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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
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"Banty" wrote in message ... In article , teachrmama says... snip for length. Like we have been talking about, the operating expenses of the household are counted as far as *additional* expenses are necessary to set up a household to raise the kids in. Vs. the less expensive and wider options available to a single person. You arestill laboring under the idea that the NCP is a "single person." The NCP needs the same # of bedrooms as the CP--for the exact same children. He needs supplies for those children when they are with him. He needs furniture for them when they are with him. He is NOT living as a single person--that is such an odd idea. Heh. Sometimes he is. NCP's around here aren't required to have a bedroom, etc. (it's called *visitation*), while of course joint custody parents would need to. Maybe it depends on the state. But I dont' know anyone without a couch. And, we're talking two weekends a month vs. the other 30 to 31 days? I'm all for prorating for that. So you are advocating that children of divorce sleep in living rooms on couches, have no toys at dad's home, haul their toothbrushes and cosmetic needs with them, bring enough changes of clothes to last for all activities they might participate in with dad, and in general be made to *feel* like visitors rather than children? Sleep on the couch during their week long time with dad during the holidays and 6 weeks during the summer? You think that is a good idea, this further separation of parents into "real parent" and "visitor"? You feel that an NCP is really *that unimportant* that his children should be made to feel like visitors in his home? I have to say, I am really shocked. I'm not saying that's good; I'm saying I haven't seen that required. But that may be the place I'm at. Possibly, it depends on the extent of the visitation too. If/where it's required, if the NCP doesn't arrange that, what happens? Does he get denied visitation? As I've said many times, I'm all for *real parent* and *real parent*. Banty |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
"Banty" wrote in message ... In article , teachrmama says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article , teachrmama says... snip for length. Like we have been talking about, the operating expenses of the household are counted as far as *additional* expenses are necessary to set up a household to raise the kids in. Vs. the less expensive and wider options available to a single person. You arestill laboring under the idea that the NCP is a "single person." The NCP needs the same # of bedrooms as the CP--for the exact same children. He needs supplies for those children when they are with him. He needs furniture for them when they are with him. He is NOT living as a single person--that is such an odd idea. Heh. Sometimes he is. NCP's around here aren't required to have a bedroom, etc. (it's called *visitation*), while of course joint custody parents would need to. Maybe it depends on the state. But I dont' know anyone without a couch. And, we're talking two weekends a month vs. the other 30 to 31 days? I'm all for prorating for that. So you are advocating that children of divorce sleep in living rooms on couches, have no toys at dad's home, haul their toothbrushes and cosmetic needs with them, bring enough changes of clothes to last for all activities they might participate in with dad, and in general be made to *feel* like visitors rather than children? Sleep on the couch during their week long time with dad during the holidays and 6 weeks during the summer? You think that is a good idea, this further separation of parents into "real parent" and "visitor"? You feel that an NCP is really *that unimportant* that his children should be made to feel like visitors in his home? I have to say, I am really shocked. I'm not saying that's good; I'm saying I haven't seen that required. But that may be the place I'm at. Possibly, it depends on the extent of the visitation too. If/where it's required, if the NCP doesn't arrange that, what happens? Does he get denied visitation? Does it need to be required to be important? It's not required that the CP have a bedroom--she could sleep on the couch. But it is *important* that she have a bedroom. It's *important* that children have a place of their own at the NCP's house. Then they feel like they belong there. Don't you think so? |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
In article , teachrmama says...
"Banty" wrote in message ... In article , teachrmama says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article , teachrmama says... snip for length. Like we have been talking about, the operating expenses of the household are counted as far as *additional* expenses are necessary to set up a household to raise the kids in. Vs. the less expensive and wider options available to a single person. You arestill laboring under the idea that the NCP is a "single person." The NCP needs the same # of bedrooms as the CP--for the exact same children. He needs supplies for those children when they are with him. He needs furniture for them when they are with him. He is NOT living as a single person--that is such an odd idea. Heh. Sometimes he is. NCP's around here aren't required to have a bedroom, etc. (it's called *visitation*), while of course joint custody parents would need to. Maybe it depends on the state. But I dont' know anyone without a couch. And, we're talking two weekends a month vs. the other 30 to 31 days? I'm all for prorating for that. So you are advocating that children of divorce sleep in living rooms on couches, have no toys at dad's home, haul their toothbrushes and cosmetic needs with them, bring enough changes of clothes to last for all activities they might participate in with dad, and in general be made to *feel* like visitors rather than children? Sleep on the couch during their week long time with dad during the holidays and 6 weeks during the summer? You think that is a good idea, this further separation of parents into "real parent" and "visitor"? You feel that an NCP is really *that unimportant* that his children should be made to feel like visitors in his home? I have to say, I am really shocked. I'm not saying that's good; I'm saying I haven't seen that required. But that may be the place I'm at. Possibly, it depends on the extent of the visitation too. If/where it's required, if the NCP doesn't arrange that, what happens? Does he get denied visitation? Does it need to be required to be important? It's not required that the CP have a bedroom--she could sleep on the couch. But it is *important* that she have a bedroom. It's *important* that children have a place of their own at the NCP's house. Then they feel like they belong there. Don't you think so? But we're talking about the required bedroom, for example, the CP has to provide, and this came up. Hey, more is better, fine by me. Banty |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
"Banty" wrote in message ... In article , teachrmama says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article , teachrmama says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article , teachrmama says... snip for length. Like we have been talking about, the operating expenses of the household are counted as far as *additional* expenses are necessary to set up a household to raise the kids in. Vs. the less expensive and wider options available to a single person. You arestill laboring under the idea that the NCP is a "single person." The NCP needs the same # of bedrooms as the CP--for the exact same children. He needs supplies for those children when they are with him. He needs furniture for them when they are with him. He is NOT living as a single person--that is such an odd idea. Heh. Sometimes he is. NCP's around here aren't required to have a bedroom, etc. (it's called *visitation*), while of course joint custody parents would need to. Maybe it depends on the state. But I dont' know anyone without a couch. And, we're talking two weekends a month vs. the other 30 to 31 days? I'm all for prorating for that. So you are advocating that children of divorce sleep in living rooms on couches, have no toys at dad's home, haul their toothbrushes and cosmetic needs with them, bring enough changes of clothes to last for all activities they might participate in with dad, and in general be made to *feel* like visitors rather than children? Sleep on the couch during their week long time with dad during the holidays and 6 weeks during the summer? You think that is a good idea, this further separation of parents into "real parent" and "visitor"? You feel that an NCP is really *that unimportant* that his children should be made to feel like visitors in his home? I have to say, I am really shocked. I'm not saying that's good; I'm saying I haven't seen that required. But that may be the place I'm at. Possibly, it depends on the extent of the visitation too. If/where it's required, if the NCP doesn't arrange that, what happens? Does he get denied visitation? Does it need to be required to be important? It's not required that the CP have a bedroom--she could sleep on the couch. But it is *important* that she have a bedroom. It's *important* that children have a place of their own at the NCP's house. Then they feel like they belong there. Don't you think so? But we're talking about the required bedroom, for example, the CP has to provide, and this came up. The CP is NOT required to have a bedroom smile |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
"teachrmama" wrote in But we're talking about the required bedroom, for example, the CP has to provide, and this came up. The CP is NOT required to have a bedroom smile Well all this talk about how many bedrooms is nice, but when the Dollar finally busts, none of this is going to matter. http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=4n3g5l...eature=related |
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