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Birth control question
Consider natural family planning. It can be highly
effective if an effective method is chosen and it is done very carefully. You can control it, choosing laxer rules or stricter rules. You can achieve better than 99% effectiveness if you select more conservative rules and follow them very carefully. You can also use barrier methods. Or you can combine barrier methods and natural family planning methods. Depending on how you combine them, you can get a method that is more effective than either alone, or less effective. I don't think it's silly at all. Birth control pills and IUD's, besides being bad for the health, do allow new embryos to form and then prevent them from growing. Without necessarily criticising anyone else, one might just prefer not to have this happening in one's own body, or in connection with a very loving act, or to own's own embryos. Also, if a baby does manage to get born in spite of the birth control, methods designed to prevent implantation do sometimes lead to health problems in the baby. Again, barrier methods (diaphragm or condom) and/or natural family planning may be good choices for that reason. You won't hear much about them from anyone influenced by big money from the pharmaceutical companies. (This includes a lot of influential and respected organizations.) While breastfeeding is an excellent time to begin natural family planning, since your fertility is reduced by the breastfeeding anyway. You need to learn a method that has the effectiveness level you want. You could start with the LAM method, which is very simple -- if you find the effectiveness level acceptable. All methods of birth control (except abstinence and castration or removal of ovaries) have some chance of pregnancy. I even used to know someone who conceived a baby after having both ovaries removed! (they must have missed part of one of them, I guess.) See the Natural Family Planning Primer, co-authored by me: http://www.ncf.carleton.ca/~an588/nfp.html LeAnn ) writes: I've just given birth a little more than 2 weeks ago and now I'm starting to think about birth control options. I have been on the pill and depo in the past and didn't do so good on it. I had anger and anxiety problems while on them. So I'm looking for an alternative but as silly as it sounds I don't want something that prevents a fertilized egg from being implanted, I would prefer something that halts ovulation. Am I asking too much? Does something exsist? LeAnn -- Cathy |
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Catherine Woodgold wrote in message ... I don't think it's silly at all. Birth control pills and IUD's, besides being bad for the health, do allow new embryos to form and then prevent them from growing. Yes, I saw a horifying program on TV about a baby with an IUD inside it's brain. Has the OP's husband considered vasectomy ? If he rules that out because they might both want another, why fight nature's way of giving you what you want ? BTW congratulations on the baby :-) |
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From what I've been told, it's not very effective on it's own as birth
control. Course, I have no first hand experience with it, but I know I was told there's a reason that mainly only breastfeeding moms take it... in combination with the possible no ovulating of nursing, it's more effective then while by itself. You do have to use a barrier method with it, from what I know. Are you talking about the mini-pill (progreterone only pill) here? While it is slightly less effective than the combination pill, it is still a very effective form of birth control, and no, I've never heard it said that you have to use a barrier method as back-up. The main issue with the minipill is that there is less window for error. You have to take it at the same time every day, or there is a significant risk of ovulation. (With the standard pill, most women can take it at varying times during hte day ... or even miss the odd pill [not that they SHOULD of course!], and the likelihood of ovulation is still very low. While it may be largely used by bfing women (who want the convenience/reliability of OCs without the estrogen), it is also used by women who can't take estrogen for other reasons. Nursing moms may choose to switch to (or back to) the slightly more effective combo pill after weaning, but this doens't mean that the mini-pill is NOT effective. Naomi CAPPA Certified Lactation Educator (either remove spamblock or change address to to e-mail reply.) |
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I don't think it's silly at all. Birth control pills and IUD's,
