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Bunch of pathetic whiners
"Andrew" wrote in message ... "Paul Fritz" wrote in message ... "HanK" wrote in message ... Unless you are the kid.........any parent that thinks that kids are as well or better off in a single parent home has their head where the light doesn't shine, lol, idiot. Take some time to remove your head from your arse and have a little think about this statement, its floored in every way possible, Bull take a second to think about some of the atrosoties that take place within traditional family units, are you aware how common domestic violence is, I'm not very aware of domestic violence in single parent house holds Paul, I could go on but your attitude seems so simplistic that I believe I would be wasting my time. Mine simplistic? LMAO you better unplant your head and wipe the brown stuff off your glasses. For you to claim that there is no violence in single households shows who the real idiot is, not to mention your useless arguement that because some households have domestic violence, that kids are better off in single parent households...............I won't hold my grath awaiting proof of your absurd assertions. Ahh Paul, But... Consider a moment, since living separately, astoundingly, I have not beaten up my wife once!!! Nor has she physically abused me in any significant respect!!!!!!!!! I ask you, Coincidence?... or evidence? Andrew Andrew = foolish. Please, it's neither coincidence OR evidence. It's obviously the work of the higher gods and maybe partly the fear that if you're bad in any way, Christmas is around the corner and you want something other than rocks, pocket lint and old pieces of broken candy canes in your stocking this here!! HUUUUHHHH-LLLOOOOOOWWWW!!! |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
"Andrew" wrote in message ... "Paul Fritz" wrote in message ... "HanK" wrote in message ... Unless you are the kid.........any parent that thinks that kids are as well or better off in a single parent home has their head where the light doesn't shine, lol, idiot. Take some time to remove your head from your arse and have a little think about this statement, its floored in every way possible, Bull take a second to think about some of the atrosoties that take place within traditional family units, are you aware how common domestic violence is, I'm not very aware of domestic violence in single parent house holds Paul, I could go on but your attitude seems so simplistic that I believe I would be wasting my time. Mine simplistic? LMAO you better unplant your head and wipe the brown stuff off your glasses. For you to claim that there is no violence in single households shows who the real idiot is, not to mention your useless arguement that because some households have domestic violence, that kids are better off in single parent households...............I won't hold my grath awaiting proof of your absurd assertions. Ahh Paul, But... Consider a moment, since living separately, astoundingly, I have not beaten up my wife once!!! Nor has she physically abused me in any significant respect!!!!!!!!! I ask you, Coincidence?... or evidence? Andrew Only if you consider domestic violence to me lmited to a husband and wife. But I don't believe you where blinders like 'hank' |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
Andrew wrote in message ... "Tiffany" wrote in message ... Andrew wrote in message ... "Joelle" wrote in message ... You have to compare apples and apples - and all things equal - Good single parent--good married parents - Two is better than one. There is one instance where one is better. Studies show that kids are better off if their single parent stays single. I'm not very aware of domestic violence in single parent house holds You gotta be kidding?! There is more abuse and violence in shack ups than married families. Joelle Whoooaa, hold up there Joelle. Are you serious about the kids better if single parent stays single bit? Does it completely rule out me 'getting some'??? What does the study say about that? (its been a while, a hell of a while in fact) ;-) Andrew lol..... I think most of us think that kids are better off with 2 parents but that is not to say one parent can't do a fine job of raising a kid. So far, I have done a ok job. My kid has no criminal record so that is good, right? lol As for you 'getting some'.... well that would depend on a lot of stuff. T 555-TELLME-HOW Andrew Well, I was going to give you the SECRET no women ever tells a man but your line was busy. To bad! lol T |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
Damn you...... I need a laugh.
T Paul Fritz wrote in message ... It's to close to the holiday's.......I'm biting my tongue...............LOL "Andrew" wrote in message ... "Tiffany" wrote in message ... Andrew wrote in message ... "Joelle" wrote in message ... You have to compare apples and apples - and all things equal - Good single parent--good married parents - Two is better than one. There is one instance where one is better. Studies show that kids are better off if their single parent stays single. I'm not very aware of domestic violence in single parent house holds You gotta be kidding?! There is more abuse and violence in shack ups than married families. Joelle Whoooaa, hold up there Joelle. Are you serious about the kids better if single parent stays single bit? Does it completely rule out me 'getting some'??? What does the study say about that? (its been a while, a hell of a while in fact) ;-) Andrew lol..... I think most of us think that kids are better off with 2 parents but that is not to say one parent can't do a fine job of raising a kid. So far, I have done a ok job. My kid has no criminal record so that is good, right? lol As for you 'getting some'.... well that would depend on a lot of stuff. T 555-TELLME-HOW Andrew |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
Andrew,
You sound like a great Daddy! I, too, am very emotionally fulfilled being a parent, single or otherwise. My child is the single greatest thing that has ever happened in my life - she brings me never ending joy and a purpose to my life like nothing else ever could. Of course being a single parent is hard, but who cares - it's so worth it!! My best friend called me one day, complaining that her husband was working and she was trying to do dishes meanwhile her son was at her feet. I said, "welcome to the world of single parenting honey!" My daughter is there when I eat, take a bath, sleep, have a horrible headache, am on the phone, trying to poop!! (sorry!) - she's almost seven and she still follows me around like a puppy! Sometimes when I feel exhausted by it all, I think ahead to those days when she'll be gone with friends, a teenager who won't even *like* me! And then to those days when she's an adult and won't even live with me anymore. My heart aches at the thought... I can't imagine anything sweeter in life than being a parent! |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
