My Day in Court

Well, I finally had my court date with my EX. I was going after
increased visitation and reduction in child support. She was kicking
and screaming the whole time. She complained that she had to take the
day off from work, yada, yada.

It went well. She fought for no visitation unless supervised. Her
reasoning was that I was a "distant dad". Meaning I was never
around. I proved that I was more than around. Attended childs
sporting and school events. She erupted that I was never around due
to work. I produced 5 frivilous Restraining Orders that she had
applied for over the last 1.5 years and proved to the court that this
was the only reason I was not around.

So, the judge awarded me weekends, and a holiday schedule that she was
not happy with.

As far as child support, they went right by the state guidelines and
reduced my payments by $42/week. This will be a huge help to me.
Even better, they ordered her to pay 1/2 of the childrens medical
insurance. Just that comes to $65/week. This is HUGE. She has
always had access to employer funded insurance and I have always had
to pay private.

So, all in all, a great day.


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"stern" wrote in message
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Well, I finally had my court date with my EX. I was going after
increased visitation and reduction in child support. She was kicking
and screaming the whole time. She complained that she had to take the
day off from work, yada, yada.

It went well. She fought for no visitation unless supervised. Her
reasoning was that I was a "distant dad". Meaning I was never
around. I proved that I was more than around. Attended childs
sporting and school events. She erupted that I was never around due
to work. I produced 5 frivilous Restraining Orders that she had
applied for over the last 1.5 years and proved to the court that this
was the only reason I was not around.

So, the judge awarded me weekends, and a holiday schedule that she was
not happy with.

As far as child support, they went right by the state guidelines and
reduced my payments by $42/week. This will be a huge help to me.
Even better, they ordered her to pay 1/2 of the childrens medical
insurance. Just that comes to $65/week. This is HUGE. She has
always had access to employer funded insurance and I have always had
to pay private.

So, all in all, a great day.
==
Cool! Congrats!!

Great!

I'm proud of you.




On Tue, 24 Jul 2007 02:08:13 -0700, stern wrote:

Well, I finally had my court date with my EX. I was going after
increased visitation and reduction in child support. She was kicking
and screaming the whole time. She complained that she had to take the
day off from work, yada, yada.

It went well. She fought for no visitation unless supervised. Her
reasoning was that I was a "distant dad". Meaning I was never
around. I proved that I was more than around. Attended childs
sporting and school events. She erupted that I was never around due
to work. I produced 5 frivilous Restraining Orders that she had
applied for over the last 1.5 years and proved to the court that this
was the only reason I was not around.

So, the judge awarded me weekends, and a holiday schedule that she was
not happy with.

As far as child support, they went right by the state guidelines and
reduced my payments by $42/week. This will be a huge help to me.
Even better, they ordered her to pay 1/2 of the childrens medical
insurance. Just that comes to $65/week. This is HUGE. She has
always had access to employer funded insurance and I have always had
to pay private.

So, all in all, a great day.


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http://mylesbian.blogspot.com/

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"stern" wrote in


Well, I finally had my court date with my EX.

Well done, perhaps the judge recognized your Ex for the real **** she is!

Shame that we have reached a state where we have to bow down to a master
when they throw us some crumbs.

"stern" wrote in message
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Well, I finally had my court date with my EX. I was going after
increased visitation and reduction in child support. She was kicking
and screaming the whole time. She complained that she had to take the
day off from work, yada, yada.

It went well. She fought for no visitation unless supervised. Her
reasoning was that I was a "distant dad". Meaning I was never
around. I proved that I was more than around. Attended childs
sporting and school events. She erupted that I was never around due
to work. I produced 5 frivilous Restraining Orders that she had
applied for over the last 1.5 years and proved to the court that this
was the only reason I was not around.

So, the judge awarded me weekends, and a holiday schedule that she was
not happy with.

As far as child support, they went right by the state guidelines and
reduced my payments by $42/week. This will be a huge help to me.
Even better, they ordered her to pay 1/2 of the childrens medical
insurance. Just that comes to $65/week. This is HUGE. She has
always had access to employer funded insurance and I have always had
to pay private.

So, all in all, a great day.

Kinda reminds me of a tenant I once had who was on welfare. When HUD decided
to reduce the amount of free money they gave her, she got downright nasty
about it blaming it all on Bush (go figure). Being forced to pay money to
someone who will not work for their own is bad enough; but for the recipient
to proclaim that it is a "fault" that such extortion is being reduced takes
the cake! This is one trait in common amongst women who are paid to be lazy.



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"Chris" wrote in

This is one trait in common amongst women who are paid to be lazy.

Women are brainwashed from an early age that somebody else will pay their
way in life.

"DB" wrote in message
et...

"Chris" wrote in

This is one trait in common amongst women who are paid to be lazy.

Women are brainwashed from an early age that somebody else will pay their
way in life.

Women with dads who remained a consistent, dependable factor in their lives
know differently and are the most ardent of father's rights advocates.

"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
...

"DB" wrote in message
et...

"Chris" wrote in

This is one trait in common amongst women who are paid to be lazy.

Women are brainwashed from an early age that somebody else will pay their
way in life.

Women with dads who remained a consistent, dependable factor in their
lives know differently and are the most ardent of father's rights
advocates.

Thank you, Bob! I find it outrageous and foolish that any woman considers
money more important than a child's father!

"teachrmama" wrote

"Bob Whiteside" wrote
"DB" wrote

"Chris" wrote in

This is one trait in common amongst women who are paid to be lazy.

Women are brainwashed from an early age that somebody else will pay
their way in life.

Women with dads who remained a consistent, dependable factor in their
lives know differently and are the most ardent of father's rights
advocates.

Thank you, Bob! I find it outrageous and foolish that any woman considers
money more important than a child's father!
==
Yeah. but...the system drums it into their heads that they should go after
what they
are "entitled to" and are crazy if they don't. It's "for the child," after
all. We just heard
that story from Soprano and she bought into it hook, line and sinker.

"Gini" wrote in message
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"teachrmama" wrote

"Bob Whiteside" wrote
"DB" wrote

"Chris" wrote in

This is one trait in common amongst women who are paid to be lazy.

Women are brainwashed from an early age that somebody else will pay
their way in life.

Women with dads who remained a consistent, dependable factor in their
lives know differently and are the most ardent of father's rights
advocates.

Thank you, Bob! I find it outrageous and foolish that any woman
considers
money more important than a child's father!
==
Yeah. but...the system drums it into their heads that they should go after
what they
are "entitled to" and are crazy if they don't. It's "for the child," after
all. We just heard
that story from Soprano and she bought into it hook, line and sinker.

I might add that I know more than just a few people who DESPISE their mother
who pawned their father for cash. Eventually, it comes home to roost.