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Old November 24th 05, 05:17 AM posted to alt.child-support
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Strange, I started reading this news group years ago (deja era) , back
when I was the wife of a man paying support. Then we got divorced, ( I
was on second shift) and trusted him not to do the things to me that
were done to him that he didn't like. Needless to say, he got into a
snit and I was forced into paying support when he was making TWICE as
much as me. Now new husband and I bought a house, got 50/50 custody and
the ex is paying support to me. What a weird ride.

Babs

BTW, now my ex's ex is paying HIM support. Everything moves in circles.

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Old November 24th 05, 02:04 PM posted to alt.child-support
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You say you were forced into paying support. Do you mean that your
ex-husband had custody of the children, and you were paying him child
support?

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Strange, I started reading this news group years ago (deja era) , back
when I was the wife of a man paying support. Then we got divorced, ( I
was on second shift) and trusted him not to do the things to me that
were done to him that he didn't like. Needless to say, he got into a
snit and I was forced into paying support when he was making TWICE as
much as me. Now new husband and I bought a house, got 50/50 custody and
the ex is paying support to me. What a weird ride.

Babs

BTW, now my ex's ex is paying HIM support. Everything moves in circles.



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Old November 24th 05, 05:19 PM posted to alt.child-support
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Needless to say, he got into a snit and I was forced into paying support
when he was making TWICE as
much as me.


So you thought that because he was making good money, you should have to pay
nothing to help support your kids?


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Old November 24th 05, 05:39 PM posted to alt.child-support
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DB wrote:
"babscat" wrote in

Needless to say, he got into a snit and I was forced into paying support
when he was making TWICE as
much as me.


So you thought that because he was making good money, you should have to pay
nothing to help support your kids?


Well it's funny that he didn't NEED support for the first four years
and he filed for support one week after I filed for a change in
custody. Like I said he got into a snit and it was a way to punish me.
I was buying her school clothes and sending them to his house. I was
also providing nearly all the trasportation. So you see that I was
supporting my kid and CS was used as a tool for revenge.

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Old November 24th 05, 05:54 PM posted to alt.child-support
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Plain and simple... he didn't need the money, he did it out of spite.
In his words "I did it because you weren't helping out and you were
giving me a hard time". If wanting to see my daughter more (and I could
because of a shift change) is giving him a hard time, I guess I was.

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Old December 4th 05, 05:39 PM posted to alt.child-support
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babscat wrote:

DB wrote:

"babscat" wrote in


Needless to say, he got into a snit and I was forced into paying support
when he was making TWICE as
much as me.


So you thought that because he was making good money, you should have to pay
nothing to help support your kids?



Well it's funny that he didn't NEED support for the first four years
and he filed for support one week after I filed for a change in
custody. Like I said he got into a snit and it was a way to punish me.
I was buying her school clothes and sending them to his house. I was
also providing nearly all the trasportation. So you see that I was
supporting my kid and CS was used as a tool for revenge.


Prolly right as he knew that once you got joint physical custody he'd be
paying you money, and wanted to avoid that. He prolly never asked for
money because he figured that would guarantee that you didn't seek
custody, and you (maybe accidentally) called his bluff.

Meanwhile the state government enjoyed a percentage of all of the money
being shuffled around, and was all too happy to oblige facilitating it.

- Ron ^*^

 




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