"Paul Fritz" Things that dont and cant happen in my home. 1) I dont beat up a childs mother nor does a childs mother beat me in front of a child. 2) I dont scream at a childs mother nor does a childs mother scream at me in front of a child 3) We dont split up, then get back together, then split up, then get back together, then split up, then get back together. 4) we dont have affairs with other men or women 5) My child has absolute stability, I have girlfriends but she dont meet meet them and I have no interest in being married. I understand that my points will be totally lost on all those single parents FORCED into their situation, I am a CUSTODIAL single parent through choice, its what I wanted. If I had lived a flawless relationship with her mother who then died then I would feel absolutely and completely different, I would be crying into my pint about how unfair life is, but I really believe that my child in our situation is better of than a huge amount of kids who are in traditional family units, she has complete stability. Now you can try to tell me that the millions of kids in the UK that live with two parents, but deal with one or more of the points above, are better of than me and my daughter but I will laugh in your face.....well maybe not actually but I'm sure you get my drift "Kat" Whatever......victim. And I hire single parents because I have an understanding of their situation and child care needs. Last point, I hope most of you can say the following, because I'm very proud of the fact that 1) I have never raised my voice to my child 2) I have never raised my hand to my child I grew up with two parents who are still happily married, love each other, love me and I never suffered any of the 5 points above, but when I look at the life my little girl has with me I would happily swap. Love and regards.... HanK |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
"kat wrote" Obviously, in Hank's case, he had more money than she, and, obviously, he's more proud of that than anything else. Obviously he had the money to throw around on lawyers, and a nice, big home to show the courts that Daddy is the better choice because Daddy also has money for private school. He probably pointed out to the courts that he runs his own successful business, and ONLY hires single mothers, maybe because it makes him feel better and more superior than the world, or single parents, anyways. He probably even offered his child's mother a job! I bow down to Hank. He IS a real man. ---------------------------------------------------------- I did not inherite any money, I was not given any money, luckily I live within a capitalist society that makes success possible to anyone with the brains to take advantage of it, you obviously have not and prefer to whing and bleat about those that have, therefore I can only assume from your post that you have a victim mentality. you some remedial english courses and a brain. I make no effort to disguise the fact that my "Spelin suks", it really worries me when I sit in total security at 33, hmmm I much rather be a great speller and live on the bread line lol. Regards Hank |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
HanK wrote in message And I hire single parents because I have an understanding of their situation and child care needs. I have employed quite a few singe parents over the years both as a married person and as a single parent. I find them resourceful, independent, determined and have initiative in abundance. Generally, they have a desire to succeed way above the norm. All other things being equal, offered the choice between a single parent and person just wanting a bit of extra cash, the single parent would get the job every time. Dennis |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
"Misty" wrote in message ... Hi Misty My daughter is there when I eat, take a bath, sleep, have a horrible headache, am on the phone, trying to poop!! (sorry!) Believe me I know that one!! :-) My heart aches at the thought... I can't imagine anything sweeter in life than being a parent! Playing I told her I did not feel like reading to her tonight, so she read me the whole of 'The Magic Porridge Pot' so I could sleep. One of lifes great moments! Andrew |
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Bunch of pathetic whiners
"HanK" wrote in message ... "kat wrote" Obviously, in Hank's case, he had more money than she, and, obviously, he's more proud of that than anything else. Obviously he had the money to throw around on lawyers, and a nice, big home to show the courts that Daddy is the better choice because Daddy also has money for private school. He probably pointed out to the courts that he runs his own successful business, and ONLY hires single mothers, maybe because it makes him feel better and more superior than the world, or single parents, anyways. He probably even offered his child's mother a job! I bow down to Hank. He IS a real man. ---------------------------------------------------------- I did not inherite any money, I was not given any money, luckily I live within a capitalist society that makes success possible to anyone with the brains to take advantage of it, you obviously have not and prefer to whing and bleat about those that have, therefore I can only assume from your post that you have a victim mentality. Hardly. Like you, I did not inherit any money or was given any money. I'm not sure where, exactly, you got the thought in your pea-sized brain that I assumed or suggested you were handed anything with a box of chocolates on the side. Luckily I live in Canada where I, too, have the ability to make success possible to myself, and I have brain as well. You have many, many years on me, and are almost (although not quite) old enough to be my own father, and if I were to compare apples and oranges like you, I know I would look just as silly. I don't prefer to whing anything and sheep bleat, and I hardly would consider myself a sheep, even though I'm sure you've got it stuck in your head that surely I must be. The only mentality I know I possess is slightly higher than yours because very little of what you've said has been anything but fascist and sexist. You, sir, are a bigot, and that's a real accomplishment. you some remedial english courses and a brain. I make no effort to disguise the fact that my "Spelin suks", it really worries me when I sit in total security at 33, hmmm I much rather be a great speller and live on the bread line lol. That's a shame. I'd be worried if I knew my spelling was horrendous and didn't seem to mind. Although I'm not sure what the 'bread line' is, I'll have to assume it's some form of intelligent language that I do not compare to, and I worry about your child and the crappy values you appear to be opening her eyes to. (I recall you saying you had a daughter, correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't care enough to look back.) Everything I have, I have worked for, one way or another, be it by working or going to school. Yup, I came from a damn good home. Parents never, ever had any major problems, or anything at all to be concerned about. My parents both have damn good jobs, and, really, they're loaded and worked hard for all they have as well, and not once did my dad feel the need to hire others he knew were less fortunate than he, just so he could rub it in their face. I am now putting myself through school, as I always have, and I also don't carry the seemingly ****ty attitude towards life in general that you do. By 33, I know I'll be set and doing fine, long done school and away from both subsidized housing and childcare. At my age, I have my doubts that you were in the same position you claim to be right now. You lack class, and skipped out on a few too many English classes in your years. Regards Hank |
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