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I am in a fix. Should we or shouldn't we.
Yes, our son is 3 mo old and we are deciding to send him to a daycare. I am scared, I am worrie5d and I am not sure if this is the right thing to do. it is not cost effective either, we may bring home $500 more but is it worth it? What if he gets sick. What am I going to do. Would I be a bad dad to let him go to a daycare when everyone tells me that cold / ear infection are inevitable. What should I do. I live in NY Westchester ( any good day care you know of?) I am not even sure what I wrote here but it came straight from the heart, I know other parents out there will understand me. Help me! |
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Hi - There's some evidence that kids who are in daycare prior to the age of six months develop fewer allergies. (That's because their immune system gets "challenged" by all the bugs around them, so they get sick a lot, but their immune systems "learn" how to respond correctly. At least, that's the current hypothesis.) Socially and emotionally, it depends upon the daycare itself. A good quality daycare is fine for most babies; a poor quality one isn't good for anyone. Beyond that, you need to look at WHY you may need daycare for your baby, and what happens if you don't have one. DO you get a nanny? An au pair? Telecommute and try to work while the baby is asleep? NOt work at all (for pay, I mean, of course)? My two cents, --Beth Kevles http://web.mit.edu/kevles/www/nomilk.html -- a page for the milk-allergic Disclaimer: Nothing in this message should be construed as medical advice. Please consult with your own medical practicioner. NOTE: No email is read at my MIT address. Use the AOL one if you would like me to reply. |
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"Humber Consumer" wrote in message om... I am in a fix. Should we or shouldn't we. Yes, our son is 3 mo old and we are deciding to send him to a daycare. I am scared, I am worrie5d and I am not sure if this is the right thing to do. it is not cost effective either, we may bring home $500 more but is it worth it? What if he gets sick. What am I going to do. Would I be a bad dad to let him go to a daycare when everyone tells me that cold / ear infection are inevitable. What should I do. I live in NY Westchester ( any good day care you know of?) I am not even sure what I wrote here but it came straight from the heart, I know other parents out there will understand me. Help me! My daughter went one day a week from about 4 weeks of age and it was mainly for my health and to catch up on sleep or housework or relaxing. It also helped her socialize with other children as at the time I didn't know any mums with children and didn't have family around much. My son on the other hand didn't start until 6 months of age and he now goes once a week. He goes once again to socialize as most of the children we know are around my daughters age. We do have a cousin but she is much younger then both of my children and we only see her once or twice a year. If you need care of some kind, make sure you ask the important questions. Like what they eat everyday and what times. How they treat fights and or fighting over toys or with each other? What type or variety of toys they play with ? What are the fee's ? (and if late fee's apply) And so forth. etc Goodluck with your decision. Nic |
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"Humber Consumer" wrote in message om... I am in a fix. Should we or shouldn't we. Yes, our son is 3 mo old and we are deciding to send him to a daycare. I am scared, I am worrie5d and I am not sure if this is the right thing to do. it is not cost effective either, we may bring home $500 more but is it worth it? What if he gets sick. What am I going to do. Would I be a bad dad to let him go to a daycare when everyone tells me that cold / ear infection are inevitable. What should I do. I live in NY Westchester ( any good day care you know of?) I am not even sure what I wrote here but it came straight from the heart, I know other parents out there will understand me. Help me! First. Take a deep breath in. Take a deep breath out. AHHH. OK. Now. You are thinking of someone being a stay at home parent. Would this be you or your wife/partner? In any event, what does your partner think about this? Are you on the same page, so to speak? Here is what I would do: 1. List the pros and cons of each option. 2. See if it is even possible to trim $500 out of your monthly budget. Are you willing to give up the things that you will have to give up to trim this $500. For instance, if it means moving to an apartment from owning a house, this would be something you may not be willing to do. 3. Sit down with your partner and discuss these 2 inputs. After doing this, you may need to go back and write down MORE options with pros and cons. Like maybe someone can work part time. Then repeat. Ear infections are no fun. But they are not the end of the world. My DD, 7 mo, went through the winter without a single illness (knocking on wood) and she is in daycare 2 days per week. But IMO no one raises kids like Mommy or Daddy does. S |
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