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Some advice please....boyfriend issues...moving on(kbb)
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Some advice please....boyfriend issues
'Kate wrote in message ... On Mon, 23 Feb 2004 19:09:27 -0600, "hdbabe" I have been with the most incrediable guy for about 16 months. We do lots of fun things together, include the kids as much as possible, ect. We have even discussed going further in our relationship, sounds good right. He's the guardian of two half-brothers, and I have one kid.(a boy) However, when I was putting away some of his laundry(yes, we help each other a lot-even with laundry), I noticed that he kept all the cards and notes that I have written to him(sweet huh?). But here's the clincher, when I decided to go thru them, just for sentimental reasons, I noticed that my notes/cards weren't the only ones he kept. He had been keeping ones from a women he dated prior to me, along with the ones I gave him. In other words, they were all mixed up together. So, what would you do? Say something? Leave it alone? I know your thinking I was being noisy, I really wasn't, he knows that I have put away his stuff before. And he has always said that 'he has no secrets'. But I can't help but wonder if he hasn't 'let go' of the previous women? Is that why he's keeping the notes and cards? So does anyone think I'm overreacting? Being paranoid? Could use some constructive advice please. Just no tounge lashing. Thanks You gotta be kidding. You're asking a bunch of divorced, widowed, and never been married folks for relationship advice? ROFL. Seriously, though... what's the big deal? So what if he keeps things like that. You'd think you found a stack of self-made porn. 'Kate Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey, what's wrong with a stack of self-made porn??? /me looks innocently away. LOL Christine PS: Did ya'll miss me? |
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Some advice please....boyfriend issues
"CME" wrote in message news:GQg1c.48614$A12.18910@edtnps84... 'Kate wrote in message ... On Mon, 23 Feb 2004 19:09:27 -0600, "hdbabe" I have been with the most incrediable guy for about 16 months. We do lots of fun things together, include the kids as much as possible, ect. We have even discussed going further in our relationship, sounds good right. He's the guardian of two half-brothers, and I have one kid.(a boy) However, when I was putting away some of his laundry(yes, we help each other a lot-even with laundry), I noticed that he kept all the cards and notes that I have written to him(sweet huh?). But here's the clincher, when I decided to go thru them, just for sentimental reasons, I noticed that my notes/cards weren't the only ones he kept. He had been keeping ones from a women he dated prior to me, along with the ones I gave him. In other words, they were all mixed up together. So, what would you do? Say something? Leave it alone? I know your thinking I was being noisy, I really wasn't, he knows that I have put away his stuff before. And he has always said that 'he has no secrets'. But I can't help but wonder if he hasn't 'let go' of the previous women? Is that why he's keeping the notes and cards? So does anyone think I'm overreacting? No, I dont think you are....but he may well be very sentimental about things like this.....but if you've been with him 16 months you should know wether he is or isnt. Does he seem to hang onto things? Just ask him straight out why he keeps them, but dont put any easy answers in his mouth.....just wait and see what he says. I'm assuming here that these notes were in a drawer....and not his actual clothing......Now *that* would be weird!!.... Dolores |
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