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Deadbeats
I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really
sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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Deadbeats
I don't mean to be rude, but your comments below are extremely shallow,
and simply ignore the points that are repeatedly made in this news group, such as: (1) The great majority of single mothers are in that situation as a result of choices that they, and they alone, made. These choices include, if the mothers formerly were married, the decision to expel their husbands from the family. If never married, these women made the unilateral choice to let pregnancies proceed to childbirth, and not give the child up for adoption. The fathers, from whom these women want to extort "child support," had no part in the unilateral choices that were available to these women. As a general principle, people should pay the price for their own choices, and not be able to send the bill to someone else who had no part in those choices. (2) "Child support" in the U.S. is payable to the mother, who need not spend all or any of it on the children. Furthermore, a glass ceiling on paternal custody ensures that this money is a one-way flow -- from men to women -- but the kind of quota arrangements that are applied in other fields to change gender disparities when they are regarded as unfavorable to women are not applied in the custody area. (3) The enforcement techniques used to make men pay this money to women are absolutely outrageous. These techniques include imprisonment, although debtors' prison has been abolished for all other debts in the U.S. Furthermore, for some years now, arrangements have been in place to garnishee this money from the incomes of men, even though they have never fallen behind in the payments to the mothers of their children. (4) Your comment about men "having all these babies" is so ludicrous as to make me wonder whether you are simply trying to provoke a reaction. "Pammie1" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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Deadbeats
I don't mean to be rude, but your comments below are extremely shallow,
and simply ignore the points that are repeatedly made in this news group, such as: (1) The great majority of single mothers are in that situation as a result of choices that they, and they alone, made. These choices include, if the mothers formerly were married, the decision to expel their husbands from the family. If never married, these women made the unilateral choice to let pregnancies proceed to childbirth, and not give the child up for adoption. The fathers, from whom these women want to extort "child support," had no part in the unilateral choices that were available to these women. As a general principle, people should pay the price for their own choices, and not be able to send the bill to someone else who had no part in those choices. (2) "Child support" in the U.S. is payable to the mother, who need not spend all or any of it on the children. Furthermore, a glass ceiling on paternal custody ensures that this money is a one-way flow -- from men to women -- but the kind of quota arrangements that are applied in other fields to change gender disparities when they are regarded as unfavorable to women are not applied in the custody area. (3) The enforcement techniques used to make men pay this money to women are absolutely outrageous. These techniques include imprisonment, although debtors' prison has been abolished for all other debts in the U.S. Furthermore, for some years now, arrangements have been in place to garnishee this money from the incomes of men, even though they have never fallen behind in the payments to the mothers of their children. (4) Your comment about men "having all these babies" is so ludicrous as to make me wonder whether you are simply trying to provoke a reaction. "Pammie1" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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Deadbeats
I don't mean to be rude, but your comments below are extremely shallow,
and simply ignore the points that are repeatedly made in this news group, such as: (1) The great majority of single mothers are in that situation as a result of choices that they, and they alone, made. These choices include, if the mothers formerly were married, the decision to expel their husbands from the family. If never married, these women made the unilateral choice to let pregnancies proceed to childbirth, and not give the child up for adoption. The fathers, from whom these women want to extort "child support," had no part in the unilateral choices that were available to these women. As a general principle, people should pay the price for their own choices, and not be able to send the bill to someone else who had no part in those choices. (2) "Child support" in the U.S. is payable to the mother, who need not spend all or any of it on the children. Furthermore, a glass ceiling on paternal custody ensures that this money is a one-way flow -- from men to women -- but the kind of quota arrangements that are applied in other fields to change gender disparities when they are regarded as unfavorable to women are not applied in the custody area. (3) The enforcement techniques used to make men pay this money to women are absolutely outrageous. These techniques include imprisonment, although debtors' prison has been abolished for all other debts in the U.S. Furthermore, for some years now, arrangements have been in place to garnishee this money from the incomes of men, even though they have never fallen behind in the payments to the mothers of their children. (4) Your comment about men "having all these babies" is so ludicrous as to make me wonder whether you are simply trying to provoke a reaction. "Pammie1" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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Deadbeats
In article outparenting.com,
Pammie1 says... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. === But you played and don't want to pay. === === My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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Deadbeats
In article outparenting.com,
Pammie1 says... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. === But you played and don't want to pay. === === My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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Deadbeats
In article outparenting.com,
Pammie1 says... I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. === But you played and don't want to pay. === === My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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Deadbeats
Pammie1 wrote:
I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. What is really sad is that so many misandrist bitches will use children as pawns to extort money from men. If you cared a damn about "flesh and blood" you wouldn't be so willing to abuse them so badly. For millions of years mothers took their children to their fathers for support. That works. Slaver of men does not. Go pound sand with the rest of your feminist hate monger sisters. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. My vote is for tossing your hate mongering carcass in the swamp for the gators, and your sisters along with you. Bob -- When did we divide into sides? "As president, I will put American government and our legal system back on the side of women." John Kerry, misandrist Democratic candidate for President. http://www.johnkerry.com/issues/women/ [Bob does not advocate any illegal, seditious, or immoral acts. All posts are for discussion, rhetorical, or humorous purposes only.] |
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Deadbeats
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It
doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. It doesn't matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. It's all about making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world. Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, then I will go get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. How would you like that? Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. I don't care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had. I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for the deadbeat to pay his share. I take care of my resposiblities unlike these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their baby is worst than a Heathen. |
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Deadbeats
Pammie1 wrote:
The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't care if anyone disagree with me. It doesn't matter that there are single parents in the world. Yes, it does matter to all those abused children. Shame on you and the cow you rode in on. No child should be condemned to a life with a single mother. It doesn't matter if they were married or single when they had a baby. That's right. It doesn't matter how or why you abuse your child, only the fact of the abuse matters to the child. It's all about making these sorry people pay for the kid they brought into the world. Your choice, your responsibility. You pay for your choices in life. Since you dummies don't want the dads to pay for their kid, It's not about "pay," toots. Extortion is immoral even if you use kids for bait. If kids are used for extortion it's more immoral. then I will go get on welfare and make YOU pay for my kid. Typical femorrhoid! GET A JOB AND PAY FOR YOUR OWN KID. How would you like that? Everyone seems to put all the blame on the woman for getting pregnant, but to my knowledge it took the sperm to get her pregnant. So it looks like the men should use their big brain and not their LITTLE brain. All the men bashing in the world doesn't excuse your amoral child abuse. Only you had "a woman's right to choose" to bear the child. I don't care what anyone say a man or woman should pay for a child that they had. It's not about "pay," toots. I played and I am paying my share of the responsibility now it's time for the deadbeat to pay his share. "Pay" is extortion, seriously wrong. GET A JOB. I take care of my resposiblities unlike these losers you are speaking up for. Men who don't take care of their baby is worst than a Heathen. YOU made the baby, toots. Blame yourself. Bob -- When did we divide into sides? "As president, I will put American government and our legal system back on the side of women." John Kerry, misandrist Democratic candidate for President. http://www.johnkerry.com/issues/women/ [Bob does not advocate any illegal, seditious, or immoral acts. All posts are for discussion, rhetorical, or humorous purposes only.] |
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