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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
wrote in message First, I want to acknowledge to everyone that I support CS. Anyone who does not meet their obligation for their children should be punished according to the law. And should the punishment be the same as a rapist, bank robbers, thieves or any other criminal Felon? If certain political parties can criminalize people on the basis of money, then we should all be very afraid! |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse-the answer is yes
OK you are correct with your context so let me reiterate my message:
"I support a childs necessity to live" Is that better? But you are right about being a loser to pay that kind of money. Isn't there any type of reform to make this more equitable? |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse-the answer is yes
wrote in . Isn't there any type of reform to make this more equitable? No, there is no Government plan for any reform! Why would there be, there's nothing to motivate them to make any changes. |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
DB,
You guys are running down the same track, the law is the law. Use the law, with the heart. Read my post and learn. Screw the law, use the heart so much more effective. Read how to treat a dog, same as marriage. The heart rendered cold is quite effective at the right moment. |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse-the answer is yes
Well its just going to get worst then if there are not enough suckers
to make waves. They impose cost of living adjustments on CS even though my employer doesn't grant me cost of living adjustment. |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse-the answer is yes
wrote in Well its just going to get worst then if there are not enough suckers to make waves. They impose cost of living adjustments on CS even though my employer doesn't grant me cost of living adjustment. The real problem with CS, it's run by a Government agency that has no checks and balances and answers to no one! Yes, you should be very afraid, they have access to anything you own and have full authority to take it away. Essentially, they own you and you must do their bidding, you can't fight it, so just pay the dam money! We are all Suckers! |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse-the answer is yes
It's one thing when you are over paying child support. It's another
when you write the check to the x and there is no accountability. Doesn't have to prove that she spent it on the children. Kids could be eating Macaroni and cheese every night for all I know. I know that when I started making my CS payment the x pulled up in a Mercedes gloating. Boy did I felt real stupid and there is nothing I can do about it. What makes me feel even more stupid is when I get the kids for a full month. It cost me a fortune on airfare to fly them to my place. On top of that I still have to pay the X the CS money even though I had them that full month. OK I supported them that month why do I have to pay her? |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
where is your post about your words of wisdom?
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse-the answer is yes
wrote in message oups.com... It's one thing when you are over paying child support. It's another when you write the check to the x and there is no accountability. Doesn't have to prove that she spent it on the children. Kids could be eating Macaroni and cheese every night for all I know. I know that when I started making my CS payment the x pulled up in a Mercedes gloating. Boy did I felt real stupid and there is nothing I can do about it. What makes me feel even more stupid is when I get the kids for a full month. It cost me a fortune on airfare to fly them to my place. On top of that I still have to pay the X the CS money even though I had them that full month. OK I supported them that month why do I have to pay her? ==== Some states allow CS reduction for "visits" over 30 days. Florida does. Have you checked your state's statutes? === |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse-the answer is still yes
What makes me feel even more stupid is when I get the kids
for a full month. It cost me a fortune on airfare to fly them to my place. On top of that I still have to pay the X the CS money even though I had them that full month. OK I supported them that month why do I have to pay her? This is bizarre to me but I was force to do the exact same thing. Ex doesn't even allow my child to pack a bag, "You can get her whatever she needs". And yet government deadly force is used to xfer money from me to the ex for that month. Some states allow CS reduction for "visits" over 30 days. Florida does. Have you checked your state's statutes? And by design, no doubt, judges never happen to include visitations longer than 30 days in their orders in such states, duh! Here it is 120 nights/year and the standard visitation package happens to come out to, surprise, 112 nights. So in addition to back-door alimony the women gets paid for 112 days for children not being supported. Such a sweet deal! Not for the children though. Not for men though. But for the people seen as counting. Wake up people! This is simply another government vote buying scheme so such irrationalities are not mistakes or oversights. Trying to fix them is like rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic! |
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