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Why are you arguing with me when the former head of Family Support
Services for the state of California personally told me to file for Child Support that it was for my daughter when I asked His Grace's advice? Olympiada |
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"Soprano" wrote in message ... Why are you arguing with me when the former head of Family Support Services for the state of California personally told me to file for Child Support that it was for my daughter when I asked His Grace's advice? Olympiada No one is arguing with you. Several have tried to change your perspective by pointing out bureaucrats from the system use all kinds of euphemisms to cover up what is really going on and how it impacts parents. The comment and advice you cite above is just not accurate. If CS was really for the children then: 1. Payments from both parents would be monitored to ensure the full amount was provided. 2. Accountability of how the money from both parents was spent would be required. 3. The judgment creditor would be the child not the custodial parent. In reality, CS is tax free money paid by men to women (90% of the time) and the children are just the tools used by the system to accomplish this transfer of financial responsibility. |
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Bob Whiteside wrote:
"Soprano" wrote in message ... Why are you arguing with me when the former head of Family Support Services for the state of California personally told me to file for Child Support that it was for my daughter when I asked His Grace's advice? Olympiada No one is arguing with you. Several have tried to change your perspective by pointing out bureaucrats from the system use all kinds of euphemisms to cover up what is really going on and how it impacts parents. The comment and advice you cite above is just not accurate. If CS was really for the children then: 1. Payments from both parents would be monitored to ensure the full amount was provided. 2. Accountability of how the money from both parents was spent would be required. 3. The judgment creditor would be the child not the custodial parent. In reality, CS is tax free money paid by men to women (90% of the time) and the children are just the tools used by the system to accomplish this transfer of financial responsibility. It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my daughter. A man who used to run the system. |
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"Soprano" wrote ....................... It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my daughter. A man who used to run the system. == You do know the real reason they badger you to file, right? |
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Gini wrote:
"Soprano" wrote ...................... It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my daughter. A man who used to run the system. == You do know the real reason they badger you to file, right? His Grace was not badgering me, His Grace cares about me and knows my circumstances, which I have not made public in this group. I am willing to share with you in email if you promise personal confidentiality. |
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"Soprano" wrote Gini wrote: "Soprano" wrote ...................... It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my daughter. A man who used to run the system. == You do know the real reason they badger you to file, right? His Grace was not badgering me, His Grace cares about me and knows my circumstances, which I have not made public in this group. I am willing to share with you in email if you promise personal confidentiality. == No need. It's really none of my business. |
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"Soprano" wrote in message ... Gini wrote: "Soprano" wrote ...................... It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my daughter. A man who used to run the system. == You do know the real reason they badger you to file, right? His Grace was not badgering me, His Grace cares about me and knows my circumstances, which I have not made public in this group. I am willing to share with you in email if you promise personal confidentiality. No one needs to know all the details of your personal life. But you are ignoring the elephant in the living room - Do you know why they encourage women to use the state provided IV-D services? |
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Bob Whiteside wrote:
"Soprano" wrote in message ... Gini wrote: "Soprano" wrote ...................... It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my daughter. A man who used to run the system. == You do know the real reason they badger you to file, right? His Grace was not badgering me, His Grace cares about me and knows my circumstances, which I have not made public in this group. I am willing to share with you in email if you promise personal confidentiality. No one needs to know all the details of your personal life. But you are ignoring the elephant in the living room - Do you know why they encourage women to use the state provided IV-D services? Look, maybe it is better for my ex and I to use the child support system. He is going to finish filling out the papers right now while with our daughter at the library. |
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On Jul 25, 9:20?pm, "Bob Whiteside" wrote:
"Soprano" wrote in message ... Gini wrote: "Soprano" wrote ...................... It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my daughter. A man who used to run the system. == You do know the real reason they badger you to file, right? His Grace was not badgering me, His Grace cares about me and knows my circumstances, which I have not made public in this group. I am willing to share with you in email if you promise personal confidentiality. No one needs to know all the details of your personal life. But you are ignoring the elephant in the living room - Do you know why they encourage women to use the state provided IV-D services? This explains A LOT http://groups.google.com/groups/prof...swhrZ6TQxKj0ww |
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"Soprano" wrote in message ... Gini wrote: "Soprano" wrote ...................... It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my daughter. A man who used to run the system. == You do know the real reason they badger you to file, right? His Grace was not badgering me, His Grace cares about me and knows my circumstances, which I have not made public in this group. I am willing to share with you in email if you promise personal confidentiality. I'm not certain what you wish to accomplish via email. I read the link that Relayer posted. Have you considered getting some counseling to help you through this obviously difficult time? |
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