besides being bad for the health, For most women, OCs are not bad for the health. Unless a woman has specific health issues that contraindicate them for HER, OC's are often benficial to the health. (Reduce the risk of several types of cancer, reduce iron loss and so may prevent anemia.) IUD's too are not risky to the health, though they have no specific benefits. (Though I'm considering one (hormone bearing) to help control irregular and heavy bleeding.) do allow new embryos to form and then prevent them from growing. This is also not true. With OCs the odds of an egg being released is very minimal, if the woman takes them properly. If an egg IS released, the hormones cause the cervical mucus to be thick, which blocks the sperm from even getting to the egg. IF both of these fail (egg is released AND sperm gets through somehow) then the pill may also cause the egg to fail to implant (doesn't 'keep them from growing', just doesn't implant in the uterus -- something that also happens very commonly in women using no method, or barrier methods) -- but this is a tertiary back-up. Pills mostly work by preventing ovuation. IUDs too do not 'prevent embryos from growing. It used to be believed that they prevented implantation of the fertilized egg, but newer evidence suggests that the presence of the IUD kills the sperm before they even get to the tubes, preventing fertilization. Also, if a baby does manage to get born in spite of the birth control, methods designed to prevent implantation do sometimes lead to health problems in the baby. Can you cite a study to support this claim? I've never heard of increased risk of birth defects due to pill or IUD use. (If a woman conceives with an IUD in place, the device is usually removed, I believe.) Again, barrier methods (diaphragm or condom) and/or natural family planning may be good choices for that reason. They are good choices for some women for a variety of reasons, but not the reasons you claim here. You won't hear much about them from anyone influenced by big money from the pharmaceutical companies. Hmmm... does that include doctors? While NFP has never really been a practical option for me (way too irregular), both planned parenthood and my current GYN have talked about many of the barrier methods. (And in fact, that's what I'm currently using.) Naomi CAPPA Certified Lactation Educator (either remove spamblock or change address to to e-mail reply.) |
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Naomi Pardue ) writes:
For most women, OCs are not bad for the health. Unless a woman has specific health issues that contraindicate them for HER, OC's are often benficial to the health. I disagree with this statement. By OC's I guess you mean Oral Contraceptives. OC's are made of artificial chemicals which are different substances from the hormones normally present in the human body. Different companies use different chemicals. Each brand has its own (long, horrible) list of "side effects" that are known about; things like endometriosis, which happen in some percentage of women taking these artificial substances. You can read about this in the book "What Your Doctor May Not Tell You about Menopause". And those are just the effects we know about. Newer brands may have fewer KNOWN side effects. I wouldn't say they're "beneficial" to health in any circumstance, because in every case (IMO; see the book I mentioned) the same benefits or better, without the side effects, can be achieved by using real, natural hormones -- real estrogens, or real progesterone, which can be bought at drug stores though the drug companies don't promote it since it can't be patented. These natural substances may not prevent conception as much as the unnatural "progestins" in OC's, but they're better for the health. Given their availability as an alternative, I wouldn't say OC's are ever "beneficial" to health. UD's too are not risky to the health, though they have no specific benefits. I disagree. I was told that IUD's always involve some bacteria in the uterus, which is normally bacteria-free. The zone of bacteria may be a small zone around the IUD, or a somewhat larger zone, or huge. It's hard to define when the IUD has led to infection; how big a zone of bacteria is considered an infection? In some cases it's a very serious illness. (Though I'm considering one (hormone bearing) to help control irregular and heavy bleeding.) IUD's cause irregular and heavy bleeding. I've never heard of using them to control that. Oh, well. do allow new embryos to form and then prevent them from growing. This is also not true. With OCs the odds of an egg being released is very minimal, if the woman takes them properly. If an egg IS released, the hormones cause the cervical mucus to be thick, which blocks the sperm from even getting to the egg. IF both of these fail (egg is released AND sperm gets through somehow) then the pill may also cause the egg to fail to implant (doesn't 'keep them from growing', just doesn't implant in the uterus -- something that also happens very commonly in women using no method, or barrier methods) -- but this is a tertiary back-up. Pills mostly work by preventing ovuation. I'm sorry, I don't understand. If the Pill prevents the embryo from implanting in the uterus, then the embryo can't grow -- right? So the Pill has prevented it from growing. That's what I meant, and that's what you said. So why do you say what I said wasn't true? An embryo must implant in the uterus in order to be able to continue growing beyond a certain point. Oh, did you think I meant the embryo couldn't grow at all? No, I meant it may grow a bit, but then the Pill somehow prevents it from continuing to grow, perhaps by preventing it from implanting (or possibly by some other means). How often, on average, does an egg get fertilized but prevented from growing in a woman on the Pill? It would be a lot more often than