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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Betsy" wrote in message . com... In news:F_oTa.121984$N7.17176@sccrnsc03, typed: Betsy wrote: I suppose I shall discover in time, if this is going to continue. One never knows when another may begin the change needed. I have done what I can, and will let time tell the rest. I have learned, the hard way, not to invest too much of myself 'saving' other people. I share my story(ies) and what worked for me. Where I am now, is miles from where I was 12 years ago. It took 12 years to get here, but I am here. I can only act as a guide to those willing to accept guidance. No more need be said. Or rather, I will say no more. what are you talking to HIM for? I have already admitted to needing to change, Paul is in denial and clearly abusive calling me looney lorain on here all the time yet insisting that he is doing nothing wrong, don't talk to him about how hard you have it convincing me that I need to change. That ruins your credibility. Otherwise, I do take your words to heart and appreciate your efforts to help me and my son, and I love your .sig lines, they are funny. OK, first off, I am free to talk to whomever I choose. Whether you like it or not, whether my son likes it or not, whether my mother likes it or not. It's called free choice, and it's a God given gift. Secondly, I am simply letting these folks know, that while they disagree with me on whether or not you will change, I (being relatively new here) am going to try. They are trying to dissuade me, by telling me I am wasting my time. I am telling him (Paul) in essence, it's my time, I choose how to spend it. I have never meant to dissuade or otherwise tell you what to do, if that was what you got from my posts, then it was totally unintended. On the other hand, that is looney's standard operating procedure.....with constatn attempts to moderate posts and who and what should be said to whom. WRT to 'denial' LMAO............except for a few enablers on a couple of NG's and possibbly a psychobabblists or two........most people can clearly see the real source of the problem and have correctly placed the blame at looney's feet. She however......being the perpetual victim, will always find someone else to blame.......including me, who she wouldn't know if I was standing in front of her. Looney has created the problem, but now seeks to blame everyone, her family, the system, and even people on the NG. If you find it ruins my credibility, then I wasn't very credible in your eyes to begin with. Sometimes things happen that you don't like, that don't affect you directly, that aren't aimed at you, and you don't like them. Get over it, move on, don't let it bother you. If I got upset everytime on of my co-workers I respected spoke to one of my co-workers I didn't like, I would spend my entired work day upset. It's not worth it. Betsy -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. |
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