Rights to hire a lawyer and seek to adopt the child from the real parents, who are desperately trying to get their child home and out of the system;"http://www.senatornancyschaefer.com/articles.php?filter=6 *** I know that they do. *I also know that this is a fact of life within the system and that there is no remedy for it. *I know that it is less harmful than returning kids to an abusive or neglectful home, since moving from one school to another does not place their lives in jeopardy. I also know that politicians like to select a cause and use it as the platform to get them re-elected, and therefore what they say and how they say it is never to be taken at face value. *A lesson you would do well to learn. 2. The MIT article (Sorry, I cant really call it research, it just lacks so much that I cant bring myself to think that poorly) also uses the "tendnacy to remove" of the investigative worker as a factor in their reasoning. Perfectly valid. Some workers might have a different take on the situation than others. Could be a number of different factors involved. For example, one worker might have been brought up differently than another. **** Or one having more experience than the other (addressed in the Brown paper), or any one of a million other factors. Why choose this one? To make a point. *** To support a point. *Cherry-picking. What is it about that single factor that makes them place so much emphasis on it? Tendency to remove? *Come on Ron. *Think about it. *Some of these workers are as anti-parent as you are. *Some are likely to jump the gun while others are likely to use discretion. *For the parents, it's the luck of the draw. *If they're lucky enough to get a good worker they get to keep their kids. *If not, the kids go to your house. It does kind of make a point about the lack of consistency due to vague definitions of abuse or neglect that could be interpreted in various ways. *** The system is made up of humans. *They are all different. *They all have different levels of experience, education, and backgrounds. *Would you prefer that a computer make these choices? *One that cannot see the suffering (of either side), see the danger, see the faces? *If so you would be a minority of one. Is it becuase the data from that factor supports the conclusion they are trying to reach? It's becasue they were looking for a certain type of case Ron. *** Cherry Picking. The statement is that the cases could have gone either way simply depending on which worker was sent to the home to investigate. *So the maltreatment was somewhat the same regarding severity levels. If you knew anything about statistical analysis, then you would see why to choose your test subjects carefully. *A kid who was brain damaged by an abusive parent is obviously going to have a different outcome than one who wasn't, so why include them both. *** Because they both are in the system? *Both are boys? *Both are 13? *Both come from an upper middle class family? *There are a multitude of reasons to select a data pool, one only need find the one that will meet the requirements that will ones oucome/goals are met. Look beyond your personal bias for once. Like you're one to talk. There is usually other questions to be asked and other answers to be found. So I have started to get through to you. *Now if you can put that concept in use regarding your CPS data.... *** No, you have not gotten through. *You HAVE shown me just how ignorant the other side of the discussion prefer's to be. *Intentional Ignorance is not a crime, but it should be. Ron It also reaches as far back as 1975 for its data, some 32 years ago. This does not invalidate the data but it does make one wonder if they were "cherry picking" data to support their conclusions or if this was the only data of its type available and they were forced to use it. That question is not answered in the article. 3. The article uses data exclusively from Illinois, not the most stellar state from which to draw data, and it uses the states own data and data from a research venue at the University of Chicago to base its conclusions on. 4. In other words, this "research" is questionable at best. Moving on to the data from Brown, it begins by making an assumption and placing the blame directly on foster care. Rather that researching the background for the assumption, it does not appear to care about the background and begins from the assumption that Homelessness and Poverty are the expected outcomes for children who have had a stay in Foster Care. The article does make an attempt to address this problem later in the text, but the damage is pretty much already done. The article fails completely to support any of its conclusions with fact or anything like it. Assumptions are made from basic data without providing any context what-so-ever. Yes, interesting. So, in the end, it seems that you are providing us with opinion and questionable research, and little data. How come I'm not surprised? It covers things that your CPS data should be going into. Of course that would harm their cause, wouldn't it? Especially if they found out that their solution to child abuse and neglect wasn't working. *** The data that CPS provides on the pages I quote is required of them by law. Not law that they have written, but laws that our representative government has forced upon them. Not necessairly a bad thing mind you, but those very same laws make no requirement for CPS to draw conclusions from the data. There is only so much funding available to CPS, wouldnt it be better for them to use that funding more appropriately and allow others to use their own resources to study the data and find answers to the problems faced? Ron Ron http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2007...ity_foster_kid.... Ron Even though it is proven beyond any reasonable doubt that parents are their own worst enemies, Proven to who? A system suck judge? A piece of **** CPS worker? You? You get paid. That's your living. Oh I know, you loose ten percent on each kid right? BTW are you shooting for # 240 in year 16? CPS and the system are blamed for each and every thing that goes wrong with children in the system. As they should be. If they're going to take over the role of parent they should at least be good parents wouldn't you think? Since kids are passed around like puppy dogs that is not the case. Since kids are abused in foster care, it's no better or safer than an abusive home. Do you know that they just reported studies proving that kids do better in life living in dysfunctional families than they do in foster care? http://legallykidnapped.blogspot.com...ch-could-end-f... Why is that Ron? Could it be because even in a dysfunctional family kids are loved? According to the anti-CPS mob, CPS can do nothing right. And if you had your way every kid would be in foster care just to increase your income levels. Sure they can. They can destroy lives and they do one hell of a job at that. They've done a great job at increasing the homeless population too http://www.brown.edu/Departments/Soc...er/sirs/papers... Facts to the side Ron I'm shocked. You would have to look at it with an open mind in order to move your CPS facts aside. (specially if they contridict any of the mobs opinions or "facts"), We've been through this before Ron, I don't know why I bother, but I will explain it again. Your CPS facts that you swear by while refusing to even look at anybody else's facts are written with the CPS agenda in mind. They are one sided and far from fair or objective. CPS is an evil enterprise that is in it only for the money and power it gives people over others. That's right. Although it was started with good intentions, when people found ways to make money from it they took full advantage. Never mind that a child that is in danger is most often in danger from its own parents and not CPS or any foster care agency or individual, just the idea that CPS is involved is enough for the intentionally ignorant to blame anyone but a parent. And CPS takes them out of the frying pan and puts them right into the fire. Don't they Ron. Ron- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - those parents who screwed up, most often don't want their kids back, so why post, respond, or otherwise care if they are gone? Ron is anti-real-parent Hey Ron Was this the bio-parents fault? http://www.mtexpress.com/index2.php?ID=2005120400 or this? http://www.fox6.com/news/local/story...c169f&rss=tick or this? http://cbs11tv.com/local/foster.chil....2.706284.html |
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