full-term pregnancies of women on the Pill, which do happen. Maybe about one to three times a year? Much more often with the mini-pill than with other Pills? I don't really know. I don't know whether anyone really knows. IUDs too do not 'prevent embryos from growing. It used to be believed that they prevented implantation of the fertilized egg, but newer evidence suggests that the presence of the IUD kills the sperm before they even get to the tubes, preventing fertilization. What I read was that, when IUD's were inserted after intercouse, pregnancies didn't happen, but when IUD's were removed in the two weeks after intercourse, pregnancies did happen, and that for this reason doctors prefer to insert or remove them during menstruation. Is it the bacteria around the IUD that kills the sperm, or what is the mechanism? Last I heard it wasn't known. Also, if a baby does manage to get born in spite of the birth control, methods designed to prevent implantation do sometimes lead to health problems in the baby. Can you cite a study to support this claim? I've never heard of increased risk of birth defects due to pill or IUD use. (If a woman conceives with an IUD in place, the device is usually removed, I believe.) No, but I read (I think in a book called "Sex and Destiny") that there was a baby born with an IUD imbedded in its forehead. I can't imagine that unnatural hormones, molecules that the human body has not evolved to tolerate, can be present during development of a fetus without having some effect on health. After a woman goes off the Pill, it can take months before her cycles return to normal (in the sense of being able to chart normal mucus patterns for NFP). So effects are present in her body for months. Even if she stops taking the Pill in early pregancy, there will be some sorts of effects for much of the pregnancy. The unnatural hormones are not broken down quickly by the liver the way the natural ones are. I don't remember at the moment any particular studies proving that there are or are not certain health effects on the baby. You won't hear much about them from anyone influenced by big money from the pharmaceutical companies. Hmmm... does that include doctors? While NFP has never really been a practical option for me (way too irregular), both planned parenthood and my current GYN have talked about many of the barrier methods. (And in fact, that's what I'm currently using.) OK, I exaggerated a bit. Yes, many doctors are influenced by pharmaceutical companies. What I really meant was that you may hear less about these things than you would if there wasn't influence from these companies. Many doctors have received free gifts such as computers from pharmaceutical companies, and many regularly spend time with representatives of these companies, perhaps getting free meals and other things, and free "educational" material slanted towards drug usage. A lot of "educational" material I've seen about birth control has been slanted against NFP. In my opinion, it makes sense to mention the natural, side-effect-free methods first. Instead, invariably they mention first the ones with the most health effects (and the most money for the drug companies). Also the amount of space devoted to NFP tends to be rather small. Did your doctor mention NFP? -- Cathy |
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dragonlady ) writes:
You are missing the point: most of the time, oral contraceptives prevent an egg from being released AT ALL -- I'm not missing that point. I know that. so it is VERY rare that it would prevent a fertilized egg from implaning, because most of the time there is no fertilized egg. How rare? I don't know that it's very rare. What makes you think that? It must happen more often than pregnancies on the Pill, which I wouldn't call "VERY rare". -- Cathy |
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Naomi ) writes:
After a woman goes off the Pill, it can take months before her cycles return to normal (in the sense of being able to chart normal mucus patterns for NFP). But the hormones themselves leave the body within a few days. I don't know that. What makes you think that? Artificial hormone-like chemicals as in the Pill are not broken down by the liver as fast as real, normal hormones. Most women who go off the pill revert to normal cycles immediately. I disagree with that statement. While in most cases the cycles make appear normal if the woman observes only which days she is or isn't bleeding, if she tries to make the more detailed observations of cervical mucus required for NFP, it's a common experience to require months before the cycles are normal enough to apply the normal NFP rules. There are special temperature-only rules designed to be used by women who have recently come off the Pill because their mucus pattern is too weird to be much use for NFP. If they do not it is usually either because they were irregular to begin with (I didn't get a period for 6 months after I went off the pill when I was trying to conceive. (15 years ago now.) I've been on and off it for a variety of reasons since then, and it typically takes me a few months to have another period. But then, I have PCO, and have never had a 'normal' cycle in my life. -- Cathy |
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