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ping MELDON
Meldon,
I went through about the same thing as you. (And as far as I am concerned I know you all have heard it before, BUT I DID NOTHING WRONG) I spent two weeks in jail because of a lie, a lie that was perpetrated by my ex mother in law. I had and still have proof that it was all a lie. My ex also made many attempts to put me in jail. I never got to see my kids for almost two years. Oh, I had the court order that said I was supposed to see them but my ex decided that the court order was only good for use as a paper plate.I spent many 1000's on court and lawyers trying to see my kids all that did was get her a slap on the wrist and me broke! I literally lived in a tent for awhile. I got a job paid the support and still didn't see the kids, mainly for fear that I would be in jail on yet another trumped up charge BUt also because she wouldn't let me.That was 5 years ago, I have seen my children about 4 times since. I have all but given up on seeing them, BUT, my daughter who is now 12 is getting tired of the mothers way of life my sons can't stand her boyfriends. I can see in them that they want to be with me, the longing that they have in thier eyes keeps me going. I know that one day things will change. My exs' life is falling apart she's lost another boyfriend the one that she bought a house with, he sold the house from under her and the kids. Yet I don't know what is going to happen shell probably go back to renting again. Her last BF was a drunk and the police were at her house more than the donut shop! Its a poor life for the kids BUT THEY SEE IT. Have hope, for the kids know who is the best parent, in their heart they know! I don't send gifts or money to them as I found out it was always destroyed or taken by the mom or the BF, so I just take the money that I was going to use for them and put it into the bank for them. The childre see this THEY KNOW! They understand more than we think they do. NEVER GIVE UP just back off, never stop fighting just back off! and never EVER STOP SHOWING THE KIDS YOUR LOVE, THEY KNOW trust me THEY KNOW! I see it in their eyes the few time I get to see them. I am now married AGAIN, and have a son. This has been a very loving and old fashioned relationship. after 6 years together we are still like love sick kids, this is the one I have been waiting for. We're even buying a home, a home big enough for the other children when they are ready. I have gone from a tent to all of this. And I still pay the supprt, I still don't see the kids though. Maybe for a weekend this past year BUT I COULD TELL they STIL KNOW that I am the right parent for them. Life turns around for the best when you work at it. its not hard work its just the right work. YOu have to know when to quit on the outside. GOOD LUCK Searcher1 |
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